posted January 21, 2015 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
I really feel like joining in again. Anyone want me to take a look at their chart, too?

Lol I was already typing something up, but I wanted to ask first just in case.

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Id love to hear your thoughts!!

Edit-Good idea Margy, repost the chart!

posted January 21, 2015 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
I really feel like joining in again. Anyone want me to take a look at their chart, too?

Lol I was already typing something up, but I wanted to ask first just in case.

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Sure please

posted January 21, 2015 05:31 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
I really feel like joining in again. Anyone want me to take a look at their chart, too?

Lol I was already typing something up, but I wanted to ask first just in case.

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would love your insight too meissieri!

posted January 21, 2015 06:54 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Sure, I'll take a look tomorrow at both of your charts.

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Thank you!

posted January 21, 2015 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Sure, I'll take a look tomorrow at both of your charts.

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posted January 21, 2015 11:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, LF DX

I see a princess with Fixed Sun and/or Moon, especially in Taurus or Leo, Venus as well, Venus in Cancer another good option for you; Mars in Gemini, Sag, Aries or Cancer.

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Thank you very much, I've recently got out with a woman with mars in gemini, with the mars trine venus, but the rest, not that good.

Meissieri, I'll want your insight too please, it's interesting to have various points of view.

Cheers

posted January 22, 2015 08:10 AM              

Sun Moon Venus in Aqua Pisces or Aries.

Mars in Taurus or Scorpio.

You have a difficult chart for relationships, in the sense that you have an important lesson to learn in relation to others, and your love and personal life is connected to this lesson: try to be the one who offers FIRST what you need from others; for example, you need trust, offer trust, be trustworthy; you need change and excitement, offer change and excitement, you need attention, give attention etc.

Hoping this is helpful for you

Best wishes to you!

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posted January 22, 2015 08:18 AM              

Venus in early Pisces or Virgo. Anyone with personal planets on Virgo/Pisces axis is very good to you and for you.

Aries or Libra Moon.

Gemini Mars is the best for you, but Mars in Libra Aries Sag are also good, however in this case he should have an important planet/asteroid on your Ceres.

posted January 22, 2015 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Gabby, what I see here is someone with ASC/DSC in Virgo or Pisces or with his Sun on your 4th harmonic triangle projected into Pallas.

Venus in early Pisces or Virgo. Anyone with personal planets on Virgo/Pisces axis is very good to you and for you.

Aries or Libra Moon.

Gemini Mars is the best for you, but Mars in Libra Aries Sag are also good, however in this case he should have an important planet/asteroid on your Ceres.

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Interesting!
Never dated a virgo or pisces AC, i had a guy with MC on my Moon, he's the one that I just broke up with.
I adore gemini Mars as long as they are not afflicted.

I'm not sure what is my 4th harmonic triangle is?

posted January 23, 2015 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, EmGem, I see your best type as:

Sun Moon Venus in Aqua Pisces or Aries.

Mars in Taurus or Scorpio.

You have a difficult chart for relationships, in the sense that you have an important lesson to learn in relation to others, and your love and personal life is connected to this lesson: try to be the one who offers FIRST what you need from others; for example, you need trust, offer trust, be trustworthy; you need change and excitement, offer change and excitement, you need attention, give attention etc.

Hoping this is helpful for you

Best wishes to you!

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oh wow this feels potent to me as it seems to ring true from what i have experienced in my relationships. What part of my chart shows this lesson that needs learning? Very interested to know. Is it the chiron or uranus? I tend to lose myself in relationships, is this what you mean? I recently got out of a rel where i was asleep and not really present in quite a big chunk of it. in fact, for most of it i would imagine. he was a gem sun, cap moon, taurus mars and venus, virgo rising - trying to change me into something i wasn't. we just couldn't see eye to eye or understand each other. i felt like i was walking on eggshells half the time with him.
now its funny what type you suggest would suit me best because i have been thinking of someone who is grounded, adventurous and capable of being independent and free thinking and accepting that within me also. i think in a lot of my rel's i end up going along with them, helping them etc and then because i have lost myself I end up waking up suddenly and feeling jailed and so i end up running in the opposite direction (uranus), abruptly ending things out of the blue. this is what has just happened with this guy. I am now insistent on learning a different way of relating with someone. Is this what you mean by showing them FIRST?

posted January 23, 2015 04:24 PM            

I'm still typing up the posts. I seem to work best to just work on one and juggle back and forth, so that's what I'm doing.

posted January 23, 2015 04:42 PM            

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Id love to hear your thoughts!!

