posted July 12, 2014 10:42 AM            

I do have female friends with their Sun late Gem forming that kite, but it's never been romantic or with a guy, so hmm.. but yes it is a fairly pleasant point, when they're not seeing me too idealistically lol (sun opp neppy).

"Your Moon/Venus/Mars are all involved in hard aspects, so this is what they need most of all"
---lol Yep, *ding ding ding* I attract a ton of placements to conj my cardinal cross..angles, luminaries, personals, nodes, all there! It's definitely a hot spot!

"Sun on your ASC Sun on your MC
but also:
Sun on your DSC Sun on your IC"
---With the Sun on the angles it's more often their Sun on my Mc...I think my Venus Cap likes that (maybe) and plus the Mc's another cardinal so their whatever gets aspected up the wazoo. But the reverse, late Libra Sun, I never meet. Really. It's funny. And I hardly ever meet late Libra anything save for MARS lol. Libra Mars yes. I guess my Saturn/Pluto is generally a nice repellant And with their Sun on Asc/Dsc there's more of an equal chance of those happening. But mostly it's all about Aries, even if its not on the Mc.

"For Venus/Mars, I prefer for you Mars on your Mars, in Libra (in relation to your interception"
---Id say about 90% (somewhere there) of my partners have had Mars in Air, and of those about 80% have it in aspect to my Mercury actually, so an earlier degree. But yeah the rest are either conj or trine to my Mars

"Venus in Aries in your 9th (the same"
---Ahh yess the yummy Aries Venuses This is my current, Aries Venus 9th conj Mc opp the Libra stellium. Aries Venus in that spot is all sorts of Yum at first sight.

"Of course, in aspect to your Venus and Mars, pouring in your NN (cross formation here)."
---Yup with the current, plus his nodes are in Cardinal too adding to all this. You must've been seeing the synastry I've never posted lol. Awesome work!!

Ok I think ill post it now just for kicks,

I'm on the inside ^ Even tho my Neptune squares his sun out of sign, his sun trines my Asc in-sign and I feel like that's a stronger factor for us in terms of being on the same page. I feel that he "gets what I'm about." Plus we each have axis conj each others nodes and his Jupiter trines my Moon too with 6 minute orb. Very understanding and supportive.

"So I see Sun/Venus in Aries or perhaps (better) Sun in Pisces in your 8th (major love house for you) sextile your Moon."
---hmmm. Ok back to hard Neptune, late Pisces squares my Neppy so generally not happy with that. Early Pisces tho works nicely with Sun/Jupiter.
But! Aries trine my Neptune yes I love :-) And Aries sextile my Mercury I love as well.

"His Moon of course, making the Kite with Neptune,with I think an interesting out of sign trine to your Sun, mixing fellow mutable energy with the flow of the trine."
---Hmm I /have/ dated Gem Moons, but usually they're around ..20 degrees. So hmm haven't stumbled on this one yet. But usually when their Moon hard aspects my Neptune there's too much bad Nep-toon happening. I don't like someone seeing me as something I'm not :-)

"like Moon Venus or Mars) opp your Sun"
---All these I like in men yes again!

"You need a very strong Mercurial fellow with your Mercury strong there on your DSC. (hence Gem in 11th, Gem intercepted and the mutable energy of your Sun/Uranus). His Venus may square or trine your Mars."
---Mmhmm to Mercurial yup. And if there's any sort of Venus/Mars aspect in my synastries id say 95% of the time Im Mars, so yup good call on that too! Its very very rare that Im Venus, and if I am its their Mars trine from late Taurus. I wonder now if that's because Mars is in 3rd relating to Mercury on Dsc..have not made that connection before but it makes sense. Lol here I was looking at Venus/Mars thinking 'maybe I'm just the partner that's more concerned with how much they're being turned on?' haha. And then add in their Mars in aspect to my Mercury, even more turned on lol.

