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Topic: What is your ideal partner?
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next to neptune
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posted July 10, 2014 04:38 PM
  
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
This is great too. And his Mars there is a hit - in your secondary 7th, and you have Cap DSC, so MC is a hot spot for you.The 11th is your interception + your secondary 8th. Maybe he has some love asteroids there? Anyway, his placements are good for you.
What about you, do you complete his placements?
Actually he has absolutely nothing in my 11th house or taurus, except his psyche is in my 11th… But it's a good question if I complete his placements! You really got my mind working on this, and I'm not an expert in this (which annoys me lol) But his 11th house is in pisces, 12th in taurus, which means aries is "trapped" there… I have pisces moon in 29 degrees almost in aries, but it still sits in his 11th house, which I think is good? And it is opposite his libra venus in 5th house. His 11th house ruler is neptune, and now it gets interesting. His neptune square my mercury, conjuncts my neptune and conjuncts my uranus. Furthermore his neptune sits in his 7th house… both my neptune, uranus and saturn falls in his 7th house. And the interesting part is that his 5th house ruler is mercury, and his mercury conjuncts my sun and mars and opposites my Pisces moon again:S It's a bit confusing, but I guess it is good? I have tons of planets in his 5th house, both my sun, venus, mars, mercury, lilith and juno!!!!  Final, his 7th house ruler is saturn (which is also his 8th house ruler) and his saturn trines my sun, that falls in his 5th house! I'm not sure what all this means, but I hope it's a good thing lol!  IP: Logged |
starrynight
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posted July 10, 2014 07:07 PM
I finally learned to post charts, so can I play too? Here's mine:ETA
Oops the chart is gone. Good thing I saved it.
reposting
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hannaramaa
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posted July 10, 2014 08:21 PM
I'm an intermediate but I wanna play! Do we guess each other's ideals from our chart, basically?IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 10, 2014 11:21 PM
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Hi, Lonake
Is this your chart? And I take it you're a girl, right? 
Yes, Ma'am
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 11, 2014 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I'm an intermediate but I wanna play! Do we guess each other's ideals from our chart, basically?
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 11, 2014 10:53 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Actually he has absolutely nothing in my 11th house or taurus, except his psyche is in my 11th…But it's a good question if I complete his placements! You really got my mind working on this, and I'm not an expert in this (which annoys me lol) But his 11th house is in pisces, 12th in taurus, which means aries is "trapped" there… I have pisces moon in 29 degrees almost in aries, but it still sits in his 11th house, which I think is good? And it is opposite his libra venus in 5th house. His 11th house ruler is neptune, and now it gets interesting. His neptune square my mercury, conjuncts my neptune and conjuncts my uranus. Furthermore his neptune sits in his 7th house… both my neptune, uranus and saturn falls in his 7th house. And the interesting part is that his 5th house ruler is mercury, and his mercury conjuncts my sun and mars and opposites my Pisces moon again:S It's a bit confusing, but I guess it is good? I have tons of planets in his 5th house, both my sun, venus, mars, mercury, lilith and juno!!!! Final, his 7th house ruler is saturn (which is also his 8th house ruler) and his saturn trines my sun, that falls in his 5th house! I'm not sure what all this means, but I hope it's a good thing lol!
Your love rulers are aspecting each other and the luminaries, so you're a good match
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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 11, 2014 11:29 AM
OK, Lonake, I love to see another chart where the most important love house is superposed on the interception. It shows once again how, for intercepted people, the ideal partner falls into their interception with some important personal planets or at least ASC/DSC.Because you Sun is involved (although out of sign, but because of its connection to Juno) in the minor triangle falling on your interception, I think his Sun or Moon is making the Kite: what do you prefer? Sun to Neptune or Moon to Neptune? I'll get back to this important completion later. Your Moon/Venus/Mars are all involved in hard aspects, so this is what they need most of all. Your mixed cross is already complete, so basically Sun Mars Venus in any of the 4 points mutually aspecting yours will be good for you, with an emphasis (to have a full planetary cross) on: Sun on your ASC
Sun on your MC but also: Sun on your DSC
Sun on your IC For Venus/Mars, I prefer for you Mars on your Mars, in Libra (in relation to your interception) and Venus in Aries in your 9th (the same) Of course, in aspect to your Venus and Mars, pouring in your NN (cross formation here). So I see Sun/Venus in Aries or perhaps (better) Sun in Pisces in your 8th (major love house for you) sextile your Moon.
His Moon of course, making the Kite with Neptune,with I think an interesting out of sign trine to your Sun, mixing fellow mutable energy with the flow of the trine.