Edit-Good idea Margy, repost the chart!

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Hi, Gabby,

First thing: your Moon in Virgo is a singleton, so this stands out for you, even if it's in your 12th house and unaspected. It really calls for some aspects, and as unaspected, I get the feeling harsh aspects would be too harsh for you, especially for a sensitive Moon.

I'm thinking of something between 18-21 Scorpio on your NN, sextile your Moon. They could show you how to use your Pluto energy (with Pluto on the ASC) positively and find a way to express what you need. A trine from Taurus could give your cautious, worrying Moon some stability.

Jupiter and Chiron in your 7th house immediately tells me he should be someone who has been through the same things as you have, he's walked in your shoes and can guide you doing the same thing. He has experience and would be open to hearing yours. A planet or angle in early Sagittarius, on your Sun and Mercury (or Neptune), would be great and very positive. Even better, it gives your Moon another outlet, as your Sag Mercury rules your unaspected Moon.

Something around 0-8 Pisces will complete a Grand Trine with your Mars and Uranus (even if Mars-Uranus is out of sign, it's within orb). This will connect your 7th and 5th house rulers nicely. With only one aspect to your 7th house ruler, I imagine you would prefer an easy aspect over a harsh one. Early Pisces still falls into your 5th house, making it very romantic and exciting to you.

Pluto and Venus in your 1st house (extended DSC) probably need some Libra and Scorpio or an aspect between both planets in their chart. Your 8th house is also ruled by that Venus in the 1st house, so it's important he makes an aspect to that, and ideally also has a planet in Libra.

To top it off, a planet in Leo trine your Jupiter and Neptune (another GT!) would be good, completing another pattern and falling into your extended 5th house. I think it can still trine your Chiron as well, so that's good. This should be someone who can inspire you to make the most of your own spiritual side (if you're into that).

posted January 23, 2015 04:51 PM            

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Hi margymo!

Wow, looks like nearly everything comes down to that Vertex in your 6th house. Obviously, you want an aspect to that, it's an important part of your chart. The Vertex feels fated already, but in Pisces to boot, that's got to be a very dreamy, "something I've always been looking for" feeling to have that triggered. Apex of two T-squares and a hammer. and part of a kite.
I think that kite already gives you some outlets for all of that tension, so I don't know if the type of aspect to it matters.

Onto the rest of the chart...
Obviously, overlays to your 12th house or a conjunction to your Neptune become important with a Pisces Descendant. I imagine something on top of your Ceres in your 12th will feel really, really good. The partnership will make you feel very nurturing towards said partner. Your 7th house ruler isn't very aspected, though, with that opposition to your Sun standing out to me. I think a planet in the early degrees of Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces or Taurus would be good, giving both sides of your opposition a supporting trine or sextile. Especially Virgo is a good choice, which falls into that spiritual 12th house. Taurus would fall into your 8th, which I can see affect you a lot, too, or on your Aries NN. With such an intense chart, I can imagine you wanting a break now and then from someone laidback, which Taurus would give you.

Since your Scorpio Moon is so well-aspected, harsh aspects may be too harsh for you. So if he has any planets in Leo, on your Venus (and this matches with your 7th house ruler opposing your Sun), I think you might prefer it not within orb to square your Moon.

Your partner should also have something around 22 Cancer or Capricorn, conjunct or opposing your Mars-Mercury opposition. Mars rules your 8th, so an aspect to that is important (though late Virgo and Taurus works, too, again to do with your houses, and late Pisces conjunct your DSC). So is something to your Sun-Uranus opposition, with Uranus ruling your 5th. I'm especially feeling something in the last decan of Gemini, conjunct your Sun. This is because your Mars opposes Mercury so tightly, communication means a lot to you and it would give you an attraction to people with planets or angles in Gemini. And wow, Mercury's also your chart ruler and MC ruler - now it definitely needs some aspects! This person should be able to keep you interested, and be able to keep up with your thoughts.

So the themes I get here:
Someone you can talk to, who has a great mind and a way with words. Helpful and compassionate (the Pisces and Virgo). Someone who strikes a good balance with being nurturing and looking out for you, and also supporting you with your own goals and in being independent (the Cancer-Cap opposition). Then the stability of Taurus would give you the security you're looking for. But you do like to keep things exciting and try new things (Uranus, 5th house ruler, in Sagittarius) and you want him to be open to that as well - and who will introduce you to new experiences.