"In fact, this is another good option: Sun in late Virgo, Venus in early Virgo, both falling in your 2nd (Of course, absolutely something in Gem in your 11th.) Opp your Sun, closing the cross with Uranus. His Sun trine your Moon and Venus. His Venus septile your Mars. His Mars in the good spots for your Venus"
---lol Now I know you /have/ been looking at my never-posted synastries! Haha! This was from, maybe, 6 years ago? Sun late Virgo, Venus early Virgo, he was a friend that I was attracted to, he has Mars early Virgo too but in aspect to my Sun not Venus. Anyway yes I was soo attracted, he was too but we just, gah, he was part of a group I hung with pretty much every week, but for some reason we just never ended up together :-) but Yup mutual attraction. But then see late Virgo squares my Neptune too..he used to say I looked like a doll, that I was this precious person to him. Sorta weird. Anyway tho he had Mercury conj his Sun and we were good friends so that was cool too.

posted July 12, 2014 02:54 PM            

First thing that jumped out on me is that your 7th house ruler, Jupiter, is not very aspected. It doesn't make any major aspects, so it probably stands alone in that 12th house - the only place where your 7th house can play out to the fullest. I think it puts more emphasis on 12th house things for you, such as spirituality, dreaming about better, creativity, compassion for the lesser man. Some aspects to your Jupiter is a must, bringing that energy alive. I'd go for the soft aspects, don't know how you feel about it. Because you have Uranus in the 7th house and your secondary 7th is Aquarius, I'd go for a trine from that sign.

An Aquarius Sun can have his Mercury and/or Venus in Capricorn, that other sign in your 7th house (and matching Saturn here), or in Pisces for that 12th house and your Neptune in the 7th. But a Capricorn with Mercury in Aquarius trining your Gemini Jupiter (Mercury energy would feel attractive to you) and Venus in Pisces could work, too, or the other way around (Pisces Sun, Aqua Mercury and Venus in Cap). A combination of these three in his personal planets would be a good choice, but 0-14 Aquarius would be my top pick. 6-14 Aqua will also trine your Mars, which can never hurt having so much Aries in your own chart.

Buuuut... 6-14 Libra, that other trine, will fall into your 5th house, which is very nice as well. So there's a lot to say for both.
For the Pisces planet/planets, I'd go for something falling on your MC, giving it a flavour of Capricorn to you as well. Very late Aquarius will make an out-of-sign conjunction to your MC, so that works as well.

So that was your 7th house and a lot goes for your 8th house as well. Capricorn with Saturn in the 7th house sounds like a combination of Capricorn and Libra, which came up before. This is a square and they'd make it a T-square with your Aries planets, but I think you wouldn't mind, having many squares in your own chart. You're used to that kind of energy and may even like it as an Aries. (Squares feel like Martian energy.)

Onto your 5th. Libra again, ruled by Venus in Aries in the 11th house. But there's more: a conjunction to your Sun and Mercury. I've found that conjunctions to a romance ruler can run away with the attraction pattern, but you'd have to tell me which you prefer. Your Venus conjunct Mercury fits with having your 7th house ruler in Gemini, while Venus conjunct the Sun gives you some attraction to Leo/solar energy. And having a romance ruler in the 11th brings you to Aquarius again.

If you still want him to have something in Sag, I'd go for 15-27 degrees. It conjuncts your Descendant and trines your whole Aries stellium.

Hope you're still with me.

Finally, your Pluto is a singleton at the end of your 5th house. It likely draws a lot of attention to this house, giving you a feeling of Leo at times. Someone who has this square somewhere in their chart would feel familiar to you. This could be an aspect between Leo and Scorpio, between his Sun and Pluto, Pluto in the 5th as well or Sun in the 8th.

posted July 12, 2014 02:57 PM            

You have two singletons in your chart, Venus in Aquarius for air and Pluto in Scorpio for water. Like with Hanna and Enneline, I'd say they need some aspects to give both some more opportunities to express themselves. Your Mars keeps drawing my attention as well, it looks so isolated. As it's part of an opposition to singleton Pluto - which is even intercepted - your partner should definitely have a Taurus-Scorpio opposition himself, which will bring your planets to life. I imagine someone who may seem friendly and pleasant at first (Libra on H5 cusp), but then turns out to also have a very deep, passionate side to them (Scorpio intercepted).

