posted March 02, 2016 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
We both are-- my Ascendant, his Saturn.. if we take the apex to mean the point in the triangle which makes quincunxes to two planets. The release point is his Mars sort of I guess at 4 degrees Taurus, and our composite North Node at 4 degrees Taurus, and my descendant sort of, at 2 degrees Taurus...

I feel like he has more control cause it's his Saturn but then again when I really own my Scorpio power my ascendant can be a powerful force in its own right. And by nature of who I am it just is powerful. It's strange though to have the ascendant as the apex of my personal yod. It's like I am unaware of how I project both my Martian and Jupiterian qualities and it really takes on that finger of God aspect where it's fated and I have little control. Then again I can become aware of the energy available at my disposal and wield it in a powerful way.

He is unaware of how his Saturn/Pluto affect his own Moon and Venus... this makes perfect sense. I am helping him become aware of it I guess through the loving light of Jupiter and the desire nature of my Mars, as well as highlighting with my ascendant the nature of his crazy Saturn-Pluto power games of which he goes about unaware of how they are linked to his romantic nature and emotional pain-body... the Saturn-Moon quincunx really describes a lot of what is goin on with him I think... and I can see how the synastry yods would be powerful for love because we can help one another become aware of our own blind spots and grow through our quincunxes into a harmonious blending of those natal energies.

But we had to go through it all...

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Omg your right!!! He has no idea of how much effect his saturn/pluto effects his own moon venus especially since you say he is the apex but you also share that to so im sure it makes you become more aware of your ascendant. Omgggg you are on point! This resonated a lot into my own YOD that I share with him.

posted March 02, 2016 05:44 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Interestingly, his Sun 21 Aries quincunx my Sun 21 Scorpio... and also the other woman he loves, his Sun quincunx her Sun a little widely at 23 Virgo. So we kind of form a Sun yod, the three of us. Yeesh... maybe my Venus at 17 Libra is a little wide as a release point but one can scheme and dream

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Do you feel the QUINCUNX between your suns? Does it feel awkward to have your sun on his sun? Tell me!!!

posted March 02, 2016 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Hmm interesting. I wonder very much about control in synastry... who feels what... where do I end and you begin.. how we perceive one another.. Everyone evolves at their own pace yet each person does have a certain role to play in every engagement.

It depends of course on how the yod is configured and who is contributing what. I'm just continually flabbergasted by quincunxes in general i just gotta say that again.

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posted March 02, 2016 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Angel, i feel like your dream does seem to sort of exemplify the difficulty in resolving the tension inherent in a yod.. i wonder what it would look like if the trigger were pulled. I feel you, i do. I think that's what i meant back there about difficulty finding resolution...

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Aewwww thanks! Im glad you understand! Yes I feel this dream really means something connected to the YOD. A release.

posted December 09, 2022 03:10 AM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
It seems very difficult to feel any sense of resolution with synastry yods... that's my experience so far.

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Perhaps this has to do with what mar1982delta said above about "unfinished business"?:

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Originally posted by mar1982delta:
"the QUINCUNX in synastry very dynamic but gives a stubborn quality "
Yes I agree very much with this, it's like you always come back to "solve" the problem somehow, although you don't know how to do it..I had once read about the quinqunx that it gives the feeling of "unfinished business", I am still learning, so I don't know for sure, but it sounded pretty accurate to me at least!!!

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As usual, it depends on the rest of the synastry and charts. I would think that these surrounding terrains would need to be pretty special to cope with a YOD?

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Originally posted by angel4845:
I feel that the apex individual has control over what is harmonizing between the two planets that form a sextile.

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Anyone know why this is so?

posted March 09, 2023 04:40 AM            

Yeah.. I know.. I bump it anyhow.

Others might see how intelligent discussion and enquiry was had around these parts once-upon-a-time.

Maybe it will catch on