posted May 26, 2008 01:05 PM            

For Long Run, I have heard this is a good aspect because the person values marriage seriously. But at the same time there is always hard work invovled with this aspect in marriage.

Saturn in 4th is troublesome in terms of having deep emotional relationship with Family - most likely mother at early stage of life and eventually the Spouse.. it almost feels like every emotional cancerian type loving expressions are blocked if they dont pass the 'Saturn practicality test'.

posted June 04, 2008 07:43 PM              

Serious/long lasting love affairs/relationships with men:

- his Saturn in my 4th / my Saturn in his 10th (cj. his MC)
- his Saturn in 7th / my Saturn in his 4th
- his Saturn in my 5th / my Saturn in his 10th

Platonic friendships (with men), long lasting, serious, no way “erotic”:

- his Saturn in my 3rd/my Saturn in his 11th
- his Saturn in my 3rd/my Saturn in his 8th
- his Saturn in my 4th/my Saturn in his 11th
- his Saturn in my 4th/my Saturn in his 9th
- his Saturn in my 5th/my Saturn in his 11th
- his Saturn in my 6th/my Saturn in his 2nd
- his Saturn in my 11th/my Saturn in his 12th

“Unrequited love”/one-sided affection - or volatile/complicated affairs:

- his Saturn in my 3rd/my Saturn in his 9th
- his Saturn in my 3rd/ my Saturn in his 1st
- his Saturn in my 3rd/my Saturn in his 2nd
- his Saturn in my 4th/my Saturn in his 1st
- his Saturn in my 4th/my Saturn in his 4th
- his Saturn in my 5th/my Saturn in his 3rd
- his Saturn in my 6th/my Saturn in his 5th
- his Saturn in my 12th (cj. ASC)/my Saturn in his 1st (cj ASC)

So – this small “test group” suggests three ideas, obviously:

1.) Saturn in the angular houses of your partner seems to favour serious/lasting relationships. (With Saturn in the 1st of your partner being some exception/see idea no.3.)

2.) “Platonic friendship” might be supported by Saturn in the 11th house, indeed.

3.) Saturn in 3rd house of a partner makes affairs of the heart/romantic affairs complicated and “unfriendly” from a certain point onwards – it may stifle your personal way of expressing yourself, maybe?

So does Saturn in the most personal houses of you/your partner, houses 1 and 4 (depending on the involved aspects, of course.).

posted June 04, 2008 08:27 PM            

I've noticed Saturn very much in 1st and 1oth house with my family members and with my sons.

posted June 05, 2008 12:45 AM              

Hope you’re having a great day. Just wanna ask you about your Saturn placing in one of your serious/long lasting love relationship, the first line. When your Saturn was in his 10th house conjunct his MC. What was that like? Did it affect you more or him? I agree with your statement:-

3.) Saturn in 3rd house of a partner makes affairs of the heart/romantic affairs complicated and “unfriendly” from a certain point onwards – it may stifle your personal way of expressing yourself, maybe?

posted June 05, 2008 10:08 AM              

Like someone's Saturn falls in my 2nd house, and he has taught me about how to value myself more and helped me to find my real self...

posted June 05, 2008 10:13 AM              

Interesting topic!

I was seeing and my saturn is in his 8th house and his saturn is in my 8th house too... anybody knows what this means?

We are together for almost 2 years.

We also have saturn conjunction venus, which I'm not sure if it's a good or bad thing... I already read both!

Thanks for any comment! )

posted June 05, 2008 10:40 AM              

the Combo of my Saturn conjunct my BF's MC was a very strong combination. (In fact, we stayed together sincerely for almost 5 years). How did it effect us? Well, that guy taught me a lot. He was much more "mature" than I had been at the time we met - although there are only 3 years of age-difference between us. But while I was just 19 and just had finished shool, he was an advanced student of the law already. Apart from that, he had a huge knowledge on music and pop-culture - a topic I had always been very interested in. (Both my Saturn and his MC are in Taurus, Venusian-bound, with a serious interest in arts & culture with both of us.) He really opened new horizons to me in these regards - and I was eager and willing to learn from him - his MC "feeded" my Saturn, so to speak, put my knowledge on a more solid basis. I am not normally so "willing to follow someone's lead" ... ;-) But I accepted and respected and admired that guy for his keen observations and his knowledge. I felt like some kind of his disciple. (I never felt "subordinate", though.)

