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Topic: What is your ideal partner?
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babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 961 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted February 26, 2015 04:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by vesta: It looks like you have been working through the karmic relationships and possibly soon you may find true love. I would have to look closer. I honestly don't have time right now I have many thing in my life. But keep an eye out. Also look to Eros/ psyche midpoint as well. Mars and the sun act as the trigger. So when transit mars comes around either sun or 11th you may have something unexpected in love.n
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1122 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 01, 2015 12:34 AM
Bump. quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Hi all. Here's my (male) chart. Thanks for your insights.
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posted March 01, 2015 02:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by zirr1: [img]i.imgur.com/nLPfIO5.jpg[/img] 
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posted March 01, 2015 02:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite:
Sorry for being a bit late with the answer  from your progressions I can see a contact around your Moon will become increasingly important, and most likely something in early Taurus which is in fact in tune with your Sag 5th house and the rest of your geometry. The progressed profile is only added to the natal, it most likely has a predictive value, it shows that area, that hot spot in your natal is supposed to be "filled" during the said progression. It is like a Moon cycle. ------------------
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posted March 01, 2015 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by comdoc:
Hi, comdoc  I see a princess here who has all her personal planets (Sun Moon Venus Mars) on your geometry, which means a lot of Sag, but Leo, Gem and Aries too; however, she will have at least 2-3 of those in Sag. ------------------
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posted March 01, 2015 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: calling out to Leeloo  not sure if you read my post from a few weeks back in response to your analysis of my chart but ive been thinking about it lately and wondered if you could expand? here's what i posted: "oh wow this feels potent to me as it seems to ring true from what i have experienced in my relationships. What part of my chart shows this lesson that needs learning? Very interested to know. Is it the chiron or uranus? I tend to lose myself in relationships, is this what you mean? I recently got out of a rel where i was asleep and not really present in quite a big chunk of it. in fact, for most of it i would imagine. he was a gem sun, cap moon, taurus mars and venus, virgo rising - trying to change me into something i wasn't. we just couldn't see eye to eye or understand each other. i felt like i was walking on eggshells half the time with him. now its funny what type you suggest would suit me best because i have been thinking of someone who is grounded, adventurous and capable of being independent and free thinking and accepting that within me also. i think in a lot of my rel's i end up going along with them, helping them etc and then because i have lost myself I end up waking up suddenly and feeling jailed and so i end up running in the opposite direction (uranus), abruptly ending things out of the blue. this is what has just happened with this guy. I am now insistent on learning a different way of relating with someone. Is this what you mean by showing them FIRST?" thank u!  here's the chart again just in case: ]
Several parts in your chart led me to the idea of this lesson, it's an entire analysis  Yes, I think it is important to give first what you expect to receive, in the context of your chart. This will considerably improve your relational life.
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posted March 01, 2015 03:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by vesta: My perfect ideal. A Capricorn / Leo. Reason my 11th house ( true love ) is Aquarius Ruler is Uranus tight conjunct my DSC. And if his ASC falls on my 5th then his DSC ( Aquarius ) would fall on my 11th. Further my Saturn falls conjunct my IC in Cancer ( soul family ) Capricorn and Capricorn would trine my ASC and Venus ( taurus) and Moon in Virgo. Plus Aries sun and Leo ASC together. ( they play well) W/ a taurus ASC and Capricorn Sun. They would fit so well. ( taurus loves to shop and Capricorns know how to make the money ) ha ha ha ha !!! Leo's love to buy things and make their ladies shine ( I like presents).
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1122 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 01:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Hi, comdoc  I see a princess here who has all her personal planets (Sun Moon Venus Mars) on your geometry, which means a lot of Sag, but Leo, Gem and Aries too; however, she will have at least 2-3 of those in Sag.
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 02, 2015 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by comdoc: Thanks, LL. Much appreciated. 