With your Sun as an air singleton, your own Gemini nature stands out a lot, so he needs to be a match for you there. A man with some Leo energy may like this a lot about you. And keep in mind it gets disposited by your Mercury in Cancer, so that again points at that exact opposition you have in your chart.

posted January 23, 2015 04:56 PM            

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would love your insight too meissieri!

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Hi EmGem

Wow, I was immediately drawn to your Saturn-Mars-Moon conjunction in late Leo and early Virgo. That's got to get some aspects - I have Mars-Saturn and Moon-Saturn myself and I know they can be tough - and I recommend something between 0-4 Capricorn, which will fall into orb with your Saturn and Mars, even if out of sign, and also trine your Chiron, making it a Grand Trine for you. With tight aspects (especially conjunctions) from Saturn, it's like you often have to put the brakes onto something (in your case, your drive and feelings), so I can see you looking for someone who can encourage you to take that foot off the brake and just drive. See where it goes. Virgo is super cautious, so they need a lot of reassurance, and your Leo Mars doesn't like being held back all the time, I imagine.

A planet in late Aquarius opposing your Saturn-Mars-Moon conjunction could add some spark as it'd fall into the beginning of your 5th house.

Since this conjunction is disposited by your Sun and Mercury in Gemini, my bets are you especially want someone who encourages you to communicate and will let you chat along, share new things you've learnt or read somewhere. But because these are in your 8th, they should be the deeper kind of topics.

Now onto the romance houses:
Your 7th house ruler, Venus in Cancer, is unaspected in your 9th house. Like with Gabby, I imagine you prefer easy aspects, someone who is more gentle. But he should be intelligent and experienced as well, who can teach you new life experience because of that 9th house. Maybe religious and/or spiritual. Conjunctions to your IC may feel even more personal, if possible. The Taurus DSC points at your 2nd house as well, which is Sagittarius and matches up with your Venus in the 9th house. Neptune here, too, so that emphasises the spirituality and gentle, kind, compassionate personality traits. I think a conjunction to your Neptune, even if it rules your 6th house, would feel great and super dreamy to you.

With your 5th house ruler, Uranus, on your Ascendant, I'm thinking he needs to be like you - someone you can completely be yourself with. Someone who also has some quirks and things outside of the norm would understand you. The opposition to Chiron actually emphasizes that - fellow outsiders choosing to walk together, knowing what the other has been through.

Then Sun and Mercury in the 8th house points at self-expression again. Mercury in its own sign, you'll want some aspects to that. What I like is that you have the ruler of your 10th house in here (Sun), but your extended 8th house is Cap. And your extended 5th is Leo, which has already showed up as well. Looks like you definitely have a certain type.

And I just saw your Moon is a singleton, so that makes it stand out more. I think that goes well with your Venus in Cancer. Definitely be on the lookout for a man who has that tied to his attraction pattern/Moon/Venus. I see you have Mercury (which would rule your Moon) in Sagittarius, conjunct your Sun, so maybe a conjunction to that may also ease out some lunar problems and give you a way to express itself. Mercury is conjunct the ruler of your 11th house, so that kind of gels with Sagittarius, wanting to be free to explore, do your own thing and get some awesome new life experience - with a friend (11th house).

posted January 23, 2015 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by LF DX:
Hello, Let's see where this goes.

Cheers.

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Hi, LF DX

Before I start... I saw you mentioned a woman with Mars in Gemini. Did it happen to trine your Aquarius Moon? It has such tough aspects, I can see a trine to that ease things out a little.

Definitely a woman with some planets either in Scorpio conjunct yours, or Pluto in aspect to at least one of her personal planets. You have such an emphasis there, also in its own house, she should have similar energy and know what it feels like.

Then your DSC makes it pretty obvious to me! Ruled by Mercury in Sagittarius in the 9th house, and square Jupiter to boot. If she can't teach you anything new, I think you'd just lose interest. Though something early-Aries would complete a Grand Trine with your Mercury in Sag and Chiron in Leo. A Martian woman would match your own Sun-Mars conjunction.

Your Aqua Moon rules your 5th house, so I'm going to say Gemini around the same degrees (about 17-27) that can approach you without making you feel stifled. It would also fall on your IC, which will definitely feel at home to you.

