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Topic: How Would An Exact Moon Oppose Moon Feel In a Relationship
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 09:17 AM
Would it be a deal breaker? Any experiences with it? Thanks!------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 701 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 16, 2014 10:04 AM
Doesn't sound that good, 'cause you will have totally different emotional needs. In the beginning though you will both feel attraction and will have curiosity to explore each other. Check if you have other, better aspects.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 10:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by unforgiven_soul: Doesn't sound that good, 'cause you will have totally different emotional needs. In the beginning though you will both feel attraction and will have curiosity to explore each other. Check if you have other, better aspects.
Thanks soo much for answering, US. We have an exact Sun to Sun conjunction and for for me my Sun makes a trine to neptune and a sextile to Pluto, so his does too. His ceres conj My Sun/Moon Midpoint BUT to me, the Moon oppose Moon will still be a deal breaker. What is your opinion and thanks for your help!  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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posted July 16, 2014 10:21 AM
my most significant romantic relationships had moon opposite moon. Also two of my children have the moon opposition with me. Oppositions are all about finding balance.If you are open to learning through your relationships, then this is a perfect aspect for it. you will learn about yourself more through this. It is a mirror effect. Never had an issue with emotional imbalance but then again it is because I have an open mind and like to learn. IP: Logged |
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posted July 16, 2014 10:24 AM
There are different views of oppositions in synastry. Personally, I consider the opposition a major attraction factor. It's a magnetic aspect and a symbolic one: it shows the integration of opposites is possible in this relationship. The integration of opposites is a fundamental aspect at the core of any romantic Yin/Yang relationship. A synastry without at least one opposition is not that compelling. Oppositions give heightened feelings and a long -term attraction, because the opposing planets are constantly one after the other, there is this feeling there's always something left to achieve.The opposition is similar to a Full Moon (when Sun in Moon are in opposition). It's a peak and a time of harvest. Each planet shines brightly reflected by the other, so each planet shows itself in full bloom, in splendor. This gives an "overstimulation" factor, that's why opposition are so exciting. Just like the legend of Sun and Moon, they were brother and sister (in some variation of the legend, two lovers) being the same and different (as in complementary) at the same time. An opposition in synastry means a zodiacal axis (two signs who share half similarities, half complementary differences) can be integrated in this couple. In this case, these two people have an emotional personality that is half the same, half different. But the differences are complementary in nature. I've noticed great synastries have at least one opposition to one of the luminaries. If not, there is at least one opposition involving major love rulers ( with the exception of synastries between two condensed natal charts).
I disagree with the astrological view seeing the opposition as what I find simplistic: opposing does not mean incompatible. It's like saying conjunction is good, opposition is bad, trine is good, square is bad. Any planet which already meets with another in an aspect is ready to make a pair with the other planet. All aspects are connective in a synastry.
An opposition is an aspect of COMPLEMENTARITY in a synastry. ------------------
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posted July 16, 2014 10:42 AM
well said LeeLooIP: Logged |
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posted July 16, 2014 11:11 AM
Thank you, cappy  ------------------
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 12:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by cappy1277: my most significant romantic relationships had moon opposite moon. Also two of my children have the moon opposition with me. Oppositions are all about finding balance.If you are open to learning through your relationships, then this is a perfect aspect for it. you will learn about yourself more through this. It is a mirror effect. Never had an issue with emotional imbalance but then again it is because I have an open mind and like to learn.
