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Topic: What is your ideal partner?
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Faith
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posted September 15, 2015 10:16 PM
  
I've wanted to do this forever...What do you think, Lee?  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted September 15, 2015 11:08 PM
This is an amazing idea... so good to look at ourselves as individuals, what our needs are, before/along with comparing to others, something I struggle with at times.. my passion for astrology was ignited and has been sustained by relationship astrology but it's so fulfilling to move away from synastry and composites and into natals... I'm backwards but it really feels good to do natals, less addictive. Always basing my opinion of myself on how I relate to others... Probably that's reflected in my chart... The Venus and BML in Libra I guess, in part--because in other ways I'm super happy alone and fulfilled and self reliant emotionally/spiritually etc... I noticed the other day my Juno is conjunct my mother's Sun... explains so much about my relationship patterns. Anyway, if anybody wants to give me any advice or has insights into the type I need/might click with, go nuts!  ! I am really curious what your opinions about my 10th house are... But actually don't let me affect the way you see it, everything is important..  IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2015 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by IntuitiveJ:
[B] Found this from quite a while ago  Posting the chart of my partner of 11 months ...thinking he doesn't really fit my ideal! EEK!
IJ, despite no Aries, he does touch important points for you. Mutable Mars on the same degree. And that Venus/NN close to your 24 Cap hotspot. ------------------
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 16, 2015 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
This is an amazing idea... so good to look at ourselves as individuals, what our needs are, before/along with comparing to others, something I struggle with at times.. my passion for astrology was ignited and has been sustained by relationship astrology but it's so fulfilling to move away from synastry and composites and into natals... I'm backwards but it really feels good to do natals, less addictive. Always basing my opinion of myself on how I relate to others... Probably that's reflected in my chart... The Venus and BML in Libra I guess, in part--because in other ways I'm super happy alone and fulfilled and self reliant emotionally/spiritually etc... I noticed the other day my Juno is conjunct my mother's Sun... explains so much about my relationship patterns. Anyway, if anybody wants to give me any advice or has insights into the type I need/might click with, go nuts! ! I am really curious what your opinions about my 10th house are... But actually don't let me affect the way you see it, everything is important..
I need a standard chart, no aspect lines to all please 
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 16, 2015 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Here is my chart just in case (didn't add it to the post because I can't see it on the thread yet)
Cardinal Moon, particularly Cancer and Libra. Sun in Cancer is spot on, but also a Sun on your Moon Wedge. Venus is quite flexible:
Gem
Libra
Aqua
Sag So a Cancer Sun with Gem Venus already suggested strongly.
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posted September 16, 2015 12:46 PM
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
LeeLoo2014: If you're still collecting yods, both of my parents have yods as well. We're one big ol' yod family. I am female. Thank you!
Yod family! 
Please contact me at my email on my website. Wow! so much on your Earth Water Kite for you: Mars and Moon in particular. In any of those 4 points. Taurus would be nice. Then Venus Mars and Sun can happen around any mutable 4 degree, but also on your Yod. Wow! that is an impressive surprising out of the blue Yod! ------------------
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posted September 16, 2015 12:50 PM
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Originally posted by Husite:
Hey, me too, me tooo!! What kind of man I should be shooting this red yod laser of mine?!
Yod bearers! can you contact me too? if you're interested in taking part in a Yod research Cardinal Aries Libra Moon.
Cardinal Sun all around. Fire and Air Venus and Mars around 5 deg. but also in Cancer. ------------------
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posted September 16, 2015 01:08 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I've wanted to do this forever...What do you think, Lee?
Nice chart!  The principle is that there are geometric pattern completion hotspots. They can be filled by a standard yin/yang combination, but also by alternatives: Moon for Venus, Mars for Sun, Venus for Mars, Sun for Moon, ASC for any of those; Juno, a love ruler. Your hotspots are....many of them covered by...."drums" yourself!!!
just kidding! but this is indeed an harmonious personal chart where the partner already comes on filled structures (mostly) so the hotspots: around 15 Virgo: especially for the Sun, this is like the ideal ideal ideal partner especially if he has a Sun/Moon aspect and Venus/Mars himself, especially if this aspect is a sextile to Moon in Cancer, a top position too 15 Cancer - particularly for the Moon. But saturn too. And viceversa, Cancer Sun and Virgo Moon. For Venus, Mars flexible as in anywhere on your MR (and also similar degree of Leo or Aqua); and Virgo 15, either Venus or Mars. Another interesting Mars for you is a Gem Mars around 10.
