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Topic: Chiron in synastry - who hurts whom
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 25, 2015 07:15 PM
I'm currently pursuing a woman whose venus is conjunct exactly on my chiron. Both retrograde as well.She's not mine yet, but from what I can tell so far, it seems like I have a great potential to hurt her if I wanted to. Partially because I can tell what she's vulnerable about and I've learned about her past hurts. She's put up some defense mechanisms that hurt me a little, but I shrugged them off. Would still like to learn more about this aspect though. IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 907 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 25, 2015 07:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: She has zero teaching abilities, thou.
Wanted to say this seems to be very spot on 
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GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 907 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 25, 2015 07:32 PM
~ lol Sometimes I don't even understand myself As a Gem, I guess I tend to need a hand from my Twin IP: Logged |
LibraGirl92 Knowflake Posts: 934 From: NZ Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 25, 2015 07:49 PM
What about Chiron conjunct Chiron in synastry?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72470 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 25, 2015 09:23 PM
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Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1592 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 25, 2015 11:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by GlamGemini: What about Chiron opposite Sun?
I would like to know about this too I am the Sun, and it's 0 degrees. It's with my friend / band partner, and to be honest there has been romantic tension since we met, but bad timing for me in the beginning, and bad timing for him at present. We agreed to be band partners in December, and are only starting to work together now in July. I don't want to waste my time and creative energy if there's going to be long periods of not talking to / avoiding each other.. We also have (me on left) CHIRON sq CHIRON (4) Moon sextile Chiron (4) Sun/Merc opp. Chiron (0) Psyche trine Chiron (1) Ceres sextile Chiron (0) Chiron sextile Mercury (0) Chiron square Lilith (1) Chiron square BML (2) I'm just confused - CAN we be friends / bandmates? Or will someone always be hurting, running ? :/
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7084 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 26, 2015 12:11 AM
Anybody felt Saturn conj Chiron? Its an exact conjunction, im the Saturn. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72470 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 26, 2015 12:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Anybody felt Saturn conj Chiron? Its an exact conjunction, im the Saturn.
YES, I had that with a platonic friend and it blew up. I am seeing it a lot with my clients now. It is SUPER potent, for some reason, and not in a good way lol IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 7084 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 26, 2015 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: YES, I had that with a platonic friend and it blew up. I am seeing it a lot with my clients now. It is SUPER potent, for some reason, and not in a good way lol
Who feels what with this aspect, i wonder. Magi Astrology list is a very long and bonding captivation. The squares and oppositions are worse thou. The conjunction could go both ways IP: Logged |
FmVenusWLove Knowflake Posts: 419 From: It's cold here Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 26, 2015 12:43 AM
What about when Chiron is retrograde in someone's chart? I am getting to know someone right know whose retrograde Chiron is conjunct my sun exactly and in a wide conjunction with my DC. I checked my synastry with my ex bf and noticed his Chiron is tightly squaring my MC and, though not conjunct my DC, is located in my 7th house. I cannot speak for him, but I noticed that status seemed to be something he focused on a lot in our relationship (mainly, my status...or lack there of anyway, lol) and I wonder if my MC was activating that at all. I was young-ish when we were together and, being older, he provided a lot of support to help me on my career path. While his suggestions and support REALLY helped me to define and pursue my own career goals, the darker side of this was that I always felt he was pushing me in a direction that more suited his needs/desires in the public domain rather than what was best for me. Even though we are not together and are now on friendly terms, I still feel a bit pushed by him to obtain a certain public image (i.e. hang out with the right people/move to the right neighborhood, have a certain job, behave a certain way in front of people etc...). I would not be where I am today if it wasn't for his insight and pushing with my career, but interestingly even now if I disagree with him or try to go my own way it causes a fight. He seems to react very aggressively if I disagree with him in this area of my life. I also noticed that his 5H Mars opposes my 7H Chiron at 3 degrees and yea...I was definitely hurt by all things Martian with him. Again though, a lot of learning took place so it worked out in the end. There were some pretty painful/uncomfortable moments though. Unfortunately we did not approach these insecurities as lovingly as two people who are in a relationship should. As mentioned earlier in this thread, I agree that the the key really is to be respectful and loving wherever Chiron is activated. You can gain so much without having to experience such a high level of pain. IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 3071 From: Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 26, 2015 01:22 PM
HOW WOULD YOU INTERPRET SOMEONES CHIRON(9TH HOUSE) & CUPIDO(9TH HOUSE) OPPOSITE MY VENUS/MARS MIDPOINT EXACT??could this indicate that this person will heal me or teach me about my sexuality in a healing way?? its in the sign of gemini and my venus/mars midpoint is saggitarius. its weird that the chiron person would feel it....but so would the venus/mars midpoint person correct? ------------------ Sun Capricorn, Moon Aries, Libra Rising IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 72470 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted June 26, 2015 01:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lotis White: I agree that Chiron is the one that hurts in synastry.To me Chiron symbolizes where we have some type of disability or painful vulnerability. When people remark on our ‘disability’ and ‘personal vulnerability‘, as symbolized by Chiron, it can hurt because it’s like we don’t have any defenses against it. We’re simply broken there (Ceri has a point about the lack of defenses where Chiron is concerned). We yearn for someone who will accept us despite the fact that this part of us is broken, or especially vulnerable. What we fear most is that we’ll be rejected because this part of us is found to be unacceptable by others. People touching our Chiron touch this sensitive, vulnerable, seemingly broken part of ourselves. Conjunctions show that the other person can both hurt us and help us with our Chiron issues. Whatever the case they highlight these issues for us, and cause us to reexamine them. We grow in our awareness, and often learn to develop better ways of dealing with our pain around people who conjunct our Chiron. Hard aspects can be devastating. They can makes us feel as if the very things we fear being rejected for, are the things that the other person has reservations about when it comes to us. It can feel as if they judge us for something we can’t really fix about ourselves. Soft aspects to Chiron are usually very soothing and helpful. They indicate someone who will support us despite our broken bits, someone who is accepting of how we are, and willing to work though it with us. They try and help us maneuver past our person wound, or at least try to help us live with it better.
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7084 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted June 26, 2015 01:33 PM
Just checked the synastry of Chloe and Lamar Kardashians :dThese two seems to love each other tremendously yet they hurt each other just as much. Her Chiron opposes his Venus his Chiron opposes her Saturn and Mars IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: love lives forever Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 26, 2015 09:34 PM
This thread is the bomb. What insightful wtiting here...I'm just exploring the implications of my lovers North node conjunct our composite chiron... And my chariklo right on the same degree... feeling encouraged by this thread and hopeful. We sure are doing a lot of work... feels potent... Good to read there have been long term celebrity couples with chiron north node stuff  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: love lives forever Registered: Mar 2014
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posted June 26, 2015 09:40 PM
We also have, in synastry, my Chiron conjunct his Moon and my Jupiter conjunct his Chiron... It's felt. and I'm just gonna leave this here http://theinnerwheel.com/2012/10/19/the-endless-hunger-of-chiron-moon-part-one/ coz I'm reading it atm and it could be handy for anyone considering a chiron/moon relationship..
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posted June 27, 2015 12:00 AM
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