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Topic: Ascendants in synastry - is he really into your looks/appearance?
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Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 03:32 PM
  
interestingly two of his former girlfriend had a Mars in Sagittarius, one had Mars in 3 Sag, the other on 9 Sagittarius. So I guess I am in good company with my mars-ASC at 5 -7 Sag.  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted November 11, 2014 03:34 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
They are very good, yes.  Especially if they're good for you.
I dunno. Aren't they kinda...anal? 
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kaianna
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posted November 11, 2014 03:37 PM
Again what about the quincuinx? LolIP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 03:38 PM
Hey CAREFUL, Mr Sag`s Mars is in Virgo as well, though closely conjunct Jupiter (and squaring Mercury in Sag and sesisquare Venus, and conjunct Amor and his own nameasteroid, and opposing Eros and my name in his chart. lol) IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I dunno. Aren't they kinda...anal?
I was on the verge of saying something stupid...but I stopped in time hahaha
Yes, they could be...but it's a potentially very sensual, serving and scholar Mars
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Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 03:40 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Cool aspects...and I like the sq too... with Persephone and all those goddesses lol he most certainly is turned on by you in a goddess costume hahahaha with Persephone he most certainly loves your darker, more Plutonian side.
Goddess costume. So let`s think about as which godess I should appear
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by kaianna:
I've had a mans venus exactly conjunct my ascendant but I though they were above average, a mans who mercury conjunct my ascendant I found much more attractive, maybe because mercury rules my 5 and 8th houses.What about quincunxes? I have some peoples personal planets quincunx my ascendant and they've found me attractive
Personally as I said before, all aspects to the ASC show an attraction: the flavor of the feelings depends on the aspect. With the quincunx, they might find you continuously surprising, it should have an Uranian vibe - is it so?
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12th_House_Gal
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posted November 11, 2014 03:41 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I was on the verge of saying something stupid...but I stopped in time hahaha
Yes, they could be...but it's a potentially very sensual, serving and scholar Mars
HA! I was typing out "but what if you're into anal?" lol!!!!
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Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 03:41 PM
Quinkunx can be quirky, I agree. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 03:42 PM
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Originally posted by 12th_House_Gal:
HA! I was typing out "but what if you're into anal?" lol!!!!
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Goddess costume. So let`s think about as which godess I should appear
You have quite a few choices there Ishtar...Inanna....Persephone ------------------
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kaianna
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From: Nassau
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 11, 2014 03:45 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by kaianna:
[b]I've had a mans venus exactly conjunct my ascendant but I though they were above average, a mans who mercury conjunct my ascendant I found much more attractive, maybe because mercury rules my 5 and 8th houses.What about quincunxes? I have some peoples personal planets quincunx my ascendant and they've found me attractive
Personally as I said before, all aspects to the ASC show an attraction: the flavor of the feelings depends on the aspect. With the quincunx, they might find you continuously surprising, it should have an Uranian vibe - is it so?[/B][/QUOTE] I guess lol I change up my look a lot, or maybe they're suprised they're attracted to you? Lol IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 03:49 PM
Checking for fun what I do to PM's Mars...also his 8th house ruler  my Venus squares it
my Mercury *5th/8th) trines it
my Mars trines it
my Jupiter squares it
my Neptune opposes it
my Pluto trines it
my Chiron semisq it
my Ceres/Juno squares it
my Pallas sesquis it
my Eros conjuncts it, my Psyches trines it
my Cupido semisq it
my Valentine sesquis it
my Aphrodite squares it not bad, not bad! hehehehe
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12th_House_Gal
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posted November 11, 2014 03:51 PM