Another thing is, that we both took that relationship very serious. I was the first "real GF" for him,. That guy had some Macho-allures, was renowned for that. But somehow ... he seemed to respect me. He liked the fact that I stood up to him, looked him in the eye, was never "afraid" of him, but an equal player for him, in my own way. (My Saturn ... sometimes it was necessary to "dig in my heels" in order to stand up to him - and it worked and led to interesting situations and talks and all.)

The one not so easy side-effect of our Saturn-MC-conjunct was the fact, that he had mixed feelings about my own professional objectives. I was a very ambitious young woman - on the one hand he sort of "admired" my ambition - on the other hand he critized it - and seems to have feel threatened the older we both got and the further I went in my "career" ...

But all together we shared the same dreams and shared the seriousness of our respective objectives and supported each other. I guess both felt that we can rely on each other in any case. (It was one of the 2 BF's I had that I COULD have imagined to raise a family one day, maybe ....)

posted June 06, 2008 05:26 AM              

We became mutual friends and started hanging out. He graduated earlier than me and would sometime come to my university and hang out although he has no business being there… LOLLLL...Career wise he has been supportive of my work. I had a really bad slump few years back in my work but he kept on convincing me that I would be ‘someone’ one day and kept on supporting me. I think he sort of admire my patience dealing with that not so good year. And for his career I admire him greatly, his darn hard working and dedicated. He put 1000% in his work. It seems like your case he respect me too for having my own way of dealing with him. His stubbornness mainly plus with his stelium in Taurus. Yikes!!

You must wonder why we haven’t gone into a more serious relationship together. Guess what his Saturn is in my 3rd house. Yeaaaah again an example of choking, stifling and suffocating effects regarding matters of the heart. LOLLL…

posted November 30, 2008 04:25 PM            

I tend to think that looking to each person's Saturn natally will give more clues as to who is likely to experience what effect. Natally, this guy has Saturn Rx so I'll bet that has some bearing on his behaviour. Also, since my Saturn technically falls into his 12th, that would mean my Saturn is activating that house - like a permanent transit. I'm sure I (and my Saturn) must be bringing up deeply rooted stuff for him.

I also had another relationship with someone who had his Rx Saturn in my 1st house, although not conjunct my Ascendant. We both have Saturn conjunct our IC so there was a similarity to the way we dealt with our deepest selves/our roots. Once again, in the beginning I was more reluctant but after a relatively short period of time, it was all good.

Both of these guys have their Moons squaring their Saturns so that adds to the flavour of their own Saturn in an emotionally inhibitory manner.

posted November 30, 2008 04:47 PM              

I don't mind telling a bit more about the eventual break-up-dynamics. By looking at these again, I came to notice: If someone's Saturn falls into my 5th house ... I hardly can feel any attraction for them! They're about to suffer some heartbreak by unrequited love.

1.) More or less "mutual" break-up - both parties decided to move on at about the same time and managed to make some sort of "friendship" out of the relationship:

His Saturn in my 4th / my Saturn in his 10th (cj. his MC)

2.) Bad break-up for the guy: He was left alone by me - I had the "evil" part and left him standing there:

His Saturn in my 5th / my Saturn in his 10th

and another case:

His Saturn in my 7th / my Saturn in his 4th

3.) The other way round: I felt abandoned, neglected, refused, the guy said "goodbye, not working" or hurt me in other ways:

His Saturn in my 12th (cj. my ASC) / my Saturn in his 1st (cj. his ASC)

another case:

His Saturn in my 3rd / my Saturn in his 9th

4) "Unrequited love": Boys being "after me" and trying to win my heart - but it's futile, I don't feel any attraction for them:

His Saturn in my 5th / my Saturn in his 9th

His Saturn in my 3rd / my Saturn in his 2nd

His Saturn in my 5th / my Saturn in his 3rd

His Saturn in my 5th / my Saturn in his 11th

His Saturn in my 4th / my Saturn in his 2nd

5.) And finally some "unclear", on-and-off-attractions that never really got off the ground but keep popping up again ...

Both our Saturns in the other's 5th house

Both our Saturns in the other's 4th house

His Saturn in my 6th / my Saturn in his 5th house

His Saturn in my 4th / my Saturn in his 1st house

posted November 30, 2008 05:53 PM            

But it's a great placement if you have a thing for older men.

The 7th also rules business partnerships, this has proved to be not significant in my life. My happiest working relationships tend to be with much older men.