posted February 14, 2015 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Wow, unbelievable. You have a real gift!

My "easiest" and most "warm" and maybe even the best relationship I've had to date for a few reasons (especially pertaining to the communication bit you mentioned) matches some of what you described in the first paragraph - His Virgo Venus fell in my 12th house conjuncting Ceres AND his Moon conjunct my Neptune. Amazing! He was a Libra Sun though but I think that helped with our communication. We dated long distance for over a year before we got the chance to live in the same city and it was effortless. We ultimately ended things because there was never much passion and because I wanted to move back home to be close to my family, but we still remain friends to this day - no hard feelings whatsoever. The funny thing is, my Moon was completely unaspected in our synastry. I still don't know how this played into it. Maybe no aspects at all is as good as no harsh aspects?

As for the rest, my current boyfriend has a 23 Cancer Sun which conjuncts my Mercury and opposes my Mars. His Taurus Moon trines my Mars falling into my 8th house. His Gemini Venus conjuncts my Sun too! I definitely feel the most passion and intensity in this relationship which I think my last relationship lacked, but the communication part isn't where I'd want it to be. My Mercury is squared by his Mars and Pluto (my Mars is as well) so there is no shortage of heat. It seems to interchangeably be a mix of support and caring with "bad daddy" stern-ness. He also as a person is not as communicative - he is more serious by nature. His Taurus Moon also opposes mine...harsh! That has been interesting.

So it seems to be give and take! I guess if I could roll them both into one man he would be perfect but your take on my chart themes is pretty bang on. I do also have a very dreamy outlook on love and relationships which sometimes helps and hurts!

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Hi! I didn't forget about this.

Thank you. Wow, that described a past partner? Aspects to Ceres can be very sweet in general, but since it's in one of your extra relationship houses, it becomes even more important. Oh, he was a Libra? Aside from good communication, that means that Venus conjunct Ceres also ruled his Sun. Very nice. I think it definitely helped in ending things peacefully. Glad you could still be friends!

I don't know about your Moon, actually. Could be, it's still your Moon - your feelings, so when it's touched, it touches a deep part in you. Did he aspect your IC maybe?

Oh, I can imagine that being passionate. Sun-Mars, then another Mars aspect, even if it's an easier one. I find Taurus can be intense, even if they prefer to keep things stable and easy. Yuck, Pluto-Mercury, that's got to be deep and strike where it hurts. Pluto can be very revealing and it really depends on whether you're in the mood for that. Sounds intense alright!

posted February 15, 2015 09:09 AM              

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Sweet, this is 'me'

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I'm gonna need your natal as well Post it here, it's easier for me to compare.

posted February 15, 2015 09:16 AM              

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Originally posted by Down The Rabbit Hole:
Could someone do mine please? Appreciated!

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Here Sun on the fixed axis is the real deal! Especially in Taurus. Venus nearby. They would fall in your secondary 4th and 5th and this would also ensure for some presence, maybe Mercury, in your interception. A Venus quintile your Mars would be very nice, me thinks, but a sextile is good too. Sun and/or Venus on your Lilith. Moon in Cancer in your 6th would be really nice for you.

Sun an Moon could be reversed. The point is, your ideal partner has his placements around your IC.

His Mars should definitely be in Cancer, on your Vesta. Cap is good too

posted February 15, 2015 09:27 AM              

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Originally posted by wildspirit:
Hello Leeloo

Could you please tell me the ideal partner for this chart? It's a man's chart

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A very specific best Moon for him: in Cap, on his MC. But any cardinal Moon would do.

Mutable Sun with Venus in Taurus on his Mercury or in Scorpio, around his DSC.

There must be something important in his interception, at least one planet or ASC/DSC, MC/IC.

I think an angle there, on his Moon, would be really really nice. It's his IC ruler, and he has Saturn on IC, it would be very nurturing and healing for him.

The best Mars for him: cardinal, especially Libra (indirect connection to his interception), Leo, Aqua.

posted February 15, 2015 09:52 AM              

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Originally posted by page one:
I'm taking the plunge for Val's Day.

It's a tough one, I know.

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Hi, page one good plunge, happy Valentine's day! Actually, your chart is very good for relationships. It's a very complex one, true, but also with clear geometry and open to several possibilities involving your entire geometry.

I'm sure you must prefer people with a Sun Moon and Venus Mars aspect in their chart or with sign/house correspondences to that (ex Sun in 4th or Cancer etc.)