Yes, this man shows his love by "serving" or being of service to those he loves. He also has a 6th House Venus. He just makes up stuff to come to my house and fix and be here.For example, he randomly offers to cut my yard, paint my house, plant things in my yard. It's like over the top stuff, I dont even ask him to do it he just wants to. He knows I am creative, and I work with jewelry making and screen printing. He built me a home made screen printing press so that I could try this out. He also knows I've always wanted to upgrade to soldering with a torch for my jewelry, but I need an open area because of the fumes and flame. He has offered 4 times to "renovate my detached garage so I have space to create whatever I want". All I have to do is clean it out. Now I would never and will never have a sexual relationship with this person, I just can't. So I can't speak to that. Now, I can also attest to the physical touch. I always want to be next to him, sit next to him, or find an excuse to just touch him. Even if it's a pat on the back, I just want to. He is not a touchy person. He doesn't even hug people, however there have been a handful of times that he has come to me, approached ME and wanted to reach out and touch. He is very shy and reserved, but again he will randomly come up with excuses to have to touch me some how. EDIT: And each time he does it's like electricity! IT'S NUTS!!!!!!!!!!! Yes Loo - I have intense friendships or relationships with people who touch my Asc. I was going to hop on here and say it's an extension of my 8H but you beat me to it!! I generally DONT like when people touch my Asc because it gets too personal to fast. It's too overwhelming at times. I have a close friend whose Sun/Moon conj mine and I just couldn't take her (she's oddly enough a Scorpio Asc). I'm an obsessive personality type anyway, majorly. This is the first relationship where I haven't felt SO awful about it, maybe because this is my first Mars/Man contact there, and it is exact, only a few minutes separation. IP: Logged |
12th_House_Gal
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posted November 11, 2014 03:56 PM
Honestly though, this is the first time I have REALLY looked into my Asc/1st as being an extension of my 8H, like actually REALLY paid attention to that, so thanks!! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
You have quite a few choices there Ishtar...Inanna....Persephone
and they are all the same goddess after all!
All queen of the underworld. lol
And participants in that strange sacred marriage
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Enneline
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posted November 11, 2014 04:03 PM
wow, ladies, you're amazing  Great information & point of views. Thank you I have a cancer asc but my 1st house is ruled by leo. Mars in Leo men make me aggressive
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 11, 2014 04:06 PM
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Originally posted by Enneline:
wow, ladies, you're amazing Great information & point of views. Thank you I have a cancer asc but my 1st house is ruled by leo. Mars in Leo men make me aggressive
Why is your 1st house ruled by Leo if your ASC is in Cancer?  ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted November 11, 2014 04:13 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
The same goes for Sun and Moon, but I'm moving away from the topic a bit. If you have a Sun/Moon aspect in your natal, look at its harmonic: you probably like an aspect from the same harmonic coming from the other's Sun Moon Saturn and possibly ASC/DSC too. The Sun/Moon archetype within oneself is the ideal partner - the ideal marital partner - the 7th house archetype. Looking at Brad Pitt, for example: I see he has Venus conj Moon in Cap involved in a Minor triangle with Pluto and Neptune. His feminine archetype is all in one place; this guys finds Earth women: Sun Venus ASC beautiful, especially one with Taurus Sun Venus ASC. But he may like Scorpio too. His Cardinal Mars square his Jupiter on his nodal xis: the hottest one for him, the one that drives him mad physically, emphasizing his masculinity, will always be a Cardinal Venus/ASC woman, especially one with Venus/ASC in Cancer or Libra. (his sq is Cap/Aries)
His peregrine Sun semisextiles his Moon widely. I bet he prefers the other's Sun Moon Saturn or ASC in 6th/12th harmonic or variations with his.
It seems Angelina has no earth placements BUT her DSC is in Cap and Brad is crowded there, plus her Jupiter stellium is sitting on her MC. She's strongly Saturnian with her 12th Saturn sq all that. However, I bet he doesn't see her as the most beautiful woman on Earth lol In exchange, obviously, her Venus/ASC in Cancer and her Aries stellium/MC are perfect for his Mars. Her ASC/DSC semisextiles his Sun conj his Moon. Looking at Paul McCartney now, a Fixed Venus sq Moon guy. For him, the most beautiful ladies in the world (and his ideal emotional archetype as well) have a fixed Venus/ASC/Sun, especially Scorpio and Aqua (his sq is Taurus/Leo). Linda Mc Cartney has Venus/Moon/ASC in Scorpio, IC in Aqua. He has a Mars minor triangle with Libra Gem trine and Mars in Leo: the sexiest ladies have Venus Sun ASC in Air, especially Aqua, and something in Leo. Linda has 5 planets on the 3 points of his Minor Triangle, including the Sun. Interestingly, she also brings Uranus and Saturn to the minor triangle, thus satisfying the aqua requirement as well, indirectly. Linda has Sun semisq Moon in her natal. She definitely prefers at least one 4th/8th aspect coming from her partner's Sun Moon Saturn or ASC/DSC to her Sun and/or Moon. They have Sun sq Sun and Moon sq Moon in their synastry, plus Paul's ASC is on Linda's Sun. His Saturn makes an OOS sq to her Sun.