Very symmetrical chart. Now if we take this Virgo Sun, really ideal for you, we can see it's most likely, perfect profile is:
Sun around 15-18 Virgo
Venus would be around 8 Libra, in your Pluto, but also catching your MR and your Venus Saturn trine and your Mercury.
Moon in Cancer or the other options.
You have your very own double Butterfly, good for you girl, you are so complete within yourself 
You can pick the favorite Mars yourself, but I would give him a Sun/Mars in Virgo or Venus/Mars conj in Libra Mid degree people in general touch a lot for you.
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mattva
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posted September 16, 2015 02:02 PM
Thanks for this!  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 16, 2015 02:28 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
t likely, perfect profile is:
Sun around 15-18 Virgo
Venus would be around 8 Libra,
Moon in Cancer or the other options.
or Venus/Mars conj in Libra
oh my poor Faithie.  My heart is bleeding for you, you didn`t want to read THIS black on white, I guess?
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Well Leeloo,
my friend`s husband almost shares FAith`s birthday, except his Moon is on 15 Aquarius and his ASC on 9 Capricorn.
However what you wrote there, it fits my friend`s chart mostly, his wife obviously.
Sun on 18 Virgo (widely quinkunx Moon) Venus conjunct Mars and Pluto on 11 Libra exact (and Mercury on 7 Libra)
She does not have Moon in Cancer, however her Moon is on 15 Aries; her ASC on 11 Cancer.
So yes, I think this is a confirmation, this is actually a fit (they have been together for 15 years now at least)
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posted September 16, 2015 02:47 PM
Oops 
I remembered about the Sun, but the rest too?IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 16, 2015 02:50 PM
At least the Venus-Mars in Libra, yes, I think so. IP: Logged |
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posted September 16, 2015 02:56 PM
just reminded me of this song, and YES I TOTALLY had to post this cover version. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9DeZeJRgNQ IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted September 16, 2015 03:01 PM
Then maybe I should delete this before Faith arrives  Faith, this is a very new method, I haven't tested it yet, it's bollocks  IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted September 16, 2015 03:02 PM
Look at those three hotties Your esthetical sense is quite keen, Ceri hahaIP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted September 16, 2015 03:04 PM
How about mine?  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 16, 2015 03:06 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Look at those three hotties Your esthetical sense is quite keen, Ceri haha
haha, and on the last concert the other one at the guitar felt the need to inform the (mainly female) audience that he is being single.
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 16, 2015 04:19 PM
Dear LeeLoo,Could you analyse my chart too please? I was actually going to ask you what you think my ideal mate is on the other thread (when you mentioned the guy's ideal type, the one with tight composite) but didn't want to overload you with questions. So imagine my joy when I noticed today that there's actually a thread for this  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted September 16, 2015 06:47 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Cardinal Moon, particularly Cancer and Libra.Sun in Cancer is spot on, but also a Sun on your Moon Wedge. Venus is quite flexible:
Gem
Libra
Aqua
Sag So a Cancer Sun with Gem Venus already suggested strongly.
LOL my boss that I was obsessed with (he recently quit) had this!!! Cancer Sun, Sag Moon and Venus in Gemini. Mars in Pisces.... Liiiiiiaaarrr! And passive, UGH, I was physically into him but beyond that NO!! 😅😅😅😅 it's still so funny that's what you found! I tend to gravitate towards Cap/ Sag/ Scorpio people. I DO like Venus in Sag and Aquarius though, but Venus in Aquarius tends to stick better to me, dunno why. Can't stand Libra either I appreciate your analysis / skills 😊 thank you Lee! ETA: Just remembered my best friend in high school and a few years after was a Cancer Sun/Moon with Mercury in Leo and Venus in Gemini. We did go really well together! He used to wish I was a guy all the time, lol. IP: Logged |
RoseLily
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posted September 16, 2015 07:45 PM
As someone else said:
I wanted to do this since forever!!