OH! Now I get it. You were asking for an 'ideal partner' reading, which was a specific reading request. Got it. BTW: She's Lee, or LeeLoo. We're collectively 'LL'. (And so are you!)  IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 02, 2015 02:39 PM
Well, hell, guys. You know my story. So, why the heck not? I've got my own thoughts on this one, obviously, but I'm intrigued by yours. So, whaddaya say, guys? IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1122 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 02, 2015 04:53 PM
OK, LeeLoo. Per your specs, here we are. She's on the inner wheel. I love the Mystic Rectangle and Grand Trine! IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1472 From: the sky Registered: Jul 2014
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posted March 02, 2015 05:38 PM
What a busy thread ! I think I got skipped  quote: Originally posted by Peluches:
I do have someone in mind already, but this is just out of curiosity. I would love to hear your thoughts, LeeLoo, meissieri or anyone else. Thank you !  IP: Logged |
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posted March 03, 2015 12:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Sorry for being a bit late with the answer  from your progressions I can see a contact around your Moon will become increasingly important, and most likely something in early Taurus which is in fact in tune with your Sag 5th house and the rest of your geometry. The progressed profile is only added to the natal, it most likely has a predictive value, it shows that area, that hot spot in your natal is supposed to be "filled" during the said progression. It is like a Moon cycle.
Oo interesting, thank you. The one I am seeing is a Cap with an early Scorpio moon, 2º. but I have had many 'things' with Taurus moons in the past 5 years.. dunno if that timing is relevant though.
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wildspirit Newflake Posts: 20 From: Registered: Nov 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 04:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by meissieri: Hi, if you're still interested, I have some ideas for you. First, you have a pretty tight conjunction of your Sun, Moon and Pluto in Libra, so I would definitely look for aspects to them. I see they're well-aspected, so you'd probably prefer a trine or sextile. Since you also have a Gemini DSC (partners) around the same degree, my choice for you would be Gemini, conjunct your DSC. Then onto your DSC: it's ruled by Mercury in Scorpio, with only and opposition to Chiron for major aspects. That makes me think you'd also prefer easy aspects to that, so you can have a way to communicate and express your thoughts to someone else. That trine from Gemini I just mentioned would also trine the ruler of your Mercury, Pluto, so that would also feel like someone who gives you a voice. Having the ruler of your DSC in the 11th house also stresses your need for someone intelligent, whom is also a friend to you. Your 5th house is ruled by your Venus in Virgo in the 9th, with only a square to Mars. Mars and the 9th house suggest you're also looking for a fiery partner, possibly with a planet conjunct your Neptune and ASC in Sagittarius. Since your Venus only gets a harsh aspect, I think you wouldn't be too bothered by those squares from Sagittarius and Gemini. Then your 8th house, Cancer, is ruled by your Moon in Libra in your 10th house. Here it gets a bit more complex, though, as your Moon is conjunct your Sun and Pluto. Aside from Libra and Cap (the 10th house influence), you could also get a lot of nurturing from a partner with planets in Leo and/or Scorpio, or who have a very prominent Sun and/or Pluto. Or planets in your 5th and 8th house. For Leo, I recommend planets around the same degree as your ASC and Neptune, which would make a nice trine. The Gemini could sextile. For Scorpio, I think a conjunction to your Mars would be intense and inspire you to be assertive and driven. It could oppose your Chiron in Taurus, so they may open up some old wounds in you, or give you a sense of "I've been there", which is very comforting. With your Mars conjunct Uranus, you're again looking for someone with their own style and who is a friend to you, as well as a partner. With your Neptune as a singleton (your only planet in a fire sign), you probably come across as very sensitive, compassionate and artistic, especially as you have it on your ASC. This makes me lean even more towards Scorpio, which is also a water sign and would understand you. This gets even stronger when I look at your extended romance houses (see my reply to EmGem for what they mean - or even better, Lotus White's posts here). Gemini is linked to the 3rd house, which, in your chart, is Pisces, matching with your Neptune singleton. Planets here square your ASC, DSC or Neptune would definitely leave an impression on you. Then your 5th house sign, Taurus, makes me look at your 2nd house. You have Capricorn here with a large part of the house being Aquarius. Since I've already seen Aqua pop up before, I think they would affect you a lot as well, maybe more than Capricorn. Then finally your Cancer 8th house makes me look at your IC, which is Aries. Another fire sign - which doesn't surprise me, as you have that singleton in Sagittarius and Venus in the 9th. Maybe a Grand Trine from their Leo and Aries planets to your Neptune in Sagittarius? Again, I'm way too late and I'm sorry. Still wanted to share this anyway. 
