posted December 22, 2015 07:34 PM            

EDIT. I read it here: http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!lilith-in-synastry-another-level-of-obsession/ceph

"In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. When your Lilith aspects your someone’s planet (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or the Ascendant), you are magnetically attracted to this person, and can’t get them out of your mind. This aspect shows an amazing amount of sexual chemistry and an obsessive attraction.
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Like Pluto, Lilith aspects in synastry act to draw out each person’s sexuality. Lilith sex is tantric, obsessive, and highly addictive. Couples with strong Lilith in synastry have an incredibly strong sexual attraction to one another, and it is difficult to keep them apart! "

posted December 23, 2015 09:07 PM            

I love your interpretation, yungang.

'Had this in synastry, my Lilith trine his sun, his Lilith conjunct my moon. In my 8th house.

Reminds me of that song Fire Burns, by Nicki Minaj.

You shoulda left
the other day
You let me beg
for you to stay
This is a sickening joke
That you play with my emotion....

posted December 23, 2015 10:44 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I'm gonna go ahead and say yes?

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But for whom?

posted December 24, 2015 12:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
My Lilith is trine my husband's sun as well. Actually I have an ASC-Venus-Lilith grand trine, so I guess that has snared in a few gents with planets in my little Bermuda Triangle. But I wanted to say, I have never been sexually obsessed with a guy whose sun conjuncts my Aries Lilith. I've been attracted to Aries men a lot, but it's usually around the degree of my Jupiter, sextile my Mars.

Wouldn't say I am sexually obsessed with my husband just because that feels like TMI.

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ASC-VENUS-LILITH GT? Wowzer. That's potent, indeed!

posted December 24, 2015 04:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
ASC-VENUS-LILITH GT? Wowzer. That's potent, indeed!

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My chart is rectified, not official.

But that would make sense considering my life.

Also I have 7 Aries Lilith and 7 Gemini Psyche definitely forming a yod with 6 Scorpio Uranus. For extra spunk.

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
And, I concur. I've never been sexually or otherwise obsessed with anyone whose SUN is conjunct any of my Lilith points.

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posted December 24, 2015 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
Sexual obsession?

EDIT. I read it here: [URL=http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!lilith-in-synastry-another-level-of-obsession/ceph]http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!lilith-in-synastry-another-level-of-obsession/ceph[/ URL]

"In synastry, Lilith brings an untamed, wild sexual energy, feelings of obsession, and intense, transformative interactions. When your Lilith aspects your someone’s planet (especially the Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars, or the Ascendant), you are magnetically attracted to this person, and can’t get them out of your mind. This aspect shows an amazing amount of sexual chemistry and an obsessive attraction.
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Like Pluto, Lilith aspects in synastry act to draw out each person’s sexuality. Lilith sex is tantric, obsessive, and highly addictive. Couples with strong Lilith in synastry have an incredibly strong sexual attraction to one another, and it is difficult to keep them apart! "

Thanks for your answers!

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posted December 24, 2015 06:28 PM            

Is it BML? Is it LILITH 1181? Maybe it's both?

In which case, it's oddly balanced with us.

My BML conjunct his LILITH
My BML conjunct his MARS
My SUN conjunct his LILITH
His BML conjunct my PRIAPUS (potent!)

For me, it's BML that's most active -- even with his LILITH. But for him, it's LILITH that's most active.

I honestly wonder if there's much difference. (BML is the mean calculation here, by the way.)

posted December 24, 2015 07:08 PM            

And Merry Christmas everyone!

posted December 24, 2015 07:12 PM            

She, a Libra-Virgo Sun cusper, and my osc Lilith there at 1 Libra.. She, the epitome of what "proper" behaviour in the world looks like, acts like, and chastises you for not being. She was so hard on my little sister and I, really critical and unforgiving. We were scared of her as well as in awe of her and looking up to her as she did normal teenage things like being drunk and having boyfriends. It all had a dark fascination, not least because she was so overtly "proper" in her admonitions to us (don't pick your nose; you should have _____, and gossiping behind people's backs). So this complex developed in me I guess, so that this degree of Libra, charged throughout multi dimensional time-space with the energy of her Sun, became my LILITH--that which I did, which I was admonished for; my feverish rebellion, my effort at staying in line gone awry. The feeling that there are rulesand tthey're there to be broken or you would never know they even existed... does this make sense?

Does it help separate it from sexuality?

My evolving relationship with my sister involves unconditional love and acceptance. It's all I can do. I love her. I feel compassion for her struggle. Beneath all the ideas of right doing and wrong doing there is a sensitive being who needs love and compassion and understanding.

I just got off the phone with her. I didn't realize she had taken our Dad's house number when he passed away. She still has his ashes after almost 4 years. It's hard to deal with because she didn't ask, she just took them. We plan to eventually bring them to the islands and lakes he canoed as a boy...

It's not easy energy to work with, my sister and I had a few major fights after he passed.

posted December 24, 2015 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
This is so annoying. I never know what damned Lilith is referenced with 'Lilith'.

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I know. It is annoying.

I only talk about BML. Click the Lilith at astro.com, you get the funky glyph:

posted December 24, 2015 07:31 PM            

Wish I knew someone whose sun was on my BML...

posted December 25, 2015 09:35 PM            

What I found very noticeable with strong Lilith connections is that there is this strong magnetic sexual pull towards both people. It feels like a venus or moon or sun or Mars pluto synastry connection.

In natal synastry his BML in sag in the 10the house conjunct my chart ruler venus in sag in the 3rd house .....EXACT.

Im obsessed with him I really am he is so HOT in my mind and when I see him, I just die inside cause I want him so bad but I cant because of the constant power mind control games he plays with me.

He also has his asteroid Lilith trine my ASC exact.

His true Lilith conjunct my NAME ASTEROID, HIS NAME ASTEROID, pallas, DNA, ANGEL, HATHOR and TRINE MY MOON exact. This aaaalllllll squares his VERTEX EXACT.

My BML in aquarius in the 4th house RETROGRADE conjunct his DESTINN/NN .....exact in the 12th house.

My true Lilith also conjunct his NN and opposite his chiron.

My osculating Lilith TRINE his Mars exact and opposite his jupiter within 1 orb and conjunct his ASC Within 1 orb.

My waldemath Lilith conjunct his 8 ruler Mercury and 9 ruler pluto in the 9th house in scorpio.

I don't know but he is attractive in my mind I feel he has the upper hand here mainly and I think I have to blame that on his saturn on my sun exact. And his progressed pluto SQUARE my progressed sun almost to EXACT in synastry as well. His PSATURN CONJUNCT MY PMARS as well. He defently has the upper hand.....

posted December 26, 2015 01:11 PM            

I want to say his DEJA is in that stellium, too. Which is even more trouble.

Doesn't help that it's all hanging out opposite his NNODE conjunct ALGOL.