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posted July 05, 2013 02:41 PM            

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...so I just discovered something really cool,

My lilth sits at 15° Gem and I'm a 14° Gem rising... I have since discovered my lilith is an exact conjunction to my ex boyfriends natal Saturn (15° Gem) and his lilth sits at exactly 14° Sag which is exactly on my descendant...

I found this really cool!!! I still consider him to be a 110% soulmate even though we are no longer together we are still very close... has anyone else had interesting contacts like this with Lilith or can elaborate more on this asteroid in synastry?

Thanks guys =)

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posted July 05, 2013 03:50 PM            

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...so I just discovered something really cool,

My lilth sits at 15° Gem and I'm a 14° Gem rising... I have since discovered my lilith is an exact conjunction to my ex boyfriends natal Saturn (15° Gem) and his lilth sits at exactly 14° Sag which is exactly on my descendant...

I found this really cool!!! I still consider him to be a 110% soulmate even though we are no longer together we are still very close... has anyone else had interesting contacts like this with Lilith or can elaborate more on this asteroid in synastry?

Thanks guys =)

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In synastry, Lilith is definitely like pluto, i noticed, lots of obsession, control, jealousy,revenge but on a POSITIVE note Lilith can bring an amazing profound connection that is unexplainable between two people, like a sort of fascination. The people irritate but fascinate each other at the same time i can say from my experience
<3 hope it helped (this is just from my perspective)

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posted July 05, 2013 03:53 PM            

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posted July 05, 2013 03:58 PM            

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Thanks Warrior Princess =) yeah I never really took any notice of these asteroids prior to now... do you know anything about valentine conjunct eros in your own birth chart? =)

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posted July 05, 2013 04:06 PM            

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Are you and your boyfriend close to each other in age? There would be many conjunctions on account of that. So, best to check which planets, or planetary bodies move very slowly.

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posted July 05, 2013 04:11 PM            

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I would guess that eros conjunct valentine is a "higher version" of venus conjunct mars i think. Im guessing that you love deeply and passionately and you might be very creative!

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posted July 05, 2013 04:12 PM            

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Who's feeling the obssesion? The lilith person or the planet person?

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posted July 05, 2013 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Leocassandra:
Who's feeling the obssesion? The lilith person or the planet person?

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Honestly, it depends who is the most pluto or Lilith like natally. I have Lilith quite prominent and I do quite identify with her so I was more obsessed but it switched back and forth. Every synastry and energy between two people is unique to them. I cant say in stone who is the most obsessed. <3

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posted July 05, 2013 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
Honestly, it depends who is the most pluto or Lilith like natally. I have Lilith quite prominent and I do quite identify with her so I was more obsessed but it switched back and forth. Every synastry and energy between two people is unique to them. I cant say in stone who is the most obsessed. <3

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Thank you. Im thinking the Lilith person is more obssesed but i dont know. With people who touched my Lilith i also did have hard Pluto aspects...

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posted July 05, 2013 04:48 PM            

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http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/3832/1bx.gif

here is our synastry chart... maybe I am slightly more plutonian but I wouldn't say either of us are obsessed, just seems that nothing can pull us apart from each other whether we are together or not. I only say I am more plutonian because of my Pluto in Scorp =) thanks for all your replies!! x

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posted July 05, 2013 04:50 PM            

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seems crazy given all our harsh aspects...

it was a very heartbreaking separation for me... took a solid 3 years for me to get over it, I guess we know now that we could have been something more and I guess inside we both know that we should have stayed together but in the end... I guess fate intervened

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posted July 05, 2013 09:26 PM            

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Which Lilith are you talking about?

The problem with Lilith you never know which one each person is talking about..

BML black moon Lilith.
Fishy BML is conjunct my sun, moon, mercury.
It's exact on my moon/mercury.
I wish I has an answer, idk how exactly it has taken into effect.
but for sure, I've been obsessed.
He's like a drug to me..

My true oscaliling Lilith is conjunct his moon.
Idk what it means.

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posted July 05, 2013 09:35 PM            

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Moving to Asteroid Astrology.

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posted July 05, 2013 09:36 PM            

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Moving to Asteroid Astrology.

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But it's about Black Moon Lilith!

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posted July 06, 2013 12:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
Which Lilith are you talking about?

The problem with Lilith you never know which one each person is talking about..

BML black moon Lilith.
Fishy BML is conjunct my sun, moon, mercury.
It's exact on my moon/mercury.
I wish I has an answer, idk how exactly it has taken into effect.
but for sure, I've been obsessed.
He's like a drug to me..