Your 7th house ruler, Saturn, is in the 7th house coupled with a few others, putting a lot of emphasis on relationships for you - again, Libra. Like I've said to others with Capricorn on a romance house, conjunctions to your MC would be very powerful. You even have Neptune on your Descendant, blending in well with your Pisces MC (which is your secondary 7th house). Something between 16 and 26 Pisces will also trine that intercepted Pluto singleton and sextile your Mars on the other end of that opposition, plus your 7th house ruler, Saturn. I definitely see some opportunities here!

As for your 8th house, Aquarius, Uranus is conjunct your Descendant as well - and your 5th house ruler Venus in the 8th. All three of your romance houses are closely connected! My favourite would be something in Aries (most of it is your 10th house) between 5-15 Aries, which will smooth out your opposition between Venus and Jupiter, and also trine your Sagittarius moon. You're lucky to have all three of these planets around the same degrees, it's easy to hit thems all in synastry.

For Venus in Aquarius in the 8th house, I'd like your partner to have a similar combo somewhere in his chart. Maybe Venus in the 11th aspecting Pluto, or Uranus doing so from his 7th house. Or Venus conjunct Uranus in the 8th house. As long as those three energies are connected somehow. And if he also has his moon in tight aspect to Jupiter or in the 9th house, your own Sagittarius Moon and Mercury would definitely appeal to him. I don't know how you'd feel about a watery guy with so much fire and Libra influence in your chart, but I think he could give you an easy way to show your feelings easily.

I'd like something in late Virgo for you as well, completing a grand trine with your Sun-Saturn and Mars, plus touching your IC. He would definitely manage to get through to you.

posted July 12, 2014 04:58 PM              

Do you think Jupiter shares any of Mars' energy since they occupy the same house?

Spirituality...kind of. I admit I treat relationships a bit like you see in the movies. I get caught up in my own fantasy about it.

Creativity - yes. In something. I can't be with someone who isn't mentally active or agile.

Compassion for the underdog... Not really something I ever looked for, but the man I love right now has a lot of compassion and is a humanitarian. Basically even though I'm not conservative or super super liberal, I couldn't ever date a staunch Republican. Like. Ever. They have to be a humanitarian, which I think Firemoon touched on too. (Oh and she touched on Jupiter a bit!)

I generally really like Aquarius guys! My dad is actually an Aqua. However I've never dated an actual sun yet. I attract guys with Sun / Uranus (well, the last one) and a lotttt of Venus in Aquariuses or Venus conjunct Uranus. I'm drawn to Capricorn Suns but MOST drawn to guys that have Sag, Scorpio or Pluto, and Saturn / Capricorn. Every. Damn. Time.

Funny you mention Venus in Pisces. I'm not sure I really like that placement for a guy I want to date. The last guy I dated had that and he was a mess. The only other one I know is the complete opposite but still too emotional for me (he's an Aquarius!)

Noooo to Libra suns. Just no. Lol. And yes my favorite energy is square, sextile, or conjunct! In the right places of course.

posted July 12, 2014 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, Starrynight

I see 3 gentlemen for you:
All these men have something major on your Pholus (planet, love asteroid, node, ASC etc.)

One has Sun in Gem, your sec 7th and 8th, conjunct your Moon
Perhaps his Moon can make a Yod for you, or it is in Scorpio or other water/earth sign

Venus opp your Mars/Neptune mdp

Mars in Pisces opp your Venus

Gentleman number 2

has his Sun Venus Mercury in your 8th/9th, something in your 7th too, perhaps, in relation to your Saturn/Juno/Venus stellium

Venus or Mars can be on your Pholus

Gentleman no. 3

A Sag/Scorpio Sun with Venus on your Neptune/Mars and Mars in Virgo on your Venus.

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Wow you pretty much guessed three guys, two of which I used to date, except for one detail!

Guy #1
Gemini Sun and Scorpio Moon, his Sag Venus on my Mars-Neptune (like you said for guy #3).
But he had Aries Mars trining my own Mars. No Pisces.

