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Topic: Mars conjuct moon in synastry.
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Marandana Knowflake Posts: 256 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 06:25 PM
Is it true what they say? That this aspect gives the "too hot to handle" feeling? I've read that in the begining it could be amazing, intense, but it could be so volatile and it cannot survive time, I'd like to know real experiences with this aspect in synastry.IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 850 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 08:54 PM
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Chiemi Moderator Posts: 2040 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 09:58 PM
One of my coworkers and I share this aspect. I also have natal Moon square Mars. I'm the Moon and he's the Mars (in Leo). So far, I like this aspect, although his Mars squares my Mars (in Scorpio), nothing bad has happened.Also just want to add that he's gay so this is definitely only a platonic bond. He actually kind of sought me out first and seemed to like me quickly so much so that he invited me out with him and his friends soon after only 2 shifts together. He's also kinda touchy with me and loves hugs and cuddling but thats it. I don't know if it's the aspect, or Mars sign but he also seems very loyal/protective too, like he literally watches to make sure I'm ok whenever we go out and he makes sure I am safe. This is still a new relationship so I'll just have to see how it goes. Maybe since it's a platonic and strictly non-romantic relationship it changes the dynamic? IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 850 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Chiemi: One of my coworkers and I share this aspect. I also have natal Moon square Mars. I'm the Moon and he's the Mars (in Leo). So far, I like this aspect, although his Mars squares my Mars (in Scorpio), nothing bad has happened.Also just want to add that he's gay so this is definitely only a platonic bond. He actually kind of sought me out first and seemed to like me quickly so much so that he invited me out with him and his friends soon after only 2 shifts together. He's also kinda touchy with me and loves hugs and cuddling but thats it. I don't know if it's the aspect, or Mars sign but he also seems very loyal/protective too, like he literally watches to make sure I'm ok whenever we go out and he makes sure I am safe. This is still a new relationship so I'll just have to see how it goes. Maybe since it's a platonic and strictly non-romantic relationship it changes the dynamic?
I agree with the touchiness my late aqua moon conjuncts my coworkers early mars in pisces and shes always very touchy lmao she will like brush my chest with her hands during a simple conversation or grab me in an intimate type way and i never see her do it with other coworkers BUT she has a boyfriend and he works in the same store lol 0_0 IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3412 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 10:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: I agree with the touchiness my late aqua moon conjuncts my coworkers early mars in pisces and shes always very touchy lmao she will like brush my chest with her hands during a simple conversation or grab me in an intimate type way and i never see her do it with other coworkers BUT she has a boyfriend and he works in the same store lol 0_0
LOL. that is kinda awkward! I guess Mars in Pisces are more forward than I thought hahahha. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 850 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 10:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: LOL. that is kinda awkward! I guess Mars in Pisces are more forward than I thought hahahha.
Shes an aries sun and yes it is awkward but another side of me kinda likes it lmao IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 2040 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: I agree with the touchiness my late aqua moon conjuncts my coworkers early mars in pisces and shes always very touchy lmao she will like brush my chest with her hands during a simple conversation or grab me in an intimate type way and i never see her do it with other coworkers BUT she has a boyfriend and he works in the same store lol 0_0
Yeah at first I questioned his sexuality, but then after knowing him more (and his personal/intimate adventures lol), I know he 100% for sure doesn't swing that way, just touchy. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 6641 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 10:32 PM
There have been a few threads on this. Most Moon people agree that it's platonic for them and not very sexual. When the guy is Mars - it's sexual from his perspective (and his alone).Supreme - You also had Mars conjunct Mars in synastry... so that's probably what made it a mutual sexual attraction. Other threads: https://www.google.com.au/?gfe_rd=cr&ei=idnmU-DfNaGN8QfE_IHQAw&gws_rd=ssl#q=moon+conjunct+mars+site:linda-goodman.com IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted August 09, 2014 10:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: Shes an aries sun and yes it is awkward but another side of me kinda likes it lmao
Maybe shes nice lol I was touchy with a female friend before, no sexual feelings tho and touchy with another male friend too.. he didn't mind.. < no sexual either IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 2040 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 10:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen: Maybe shes nice lol I was touchy with a female friend before, no sexual feelings tho and touchy with another male friend too.. he didn't mind.. < no sexual either
Did you share a Moon/Mars aspect too? IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 850 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 09, 2014 11:16 PM
I dont think only mars feels it iv shared that aspect and been the moon and been attracted to mars and my friend has the craziest attraction to my bestfriend and i did there charts and shes a moon virgo and hes a mars in virgo and shes crazyyyy for him she tells me all the time lmaoIP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2427 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 09, 2014 11:22 PM
Not going to lie - almost everyone, friend or lover, who has had their Mars conjunct my Moon has ended up being an insensitive ass to me. It's really been a bad experience every single time. Then again, the person's Mars has always been linked to my Chiron as well, so I'm not sure how that modifies anything. It's always been a messy, emotional or angry affair when this comes up for me in synastry. Initially we have good energy and 2/3 times, we are physically affectionate, but the other person eventually starts becoming more and more impatient and fault-finding in me and I toward them and it becomes 'too close for comfort' so to speak.IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2783 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 09, 2014 11:23 PM
Mars-moon is the baby-making aspect  I pick up right away when I have it with someone IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3412 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 09, 2014 11:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Not going to lie - almost everyone, friend or lover, who has had their Mars conjunct my Moon has ended up being an insensitive ass to me. It's really been a bad experience every single time. Then again, the person's Mars has always been linked to my Chiron as well, so I'm not sure how that modifies anything. It's always been a messy, emotional or angry affair when this comes up for me in synastry. Initially we have good energy and 2/3 times, we are physically affectionate, but the other person eventually starts becoming more and more impatient and fault-finding in me and I toward them and it becomes 'too close for comfort' so to speak.