Cardinal Moon. In Libra would be very nice, making a GT with your angles. In Cancer, opp your Moon would be very emotionally healing and spiritual, with Chiron and Neptune. The other 2 sit on your geometry as well. Definitely Cardinal Moon.

I see for you: Sun in mid Taurus in your interception, Venus in Aries on your Sun/Mars or in Gem on your ASC.

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Sun and Venus in Libra (Venus in Scorp also possible). Sun in Cancer with Venus on your NN or Leo, but I prefer the Taurus version myself, for you.

This chart looooves a Sag Mars on your DSC But a Libra Mars is not bad either.

The placements can be substituted for each other or replaced by ASC/DSC, especially Sun Moon Venus.

Does it resonate?

EDIT: I forgot about this one: also the fellow must have something important on your Vertex axis or activate it when you two meet.

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posted February 15, 2015 10:18 AM              

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi, page one good plunge, happy Valentine's day! Actually, your chart is very good for relationships. It's a very complex one, true, but also with clear geometry and open to several possibilities involving your entire geometry.

I'm sure you must prefer people with a Sun Moon and Venus Mars aspect in their chart or with sign/house correspondences to that (ex Sun in 4th or Cancer etc.)

Cardinal Moon. In Libra would be very nice, making a GT with your angles. In Cancer, opp your Moon would be very emotionally healing and spiritual, with Chiron and Neptune. The other 2 sit on your geometry as well. Definitely Cardinal Moon.

I see for you: Sun in mid Taurus in your interception, Venus in Aries on your Sun/Mars or in Gem on your ASC.

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Sun and Venus in Libra (Venus in Scorp also possible). Sun in Cancer with Venus on your NN or Leo, but I prefer the Taurus version myself, for you.

This chart looooves a Sag Mars on your DSC But a Libra Mars is not bad either.

The placements can be substituted for each other or replaced by ASC/DSC, especially Sun Moon Venus.

Does it resonate?

EDIT: I forgot about this one: also the fellow must have something important on your Vertex axis or activate it when you two meet.

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posted February 15, 2015 10:27 AM              

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Originally posted by page one:


Yes, it does, especially about the Vertex, which shows up in all my best relationships, platonic and romantic. You're also right about the strong Mars and Venus and Sun/Moon aspects. So what do I do about my stupid Saturn? Is that partly why you suggested the Sun/Venus in Cancer?

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your stupid Saturn...let me see...
Sometimes it goes unaspected to luminaries, right (I mean major aspects)??
Well, you don;t need that, because your chart is in the category: synastric major Saturn aspects to Venus and/or Mars. And minor aspects from Saturn to luminaries. Some people have a chart preferring Saturn to luminaries, others receive their Saturn energy from Venus or Mars aspects, this is your case. If you look at the geometry I described for you, you will notice those placements in all cases create a rather complex minor aspect geometry with their luminaries/ your Saturn, apart from the Venus or Mars direct aspects (for example, a Venus on your ASC would sq your Saturn, thus replicating a familiar energy for you)

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posted February 15, 2015 02:52 PM              

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:

your stupid Saturn...let me see...
Sometimes it goes unaspected to luminaries, right (I mean major aspects)??
Well, you don;t need that, because your chart is in the category: synastric major Saturn aspects to Venus and/or Mars. And minor aspects from Saturn to luminaries. Some people have a chart preferring Saturn to luminaries, others receive their Saturn energy from Venus or Mars aspects, this is your case. If you look at the geometry I described for you, you will notice those placements in all cases create a rather complex minor aspect geometry with their luminaries/ your Saturn, apart from the Venus or Mars direct aspects (for example, a Venus on your ASC would sq your Saturn, thus replicating a familiar energy for you)

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That's just it, major aspects to my Venus and Juno will harshly aspect my Saturn. It's a grand cross problem, I think. For me, harsh aspects to Saturn don't work, unless they're conjunctions.

posted February 15, 2015 04:37 PM              

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Originally posted by page one:
That's just it, major aspects to my Venus and Juno will harshly aspect my Saturn. It's a grand cross problem, I think. For me, harsh aspects to Saturn don't work, unless they're conjunctions.

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It' strange that you say that, considering you have such a powerful Venus/Saturn T/square, Saturn hard aspects should be familiar territory for you. I think your Saturn might also like something on your vertex. What are the aspects to your Saturn that you experienced as good?

posted February 16, 2015 01:36 AM              

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I'm gonna need your natal as well Post it here, it's easier for me to compare.