Guy 2 had his Sun in Pisces in my 9th house, his Aries Venus in a wide conjunction to my Pholus, his Sagittarius Mars square my Saturn and Venus.

Guy 3 who hopefully will be a boyfriend soon:
Sag Sun indeed, with Scorpio Venus on my Sun, Mars in Sagittarius square my Venus.
Also in relation to my Pholus:
Moon conj my Pholus
Mars square my Pholus
Pholus conj my Pholus in the same sign though with 10 degrees orb

posted July 13, 2014 05:52 AM              

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Originally posted by starrynight:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
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Thank you! This is fun.
Feedback:

Wow you pretty much guessed three guys, two of which I used to date, except for one detail!

Guy #1
Gemini Sun and Scorpio Moon, his Sag Venus on my Mars-Neptune (like you said for guy #3).
But he had Aries Mars trining my own Mars. No Pisces.

Guy 2 had his Sun in Pisces in my 9th house, his Aries Venus in a wide conjunction to my Pholus, his Sagittarius Mars square my Saturn and Venus.

Guy 3 who hopefully will be a boyfriend soon:
Sag Sun indeed, with Scorpio Venus on my Sun, Mars in Sagittarius square my Venus.
Also in relation to my Pholus:
Moon conj my Pholus
Mars square my Pholus
Pholus conj my Pholus in the same sign though with 10 degrees orb

Notice the trend? Mars in Fire. I seem to have a special thing for either Sag Mars square my Venus or Leo/Aries Mars trine my own Mars. I can almost smell a Fire Mars on a guy, lol. I got crushes on Water and Air Suns with Mars in Fire, but never the other way around. The Aries Marses were probably widely conj my Pholus as it is in the 29th degree of Pisces.

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I can see why. It's your Venus square Neptune requiring completion with a Mars. I was rooting for an opposition for you, but of course the square is just as good.

And both Mars in Leo and Aries fall near your angles, so they enhance attraction. I usually look for the Venus/Mars DW, but of course other combinations are possible

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posted July 13, 2014 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
:laugh: Meissieri, don't be offended but for yours I'm picturing this guy who might creep you out at first. It's not that he's weird in general but you'll have issues with the way he expresses his attraction towards you. The vibe I'm getting is akin to the mouth breather's relationship with Helga in "Hey Arnold!" but of course, not as stalkerish.

The feeling I get from your chart is more about how the relationship will develop than the actual partner (or maybe this is just the intro. We'll see where my intuition goes!) which is that he will spot you from afar and it will take you awhile to either be attracted to him, or for him to approach you. Think longing glances, and building a strong emotional rapport through lots of nonverbal communication (vs. getting to know each other.) I don't think you want someone very aggressive and direct… correct me if I'm wrong!

In yours, I definitely see him being more passive than you. In a way. I think you'll have some kind of psychic link with him, hence why I keep seeing you repulsed at first lol - reason being that your 7th house ruling planet Mars is in Virgo which rules more of your 12th than 11th, despite Mars actually being in the 11th. Mercury is in Virgo and Gemini rules the 9th, and Mercury is also in the 12th with Mars, sooooo I read it as kind of describing Mars. I would say he's creative and very smart, into a variety of topics. He's weird, but after you finally accept that he's not going away you'll start appreciating his sense of humor (Mercury is trine Jupiter) He also might be a know-it-all…not really an ideal trait but just a heads up :thumbs up:

The good thing is once you're attracted to him you will STAY attracted to him for a long time. He's one of those guys that becomes sexier to you over time rather than being overcome with lust at first only to have it flatline later. You want someone steady and focused, a guy who appears to be meat and potatoes on the surface - keyword being appears. Someone a little Christian Gray-ish.

I think you want someone who will take a backseat to your personality and let you shine. You want someone who's healthy and tends to the day to day chores and pampers you.

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Don't know how you got there, but yes, some guys who were into me did act a bit stalkerish. Not in a creep way but things like getting closer than you'd expect from how little we knew each other, finding my blog through another website I liked them to and follow it, etc. Lol and I know Helga and the breather (what was his name again??). I hope it's not to that extend, though!