If his Sun is there in your 11th house, opp Neptune, quincunx your Moon, I'd choose his Mercury, also there, to close your Sun/Uranus with something else (like Moon Venus or Mars) opp your Sun. You need a very strong Mercurial fellow with your Mercury strong there on your DSC. (hence Gem in 11th, Gem intercepted and the mutable energy of your Sun/Uranus). His Venus may square or trine your Mars. In fact, this is another good option: Sun in late Virgo, Venus in early Virgo, both falling in your 2nd (Of course, absolutely something in Gem in your 11th.) Opp your Sun, closing the cross with Uranus. His Sun trine your Moon and Venus. His Venus septile your Mars. His Mars in the good spots for your Venus
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FireMoon
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posted July 11, 2014 05:31 PM
I haven't been back to IA in a while but this thread seems fun! If you're still up for it and have the time I'd love to hear your thoughts...  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 07:09 PM
^^ @FireMoon - first thoughts are physically you want someone strong. Someone who is refined and clean cut looking. I'm going off of Leo in your 2nd house since that's naturally related to Taurus, and Taurus is a physical sign. Since it's in Leo, I looked and what house your Sun was in (well, more so the sign). I'll have to anaylyze further too.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 07:16 PM
@FireMoon again -okay so what I get is physicality should be pretty important to you, but you want your partner to be an individual, and this has to be a natural part of life for them not something that seems forced or obviously "against the grain". You want someone aloof and proud, who understands the politics of social networking in a sense. Basically someone charming and graceful, who can read people pretty well. Someone well liked and has an interest in unexpected things or surprises you with their hidden hobbies or talents. Brb IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 07:18 PM
I'm also thinking it may be someone you can look up to, or who leads you in a way. I keep feeling the impression of a power couple, but he takes the spotlight and that you wouldn't mind that at all.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted July 11, 2014 08:28 PM
Hi hannaramaa, thanks for your response Very true, physically I prefer someone who is muscular or strong (or at least not too skinny lol)But yes beyond appearances I care much more about who someone is as an individual.. It's a weird blend of energies where my Cap planets do care about reputation to an extent (or understanding the politics of social networking as you were saying...) but I'm not impressed unless they also have unique interests/actually find meaning in what they're doing beyond just earning a pay check or being a social climber. I like what you said about being in a power couple though lol.. I don't think my Cap sun-saturn-NN loses the drive to be successful even though it's in the 7th house, but clearly partnership of some kind seems important in that.. Anyway thanks again, you should post your chart!! I've been meaning to comment on other people's charts here too and will get to that soon... IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 09:01 PM
Yay! I love reading charts like that. So much fun! Your Sun and Saturn are also in harmonious aspect with your Mara whereas your Moon isn't, so I think your ideal is someone who can also be your rock because you're more likely to be the passionate one. Here's mine: just ignore the transits!  IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted July 11, 2014 09:49 PM
Ok you have a lot going on in your 11th, so you might be drawn to the somewhat eccentric/humanitarian types, although you still want someone who is assertive and masculine.. I think anyone with planets in the middle range of Aqua would be good as they would trine your mars and sextile your sun-venus-merc... Plus they'd fall in your 8th and give the passion and intensity your Aries planets probably crave in romance.Your Taurus moon still wants consistency though, so idk about an air or fire moon/venus. My first thought is a water moon would be best, maybe early Scorpio in your 5th.. Your mars in 12th and Pisces NN conj MC need someone who is dreamy and imaginative, but still presents themselves well and doesn't go overboard with the whole starving artist thing lol.. I hesitate to say Pisces moon although that could make sense too with your Neptune in 7th square those Aries planets Anyway sorry this isn't very detailed, these are just my first thoughts but I'll have to examine more too.. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted July 11, 2014 09:53 PM
Oh I also just realized your Dsc ruler is unaspected jupiter in 12th, interesting! I think strong contacts to that would be important too..IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 10:53 PM
I love Aquariuses! I get along effortlessly with them. My DSC is in Sag, and I like Sag suns but attract Sag moons waaay more often. Something weird I realized is that having a Sag DSC you would think I liked generous partners, but guys that try to pay for everything with me turns me off unless I've known them awhile or are at home with them (which is rare, something to do with my 4th maybe?). Just struck me odd since I've got the great ol Jupiterian ruler as a DSC. Ahhh but wait I have Jupiter in the 12th! issues. Nevermind, just figured it out. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 10:55 PM
I'm friends longer with water moons than Sag moons (dunno any Aries or Leo moons!) except for one. And water moons have never turned sexual.IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted July 11, 2014 11:35 PM
Okay, I don't mean to sound too eager, but I've been hoping you'd post your chart here, Hanna, we seem to relate a lot to each other's experiences in threads. Been curious to what your chart's like for a while, actually! I'd love to go over your chart and FireMoon's if you both want to. I won't look at any of your readings or Lee's to see if we get the same idea. My readings are quite long, if you've seen what I've written for Lee and Enneline. Lol gotta love all of that Virgo. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 11, 2014 11:41 PM
Sure! Did you post yours, Meis?IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted July 12, 2014 12:08 AM
I'll work on it. Yeah, I did twice.  The last one's a couple of pages back. Like page 10 or something? Edit: page 12 has a bigger one. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted July 12, 2014 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I love Aquariuses! I get along effortlessly with them. My DSC is in Sag, and I like Sag suns but attract Sag moons waaay more often. Something weird I realized is that having a Sag DSC you would think I liked generous partners, but guys that try to pay for everything with me turns me off unless I've known them awhile or are at home with them (which is rare, something to do with my 4th maybe?). Just struck me odd since I've got the great ol Jupiterian ruler as a DSC. Ahhh but wait I have Jupiter in the 12th! issues. Nevermind, just figured it out.
