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MilaBirkin
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posted April 14, 2016 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not sure if it's ok how I express this "Venus person, Sun person" but I think you can understand what I mean.
I read somewhere that Sun square Venus means the "Sun person" finds more beautiful to the "Venus person" but "Venus person" doesn't think the same about the "Sun person". What do you think about this? I have Venus square Ascendant so if I have Sun square Venus with someone I also have Sun conjunct Ascendant or Sun opposite Ascendant and that maybe changes things a little. But I don't know, I think Sun square Venus can mean attraction? Like "you are not the type of person I like but I feel attraction and somehow I think you are interesting even if we have different tastes".

I hope someone can understand me, lol.

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posted April 14, 2016 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vajra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Elysia
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No, not at all!

I have this with someone.. And I was really attracted to him.
What can happen is, the Sun person may not be the Venus person's 'type', but they find them attractive nonetheless. Something akin to what Vajra said.

It may be relevant to add to my example that his Venus trines my Sun.. But even without that, I would've found him attractive. I think any Sun-Venus aspect will do that. Just that they may or may not match what you thought was your physical ideal.

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posted April 14, 2016 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If we're talking strictly from a outside appearance point of view - someone's "vibe" and "look" - I would say this has more to do with the ASC than the Sun.

I think the Sun has more to do with someone's essence - their core personality. Then I would say perhaps, at a core level, if someone's Venus is square your Sun you may not be their "type" exactly but they still like who you are. If it's the ASC that is squared, then you might not be their type from a physical standpoint.

For instance, my SO's Venus is conjunct my Gemini Sun but square my Virgo ASC. I know for a fact my style of dress and how I present myself is not his usual "type" though he still thinks I am beautiful - inside (Sun) and out (ASC). On the other hand, my Venus is trine his ASC and I think he's one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen and have 0 qualms about him physically.

I could be wrong but, it seems this way to me lol

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posted April 14, 2016 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MilaBirkin:
I'm not sure if it's ok how I express this "Venus person, Sun person" but I think you can understand what I mean.
I read somewhere that Sun square Venus means the "Sun person" finds more beautiful to the "Venus person" but "Venus person" doesn't think the same about the "Sun person". What do you think about this? I have Venus square Ascendant so if I have Sun square Venus with someone I also have Sun conjunct Ascendant or Sun opposite Ascendant and that maybe changes things a little. But I don't know, I think Sun square Venus can mean attraction? Like "you are not the type of person I like but I feel attraction and somehow I think you are interesting even if we have different tastes".

I hope someone can understand me, lol.


I dont think sun-venus is about look or ugly, but about energy. venus is about what you like, if it is your sun aspecting venus, then venus may be at odd with the way you are, yous self, but he has a reaction and it is attracted although not necesarily like what your are. attraction to your physicality is more in mars (how you move for instance) and ascendant (appeareance and mannerisms)... I shared this aspect with my ex (my venus-mars-sun square his sun)and he found me gorgeous (which I am, of course LOL)and I found him super handsome.. my venus trine his AC though..

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posted April 14, 2016 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
If we're talking strictly from a outside appearance point of view - someone's "vibe" and "look" - I would say this has more to do with the ASC than the Sun.

I think the Sun has more to do with someone's essence - their core personality. Then I would say perhaps, at a core level, if someone's Venus is square your Sun you may not be their "type" exactly but they still like who you are. If it's the ASC that is squared, then you might not be their type from a physical standpoint.

For instance, my SO's Venus is conjunct my Gemini Sun but square my Virgo ASC. I know for a fact my style of dress and how I present myself is not his usual "type" though he still thinks I am beautiful - inside (Sun) and out (ASC). On the other hand, my Venus is trine his ASC and I think he's one of the most beautiful men I've ever seen and have 0 qualms about him physically.

I could be wrong but, it seems this way to me lol


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MilaBirkin
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posted April 18, 2016 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MilaBirkin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 19, 2016 04:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heh, my venus square my s.o's sun. And I think he's one of the most gorgeous creatures in my universe. But well, my venus conjunct his ascendant lol.

For me, it's like what other members mentioned. I didn't think I'd find his "type" attractive. He's almost the complete opposite of what I thought I liked, both in physical appearance and vibe.

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posted April 19, 2016 10:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes my venus squares my ex sun and he was very much my type physically, now his AC also conjuncts widely but in orb my Sun.

Mr. Aqua's venus squares exact my sun and he was very attracted to me, however his venus also conjuncts by sign my AC which trines and sextiles exact his nodes.

My husband's AC squares my Venus by 1d and I find him attractive yes and charming, funny and cute but he is not my ideal physically like with my ex and mr.aqua which with both the physical attraction I felt for them was instant.


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posted September 01, 2024 06:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hemilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elysia:
No, not at all!

I have this with someone.. And I was really attracted to him.
What can happen is, the Sun person may not be the Venus person's 'type', but they find them attractive nonetheless. Something akin to what Vajra said.

It may be relevant to add to my example that his Venus trines my Sun.. But even without that, I would've found him attractive. I think any Sun-Venus aspect will do that. Just that they may or may not match what you thought was your physical ideal.



Gah ! I have this his aries venus and my gem sun (ruler of asc at that) and the first thing he told me he dosent understand why hes atrracted to me (blond Marilyn monro type) shen he usualy only notices dark haired girls. I am stilllll pizzed about that! I bet he meant it as a compliment but damn my ego was BRUISED. Plus i know his ex was a blondie so i dont know what gives lol

His venus does TRINE my ascendant so i do think he likes what he sees

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posted October 10, 2024 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Miasangel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No not at all, the complete opposite actually, at least in my experience. Venus is usually highly attracted to the Sun person but if there isn’t honest communication and appreciation shown from the Sun to Venus, Venus may begin to resent the Sun. That’s what I’ve seen be the downfall of a relationship due to this aspect. Sun can be selfish and doesn’t show Venus how much they value them. But other than that, attraction-wise it’s a good aspect.

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