posted January 14, 2020 03:18 PM
I’ve had quite a lot of amazing sex before, but this guy tops it for me completely. Here are the reasons, then I post our aspects:
Though this man initially wasn’t my ‘type’, we had instant chemistry. I literally couldn’t talk when we first met, I wanted to kiss him right away. We made out that night on the street and in my car. And then we had a fling for a couple months.
To this day it was from the very first moment the best sex I had so far, every single time we met was great. It was great because it felt natural. Though we didn’t know each other, the intimacy level was exceptionally high. It was very passionate, at the same time very loving.. he looked into my eyes the whole time and it didn’t feel uncomfortable at all, we were even laughing at times, while we would **** for hours. He enjoyed my whole body, I felt beautiful the whole time, We were holding and kissing each other like we were in love.. (although we weren’t.)Here are the aspects, that might’ve been responsible for that..
Synastry:
His/My
Asc conj Juno
Pluto conj Asc
SN conj Pluto
Juno conj Anti-Vertex
Sun conj Eros/Psyche
Venus conj Venus/Mars/Lilith
Dsc conj Venus/Mars/Lilith
Vertex conj Dsc
Lilith conj Chiron
Psyche conj Moon/Vertex
Mars conj Uranus
Mars trine Venus/Mars/Lilith
Uranus trine Venus/Mars/Lilith
Venus trine Uranus
Moon trine Sun
Moon trine Pluto
Pluto trine Sun
Juno trine Venus/Mars/Lilith
Venus sextile Moon
Mars opposite Moon
Venus opposite Juno
His Sun and Venus in my 5th house
His Moon in my 8th house
My Sun in his 5th house
My Venus/Mars in his 7th
I guess the lack of significant Node contacts was the deal breaker. Also our life circumstances at that time. I noticed that significant nodal aspects were mandatory for me to form a relationship .. whether friendship or romantic. It’s not an active decision on my part, it just so happened that after viewing all my relationships I’ve had so far, there were always Node contacts present.
So while this experience was somehow life-changing for me, not seeing him again wasn’t a heartbreak. We just quit one day, and it was alright for both of us. No hard feelings. Though I really miss that kind of connection. I so so wished my current bf and I had that! This man somehow ruined it for me, because it got so much harder for me to tolerate mediocre sex.
It’s also amazing how.. whenever I tried to explain what I wanted in bed, I often got the answer.. well it takes time, you don’t know each other that long, you’re not in love yet etc... The level of intimacy between people isn’t dependent on how well they know each other or how much they’re in love! This is what people tell you who have never experienced real chemistry before!