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Faith
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posted September 17, 2015 08:23 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Nice chart!
Thanks! Sorry it was so small...should have posted a bigger one with visible degrees. Thank you for the reading!! <3 quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
The principle is that there are geometric pattern completion hotspots. They can be filled by a standard yin/yang combination, but also by alternatives: Moon for Venus, Mars for Sun, Venus for Mars, Sun for Moon, ASC for any of those; Juno, a love ruler.
Hmm, I think I understand...it's not just turning your t-squares into grand crosses with synastry, but making sure the planets are as balanced as possible. quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
...but this is indeed an harmonious personal chart where the partner already comes on filled structures (mostly)
Yes! I think that's why I suck at relationships...LOL...Too much my own person. quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Now if we take this Virgo Sun, really ideal for you, we can see it's most likely, perfect profile is:
Sun around 15-18 Virgo
Venus would be around 8 Libra, in your Pluto, but also catching your MR and your Venus Saturn trine and your Mercury.
*Nods* It all makes sense. =) But...what's an MR? Mars? quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You have your very own double Butterfly, good for you girl, you are so complete within yourself
Ugh I can't see it! Need to research. quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You can pick the favorite Mars yourself, but I would give him a Sun/Mars in Virgo or Venus/Mars conj in Libra
ROTFL...as Ceri was saying...my ex-soulmate is a Virgo sun, Taurus moon, Venus conjunct Mars and Pluto in Libra. My husband may have had all that you describe in his progressed chart when I married him...I'll check when I have more time. But I know his pr sun was at 17 Virgo. ETA: Actually couldn't resist checking. He had pr Jupiter at 6 Libra, pr Venus at 26 Libra conjunct my IC, pr Mars 21 Virgo. quote:
Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Mid degree people in general touch a lot for you.
Yes yes! And I really feel it. Especially mid-degree suns. Thank you so much Lee!! =) IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted September 17, 2015 08:30 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
just reminded me of this song, and YES I TOTALLY had to post this cover version. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9DeZeJRgNQ
Thanks Ceri! Great song...the cover artist is impressive, too! Actually Lee did not name my ex precisely...she actually confirmed he was not quite right for me, since his sun is around 20 Virgo (out of her range) and his Mars-Venus at 12-13 Libra (again out of range.) Whew! Glad I moved away from that non-ideal guy... IP: Logged |
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posted September 17, 2015 08:53 AM
OMG  so it's true!Pfeww thank god he was so off MR is your Mystic Rectangle, sorry for the abbreviation. The Butterflies are interconnected between Mars Jupiter Moon Sun Venus Pluto, they are sextile/square butterflies, there is actually an additional one with ASC (but I usually don't include angles in those, unless it is happening on the other side too; or maybe there's one with DSC too, but with a trine?) Anyway, this is to be expected with such a symmetrical chart.
When we have a structure in there, we usually don't want to disrupt it; for example, we like to see placements ON someone's Mystic rectangle rather than disrupting it. For that someone already has a mission or a complete feature in that geometry and the other should support it, not disrupt it. Actually, people with complete or almost complete strong geometry are very good partners. They already carry the "other" inside and they are generally balanced, relational individuals. This is even more obvious in your chart, since you carry both Yin/Yang archetypes already. But what are your hubby's placements? I am curious what he is doing to you I mean your chart of course ------------------
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posted September 17, 2015 09:24 AM
On the other hand, I have to say it seriously now, it's kinda of über depressing to see someone actually meeting their ideal partner in such a great extent and not be with them. I am not trying to open or stir any wounds here but I wonder what could have happened in that synastry, something must have been very off? I think I saw it briefly one time, some time ago, but I don't remember it, I remember he had many of my placements, including my exact Sun. Astrologically speaking, did you solve this puzzle? but if you don't want, we don't have to discuss only if it's good for you.------------------
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IntuitiveJ
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posted September 17, 2015 10:07 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
IJ, despite no Aries, he does touch important points for you. Mutable Mars on the same degree. And that Venus/NN close to your 24 Cap hotspot.
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