You are so talented, LeeLoo What if the desired fixed ASC for Paul wouldn't work for his sun? Just a hypothesis IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted November 11, 2014 04:15 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Why is your 1st house ruled by Leo if your ASC is in Cancer?
Astro.com says that but my sun is in cancer but also in 1st. So half of my 1h is ruled by leo have you checked your asc on your man's midpoints? IP: Logged |
Enneline
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posted November 11, 2014 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Checking for fun what I do to PM's Mars...also his 8th house ruler my Venus squares it
my Mercury *5th/8th) trines it
my Mars trines it
my Jupiter squares it
my Neptune opposes it
my Pluto trines it
my Chiron semisq it
my Ceres/Juno squares it
my Pallas sesquis it
my Eros conjuncts it, my Psyches trines it
my Cupido semisq it
my Valentine sesquis it
my Aphrodite squares it not bad, not bad! hehehehe
He was after you, wasn't he? you pushed his "animal spirit" button, didn't u? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 11, 2014 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
It also maybe is the reason that I can stay in detachment analytical mode and sort of analyse even my own reactions and thoguhts to him and categorize them and understand it and hence keep a cool distance and cool head, UNTIL he steps over that line. I notice there is apparently an invisible line, a few centimetres around me, and whenver he crosses that line, the feeling totally changes, the interaction changes, mostly the fact that I can`t think straight.
Yep! Mirror-staring, I called it. I'd literally leave the room and stare into the mirror, typically trying to get it together. That was SO rough. Can't think straight? Oh, God, no. He knows this. He would instead fidget nervously, shut his emotions down, and be terse, awkward, and occasionally a little too saccharine. Hell, I didn't even know until he'd mentioned to someone, 'it was beginning to affect our work,' that he even felt that way! But, I digress. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted November 11, 2014 04:36 PM
"! Mirror-staring, I called it. I'd literally leave the room and stare into the mirror, typically trying to get it together."
LOL
I did that, too!
Actually I also did that that time in august, after he had come down of his stage to ask for my name and just basically was spending more time circling the area around my table than ON stage for quite a lot of time.
Of course I waited until the intermission, but then I was checking myself in the mirror. it is almost startling how alive I was looking. lol
Well that and dishevelled, and with a glow that is not usually there. I am usually very pale, but while i was not quite blushing, oh well, I looked a little different. lol
I fear it is becoming more and more obvious.
"Can't think straight? Oh, God, no."
Exactly. Sincre I am relying so much on my mind, take that away, and I am like a blind one. or at least it is like my main sense suddenly is not there anymore. how to feel my way through the dark? Only relying on my FEELING? SENSING? 
"He would instead fidget nervously, shut his emotions down, and be terse, awkward, and occasionally a little too saccharine."
Well, he does a lot of fidgeting as well. lol Did so even when we first met. and be a lot more, I donīt know, careful, sincere, low-voiced than he usually is.
He can be very brash and loud and that is all funny on stage, but when ti comes to me, he is somehow, I donīt know, jsut different.
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Enneline
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posted November 11, 2014 04:37 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]The one with his asc on ur venus: do you find him beautiful?
I used to think he was gorgeous. quote:
sq ur pluto: sexual attraction?
No idea. What I know is I have a soft spot for his face. quote:
antivertex conjunct: soulmate feelings?
Not anymore [/QUOTE] I knew it What about your asc on their luminaries/midpoints/etc.? IP: Logged |
mir
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posted November 11, 2014 05:50 PM
Ow my gosh.. the only one I know with his virgo mars EXACT on my asc is a friend that I've been avoiding as the plague as soon as he admitted his strong attraction to me. Well, I sometimes already thought to trace some 'sex' in his eyes but that only awakened deep aversion within me. We got in touch again last year... but only once or twice as there definitely seems to be something broken after his revelation during an ale some years ago. And well, during our come-back last year I guess it became a bit too much for him as we had an exact applying pVenus/pMars virgo (HIS Mars) conjunction within a deg also! (the horn in his eyes wasn't watered down at-all! lol)IP: Logged |
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