posted December 31, 2011 12:03 AM            

I looked at more than 30 couple's synastry charts, and surprisingly another common aspect was what we call the "Divorce Aspect" Venus-Uranus. However, with every Venus-Uranus aspect there was a strong saturn aspect. Overall Venus-Uranus & Mars-Uranus came up more than Sun-Saturn in these couples charts. :O

posted December 31, 2011 01:53 AM            

And yeah, I agree about Saturn. And I agree about the Venus/Uranus so-called divorce aspect! My mother and stepfather have been married for almost 30 years and they have this. They are both Aquas and have prominent Uranus in their chart. I think they can handle the Uranian tides. Same with any couple esp as you say, with Saturn. The hard aspects with it can be totallllllllly annoying but they're gluey too.

Oh yeah also before i forget - I think if you have a major formation in your chart (i.e. Tsquare, Grand Trine etc) and someone puts a planet in very close aspect to it, it can become remarkable 'glue' - turn Grand Trines into Grand Kites, Tsquares to Grand Crosses, or somehow round out the person's chart so that they're somehow 'completed' by the aspect.

posted December 31, 2011 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
If you study Synastry then it should be no surprise that Saturn is the most common Planet you see in long-term relationships.
This link shows a list of the longest lasting marriages in the world (the longest over +90 years) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_people_with_the_longest_marriages

I looked at more than 30 couple's synastry charts, and surprisingly another common aspect was what we call the "Divorce Aspect" Venus-Uranus. However, with every Venus-Uranus aspect there was a strong saturn aspect. Overall Venus-Uranus & Mars-Uranus came up more than Sun-Saturn in these couples charts. :O

The [b]Bold aspects are what over 90% percent of the couples had in there synastry, & the ones that aren't were at least 70%
Sun-Neptune (easy aspects)
Moon-Saturn
Venus-Saturn
Mars-Saturn (harsh aspects)
Venus-Uranus (if none, Mars-Uranus)
Venus-Chiron(if none, Venus-Ceres or Venus-Vesta)
Jupiter-Chiron
Venus-NN
Saturn-NN[/B]

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This makes sense to me. The whole uranus causes divorce does not feel right, I feel uranus brings people together and if the couple is evolved enough and understand how to love unconditionally without controlling eachother and by accepting each other as each are then it works out bc uranus to me is what teaches me about detached love and it makes sense that lasting marriages can handle this type of energy in their relationship. Saturn should be involved too but I never felt that uranus equals ooh watch out....it wont last! perhaps when one of the parties is not mature enough to handle a bit of chaos and unpredictability. Personally a relationship devoid of uranus would not fly with me....it would feel too boring and restrictive. I need change, unpredictability, detachment to a certain extent for me to be able to last with anyone for more than a year.

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posted December 31, 2011 02:25 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
No Sun/Moon ?!?

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There birthtime is not listed, so idk the moon aspects

posted December 31, 2011 02:30 AM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:
I have consistently found Sun/Moon to be great in theory and not in practice. IMO It can draw people in but it doesn't prove longevity. I put more stock in compatible moons because they have some familiarity at least. I know sun/moon is so loved etc because it is so symbolic but I just don't know. It never did anything for me, maybe that's why????

And yeah, I agree about Saturn. And I agree about the Venus/Uranus so-called divorce aspect! My mother and stepfather have been married for almost 30 years and they have this. They are both Aquas and have prominent Uranus in their chart. I think they can handle the Uranian tides. Same with any couple esp as you say, with Saturn. The hard aspects with it can be totallllllllly annoying but they're gluey too.

Oh yeah also before i forget - I think if you have a major formation in your chart (i.e. Tsquare, Grand Trine etc) and someone puts a planet in very close aspect to it, it can become remarkable 'glue' - turn Grand Trines into Grand Kites, Tsquares to Grand Crosses, or somehow round out the person's chart so that they're somehow 'completed' by the aspect.

But I think of a couple of friends who've been together for a long time and have no Saturn aspects and wonder ....what the hell has kept them together this long? I think it's definitely other stuff. Plus there's the composite which kind of shows other things too probably

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posted December 31, 2011 02:34 AM            

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Originally posted by MyVirgoMask:


Oh yeah also before i forget - I think if you have a major formation in your chart (i.e. Tsquare, Grand Trine etc) and someone puts a planet in very close aspect to it, it can become remarkable 'glue' - turn Grand Trines into Grand Kites, Tsquares to Grand Crosses, or somehow round out the person's chart so that they're somehow 'completed' by the aspect.

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posted December 31, 2011 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:

This makes sense to me. The whole uranus causes divorce does not feel right, I feel uranus brings people together and if the couple is evolved enough and understand how to love unconditionally without controlling eachother and by accepting each other as each are then it works out bc uranus to me is what teaches me about detached love and it makes sense that lasting marriages can handle this type of energy in their relationship. Saturn should be involved too but I never felt that uranus equals ooh watch out....it wont last! perhaps when one of the parties is not mature enough to handle a bit of chaos and unpredictability. Personally a relationship devoid of uranus would not fly with me....it would feel too boring and restrictive. I need change, unpredictability, detachment to a certain extent for me to be able to last with anyone for more than a year.

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Uranus though without any saturn been involved will probably be short lived but with saturn involved I think it adds to the relationship definitively but if couple is young and immature even with saturn involved it will probably be short lived. I feel uranus energy is a gift but only when the people involved in the relationship have the maturity to handle it.

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posted December 31, 2011 02:57 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
What about pluto!!!!??
You didnt find pluto aspects prominent in atleast 70 percent of the cases?

I guess this would explain why most married couples don't have sex out this world type of sex and is more a lovers domain.

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posted December 31, 2011 08:48 AM            

And I have Venus-Uranus too

posted December 31, 2011 11:41 AM            

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And Amelia28, we have Pluto everywhere and this marriage has me totally exhausted. I know you are desiring active sex, but too much is ridiculous. [/B]

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LMAO.........I am happy for you both but thanks for trying to make me feel good, that is really sweet and I have to say that you have made me laugh a number of times....You are a funny!

posted December 31, 2011 12:52 PM            

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Originally posted by mockingbird:
What have you found to be of greater influence / to be more reflective of a relationship: Synastry or Composite?

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posted December 31, 2011 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
@Lonake/amelia28
Thats your opinion, but keep in mind I did the Top +30 longest marriages recorded World Wide (the shortest 81yrs). If you ask me, it's pretty rare for marriages to last that long especially in this day of age where divorce rates are nearly 50%. So I feel like my research was a decent amount considering how many couples actually stay together for that extended time. Are you saying that these aspects continuing to come up is nearly just a coincidence? If so, I'm always up for a good debate (Jupiter sq Mercury). Again with Moon-Saturn I've seen it plenty times in my personal experience so I'm not taking that off :]

If you Click the link there are over 100 marriages listed. Feel free to do your own research if it interests you.

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