I usually feel that way about Aquarians too, Aqua on the 8th house cusp is a weird contradiction but I kinda like it lol.. And yeah sorry idk what made me think water moons would be best, makes sense you'd get along with sags though
But that is interesting about the generosity.. Random question, with the ruler of your 2nd house in 11th, do you find that friends are always trying to be generous with you? Or are you more generous with them? Just curious lol cause I have ruler of 2nd in 7th and it seems like it could really go either way... Anyway you also have both co-rulers of your 8th in 7th so I'd say you maybe just haven't found the right partner yet but you'll definitely benefit once you do.. (probably unexpectedly somehow with Aqua in the 8th)
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FireMoon
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posted July 12, 2014 12:35 AM
@meissieri, thanks for the offer, I'll look at your chart too!IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted July 12, 2014 01:13 AM
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:laugh: Meissieri, don't be offended but for yours I'm picturing this guy who might creep you out at first. It's not that he's weird in general but you'll have issues with the way he expresses his attraction towards you. The vibe I'm getting is akin to the mouth breather's relationship with Helga in "Hey Arnold!" but of course, not as stalkerish. The feeling I get from your chart is more about how the relationship will develop than the actual partner (or maybe this is just the intro. We'll see where my intuition goes!) which is that he will spot you from afar and it will take you awhile to either be attracted to him, or for him to approach you. Think longing glances, and building a strong emotional rapport through lots of nonverbal communication (vs. getting to know each other.) I don't think you want someone very aggressive and direct… correct me if I'm wrong! In yours, I definitely see him being more passive than you. In a way. I think you'll have some kind of psychic link with him, hence why I keep seeing you repulsed at first lol - reason being that your 7th house ruling planet Mars is in Virgo which rules more of your 12th than 11th, despite Mars actually being in the 11th. Mercury is in Virgo and Gemini rules the 9th, and Mercury is also in the 12th with Mars, sooooo I read it as kind of describing Mars. I would say he's creative and very smart, into a variety of topics. He's weird, but after you finally accept that he's not going away you'll start appreciating his sense of humor (Mercury is trine Jupiter) He also might be a know-it-all…not really an ideal trait but just a heads up :thumbs up: The good thing is once you're attracted to him you will STAY attracted to him for a long time. He's one of those guys that becomes sexier to you over time rather than being overcome with lust at first only to have it flatline later. You want someone steady and focused, a guy who appears to be meat and potatoes on the surface - keyword being appears. Someone a little Christian Gray-ish. I think you want someone who will take a backseat to your personality and let you shine. You want someone who's healthy and tends to the day to day chores and pampers you. IP: Logged |
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posted July 12, 2014 01:28 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I usually feel that way about Aquarians too, Aqua on the 8th house cusp is a weird contradiction but I kinda like it lol.. And yeah sorry idk what made me think water moons would be best, makes sense you'd get along with sags though
But that is interesting about the generosity.. Random question, with the ruler of your 2nd house in 11th, do you find that friends are always trying to be generous with you? Or are you more generous with them? Just curious lol cause I have ruler of 2nd in 7th and it seems like it could really go either way... Anyway you also have both co-rulers of your 8th in 7th so I'd say you maybe just haven't found the right partner yet but you'll definitely benefit once you do.. (probably unexpectedly somehow with Aqua in the 8th)
Friends are generous with me when I need it, but never "just because." More often I'm generous with them to show I care! And interesting about benefitting unexpectedly, I never took that little bit of Aquarius in my 8th as saying much! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted July 12, 2014 06:14 AM
Hi, StarrynightI see 3 gentlemen for you:
All these men have something major on your Pholus (planet, love asteroid, node, ASC etc.) One has Sun in Gem, your sec 7th and 8th, conjunct your Moon
Perhaps his Moon can make a Yod for you, or it is in Scorpio or other water/earth sign Venus opp your Mars/Neptune mdp Mars in Pisces opp your Venus Gentleman number 2 has his Sun Venus Mercury in your 8th/9th, something in your 7th too, perhaps, in relation to your Saturn/Juno/Venus stellium Venus or Mars can be on your Pholus Gentleman no. 3 A Sag/Scorpio Sun with Venus on your Neptune/Mars and Mars in Virgo on your Venus. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged | |
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