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posted February 17, 2015 01:52 AM            

not sure if you read my post from a few weeks back in response to your analysis of my chart but ive been thinking about it lately and wondered if you could expand? here's what i posted:
"oh wow this feels potent to me as it seems to ring true from what i have experienced in my relationships. What part of my chart shows this lesson that needs learning? Very interested to know. Is it the chiron or uranus? I tend to lose myself in relationships, is this what you mean? I recently got out of a rel where i was asleep and not really present in quite a big chunk of it. in fact, for most of it i would imagine. he was a gem sun, cap moon, taurus mars and venus, virgo rising - trying to change me into something i wasn't. we just couldn't see eye to eye or understand each other. i felt like i was walking on eggshells half the time with him.
now its funny what type you suggest would suit me best because i have been thinking of someone who is grounded, adventurous and capable of being independent and free thinking and accepting that within me also. i think in a lot of my rel's i end up going along with them, helping them etc and then because i have lost myself I end up waking up suddenly and feeling jailed and so i end up running in the opposite direction (uranus), abruptly ending things out of the blue. this is what has just happened with this guy. I am now insistent on learning a different way of relating with someone. Is this what you mean by showing them FIRST?"

thank u!

here's the chart again just in case:

posted February 19, 2015 10:27 AM            

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A very specific best Moon for him: in Cap, on his MC. But any cardinal Moon would do.

Thanks a lot LeeLoo! My moon is in a cardinal sign (libra). Does it play a role that it is also in the 10th house of Capricorn?
Mutable Sun with Venus in Taurus on his Mercury or in Scorpio, around his DSC.

I dont have a mutable sun but my asc is in a mutable sign and mercury and mars are in scorpio, instead of venus.

There must be something important in his interception, at least one planet or ASC/DSC, MC/IC.

I think an angle there, on his Moon, would be really really nice. It's his IC ruler, and he has Saturn on IC, it would be very nurturing and healing for him.

I have the ruler of my asc opposite his moon, as well as mercury and mars trine his moon. My asc square his moon, but my asc also conjuncts neptune, so it is like i have also piscean characteristics in my asc. Does that play a role?

The best Mars for him: cardinal, especially Libra (indirect connection to his interception), Leo, Aqua.

My mars is in scorpio but in the 11th house of aquarius.

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posted February 19, 2015 10:48 AM              

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
It' strange that you say that, considering you have such a powerful Venus/Saturn T/square, Saturn hard aspects should be familiar territory for you. I think your Saturn might also like something on your vertex. What are the aspects to your Saturn that you experienced as good?

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Conjunctions.

posted February 26, 2015 03:22 PM            

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Wow first of all thank you so much for taking the time to look at my chart! so incredibly helpful!
Yes the Saturn Mars moon conj totally makes sense with the struggles I have had in my relationships. It's kind of like there's been a block with defining and expressing what I want. But what I want runs so deep inside, I feel so much passion but at times I don't know how to channel it. Someone to help release the brakes would help me so much. I need that Fire in another to bounce off, which is why I thought someone with some Aries/Leo might work well.
When you say you recommend 'something' between 0-4 degrees cap, can you explain what you mean? Still very new to astrology do you mean someone's sun?

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So, it's been way too long, sorry, but I wanted to get back to you anyway.

No problem, I liked looking at your pattern.

Some fire planets trine your Leo planets would give you an easier ride for sure. Yes, I already had that idea that it's about self-expression. Saturn is holding back a lot, but there's a lot of fire underneath I'm sure. You could get it out yourself maybe by doing something artsy?
As for something between 1-4 Cap, well, a personal planet or angle or even a Node would work. If any of his outer planets rule an angle, they would fit, too, like if Uranus rules his DSC (Aquarius DSC/Leo Rising), having Uranus in early Cap on your Neptune would give you a 7th house feel from him.

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Yes absolutely!!! So very true. I just got out of a rel where I didn't feel he could understand me. Actually we struggled to understand each other. I now know that I need someone who gets me and can mentally stimulate me with more depth.

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Haha, I think that's key for people with Gemini placements or a strong 3rd house/Mercury. I'm sorry it felt like he didn't understand you. It can really feel like something's missing if communication isn't strong.

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I tend to idealise guys I am with so not surprised you picked this up. I've always thought this to be a weakness/challenge though that I need to be careful of. I definitely need someone who is compassionate, yet adventurous and a little fiery.