It's funny, the contrast with your 8th house and its ruler - you've got quite a few Scorpio planets in there, but the house is actually ruled by your Venus in Libra in your 7th house. The Aries planets I talked about earlier would oppose that, so maybe you'd like an easy aspect as well. Again Gemini, but now early in the sign completes a Grand Trine (or even a kite) for you, which is nice. Then a planet in Virgo on your DSC for extra 7th house emphasis would make it even better. With some tough aspects like you have, it's nice to be with someone who can support you, be patient and willing to do things to make your life easier.

Oh, and your Mercury is a singleton (your only planet in a fire sign), so you would be a good match for an airy woman as well. Fire too.

Fits with what you had in mind?

posted January 23, 2015 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
Hi margymo!

Wow, looks like nearly everything comes down to that Vertex in your 6th house. Obviously, you want an aspect to that, it's an important part of your chart. The Vertex feels fated already, but in Pisces to boot, that's got to be a very dreamy, "something I've always been looking for" feeling to have that triggered. Apex of two T-squares and a hammer. and part of a kite.
I think that kite already gives you some outlets for all of that tension, so I don't know if the type of aspect to it matters.

Onto the rest of the chart...
Obviously, overlays to your 12th house or a conjunction to your Neptune become important with a Pisces Descendant. I imagine something on top of your Ceres in your 12th will feel really, really good. The partnership will make you feel very nurturing towards said partner. Your 7th house ruler isn't very aspected, though, with that opposition to your Sun standing out to me. I think a planet in the early degrees of Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces or Taurus would be good, giving both sides of your opposition a supporting trine or sextile. Especially Virgo is a good choice, which falls into that spiritual 12th house. Taurus would fall into your 8th, which I can see affect you a lot, too, or on your Aries NN. With such an intense chart, I can imagine you wanting a break now and then from someone laidback, which Taurus would give you.

Since your Scorpio Moon is so well-aspected, harsh aspects may be too harsh for you. So if he has any planets in Leo, on your Venus (and this matches with your 7th house ruler opposing your Sun), I think you might prefer it not within orb to square your Moon.

Your partner should also have something around 22 Cancer or Capricorn, conjunct or opposing your Mars-Mercury opposition. Mars rules your 8th, so an aspect to that is important (though late Virgo and Taurus works, too, again to do with your houses, and late Pisces conjunct your DSC). So is something to your Sun-Uranus opposition, with Uranus ruling your 5th. I'm especially feeling something in the last decan of Gemini, conjunct your Sun. This is because your Mars opposes Mercury so tightly, communication means a lot to you and it would give you an attraction to people with planets or angles in Gemini. And wow, Mercury's also your chart ruler and MC ruler - now it definitely needs some aspects! This person should be able to keep you interested, and be able to keep up with your thoughts.

So the themes I get here:
Someone you can talk to, who has a great mind and a way with words. Helpful and compassionate (the Pisces and Virgo). Someone who strikes a good balance with being nurturing and looking out for you, and also supporting you with your own goals and in being independent (the Cancer-Cap opposition). Then the stability of Taurus would give you the security you're looking for. But you do like to keep things exciting and try new things (Uranus, 5th house ruler, in Sagittarius) and you want him to be open to that as well - and who will introduce you to new experiences.

With your Sun as an air singleton, your own Gemini nature stands out a lot, so he needs to be a match for you there. A man with some Leo energy may like this a lot about you. And keep in mind it gets disposited by your Mercury in Cancer, so that again points at that exact opposition you have in your chart.

Anything in past/current relationships that matches?

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Wow, unbelievable. You have a real gift!

My "easiest" and most "warm" and maybe even the best relationship I've had to date for a few reasons (especially pertaining to the communication bit you mentioned) matches some of what you described in the first paragraph - His Virgo Venus fell in my 12th house conjuncting Ceres AND his Moon conjunct my Neptune. Amazing! He was a Libra Sun though but I think that helped with our communication. We dated long distance for over a year before we got the chance to live in the same city and it was effortless. We ultimately ended things because there was never much passion and because I wanted to move back home to be close to my family, but we still remain friends to this day - no hard feelings whatsoever. The funny thing is, my Moon was completely unaspected in our synastry. I still don't know how this played into it. Maybe no aspects at all is as good as no harsh aspects?

