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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
To answer your question, Lonake, in my view. I think in the person's chart, on a case by case basis, you will see, sometimes, the potential of a binding configuration. To me, this is reflected in geometric patterns. The most binding configurations in synastry, IMO, are the Cross, the Kite and the Mystic Rectangle formations and their derivatives (such as the House). If that person has a geometry that is waiting to be completed (like a loose trine or a T/square), they will look for someone to complete those.
Now the trick here is that these configurations have to be, as I call them, "love" configurations. They must involve love planets and/or love rulers.
So they must contain Venus, Mars, Moon (maybe Sun too, although luminaries configurations are a bit different, unless the Sun is a love ruler). If someone has such a combo, they most likely look for love completion in this life, for a fulfilling love relationship and they have the "framework" for it (of course, not all people have geometric charts, some people have condensed charts that need to be evaluated a bit differently).
But I think if someone has such a love config in his chart, despite him/her being a long-term bachelor, chances are, with the proper person, he will be "caught".
Examples of love geometric config in a natal chart:
Venus trine Neptune, Mars trine Pluto, any trine involving love planets/rulers
GT between Mars Pluto Venus or Venus Moon Mars or other GT involving love planets
A Wedge with love planets
but I guess the most compelling are the love square formations: square or T/square (especially on the fixed axis). These people are most likely the ones compelled to find true love and their TF lol
So square between Venus and Mars, Pluto, Neptune, etc.
T square involving love planets
Not ALL planets in the config have to be love planets, of course, one or two are enough to have a love config.
I feel compelled to reply to this though this is an old thread because I think I've the love configuration and so true I've been searching for a fulfilling relationship all my life!
I've a t-square involving Mars (10h), Venus (1h) and Moon (7h) and recently someone put his Sun in my 4h completing a grand cross. His Sun also forms an arrow with my Mars, Venus, Neptune t-square.
Seriously it feels so nice being with him and I feel like doing everything with him. EVERYTHING.
My ex also put his Mars on my 2 t-squares forming 2 grand crosses. It was also nice but not as "calming" as someone's Sun being there. Perhaps his Mars opposite my Mars and squaring my Moon/Venus created some rough edges.