Seriously, how did you see that in my chart? Ah, I never would've thought of that. Not offended, just laughing in disbelief kind of. ^^

Now that I'm older and more, uh, aware, I do pick up on what you talked about, like keep glancing at me from afar. Good point, I always wondered why guys never made a move unless they were either a player, turned out to be abusive or just commitment phobe.
Non-verbal communication, lingering looks... *sigh* there's your problem. I'm sooo attracted to air-heavy, fiery men who are very outgoing, in-your-face (a tad obnoxiously so), a bit of an attention-seeker even if unconsciously, and talk a lot. Like, all the time. But my chart just can't support such guys' planets enough. I know why - thinking they can bring out some more assertiveness in me while I'll water down their temper, the whole opposites attract thing.

But what you said about not liking too aggressive men is right, too. Making a move right away freaks me the hell out! Like... we barely know each other. The joy of having Descendant sign and sign of its ruler in quincunx signs. -_-

Psychic link? Oh, I like that! Yeah, I agree, my 7th house ruler Mars would count for both in the 11th and 12th. Lol, oh dear, do I need to brace myself for the know-it-all thing?

Hmm, I don't want a partner who's too passive - as in me having to make all the decisions, always contacting first, initiating all the intimacy, etc. I want him to take some initiative too. No way. I'm quite shy and a bit awkward myself, I need someone who can pick up and take the lead when I freeze up. *points at Aries 7th house* But the most important for me would be someone who supports me when I need them, rather than suddenly disappear. I want someone who can handle me at my worst. I tend to have pretty heavy panic attacks - they're rare, but when they happen, it's bad - and just generally being sensitive (bursting to tears, breakdowns, etc.) and I don't want to be ditched just when I rely on him.

Staying attracted for a long time, oh, that's totally cool! Sense of humour's always welcome, too. Actually, don't know where you saw that in my chart, but I do indeed become more attracted over time. Once we spend more time together, getting to know each other, the feeling comes. If I feel the spark right away, it's likely going to be only a short-term crush. I love slowly.

But overall, you described quite well who would be good for me and I can actually see myself with someone a bit weird in how he approaches me. Thanks for the reading!

posted July 14, 2014 01:37 AM              

Well, I went completely left from the rules of the thread and focused on your 12th house, since that's where your traditional male / female planets are (which, I know Mars isn't IN the 12th but it is ruled by Virgo who more or less rules that house). The 12th house is all about the unseen, and what is more unseen than a guy who longs from you from afar that you have no idea about? That's usually what you get, but what you WANT is your 7th house. The Aries guy. The guy that boldly approaches you and is trustworthy, a go-getter, and fun. So, you go after what you want. But I think (looking at the chart with fresh eyes and going off on another tangent! ) what you need is someone who's outgoing on one on one situations and has a personality they only show to people they care about. You want someone more careful than the loud, brash Aries, but not boring like a Virgo. Just careful. And I think that's why your Mars isn't in the 12th house completely because you want your guy to have friends (11th house) but a close knit group of them (Jupiter, the vedic / traditional planet for a woman's husband in her chart, in Cancer). With Aries ruling your 7th and Jupiter in Cancer in the 10th you want someone who cares about people, but not in a humanitarian, vast-mass sense. Individuals. Someone emotional and sensitive, but not too creepy of course! Interesting Jupiter and your 7th house are in cardinal signs. The energy should be straightforward but tactful. Almost like your 10th and 7th are see-sawing with each other.

posted July 14, 2014 04:38 AM            

Please

I seem to attract the wrong type would be handy to know what to look for to begin with.

Maybe you guys should hook me up with a suitable suitor

I've almost given up on love that's how DISAPPOINTING things are in the love life. Sometimes I doubt theres a man (or woman) alive that would suit me out there anymore..

posted July 14, 2014 08:22 PM            

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I would LOVE to have my man friend's Natal interpreted to see who his ideal partner is in this lifetime! Thanks a million times! http://s102.photobucket.com
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posted July 15, 2014 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, Kryptic...you need to post the chart without "aspect lines to all", thanks.

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All done, just replaced it