My true oscaliling Lilith is conjunct his moon.
Idk what it means.

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Im guessing you both have a strong hold on each other, most likely unconsciously at times. You guys are like each other's "guilty pleasure" if im right, but Lilith relationships, as magical and unexplainable as they are, are not always healthy. Egos come in play and the individuals hurt each other. They must learn to let go in the end if the relationship is over and wish happiness and love to them (yea I know its hard trust me but you will feel better and freed in the future)

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posted July 06, 2013 12:50 AM            

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And I find that all three liliths have very similar effects. I have asteroid Lilith conjunct venus + Saturn, the dark moon Lilith (waldemath) conjunct moon & opposite sun+mercury and the bml trine Neptune/Uranus and chiron. I feel them all as the same energy. Im still really young so I don't really know how to discern them in my personality :s

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posted July 06, 2013 02:03 AM            

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Im guessing you both have a strong hold on each other, most likely unconsciously at times. You guys are like each other's "guilty pleasure" if im right, but Lilith relationships, as magical and unexplainable as they are, are not always healthy. Egos come in play and the individuals hurt each other. They must learn to let go in the end if the relationship is over and wish happiness and love to them (yea I know its hard trust me but you will feel better and freed in the future)

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Thanks, yes your correct, unhealthy, yet I,possible to let go, from both of us..
Yes we have started to have ego issues.

I have been addicted to this for years now..
I think he drugged me.. Lol

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posted July 06, 2013 08:52 AM            

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Thanks, yes your correct, unhealthy, yet I,possible to let go, from both of us..
Yes we have started to have ego issues.

I have been addicted to this for years now..
I think he drugged me.. Lol

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Did you have a past life with him? What was that scenario like if you know?

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posted July 06, 2013 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
Did you have a past life with him? What was that scenario like if you know?

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Probably, but I can't for sure.

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posted July 07, 2013 11:00 AM            

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His Lilith conjuncts my DSC exact and his Lilith conjuncts my Karma.

My Lilith conjuncts his South Node exact, and there are more aspects with Lilith, i just don't remember them now, since i do not have a chart in front of me. But yes, it is quite obsessive, immediate past life scenario - he was my husband and loved me very much, but i didn't. Despite this we lived together for a very long time, till his death in a very old age. Now i owe him to pay back all this love he gave me and i didn't reciprocate. Sexual tension is very high though... I think Lilith may give in something here as well.

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posted July 07, 2013 11:30 AM            

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I can see a strong pull. I think the lilith Saturn conjunct would make it very hard for Saturn (?) To let go. But in reverse I see you also have uranus conjunct lilith in the 7th (I think it was). That energy might cause someone to feel quite uneasy or cause disruption. I don't see any obvious indicators of past lives (but that doesn't make it possible). Moon conjuct ascendant would be a very powerful hold as well. The 7th and 12 house overlay may cause someone to not fully grasp the other person. Though in the synastry I see that both of you tend to really push eachother forward to take action with mars conjunct north nothnode and the others north node in tenth house as well..there were more indicators of this too, I just can't remember. Sun/mercury/psyche in 7th explains how the relationship formed. Have you checked out your karma aspects or any other point aspects (like nodes)?

I'm very curious about lilith as well. My bf and I both have lilith square moon natally. Moon opposite moon and lilith opposite lilith. I can only imagine that lilith conjunctions make for an addictive relationship ..but squares and opposites are much more confusing to me.

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posted July 13, 2013 02:47 PM            

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Lilith contacts in synastry are tricky to decipher. Manfriend has his BML, vertex, & SN conjunct my ASC. I am glad he does not have issues with women or I would be in deep trouble. :-) My 5H BML conjuncts his Eros. That is fun to say the least.

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posted July 22, 2013 01:16 AM            

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I hate to hijack a thread, but does this lilith synastry seem intense to anyone? I've been trying to put my finger on (also because we have many pluto contacts) which one (him or I) is the more "obsessed/spellbound" one...

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posted August 14, 2013 12:57 PM            

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Anybody can explain if my Lilith conjunct his lilith in Virgo (7 degree orb) a bit wide but still a conjunction.

Somebody???

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posted May 19, 2015 08:06 AM            

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I couldn't understand why I felt so intensely attracted to this man looking at our synastry but I'm starting to think Lilith has something to do with it. Whatever Lilith comes up in the Astrowin synsatry charts is the one I'm referring to. We have

Lilith conj Sun
Lilith conj Chiron
Lilith conj South Node (less than one degree)
Venus sextile lilith
Chiron trine lilith

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