Meissieri wow! Thanks a lot for the detailed analysis! You have many good pints about what I would like in a partner like intelligence, understanding of my feelings and, for him to be a friend. My fiancé does have planets in my 5th and 8th houses, a pisces moon, planets trining my mercury, ruler of my DSC, and venus in aries, also trining my ASC and Neptune. He doesn't have any planets though to either trine, conjunct or sextile my sun/moon/pluto conjunction. His venus in aries opposes my sun/moon/pluto conjunction. He doesn't have any planet in Gemini but he has mars in 3d house of Gemini and mercury in 1st house. He also has sun conjunct ASC instead of leo. He also has scorpio DSC and mars in cancer. He has Capricorn MC and he is a Taurus by the way. What do you think of these placements? Thanks again!  IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 04:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: Oo interesting, thank you. The one I am seeing is a Cap with an early Scorpio moon, 2º. but I have had many 'things' with Taurus moons in the past 5 years.. dunno if that timing is relevant though.
He's a Karmic Partner, too, Selenite. There's a very clear debt to pay, and the relationship will continue until it's paid, unless other factors persist. (In your case, they don't, as everything is SO karmic.) So it doesn't really vibe with the whole 'ideal' versus otherwise. They rarely carry lifetime value. Sometimes, but very rarely. They come to us with strong hits to our PEs, ignite our NODES, and are heavily configured with our karmic points, as well as 12H/8H overlays. It's much less to do with 'compatibility' as it is purpose. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 04:46 AM
Oh! And Selenite, you've GOT to throw in NABOKOV. (7232). I'd be so stunned if there aren't hits. IP: Logged |
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posted March 03, 2015 09:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: He's a Karmic Partner, too, Selenite. There's a very clear debt to pay, and the relationship will continue until it's paid, unless other factors persist. (In your case, they don't, as everything is SO karmic.) So it doesn't really vibe with the whole 'ideal' versus otherwise. They rarely carry lifetime value. Sometimes, but very rarely. They come to us with strong hits to our PEs, ignite our NODES, and are heavily configured with our karmic points, as well as 12H/8H overlays. It's much less to do with 'compatibility' as it is purpose.
Ahh, I see. Yes yes, it's all karma I just prefer to ignore that part. Lol. Aubyanne I love how you seem to be looking out for me You are not letting my BS slide.. And that's good. Haha  I've just never had an actual loving relationship like this before. *cue the violins* (What is a PE?) IP: Logged |
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posted March 03, 2015 09:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Oh! And Selenite, you've GOT to throw in NABOKOV. (7232). I'd be so stunned if there aren't hits.
Ok, I'm so curious! Never heard of NABOKOV. In synastry: We both have it in each other's 12H. (Mine is 1º opposite my own moon...) His is square my moon 3º, trine my Jupiter 0º In composite, Mars is conj. NABOKOV 1º in the 12th. But in draco, his NABOKOV is conjunct my Sun and Mercury 1º, square my Chiron 3º My NABOKOV square his Saturn 3º (We have a lot of Chiron/Saturn in general.. Indeed we have said that we were each others' healers.)
In draco composite (if relevant?) NABOKOV is again in the 12th, conjunct Mars 2º. Saturn is also in 0º Libra which is the general draco SN.. And The AC, Aura, and anti-vertex are on my natal moon. --- On a side note.. our draconic Atlantis-es are exactly opposite each others, mine is conjunct my natal Amor, and my draco Atlantis is on his draco vertex. His draco Atlantis is on his draco Tisiphone too, 1º. My draco BML is 2º conj his dAtlantis. His draco BML is conj. my dSedna. My dSedna is conj. his dMercury 2º. His dSedna is square my dSedna 0º. His dAtlantis is square my dAC 0º. In non-draco, his Sedna is on my moon 2º, my Sedna is on my SN 2º. My Atlantis is on his Neptune 2º. His Atlantis is widely on my Sun 5º. He told me he thought we met in a past life and that he was a sailor and I was a mermaid, or it had something to do with water. Haha  Eep, I could dig into this forever.
