posted June 03, 2015 12:13 AM            

So here's my advice: Get to know the person before idealising them. The good, the bad, the ugly. Understand that people are always hiding a part of themselves away. Human beings are complex and are far... far from perfect. Also there's no way to love a whole person in a week if you've only known them for a week. Look at it logically. Love grows over time. Take your time before diving in. Btw, by taking your time I mean don't sit there fantasizing about ____ and you dating etc. Pisces/Neppy folk have a habit of sitting on their butts. Be as proactive as possible.

Btw, I see this happen way too often. Please don't romanticize a person with ___ song or ____ poem until they open up to you and you know they relate to ____ song and ____ poem. Saves you from heartache if the loves unrequited. Lastly, don't let "saving" someone be the driving factor for your interactions with them. People love to pity themselves but doesn't mean you should. Sound harsh but Pisces/Neppy often waste their hearts on people who don't have as big a heart for them or who don't need so much emotional babying. So if the loves not reciprocated, if they aren't giving as much as you are, back off. Be stingy. Good luck

posted June 03, 2015 01:31 AM            

Become an appreciator of beauty and yet protective of your sensitivities. Love does not have to be tragic simply because you've been disappointed. The Venus-Neptune person is quite impressionable, which is best channeled into creative pursuits that you become willing to share with others to the extent that you feel capable. In other words, be creative - its a way to let others see into you indirectly, yet see something real.

People with this aspect, at least when younger, are prone to a lot of wishful thinking. Why not use that in a creative way?

Maybe you're more technically inclined. You can still aim for an elegance in how you work even in a technical field.

Venus-Neptune is generally a factor of visual impression, as well as kinesthetic sensitivity. If you can develop this further, say through learning dance, or the making of impressions in some visual art form, you can put the potentials of this aspect into creative motion rather than it being passive, but responsive to what you find so impressive in the girls who capture your attention.

This is an aspect of sensitivity, and generally insecurity that asks you find some stability and self-worth in your perspective and creative talents.

posted June 03, 2015 08:58 AM            

My ex had Venus square Neptune natally. My Neptune squared her Venus. I noticed she really saw me through rose colored lens and ignored my flaws. She seemed to think I was perfect, which I definitely am not. Her romanticized view of me kind of made me suspicious. However, I really did love her (still do to some degree). This aspect doesn't always spell unrequited love, especially if there are other aspects in synastry that can overcome it.

posted June 03, 2015 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by New2014:
Hey
Anyone know how to deal with this natal aspect ?
I am a guy and i always get involved in one sided love relationships :/
Btw I have found that a lot of those girls (whom I use to love unrequited)I have venus square neptune with them by synstary

Thanks in advance

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I have that in radix. and worse add Pisces Juno in H6.
It may help to look at midpoint.

posted June 03, 2015 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Its certainly a difficult aspect to process. I had tr. Neptune going over my Pisces venus and descendant and really - I chose to see the best in men I later realized I knew NOTHING about.

So here's my advice: Get to know the person before idealising them. The good, the bad, the ugly. Understand that people are always hiding a part of themselves away. Human beings are complex and are far... far from perfect. Also there's no way to love a whole person in a week if you've only known them for a week. Look at it logically. Love grows over time. Take your time before diving in. Btw, by taking your time I mean don't sit there fantasizing about ____ and you dating etc. Pisces/Neppy folk have a habit of sitting on their butts. Be as proactive as possible.

Btw, I see this happen way too often. Please don't romanticize a person with ___ song or ____ poem until they open up to you and you know they relate to ____ song and ____ poem. Saves you from heartache if the loves unrequited. Lastly, don't let "saving" someone be the driving factor for your interactions with them. People love to pity themselves but doesn't mean you should. Sound harsh but Pisces/Neppy often waste their hearts on people who don't have as big a heart for them or who don't need so much emotional babying. So if the loves not reciprocated, if they aren't giving as much as you are, back off. Be stingy. Good luck

TL;DR Learn how to be stingy with your love. Pace yourself. Don't romanticize someone you don't know (by using music, poems, movies etc). Save only those who have equally big enough hearts to save you. Keep your expectations grounded. Never assume you know everything about a person; human beings are complex. Cheers.

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posted June 03, 2015 09:32 PM            

@Gabby Thanks!!

posted June 07, 2015 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
Its certainly a difficult aspect to process. I had tr. Neptune going over my Pisces venus and descendant and really - I chose to see the best in men I later realized I knew NOTHING about.

So here's my advice: Get to know the person before idealising them. The good, the bad, the ugly. Understand that people are always hiding a part of themselves away. Human beings are complex and are far... far from perfect. Also there's no way to love a whole person in a week if you've only known them for a week. Look at it logically. Love grows over time. Take your time before diving in. Btw, by taking your time I mean don't sit there fantasizing about ____ and you dating etc. Pisces/Neppy folk have a habit of sitting on their butts. Be as proactive as possible.

Btw, I see this happen way too often. Please don't romanticize a person with ___ song or ____ poem until they open up to you and you know they relate to ____ song and ____ poem. Saves you from heartache if the loves unrequited. Lastly, don't let "saving" someone be the driving factor for your interactions with them. People love to pity themselves but doesn't mean you should. Sound harsh but Pisces/Neppy often waste their hearts on people who don't have as big a heart for them or who don't need so much emotional babying. So if the loves not reciprocated, if they aren't giving as much as you are, back off. Be stingy. Good luck

TL;DR Learn how to be stingy with your love. Pace yourself. Don't romanticize someone you don't know (by using music, poems, movies etc). Save only those who have equally big enough hearts to save you. Keep your expectations grounded. Never assume you know everything about a person; human beings are complex. Cheers.

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As a Venus sq Neptune, I love this post, Kannon's and Cosmiq's too.

I also suggest to introduce constant "fairytale" like experiences in your life: such as a magical corner in your house, art, concerts, music, nature. It channels this aspect in a very positive manner, it brings out its tremendous good side, which reflects on relationships as well. It's as if you own it, for the benefit of all. The energy this aspect needs - for fantasy, magic, dreamlike experiences, ideals and beauty - it's being used like a magical gift and redirected from its more negative manifestations.

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