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Topic: Have you ever had Mars conjunct Venus synastry and NOT felt it?
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted June 13, 2014 04:46 PM
  
You can't have chemistry with everyone. If you don't feel what you want to feel, go for friendship or move on. He's not the only man on this planet.------------------
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Gabby
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posted June 13, 2014 05:03 PM
I'd be somewhat surprised with Venus/Mars if there's no chemistry at all. There's plenty of guys I'm fond, they are friends..I don't go out on dates with those guys though.I'm wondering if perhaps I'm not used to ppl conjuncting my AC, usually it's me conjuncting others angles. Maybe it takes time or feels different when your the angle person. But I 'm not sure because I'm rarely the angle person. I'm going to see if it changed or grows... It always seems the angle person is slower to feel the deeper things, the planet person(like I usually am) seems to fall quicker, or maybe that's just my libra Venus? Idk
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IndigoDirae
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posted June 14, 2014 02:56 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
That's interesting, Lotis, about the Vertex. Is it something you noticed statistically or does it come with an explanation: Vertex and attraction?Also, what about the 1st house? Apparently that one is a strong attraction house as well. And more generally placements around the ASC.
I noticed the same when I did my VERTICES research back in the '90s. It's quite a 'switch'. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger
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posted June 28, 2014 12:25 AM
Most people are gonna attack me for this, but planetary aspects are overrated. ALL OF THEM. House placements, and knowing the exact time of birth for both parties is truly most important..IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted June 28, 2014 01:36 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
That's interesting, Lotis, about the Vertex. Is it something you noticed statistically or does it come with an explanation: Vertex and attraction?Also, what about the 1st house? Apparently that one is a strong attraction house as well. And more generally placements around the ASC.
i think the first house is definitely an attraction house! Especially around the ASC. At least it is for me. This could be due to the fact that anything near my ASC forms a grand trine with my Aries Venus and Sag Saturn, my moon's rulers... it would also oppose my Valentine in Aquarius which sits about 2 degrees from my DSC in my 7h... It could also be due to my 5h Saturn, Vertex, Juno, Mars(Venus' ruler), and Uranus(7/8h ruler) that I have this obnoxious desire for any and all things Leo. One thing I know for sure is that any synastry overlay in my 1st (within the first decan of Leo) leaves me smitten. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted June 28, 2014 07:00 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
i think the first house is definitely an attraction house! Especially around the ASC. At least it is for me. This could be due to the fact that anything near my ASC forms a grand trine with my Aries Venus and Sag Saturn, my moon's rulers... it would also oppose my Valentine in Aquarius which sits about 2 degrees from my DSC in my 7h...It could also be due to my 5h Saturn, Vertex, Juno, Mars(Venus' ruler), and Uranus(7/8h ruler) that I have this obnoxious desire for any and all things Leo. One thing I know for sure is that any synastry overlay in my 1st (within the first decan of Leo) leaves me smitten.
I think it makes sense. It is the house of the body (together with the 2nd) and our first layer of personality and the way we approach life in a direct manner, the way we move forward (like the prow of the ship - I hope it's the right English term). Conjunct the ASC is like conjuncting someone-s Mars: direct, exciting, attractive, sometimes inflaming, irritating. Mars is also connected to the body. I'm guessing also 1st house overlays (and any angular house) but here especially, there a sense of moving forward together, of our basic personality being accepted and cherished. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 07, 2015 04:34 PM
So, how do you do a transit synastry chart? Like if I wanted to know what was going on the first day he sort of cheeped his attraction and asked "if I felt it too"?IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted June 07, 2023 03:00 PM
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teasel
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posted June 07, 2023 05:29 PM
I hate it. One of the worst for me. BIL’s mars conjunct my moon, Venus and south node. Square my mars, trine my Pluto, sextillion Jupiter. I conjunct my Uranus/ascendant. Hate it, hate him. No attraction whatsoever on my side. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 25, 2023 06:39 PM
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted June 28, 2023 12:24 AM
Yes, I had this with my fiance's ex best friend. He was Mars and I was Venus. Mars in Virgo is kinda meh for me. It was an exact conjunction too at 9 degrees. This conjunction occurred in my 3rd house and people told me it's because the 3rd house isn't romantic that I didn't feel it. Despite the fact that his Mars also exact sextile my Moon in 1st. They say this conjunction feels stronger if Venus is woman and Mars is the man. Did not feel attracted to him at all.I think house overlay matters more because I felt this conjunction more when I was Mars and the person was Venus. Had a friend with Venus in Libra conjunct my Mars and I could see getting together in a sexual way with him if I was single. Would I take him seriously? No. But there definitely was physical attraction. That conjunction was in my 5th house. IP: Logged |
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