Awesome post, Cappy dear and thank you 
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 12:04 PM
Thank you, Lee. That was lovely and it is totally exact with a totally exact Sun conj Sun and a 2 degree ceres conj Sun/Moon midpoint. ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Blind writer Knowflake Posts: 651 From: Texas, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted July 16, 2014 12:07 PM
I have this aspect with my Great Young Love. We have MOON opp MOON, and they are also contra-parallel. We are still in touch after 18 years, and he is one I will always be emotionally bound to. I would NOT consider this aspect a deal-breaker. If he were to suddenly appear on my doorstop today and propose on one knee, I'd say yes without a pause.Oppositions are like rubber bands. No matter how much you stretch them, they always snap back. These are irresistible aspects that one cannot help but take notice of. IP: Logged |
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posted July 16, 2014 12:28 PM
Blindwriter, I love the rubber band comparison, it is exactly so. And the word "irresistible" is also a trademark for synastric oppositions. Also, oppositions are amplified energies because they unite two halves of the zodiac wheel, striving for the "whole". ------------------
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 12:32 PM
Thanks BWI love you guys. You be my peeps  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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posted July 16, 2014 03:31 PM
Exactly.... people are quick to write off oppositions as negative. I feel they are powerful and create an intense emotional bond. My significant other and I have the moon opposition but also his moon parallels my sun which can equate to a sun conjunct moon aspect. Its hard to break away. No matter how far we run away from each other, it always come to being us. It doesn't help that Sagittarius is also my 8th house (he is a Sagittarius moon) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 04:54 PM
Is this your Moon/Pluto guy, Cappy?------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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starrynight Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted July 16, 2014 05:42 PM
I think it also depends on the signs. For example, I have a Moon-Saturn opp with a person very dear to me and we barely feel it. My Saturn is in Libra, it's not harsh, and it's not afflicted, either. Their Moon is in Aries. Not an easy Moon to intimidate or control. IP: Logged |
MorpHnStorM Knowflake Posts: 376 From: Registered: Oct 2013
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posted July 16, 2014 06:03 PM
LeeLoo, cappy, Blind Writer.I have a Moon-Moon opp. that falls on an angle conj. (my MC to his AC) with my "TF"/Divine Complement. Atlantis is also conj. both our Moons, with my Moon-IC on his Ceres, and his Moon on my Pallas and Lilith. We also have a Moon-Saturn dw (both also have Moon-Saturn in natals), a Sun-Saturn dw, and a wide Sun-Moon conj. one way (and trine by sign the other). IP: Logged |
taurusvirgoleolady1974 Knowflake Posts: 429 From: a previous life Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 16, 2014 08:59 PM
leo moon here and my husband has an aquarius moon. I must say he can be absolutely irritating and I embarrass him with my so-called drama. but I see nothing wrong with showing emotions. he can be so distant. but I really need his coolheadedness. its a love/hate with our opposite moons. and yes, I agree; we are like a rubberband. just because moons are in oppositions doesn't mean it cant be successful. im more afraid of squares. truly opposites attract. to me, squares can be to stressful.where are your moons? (hi Ami! IP: Logged |
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posted July 16, 2014 09:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Is this your Moon/Pluto guy, Cappy?
Yes ami
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73495 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 16, 2014 09:56 PM
where are your moons? (hi Ami!HI  Long time, no talk to but I see your lovely family on FB. I am Cancer and he is Cappy ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 17, 2014 12:05 AM
I had this with my ex of 14 yearsI have Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra, and my ex had Moon in Aries opposite Pluto, on his AC/DC axis no less. His Cancer Sun also trines my Scorpio Sun, and his Libra ASC trines my Aqua ASC. I felt like we were two sides of the same coin, we both had similar emotional needs, but at times we were at odds, and we were extremely sensitive to one another. No rational thinking whatsoever, just Moon/Pluto craziness. When things were well balanced between us emotionally, we were unbreakable. I still love him unconditionally, and I always will, but I couldn't take the emotional roller coaster, and increasingly abusive behavior. Pluto definitely added to the dynamics for better or worse.
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Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 17, 2014 12:24 AM
Blindwriter, you have the same Moon/Pluto aspects with your guy. Was your relationship volatile when you were together? Whoa! Are you the Aqua ASC? Those are almost my same angles.I really hope that I can maintain my friendship with my ex years later, but I think the lingering feelings will interfere with any future relationships. I actually had to move more than 1,000 miles away from him so we could live separate lives. We were too involved, and still hung out and had dinner a few nights a week. He even came with me when I moved to help. I think the bond is there to stay, but I don't know how to be just friends when one of us inevitably starts dating someone. IP: Logged |
Blind writer Knowflake Posts: 651 From: Texas, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted July 17, 2014 01:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay:
Blindwriter, you have the same Moon/Pluto aspects with your guy. Was your relationship volatile when you were together? Whoa! Are you the Aqua ASC? Those are almost my same angles.
