posted September 05, 2021 01:45 PM
Venus squaring Saturn .. is so harsh.
Mean.
Her self-esteem was damaged,
and a sense of self-worth is hard to feel as a result.
Her parents deprived her of the kind of love that she needed.Is going to need a partner she can trust, and people that can teach her about 'receiving'.
She might not 'feel' nor know (on her own) the "genuine" Love that might be there and available for her to have.
12th house is a deep blinded place?
She might have experiences with "fair weather friends"...
but then too,
there's a possibility that she might find others who come across her path, and are loyal and true friends to her.
Venus in the 12th is in a vulnerable house.
Might have a tendency not make decisions that are fair to her, and in self-sacrifice these may wind up NOT being in HER best interests-- proved after time goes by, and that, too late.
Needs some of those True Friends to step-in for her; give her some good counsel and advice. Show her what (even how) she isn't seeing what is there. Help guard against those who would swindle and take advantage of her benevolent graces.
(music) Piece by Piece (Kelly Clarkson)
[4:58] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tuunqfdz388
My own Venus is in Taurus
opposite a Saturn retrograde in Scorpio.
{I understand affliction.}
I've lived the pain of being told how worthless and undeserving you are.
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Venus sextile Mercury might suggest she had a shyness, and later with training may have shown she had a talent in Art and Communications
.. She might have even come across a female with whom she could talk about things.
With the trine to Uranus and to Neptune from the 12th
May be an appreciator of Art, may even become a good teacher. Spirituality might be important in her life but might have been hurt (or jaded) at some point by something (or a group) via viewpoints of traditional religion.
She appreciates people...
The list of Venus' placements ultimately
reminds me of this song
(music) I Am Ready For Love (India Arie, lyrics)
[4:58] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moOXLgd519I
I've looked at these from a woman's point of view.
If this belongs to a male? ..
Venus opp Pluto could render him a quite controlling individual, turns all by manipulation; feels as though he has to play games in order to get people to love him. Need to lose 'playing' other people.
When that happens, and he takes responsibility, he could be pleased to discover a reservoir of a feeling of being 'connected' to others that he wouldn't have otherwise known.
haha, must be song-inspiration day??
(music) Desperado (Linda Ronstadt, 1977)
[3:56] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MeQyoTIQOOM
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some refs from
Betty Lunsted (1980)
Astrological Insights of Personality