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Ah, no, I wouldn't say that's a weakness. Just something that can go either way - the idealizing, I mean. It can also give you that compassionate partner your Pisces DSC needs. It's just something to pay attention to with a partner. (I have my Venus in the 12th and Mars conjunct ruler of the 12th, so believe me, I know what you're talking about.) Definitely some fire, too, yes.

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Absolutely! Yes this is just what I've been saying recently to a close friend of mine. Someone who thinks outside the box like me and doesn't judge me for it. Which is what I had in the rel that just ended. I'll post our synastry down below so you can see what I mean hopefully

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Do you still want me to look at the synastry? I know it's late, so I wasn't sure if you'd still be interested. And yes, that's probably the best expression of Uranus, someone you can be yourself around. I think that's what they mean with Uranus giving someone freedom and taking down any walls.

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What do you mean exactly by an extended house?
By a certain type, you mean a Leo/Cap? Not too sure about the cap energy. I've experienced a cap moon and I don't think it gels with me much. Haven't come across many Leo's yet but you never know.

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That's a theory from Lotis White, who has a lot of great posts on relationships here. Basically, her idea is to think of the house that the sign on the cusp normally rules (in the natural order of the zodiac), and then check the sign on the cusp on that house on your chart. In your case, you have Cancer as your 8th house sign. Normally, Cancer is linked to the 4th house and IC, so for your chart, you would look at your IC sign, which is Capricorn (with a large part covering Aquarius). They are an extension of your 8th house. Have you ever had a partner with planets in late Capricorn or early/mid-Aquarius?

That's what I've picked up from Lotis' posts at least.

And yes, I mean the signs that keep showing up in your romance pattern. Shame Cap Moons didn't gel with you. Maybe one in the last few degrees of Capricorn would gel better? I suppose if you don't think they match, you can't push it.

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What would be an example of that attraction pattern?

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For his Moon, Venus or romance houses? Having them in Cancer, for isntance, or the ruler of any of his romance houses in the 4th house or conjunct his Moon. I think especially conjunctions to a house ruler really colour what sign attracts someone, so like, if the Aquarius DSC from our example would have his Uranus (ruler) conjunct his Moon or in his 4th house, that would make him look for a nurturing, lunar partner.

posted February 26, 2015 03:41 PM            

A Capricorn / Leo. Reason my 11th house ( true love ) is Aquarius Ruler is Uranus tight conjunct my DSC. And if his ASC falls on my 5th then his DSC ( Aquarius ) would fall on my 11th. Further my Saturn falls conjunct my IC in Cancer ( soul family ) Capricorn and Capricorn would trine my ASC and Venus ( taurus) and Moon in Virgo.

Plus Aries sun and Leo ASC together. ( they play well)
W/ a taurus ASC and Capricorn Sun. They would fit so well. ( taurus loves to shop and Capricorns know how to make the money ) ha ha ha ha !!! Leo's love to buy things and make their ladies shine ( I like presents).

posted February 26, 2015 03:42 PM            

I'd love to know who my ideal partner is (if I have one)

I'll take a chance..

posted February 26, 2015 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by wildspirit:
ello!

I have already got an answer from LeeLoo so i would like to have an answer from you too meissieri please .

This is my chart:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3&btyp=w2gw&;&cid=xnofileKMzRle-u1023562007&nhor =4

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Hi, if you're still interested, I have some ideas for you.

First, you have a pretty tight conjunction of your Sun, Moon and Pluto in Libra, so I would definitely look for aspects to them. I see they're well-aspected, so you'd probably prefer a trine or sextile. Since you also have a Gemini DSC (partners) around the same degree, my choice for you would be Gemini, conjunct your DSC.

Then onto your DSC: it's ruled by Mercury in Scorpio, with only and opposition to Chiron for major aspects. That makes me think you'd also prefer easy aspects to that, so you can have a way to communicate and express your thoughts to someone else. That trine from Gemini I just mentioned would also trine the ruler of your Mercury, Pluto, so that would also feel like someone who gives you a voice. Having the ruler of your DSC in the 11th house also stresses your need for someone intelligent, whom is also a friend to you.

Your 5th house is ruled by your Venus in Virgo in the 9th, with only a square to Mars. Mars and the 9th house suggest you're also looking for a fiery partner, possibly with a planet conjunct your Neptune and ASC in Sagittarius. Since your Venus only gets a harsh aspect, I think you wouldn't be too bothered by those squares from Sagittarius and Gemini.

