posted June 10, 2016 09:09 PM            

The hard Mars/Saturn double whammy doesn't seem to be helping either.

posted June 11, 2016 08:05 PM            

post the composite chart for Todd here as well. He's great at telling the story of relationship from chart!

posted June 12, 2016 04:07 PM            

"Moon in 1st House Synastry Overlay

The Moon in the partner’s first house of a synastry overlay creates a safe environment in your relationship for the sharing of each other’s feelings.

The Moon person automatically feels secure with the house person. You (Moon person) allow yourself to let your guard down around the first house person. You feel comfortable opening up the this person and sharing your personal side with them. You have an instinctual feeling that they “get you,” and that they’ll be there for you. And, you tend to assume that the first house person feels the same way about you.

The first house person is moved by the Moon person. The Moon person’s openness touches you (house person) in a soft spot. The Moon person brings out a sensitive side in you that you perhaps never knew you had. They arouse your nurturing, caring side.

This is a tender and warm relationship since both of are emotionally sensitive to each other. This synastry overlay is a strong one for marriage."

from: https://astrolibrary.org/syn/moon-house/

"Moon in Partners 1st house

This placement makes for a very close intuitive connection based on similar emotional natures and upbringings.

This is a very close tie, you each will be very sensitive to each others feelings. This is a very intuitive position for the moon, you will easily pick up each others feelings and therefore will be able to respond as needed and your moods will be closely connected to how the other feels.

Just be careful not to mix their feelings with your own. Your moods will affect each other greatly and usually when one is down the other will know it, and feel it. This placement is very binding because of the almost telepathic understanding of each other's needs.

The similarities between the two are uncanny and you both feel that you are of the same tribe which makes you want to spend as much time around each other as possible."

from: http://illumeastrology.blogspot.com/2013/06/synastry-moon-in-houses.html

"Moon in a partner’s first house:

First & foremost let me just say this placement can be seen with many married couples. This placement brings a feeling of comfort with the couple as you may feel very comfortable with each other and may instinctively know how to nurture each other. When your Moon is in your romantic partner’s first house, your partner can feel very much at home with you. Can feel very nurtured and secure with you. They may like your lifestyle of home and family and the way you nurture. You both may have common interests and you may see things in your partner that the rest of the world does not and this can lead to a closer bond.

​When your relationship partner’s Moon is in your first house, you will feel that you pick up on your partners moods quite easily. At the same time you may find yourself looking to your partner for emotional security as well. You both know how to emotionally comfort one another. You may feel very much comfortable with your home life with your partner. You may find yourself very attracted to your partner & sincerely enjoy each others company."

from: https://www.livevisionz.com/synastry-moon.html

posted June 13, 2016 08:28 AM            

I hope to learn more about your work. It sounds very needed. I always wished more people would come to LL with stories of long time relationships that had survived so I could see what a lasting relationship chart looked like, but it seemed they were all off busy living their lives. Most of the relationship charts posted here years ago were the transitory kind that seemed fated and intense... but then burned out months (or days) to years later. Of course many people were able to post charts from parents who had been together for 30-40 years, but that again is a different sample from couples who grew up in a different age/era when the outer planets inspired people to stay together out of necessity or common culture of the 50's and earlier generations etc. It seems the only charts we had to study of long term relationships belonged to celebrities. So yes, your work is needed.

posted June 13, 2016 11:25 AM              

My friend and her hubby have been married for 11 years and together for 16 years, but I guess that is not yet longterm enough.

Hey my best friend and me have been friends for 25 years, but then again it is a friendship, not a romantic relationship.

posted June 14, 2016 01:05 AM            

I do want to say that alegna is an exceptionally gifted chart reader.

I will absolutely still share info on first house moon synastry with CapriciousCap. Soon.

hannarammaa, there is a lifetime of love. But you did get the "super intense sexual attraction and closeness" part right.

Lacey, I'm kind of glad that darn Venus/Uranus of mine isn't aspected. I think the earth elements in my chart compliment the earth elements in his chart so the lack of aspects to his sun doesn't worry me as much. Your comment about lack of aspects to Jupiter made me pause, but I guess you can't have everything. We both have a lot of 9th house action and we aspect each others planets in the 9th. He is over the top generous with me always. Jupiter is in the first house conjunct the AC in the Composite too (trine the sun).

It is past my bedtime and I am sleepy, but I did get it done to share with you all. Here is your bedtime chart story.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/005105.html

posted June 14, 2016 03:39 AM            

Wonderful opposing lunar phases + an amazing composite result. Both Suns at the end of the 8th house is also striking.

You're my age mystic, so having half a life of ****** connections behind me I can imagine what a treasure this must feel like.

I would like to look into the progressions, if it's possible to share the data Mystic, let me know.

posted June 17, 2016 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Can you put in Odysseus and Penelope (5143 and 201 I think). ?

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I checked for you. Odysseus is 1143. My Ody/Penelope are both conjunct my Mars/NN conjunction within less than two degrees. His Penelope is conjunct my Venus/Uranus by one degree. His Odysseus is at the midpoint between our two Cappy moons. What does it mean?