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Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 01:49 PM
NABOKOV, according to a few astrologers, (such as Mark Holmes) http://markandrewholmes.com/nabokov.html) the keywords are 'forbidden fruit' and 'ill-gotten gains'. Guilty pleasures. Things we really shouldn't be doing -- but we're doing them anyway. Temptations, and seductions, and any manner of 'it feels so good to be bad' sorts of thing. I'm going to wager this is heavily configured in relationships with significant age gaps and stark generational differences, BDSM and kink, illegitimate (and maybe even legitimate?) affairs, and other such 'forbidden fruit' associations. Holmes argues it's not necessarily of a sexual nature, but I think it could be inherent. He warns: 'There is a Nabokov in everyone, and he is always trying to get you to someplace where you shouldn't be, by a road you shouldn't be taking; your destination, however, is often Hell on earth. So you need to watch him closely.' I'm currently fascinated by this point, and am trying to understand its function, karmically, as well as presently, speaking. How it operates in synastry, as well as the natal. IP: Logged |
magpie Knowflake Posts: 98 From: USA Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 03:18 PM
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posted March 03, 2015 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: NABOKOV, according to a few astrologers, (such as Mark Holmes) http://markandrewholmes.com/nabokov.html) the keywords are 'forbidden fruit' and 'ill-gotten gains'. Guilty pleasures. Things we really shouldn't be doing -- but we're doing them anyway. Temptations, and seductions, and any manner of 'it feels so good to be bad' sorts of thing. I'm going to wager this is heavily configured in relationships with significant age gaps and stark generational differences, BDSM and kink, illegitimate (and maybe even legitimate?) affairs, and other such 'forbidden fruit' associations. Holmes argues it's not necessarily of a sexual nature, but I think it could be inherent. He warns: 'There is a Nabokov in everyone, and he is always trying to get you to someplace where you shouldn't be, by a road you shouldn't be taking; your destination, however, is often Hell on earth. So you need to watch him closely.' I'm currently fascinated by this point, and am trying to understand its function, karmically, as well as presently, speaking. How it operates in synastry, as well as the natal.
Aw, but I don't think it's actually 'bad' or wrong, or else I wouldn't be doing it. I just love being with him. Makes sense that I would have Nabokov opposite my moon though. I do things I know I shouldn't be doing all the time. (Because they're not good for me- not things I think are wrong! Lol) But this my friend is not one of those things It doesn't 'feel' like anything except two people who are together, ya know? The age thing is more of an 'oh yeah, that's odd' kind of afterthought. Not an 'oh YEAH, I just love being bad!' thing. IP: Logged |
Southern Sun Knowflake Posts: 273 From: Tampa, FL Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 04:32 PM
Okay, I'll take the plunge because why not  Backstory on this chart: this is a fellow who I've known from high school. He's got a lot of girls buzzing around but none of them are even in the realm of girlfriend material. Maybe he's waiting for someone special? He is dearer to me than anyone else I've met, and I feel like there's some inner love turmoil going on here.
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comdoc Knowflake Posts: 1122 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 03, 2015 06:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: Well, hell, guys. You know [b]my story. So, why the heck not? I've got my own thoughts on this one, obviously, but I'm intrigued by yours. So, whaddaya say, guys?[/B]
Hi Aubyanne. About 10 year age gap, and VIRGO seems to work well for you. Virgo Sun, Mars, Mercury and Moon in older prospect. Virgo Sun, Mars, Mercury, and Cancer Moon + Venus in younger guy. The best birthdates I could find for you are 9/1/70 Taurus Asc or 9/2/70 with Virgo Asc. 9/3/72 with Taurus or Virgo Asc. Please check them out, tell me what you think, and post charts if any of these ring your bells. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 06:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: Aw, but I don't think it's actually 'bad' or wrong, or else I wouldn't be doing it. I just love being with him. Makes sense that I would have Nabokov opposite my moon though. I do things I know I shouldn't be doing all the time. (Because they're not good for me- not things I think are wrong! Lol) But this my friend is not one of those things It doesn't 'feel' like anything except two people who are together, ya know? The age thing is more of an 'oh yeah, that's odd' kind of afterthought. Not an 'oh YEAH, I just love being bad!' thing.
Well, it doesn't seem that heavily configured between you two, except to perhaps belie the age difference. I wonder if, when natal, it denotes that one would even be willing to consider a relationship with an age difference. As well as one that's inherently taboo, or considered 'unwise'. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6756 From: The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 03, 2015 06:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Southern Sun: Okay, I'll take the plunge because why not  Backstory on this chart: this is a fellow who I've known from high school. He's got a lot of girls buzzing around but none of them are even in the realm of girlfriend material. Maybe he's waiting for someone special? He is dearer to me than anyone else I've met, and I feel like there's some inner love turmoil going on here.
Exact SUN-PLUTO conjunction with 1º to MERCURY, trine CHIRON and MOON? Ohhh, there's DEFINITELY some of that! IP: Logged | |