I am the Aqu rising, yes. =) Our relationship was not at all volatile; it was deeply romantic and emotional - like a fairy tale (courtesy of watery VENUS trine). I have a strong grip on PLUTO's influence. It wrestles with VENUS as the two main dispositors in my chart, but I think it's the interplay between my diplomatic Libra MOON and my laid-back Sagittarius SUN that automatically diffuse any kind of potential arguments. My mellow and conservative MARS in Cap (his as well, in earthy Virgo) contribute as well (especially since they are trine, too). We blend well together, basically. What are your CHIRON aspects? I have a natal VENUS-CHIRON opp, so I can understand and soothe romantic turmoil from within, and am able to utilize my MOON-PLUTO conj to transform emotional stresses into something better. Indigo can attest - I do not have much of a temper to speak of. In fact, I can be cordial with just about anyone. I think she once called me Spock-like, or something, lol. IP: Logged |
Bluejay Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 17, 2014 03:22 AM
^My Ascendant is at 18 degrees Aqua, and I think I was born 28 days before you with Moon/Pluto. My Sun is opposite Chiron by 2 degrees. Are you the friend that Indigo posted her composite with a while back?I think the volatility in our relationship was in large part that we are both water Suns and it's impossible to detach from our emotions. Plus all of our water houses overlapped with lots of 8th and 12th house planetary overlays. Neptune was in there too, conjunct my Mars, sextile my Moon/Pluto, trine his Moon, and opposite his Venus. It was quite a love story, until a lot of his childhood abuse and issues started to surface. He was repeating the abusive behavior he saw growing up, and not willing to take ownership or change. We both have tempers too, so things often got emotionally heated. I feel like I'm over the anger and resentment, and feel only love for him, but it's still very bittersweet.
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Blind writer Knowflake Posts: 651 From: Texas, USA Registered: May 2012
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posted July 17, 2014 04:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by Bluejay: ^My Ascendant is at 18 degrees Aqua, and I think I was born 28 days before you with Moon/Pluto. My Sun is opposite Chiron by 2 degrees. Are you the friend that Indigo posted her composite with a while back?
Possibly? She has posted many composites with various people. She may have referred to me as her soul-sister - we come from the same Oversoul family. I've known her for something like 16 yrs, or so. quote:
I think the volatility in our relationship was in large part that we are both water Suns and it's impossible to detach from our emotions. Plus all of our water houses overlapped with lots of 8th and 12th house planetary overlays. Neptune was in there too, conjunct my Mars, sextile my Moon/Pluto, trine his Moon, and opposite his Venus. It was quite a love story, until a lot of his childhood abuse and issues started to surface. He was repeating the abusive behavior he saw growing up, and not willing to take ownership or change. We both have tempers too, so things often got emotionally heated. I feel like I'm over the anger and resentment, and feel only love for him, but it's still very bittersweet.
That is entirely plausible. A luminary in Scorpio greatly amplifies PLUTO energy - far more than one of the other planets, and can easily overpower anything it touches. It has a different dynamic than PLUTO conjunctions, which are more easily channeled. To have a natal double-dose of luminary/PLUTO must be a heavy thing for you. Toss in CHIRON, and I'd say you're practically a walking therapist. Your VENUS seems to be spared, at least. Sounds like it's safely tucked away in Libran lordship, yes? IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1828 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 17, 2014 02:40 PM
i think it depends on what you want from the person. if you're looking for love then a moon-moon opposition will be problematic. saying oppositions are good is a difficult thing because it assumes that a) you need someone else to help balance you as a person (which you don't), and it b) encourages the notion that strife in a relationship is a good thing. a moon-moon opposite is difficult (for romance) because you aren't able to naturally fulfill the others' needs without effort, a lot of it. perhaps something else in synastry (a moon conjunct to something else) would offset this bit, but it's too hard imo to struggle. for friendship or casual dates it doesn't matter all though.IP: Logged |