As for the rest, my current boyfriend has a 23 Cancer Sun which conjuncts my Mercury and opposes my Mars. His Taurus Moon trines my Mars falling into my 8th house. His Gemini Venus conjuncts my Sun too! I definitely feel the most passion and intensity in this relationship which I think my last relationship lacked, but the communication part isn't where I'd want it to be. My Mercury is squared by his Mars and Pluto (my Mars is as well) so there is no shortage of heat. It seems to interchangeably be a mix of support and caring with "bad daddy" stern-ness. He also as a person is not as communicative - he is more serious by nature. His Taurus Moon also opposes mine...harsh! That has been interesting.

So it seems to be give and take! I guess if I could roll them both into one man he would be perfect but your take on my chart themes is pretty bang on. I do also have a very dreamy outlook on love and relationships which sometimes helps and hurts!

posted January 24, 2015 05:06 AM            

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Hi EmGem

Wow, I was immediately drawn to your Saturn-Mars-Moon conjunction in late Leo and early Virgo. That's got to get some aspects - I have Mars-Saturn and Moon-Saturn myself and I know they can be tough - and I recommend something between 0-4 Capricorn, which will fall into orb with your Saturn and Mars, even if out of sign, and also trine your Chiron, making it a Grand Trine for you. With tight aspects (especially conjunctions) from Saturn, it's like you often have to put the brakes onto something (in your case, your drive and feelings), so I can see you looking for someone who can encourage you to take that foot off the brake and just drive. See where it goes. Virgo is super cautious, so they need a lot of reassurance, and your Leo Mars doesn't like being held back all the time, I imagine.

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A planet in late Aquarius opposing your Saturn-Mars-Moon conjunction could add some spark as it'd fall into the beginning of your 5th house.
Since this conjunction is disposited by your Sun and Mercury in Gemini, my bets are you especially want someone who encourages you to communicate and will let you chat along, share new things you've learnt or read somewhere. But because these are in your 8th, they should be the deeper kind of topics.

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Now onto the romance houses:
Your 7th house ruler, Venus in Cancer, is unaspected in your 9th house. Like with Gabby, I imagine you prefer easy aspects, someone who is more gentle. But he should be intelligent and experienced as well, who can teach you new life experience because of that 9th house. Maybe religious and/or spiritual. Conjunctions to your IC may feel even more personal, if possible. The Taurus DSC points at your 2nd house as well, which is Sagittarius and matches up with your Venus in the 9th house. Neptune here, too, so that emphasises the spirituality and gentle, kind, compassionate personality traits. I think a conjunction to your Neptune, even if it rules your 6th house, would feel great and super dreamy to you.

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With your 5th house ruler, Uranus, on your Ascendant, I'm thinking he needs to be like you - someone you can completely be yourself with. Someone who also has some quirks and things outside of the norm would understand you. The opposition to Chiron actually emphasizes that - fellow outsiders choosing to walk together, knowing what the other has been through.

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Then Sun and Mercury in the 8th house points at self-expression again. Mercury in its own sign, you'll want some aspects to that. What I like is that you have the ruler of your 10th house in here (Sun), but your extended 8th house is Cap. And your extended 5th is Leo, which has already showed up as well. Looks like you definitely have a certain type.

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And I just saw your Moon is a singleton, so that makes it stand out more. I think that goes well with your Venus in Cancer. Definitely be on the lookout for a man who has that tied to his attraction pattern/Moon/Venus.

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I see you have Mercury (which would rule your Moon) in Sagittarius, conjunct your Sun, so maybe a conjunction to that may also ease out some lunar problems and give you a way to express itself. Mercury is conjunct the ruler of your 11th house, so that kind of gels with Sagittarius, wanting to be free to explore, do your own thing and get some awesome new life experience - with a friend (11th house).

So... this was a long post and feel free to take your time reading it. Does it match anything in your love life so far?

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I have a feeling I may have been a little off track with this relationship. But maybe I'm seeing more bad than good because it has pretty much ended.

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posted January 24, 2015 09:45 AM            

I have already got an answer from LeeLoo so i would like to have an answer from you too meissieri please .

posted January 25, 2015 02:24 PM            

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Hi, Gabby,

First thing: your Moon in Virgo is a singleton, so this stands out for you, even if it's in your 12th house and unaspected. It really calls for some aspects, and as unaspected, I get the feeling harsh aspects would be too harsh for you, especially for a sensitive Moon.

I'm thinking of something between 18-21 Scorpio on your NN, sextile your Moon. They could show you how to use your Pluto energy (with Pluto on the ASC) positively and find a way to express what you need. A trine from Taurus could give your cautious, worrying Moon some stability.

