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Topic: Mars conjuct moon in synastry.
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viiv28 Knowflake Posts: 133 From: kaspichan Registered: Jun 2014
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posted August 11, 2014 10:20 AM
This is simply amazing. With my unrequitted lover I have this placement --his mars on my moon in a very tight orb. At first I liked him only as a friend for about a year, did not feel any sexual chemistry. Then we had sex, and the sex was extremely amazing. This is without much attraction beforehand, just really liked him as a person very much. What was strange is that after 4-5 times of sleeping together I wanted to get pregnant by him. This was a very pronounced desire, physical desire to become pregnant by him. This has not happened to me before. The mistake was that I told him this and I think that this is what scared him. The desire to become pregnant was a sexual desire, even now when I masturbate and fantasize about him I fantasize him empregnating me. I think all astrological things really influence me, because i feel these things much before I read about them. This is much more powerful for me than Pluto/Venus square that I have with my boss (I am venus), because a very different feminine aspect is awakened, I think much more profound -- the desire of the uterus. Also in my case the feelings were onesided with mars/moon thing. But yeah the desire to be empregnated is very strong and very sexual and very strange. IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1671 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 08:23 AM
Mars square moon has brung out more passion in my experience The conjunction can be very fleeting. The square aspect and opposition in synastry has directed more towards growth and maturity IP: Logged |
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 1671 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 08:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Not going to lie - almost everyone, friend or lover, who has had their Mars conjunct my Moon has ended up being an insensitive ass to me. It's really been a bad experience every single time. Then again, the person's Mars has always been linked to my Chiron as well, so I'm not sure how that modifies anything. It's always been a messy, emotional or angry affair when this comes up for me in synastry. Initially we have good energy and 2/3 times, we are physically affectionate, but the other person eventually starts becoming more and more impatient and fault-finding in me and I toward them and it becomes 'too close for comfort' so to speak.
I relate to this a lot. Those with the conjunction to my Moon have been irritating as well. I've always got along with the square and opposition..It really helps bind and grow IP: Logged |
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 702 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 12, 2014 08:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: Mars-moon is the baby-making aspect  I pick up right away when I have it with someone
True, have it with my Boyfr. mars conj. moon in Gemini and mars opp. moon!!! IP: Logged |
Selene Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 08:43 AM
I love this aspect, when i am Moon. Then a persons Mars also conjuncts my Jupiter and i am thrilled by him. I think it is not romantic per se, but i tend to like men whose Mars conjunct my Moon&Jupiter also in a platonic way. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10928 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 12, 2014 12:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Wow, that is really gross! I can see the arguments, I really argued with this guy I could not stand (Moon square Mars).
All I ever attract are harsh Moon / Mars! Were you Moon or Mars in that situation? I think the Mars probably picks up the Moon's vibes (undercurrents, etc.) and it irritates them. No? IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 256 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 12, 2014 06:50 PM
All I can say is the mars can be really irritating to me, instead of me thinking: "Oh what a sweet crush/boy I have" It's more like: "F*** you made me so mad", but in a teasing way. It's not romantic at all, but definitely it's not repulsion.IP: Logged |
LittleBlackCat Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 05, 2016 07:35 PM
Interesting...but what if his mars is conjunct my moon but my mars is also in the same sign as his mars and opposite his moon? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 62277 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 11, 2016 01:32 PM
Bump!IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 649 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 11, 2016 06:40 PM
My boyfriend had this with his ex. I recently learned from his friend that he and his ex would fight a lot... which is surprising because he is a very mellow guy and it takes a lot to get him mad. (He was Mars, she was Moon)By the way, is it totally creepy that I looked up the synastry with his ex? :-/ IP: Logged |
Elysia Knowflake Posts: 799 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 11:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars:
By the way, is it totally creepy that I looked up the synastry with his ex? :-/
Not at all..! A little loving snooping is totally fine. Regarding Mars-moon aspects, for me, the squares have been more potent. More friction, more reactions. Maybe because of my chart, the mars signs that square my moon go well with other aspects. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 649 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted January 12, 2016 06:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Elysia: Not at all..! A little loving snooping is totally fine.
Haha, good!! I haven't had the Mars-Moon conjunction (or any aspect for that matter) with anyone I've dated. At least not that I know of... Although I am an Aries Mars and I have a pattern of dating Aries Moon men for some reason. Maybe I have had a Moon/Mars aspect! Uh oh, I think I'll have to look into this!