Then your 8th house, Cancer, is ruled by your Moon in Libra in your 10th house. Here it gets a bit more complex, though, as your Moon is conjunct your Sun and Pluto. Aside from Libra and Cap (the 10th house influence), you could also get a lot of nurturing from a partner with planets in Leo and/or Scorpio, or who have a very prominent Sun and/or Pluto. Or planets in your 5th and 8th house. For Leo, I recommend planets around the same degree as your ASC and Neptune, which would make a nice trine. The Gemini could sextile. For Scorpio, I think a conjunction to your Mars would be intense and inspire you to be assertive and driven. It could oppose your Chiron in Taurus, so they may open up some old wounds in you, or give you a sense of "I've been there", which is very comforting.

With your Mars conjunct Uranus, you're again looking for someone with their own style and who is a friend to you, as well as a partner.

With your Neptune as a singleton (your only planet in a fire sign), you probably come across as very sensitive, compassionate and artistic, especially as you have it on your ASC. This makes me lean even more towards Scorpio, which is also a water sign and would understand you.
This gets even stronger when I look at your extended romance houses (see my reply to EmGem for what they mean - or even better, Lotus White's posts here). Gemini is linked to the 3rd house, which, in your chart, is Pisces, matching with your Neptune singleton. Planets here square your ASC, DSC or Neptune would definitely leave an impression on you.
Then your 5th house sign, Taurus, makes me look at your 2nd house. You have Capricorn here with a large part of the house being Aquarius. Since I've already seen Aqua pop up before, I think they would affect you a lot as well, maybe more than Capricorn.
Then finally your Cancer 8th house makes me look at your IC, which is Aries. Another fire sign - which doesn't surprise me, as you have that singleton in Sagittarius and Venus in the 9th. Maybe a Grand Trine from their Leo and Aries planets to your Neptune in Sagittarius?

Again, I'm way too late and I'm sorry. Still wanted to share this anyway.

posted February 26, 2015 03:47 PM            

You just had a new moon on your DSC.
ANC the new solar eclipse new moon will be on your Venus in Pisces on March 20 you should expect A new love coming soon possibly. It also would depend on progressions and transits But it looks pretty good so far.
You should throw in some love asteroids as well. And post your sun/ moon midpoint.

If you choose to post progressions.

posted February 26, 2015 03:52 PM            

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Hi! I didn't forget about this.

Thank you. Wow, that described a past partner? Aspects to Ceres can be very sweet in general, but since it's in one of your extra relationship houses, it becomes even more important. Oh, he was a Libra? Aside from good communication, that means that Venus conjunct Ceres also ruled his Sun. Very nice. I think it definitely helped in ending things peacefully. Glad you could still be friends!

I don't know about your Moon, actually. Could be, it's still your Moon - your feelings, so when it's touched, it touches a deep part in you. Did he aspect your IC maybe?

Oh, I can imagine that being passionate. Sun-Mars, then another Mars aspect, even if it's an easier one. I find Taurus can be intense, even if they prefer to keep things stable and easy. Yuck, Pluto-Mercury, that's got to be deep and strike where it hurts. Pluto can be very revealing and it really depends on whether you're in the mood for that. Sounds intense alright!

Hmm, any Saturn aspects for that sternness?

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In the past relationship, his Saturn/Uranus conjunction was nearly conjunct my IC. Doesn't seem like the most pleasant combination so I'm not sure if that came into play.

In my current relationship, we only have minor Saturn contact in synastry - major in composite. I blame all the Mars & Pluto contacts, plus his Saturn falls in my 1st house and I've read this may contribute to my feeling of him "bearing down" on my sense of self - but in a growth kind of way, not a run-me-into-the-ground kind of way.

posted February 26, 2015 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by vesta:
Baby bull,

You just had a new moon on your DSC.
ANC the new solar eclipse new moon will be on your Venus in Pisces on March 20 you should expect A new love coming soon possibly. It also would depend on progressions and transits But it looks pretty good so far.
You should throw in some love asteroids as well. And post your sun/ moon midpoint.

If you choose to post progressions.

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Wow thank you for the fast reply! I've always been confused about how to bring up sun and moon midpoints though?

posted February 26, 2015 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Wow thank you for the fast reply! I've always been confused about how to bring up sun and moon midpoints though?

Also which asteroids would you recommend? See I want to be excited about the prospect of new love..but as of the last 2 yrs all of my "new loves" have been short 2 month flings. I'm getting tired of that. But I honestly think it's a karma thing because karma is currently transiting my 7th house. So yea, I must have done some really bad things romantically in a past life or something..

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