Jupiter and Chiron in your 7th house immediately tells me he should be someone who has been through the same things as you have, he's walked in your shoes and can guide you doing the same thing. He has experience and would be open to hearing yours. A planet or angle in early Sagittarius, on your Sun and Mercury (or Neptune), would be great and very positive. Even better, it gives your Moon another outlet, as your Sag Mercury rules your unaspected Moon.

Something around 0-8 Pisces will complete a Grand Trine with your Mars and Uranus (even if Mars-Uranus is out of sign, it's within orb). This will connect your 7th and 5th house rulers nicely. With only one aspect to your 7th house ruler, I imagine you would prefer an easy aspect over a harsh one. Early Pisces still falls into your 5th house, making it very romantic and exciting to you.

Pluto and Venus in your 1st house (extended DSC) probably need some Libra and Scorpio or an aspect between both planets in their chart. Your 8th house is also ruled by that Venus in the 1st house, so it's important he makes an aspect to that, and ideally also has a planet in Libra.

To top it off, a planet in Leo trine your Jupiter and Neptune (another GT!) would be good, completing another pattern and falling into your extended 5th house. I think it can still trine your Chiron as well, so that's good. This should be someone who can inspire you to make the most of your own spiritual side (if you're into that).

So that's Scorpio, Pisces, Sagittarius, Libra and Leo in his chart, Taurus is a good choice, too, if possible.

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Wow thank you so much, what an awesome interp!
I appreciate you doing this so much!

posted January 26, 2015 12:06 AM            

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Hi, LF DX

Before I start... I saw you mentioned a woman with Mars in Gemini. Did it happen to trine your Aquarius Moon? It has such tough aspects, I can see a trine to that ease things out a little.

Definitely a woman with some planets either in Scorpio conjunct yours, or Pluto in aspect to at least one of her personal planets. You have such an emphasis there, also in its own house, she should have similar energy and know what it feels like.

Then your DSC makes it pretty obvious to me! Ruled by Mercury in Sagittarius in the 9th house, and square Jupiter to boot. If she can't teach you anything new, I think you'd just lose interest. Though something early-Aries would complete a Grand Trine with your Mercury in Sag and Chiron in Leo. A Martian woman would match your own Sun-Mars conjunction.

Your Aqua Moon rules your 5th house, so I'm going to say Gemini around the same degrees (about 17-27) that can approach you without making you feel stifled. It would also fall on your IC, which will definitely feel at home to you.

It's funny, the contrast with your 8th house and its ruler - you've got quite a few Scorpio planets in there, but the house is actually ruled by your Venus in Libra in your 7th house. The Aries planets I talked about earlier would oppose that, so maybe you'd like an easy aspect as well. Again Gemini, but now early in the sign completes a Grand Trine (or even a kite) for you, which is nice. Then a planet in Virgo on your DSC for extra 7th house emphasis would make it even better. With some tough aspects like you have, it's nice to be with someone who can support you, be patient and willing to do things to make your life easier.

Oh, and your Mercury is a singleton (your only planet in a fire sign), so you would be a good match for an airy woman as well. Fire too.

Fits with what you had in mind?

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Unfortunately it didn't trine my moon, cause it is early at gemini, but it sextiles my sun, saturn and uranus and trines my chiron. But semisquares her moon, mercury and jupiter.

And her Mercury in Aries did trine mine as my chiron as well. And a loose pluto trine venus, that's all the good stuff, with my true node conjuncts her moon at 1' more or less being the most significant thing I guess.

But we also have the dreadful venus of mine square her neptune, my saturn square her sun, and my venus square her moon.

It was a friendship that turned deep for me, for the very first time in my life I felt confortable with someone I have feelings, and I just fell in love in the way, but many mixed signs, by me and her, her constant delays and last-time cancelations of meetings and dates, and her falling for a former friend just brought things to an awful end.

I'm very amazed with the insight, thank you very much, My badly aspected moon makes me very hard to be very open with my emotions when they turn powerful, as I always felt that they are too intense to be properly handled when I fell in love, and I got the feeling that I can scare women, so I always have difficult relationships with women, but this past two years I've been developing more in that aspect. The only women who I felt a deeply friendship are my childhood friend who's a Pisces, and this lady that I spoke.

What I'm understanding is that my kind of woman astrologically is more or less an airy woman with a little fire, is that it?

Thank you again, it really was a great insight.