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Topic: "Can't live without you" Moon/Pluto Synastry
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 02:08 AM
I am the Moon person, and I have an exact trine with his Pluto. This aspect has taken over my life for the past couple years. Ever since I met this man I have shamefully been obsessed with him pretty much on a daily basis. I've tried to escape this emotional prison but I feel like there's no way out. It doesn't help that his Saturn forms an exact square to my Moon either. I've been single my whole life, and I never saw myself in a relationship with anyone till I met him. Does the obsession of Moon/Pluto fade? Is there a way out? (I'm blue, he's red) IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1467 From: the sky Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 02:43 AM
Same here. My Moon trines his Pluto, and no, it hasn't faded since october 2012.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 03:00 AM
Is this connection one-sided or does he show interest?IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1467 From: the sky Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 03:15 AM
One-sided, but my case is special. So, don't worry too much. His VENUS conjuncts your PLUTO/MARS/SUN, that should be binding !IP: Logged |
RainbowFunkster Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 28, 2015 03:21 AM
That's an interesting Moon, Jupiter opposition. Can you tell me how does it manifest? It can't be all good. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6729 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 03:23 AM
MOON trine PLUTO? Seriously? Wow. What am I missing?IP: Logged |
RainbowFunkster Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 28, 2015 03:24 AM
Also his saturn in the 5th (relationship problems) strangles your Ceres. :PIP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 03:31 AM
@Peluches Sorry to hear that, hopefully he comes to his senses Oh well he has shown an interest in me, in fact he even told he wanted to protect me, but now I don't know what his intentions are.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 03:34 AM
@RainbowFunkster Well I actually don't know his birthtime, but my Moon conjuncts his Jupiter 5d, and both our Jupiters opposite eachother 1d. In my opinion it creates a relationship of broken promises. I truly believed at one point in time we would be together, but it never happened.IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 15274 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 28, 2015 03:36 AM
I've been there. I've been living mostly free of him for several years now. It's just the fact that I ever let him into my life that bugs me - I think certain things could have been very different.I was in the same position: single my whole life, and then *bam*. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 03:36 AM
@Aubyanne Lol I know what uou mean, I didn't think this aspect could have such an effect.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 03:45 AM
@teasel Aw, this aspect really seems like a curse. I can see the same thing happening between us where I end up avoiding him entirely. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6729 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 03:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: @Peluches Sorry to hear that, hopefully he comes to his senses Oh well he has shown an interest in me, in fact he even told he wanted to protect me, but now I don't know what his intentions are.
It's more complicated than that. You might say it's a lesson she's got to learn. I'm not sure if that's a PLUTO/MOON thing or not. He wanted to protect you? WTF is he, a sparkling vampire? IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6729 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 03:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: @Aubyanne Lol I know what uou mean, I didn't think this aspect could have such an effect.
Are you sure it DOES? I mean, you've got a double whammy MOON/JUPITER conjunction, along with his VENUS on your MARS. Granted, that makes you the aggressor (dynamically) but that can work for some better than others. PLUTO can be quite obsessive about VENUS, too. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 04:03 AM
@Aubyanne Yep, straight up he told me "I want to protect you", and he was also the one he talked to me first. No, not entirely Though I can agree, perhaps it's a karmic thing. However, perhaps they share some saturn aspects. Again, he and I also have Moon-Saturn square. Not too sure if we have Moon-Jupiter DW since his birthtime is unknown. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne Moderator Posts: 6729 From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 04:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: @Aubyanne Yep, straight up he told me "I want to protect you", and he was also the one he talked to me first. No, not entirely Though I can agree, perhaps it's a karmic thing. However, perhaps they share some saturn aspects. Again, he and I also have Moon-Saturn square. Not too sure if we have Moon-Jupiter DW since his birthtime is unknown.
Right; lacking TOB. Gotcha. Well, the PSYCHE conjunct PSYCHE ain't whistling Dixie; that's a strong tie -- very soulful linkage between two people. It can 'get under the skin' in many cases. Plus, that VENUS/PLUTO. The MOON/SATURN are quite enduring, once you can find the right balance of security versus independence; nurturing versus protection / sufficiency. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1242 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 28, 2015 04:26 AM
I had moon pluto conjunct with a man a few years ago. When we stopped talking cause he had a gf and didnt tell me about it. I felt like I lost a limb.IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 04:32 AM
@Aubyanne Ah yes, the moon-saturn actually had me worried at first, like it would make him very critical of me...but even though we don't talk as much as we use to he's still very sweet/protective. Thank you, I wasn't too sure about the psyche asteroid. So in your opinion what is your viewpoint on moon trine pluto?IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 04:34 AM
@LexusVirgo Wow I'm sorry, that's awful! I can only imagine with the conjunction Just out of curiosity did you guys share any neptune aspects?IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 7797 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted February 28, 2015 07:11 AM
Lexus, were you the Moon?Moonfish, Your 5th house is ruled by Moon so his Pluto from your 8th house stimulates it mercilessly :-d. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 28, 2015 09:37 AM
I had a Moon conjunct Pluto in my 12th/his 8th.....I was Moon. Took me 7 years to want to be with anyone else. Horrible/beautiful aspect, it's too binding in my opinion. I guess I would have loved it if he hadn't been a liar.I had it also with my 2nd husband....then another time with another guy also. Every time it was the same intensity and emotional destruction. After I got away and started healing it always led to healing wounds that were much deeper what had been created by the relationship alone. Very powerful aspect! With the 1st guy I mentioned I think the house overlay made it so much deeper and profound for us both. Plus we had a lot of other things going on. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8906 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted February 28, 2015 10:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by LexusVirgo: I had moon pluto conjunct with a man a few years ago. When we stopped talking cause he had a gf and didnt tell me about it. I felt like I lost a limb.
The one I fell so hard for had a girlfriend also, we had a LD relationship for a year before I found out. Literally felt like my heart was ripped from chest. Actually it was the first time I've ever experienced breaking out in a rash due to stress and hurting as he told me the truth. I could barely breath. IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1467 From: the sky Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: @Peluches Sorry to hear that, hopefully he comes to his senses Oh well he has shown an interest in me, in fact he even told he wanted to protect me, but now I don't know what his intentions are.
Thank you ! Protect you ? That's so cute Anything with DEMETER (1108) and VALENTINE (447) ? IP: Logged |
Peluches Knowflake Posts: 1467 From: the sky Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 28, 2015 12:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aubyanne: It's more complicated than that. You might say it's a lesson she's got to learn. I'm not sure if that's a PLUTO/MOON thing or not. He wanted to protect you? WTF is he, a sparkling vampire?
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Moonfish Moderator Posts: 5223 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 28, 2015 02:01 PM
@Orange I didn't realize that, and his Saturn in my 9H also rules my 7H As the pluto person do you feel like he's more obsessed with you or vice-versa? IP: Logged |