Preach it! For some reason any Moon-Mars conjunction I'm in never ends well. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2427 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 10, 2014 12:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by BellaFenice: Preach it! For some reason any Moon-Mars conjunction I'm in never ends well.
I'm glad someone else agrees. In friendship it's been a particularly terrible aspect for me, especially with a member of the opposite sex. :-I IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze unregistered
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posted August 10, 2014 12:20 AM
The unknown It's supposed to be a fertile aspect! Barbie and I have it. I am Mars. We ALSO have Pluto square Mars - I am Pluto. But we have SO much stuff it's nuts. I mean looking at midpoints, composite, composite to Natals... It's a lot! We make it work. There's been some arguments here and there. It doesn't happen often and when they do we let go very quickly. We move on quickly and soon it's like nothing ever happened. We are like best friends 99.9% of the time. We both have moon square Mars natally so I suppose a conjunction in synastry really isn't all that hard to deal with. Astrology is just energy Imo, as we like to refer to it here. You can defeat it or be defeated by it. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 850 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted August 10, 2014 12:20 AM
That is true it didnt end well for me either but when you think about it what do we expect having mars the most fiery planet in close conjunction to our moon our emotional well being the moon is just bound to get burned eventually right? Sometimes its worth the burn lolIP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 2040 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 10, 2014 12:24 AM
I wonder if maybe having a natal Moon/Mars hard aspect makes it a little easier to handle in the long run? Since the native would already be familiar with the energy?IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3412 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 10, 2014 12:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: That is true it didnt end well for me either but when you think about it what do we expect having mars the most fiery planet in close conjunction to our moon our emotional well being the moon is just bound to get burned eventually right? Sometimes its worth the burn lol
Agree. It depends on your natal Mars-Moon and your partner's if you both have it, but the trines and sextiles are kind of amazing. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2783 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 10, 2014 12:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: The unknown It's supposed to be a fertile aspect! Barbie and I have it. I am Mars. We ALSO have Pluto square Mars - I am Pluto. But we have [b]SO much stuff it's nuts. I mean looking at midpoints, composite, composite to Natals... It's a lot! We make it work. There's been some arguments here and there. It doesn't happen often and when they do we let go very quickly. We move on quickly and soon it's like nothing ever happened. We are like best friends 99.9% of the time. We both have moon square Mars natally so I suppose a conjunction in synastry really isn't all that hard to deal with. Astrology is just energy Imo, as we like to refer to it here. You can defeat it or be defeated by it. [/B]
This is true. Synastry factors in. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have the square double whammy (or at least by signs). Any way, it's not the hard aspect like pluto where life feels consumed by it. In a relationship, you have to look at Synastry and Natal too. With mars-moon alone, a relationship isn't guaranteed. But sexual/physical expressions are great. Kinda like pluto-moon with much less emotional manipulation. The nature of the signs matter too. Ppl on Lindaland keep saying sun-mars or mars-mars (especially the square) are great. I personally don't think it's true for every cases. Especially if the natal indicate one person is very intuitive and the other is logical, of course one person is gonna get butt hurt.
And yes, DeepFreeze is also right about composite. I had decent synastry with my roommate but our composite was just bad. I wish I looked at it before deciding to roommate with her.
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10928 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 10, 2014 12:48 AM
I had Moon trine Mars (I was Moon) and Mars conjunct Moon (I was Mars) with a guy friend. We flirted around for 6 years and finally he begged me to sleep with him before he moved. No. I was so disgusted and really only slightly liked him all that time. Otherwise I was pretty indifferent, but he WAS an easy target to argue with.IP: Logged |
BellaFenice Knowflake Posts: 3412 From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri Registered: Sep 2013
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posted August 10, 2014 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: I had Moon trine Mars (I was Moon) and Mars conjunct Moon (I was Mars) with a guy friend. We flirted around for 6 years and finally he begged me to sleep with him before he moved. No. I was so disgusted and really only slightly liked him all that time. Otherwise I was pretty indifferent, but he WAS an easy target to argue with.
Wow, that is really gross! I can see the arguments, I really argued with this guy I could not stand (Moon square Mars). IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 62277 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2014 01:19 AM
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 256 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 10, 2014 10:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: Mars-moon is the baby-making aspect  I pick up right away when I have it with someone
Is that true? So you have to take EXTRA care when things get physical?? IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2561 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 11, 2014 12:05 AM
Contradiction Alert!!!!I have moon in Sagittarius. Mars in Sag is not a placement I run into much. When I do find one, the chemistry is not too strong. Often I find them insensitive, obnoxious a$$es. They really know how to hurt my feelings. I have a moon/saturn aspect so I freeze them out from the moment of offense. I have Mars in Taurus, and I find moon in Taurus hot. Save for a nasty run-in with a Cancer, generally I'm very attracted to and like being around them. IP: Logged |