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Elysia Knowflake Posts: 799 From: Registered: Aug 2015
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posted January 13, 2016 01:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: Although I am an Aries Mars and I have a pattern of dating Aries Moon men for some reason. Maybe I have had a Moon/Mars aspect! Uh oh, I think I'll have to look into this!
Oh yeah, do look into it! IME, the moon-mars interactions by sign are also pretty evident. These are very personal planets by nature - and when one senses a similar or combative energy in the other, the reactions overflow (good/bad/both, depending on the energy). i.e. That you will feel their Aries moon feeding your Aries mars drive even without aspects. Having said that, you should look for aspects too - they cement the attraction, in a way. IP: Logged |
racole12 Knowflake Posts: 1065 From: the world is my home! Registered: Feb 2010
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posted January 13, 2016 08:56 AM
I have this with someone... mine Mars conj his Moon But his Mars is also squ my Moon. (so, a double whammy). This relationship is 18 years old... the sex has always been hot, but when the relationship was new (I was 21, him 28) he sort of talked down to me a lot but that stopped by the time he was 34-36. We also have double whammy-- Pluto to Mars, Moon conj DSC, venus to Sun... I'm forgetting them), anyway, there is a possibility of volatileness but if the two people are aware I don't see it as a problem, especially since we have other positive aspects. I always felt bad when we were dating other people b/c if him and I hung out alone within a very short time things start getting hot... I haven't seen him since Fall of 2014 b/c we were alone for about 5 mins and we were both starting to get hot and bothered and wanting to touch each other in any way possible (we weren't even flirting) just by being around each other... One thing I do like is that he is very private about his feelings and emotions and it seems b/c of my Mars on his Moon I can get him to open up (the DSC conj Moon both ways helps this too). Another thing... we always have wanted to have kids together. Anyway, what I am getting to... I hear a lot of people saying Mars to Moon is horrible... but, I'm sorry, one aspect is not going to kill a relationship. You have to be aware and learn positive ways of channeling the energy. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 1773 From: red river valley Registered: Mar 2014
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posted January 13, 2016 04:14 PM
Dawn Bodrogi says this aspect is waaay hotter than Venus/Mars contacts and I have to agree... It's emotional in nature and the sexual connection is deeply rooted in the psyche so that it's not just a situation of pursuit/attraction, nor a domination/submission but a true energetic merging of bodies/spirits.. heart centred love making is the hottest; that's part of why Sun/Venus is the other huge player when it comes to romantic aspects. It stands head and shoulders above the others because the Sun is the Heart of the solar system and when Venus is bathed in the light of the Sun she just shines her very brightest and hardest...With Moon/Mars we also have an emotional connection being fueled by the masculine principle, the animal underbelly, the instinctive current rushing beneath all niceties, all borders. Yes this can be volatile but really we have to look at Mars as much more than combative energy. Mars energy needs to create. It is the driving force, the pumping blood. It is action in our lives of all kinds. It is absolutely primal and for some of us Mars expression is all important. For me it is an extremely crucial part of my chart, at 1 Aries on my lover's Moon... It's possible for the Moon to teach Mars about empathy and compassion; to moderate and channel those expressions into a nurturing situation. It's possible too for Mars to bring out a reservoir of emotional energy from the moon. Whether that's anger or passion or painting or music depends on the charts and what is unresolved in each. If there is unresolved anger, well yes, here it comes... Whenever we have the conjunction this is a blending of two energies; not merely one acting on the other (his Mars does trine my Moon and here we have more of a distinct action occurring). But with the conjunction we see Mars energy channeled into lunar fields; distorted by emotions perhaps and so sometimes difficult to find its bearings... it's very much a "losing your mind for the sake of your heart" aspect... you just DO. It's instinctual, animal love. There's no reason it can't be long term. Venus and Mars mythologically speaking do not even like each other. Am i wrong? Venus always wanted to get away and do her own thing in the ocean or whatever. Ares was thrust upon her. She would rather be adored tactfully, lounging in the sunlight... And Mars really just wants to come home to mama at the end of the day. All that creative urge needs to find a home base and something to fertilize. Venus isn't exactly a mother archetype, is she? IP: Logged |