posted October 11, 2016 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by thingsgoneby:
Jupiter in Cancer in the 11th or 10th house (my parents apparently don’t agree on my birth time, I recently learned).

What do you think, who will my Mr. Right be?

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I notice that the father is usually more correct about the birth time. as mothers can be rather overwhelmed and their brains can be foggy for obvious reasons!

if it's the 10th, you can meet him in work-related environment and situations (like the 6th). and if it's in the 11th, you may meet him online or in a group of people you are friends with or do some social stuff together.

posted October 11, 2016 02:23 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:

I don't know what "place" or setting 1H would be.

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which house in your chart has cusp in sagittarius?

posted October 11, 2016 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
My Jupiter is in 2nd House, Aquarius. I met my current bf at our mutual friend's birthday party... Hmm does this fit your theory? I feel like this is more like 11th house setting?

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it doesn't necessarily fit all the men you have dated or will date. supposedly it is only about "the one" and the person you marry. although the aquarius sign thing may well suggest the mutual friend theme.

posted October 11, 2016 03:39 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
yes please! and do not limit your words!
I love reading others' experiences!

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I'm sorry I'll write a lot. And sorry if I misspelled .

I think all my relationships with guys had the feeling of “it was meant to be“. But this year I've met two guys and the feelings I had with them were so different from others.

The first one: I saw him on Facebook (April 2015). I felt so attracted to him! I never 'stalk' someone online, and I didn't knew who he was but he was friends with my first “boyfriend“. He really caught my attention, I saw him and I thought “he is perfect for me“. So weird. I forgot about him and in February this year, I go out to dance with my cousin and I didn't liked the place so I told her to go to another place, we did and I wanted to walk around that place? Instead of dancing, haha. I felt I had to do that. My cousin left me, she was with a group of people and I was just there without doing anything when I realise some guy was staring up at me and I felt uncomfortable because he was very close. I saw him for less than a second but he keeps staring so I thought “ok, whatever“, I looked at him and he told me hi, we dance and I remember I was thinking “oh, no way! Is this the guy I saw on Facebook a few months ago? Oh, wow, he is!“. I live in a city, there is a lot of people and places so... And you know what! That group of friends my cousin was talking to, was his group of friends so we all left together and they all live in the same neighbourhood as me! This guy was the most nicest guy for me. He was such a gentleman. Never before I had known a guy like that, who treated me so well. When this happened, Venus was conjunct my natal Venus/MC, sextile my Jupiter and Mars. Saturn conjunct Jupiter, square Saturn. Moon conjunct my NN and 7th house. Jupiter opposite my Sun, and it falls in my 5th house, it also conjunct his Moon and Mars was in the same sign-degrees as his Sun.

The second one: I've met him dancing haha. He caught my attention but I was never going to talk to him, he was a strange person. I was with my cousin celebrating my birthday! First hours of my bday. She met two girls and we were dancing with them. My cousin and one of those girls went to the bathroom and I was with one of them. She saw this guy and she told me “let's dance with him! he is cute“ and I was like 'Oh,ok...'. She talked to him and we introduced our selves, we danced. I asked his name, and we all asked him to be friends on Facebook. He had some online chats with all of them but mostly with me and now he lost contact with them. We were talking as we knew each other for years and he is very distant but not with me! One day we met and we both were like friends but suddenly we kissed, lol. It wasn't a date. A few weeks ago I saw him and as I wrote it, I live in a city were there is a lot of people so everytime that things like this happen it surprises me. He is from another city but he lives here because he wants to study here. His Sun-Mars conjunct my Ascendant-NS. His Venus-Jupiter-Ascendant conjunct my Sun. When we met dancing, Sun conjunct Sun (was my birthday) so his Venus-Jupiter-Ascendant was in conjunct with the Sun too. Moon conjunct my Ascendant-NS and his Sun-Mars.
I really like this guy. Sometimes I daydream about beautiful situations with him, haha. But he is busy and has a lot of friends.

posted October 11, 2016 04:49 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
it doesn't necessarily fit all the men you have dated or will date. supposedly it is only about "the one" and the person you marry. although the aquarius sign thing may well suggest the mutual friend theme.

can you please say what both your jobs are? are they "money" or "home" related? and whether there has been any charity or traveling abroad involved? or him being from a whole other country or culture? as I guess you have the 12th cups in sag.

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Hello OP!

As far as I can tell, he is THE one for me We both mutually feel that way so we are happily in relationship!

Both of our jobs don't have money theme but yes for home and charity theme perhaps? He is a crane operator for roofers in town. I do HIV research at a hospital.

posted October 12, 2016 03:43 AM            

maybe the sexy dance/night theme would have to do with the 8th house? and a bit of stalking beforehand too

and your natal jupiter conjunct your vertex and juno is really unique! that's why your encounters all feel magical and fated!

posted October 12, 2016 03:52 AM            

if you have your first cusp in sag, then he may be a client or a patient, like jupiter in the 1st. and with jupiter in your 2nd, maybe in a restaurant, or a bank, or the supermarket?!

posted October 12, 2016 08:52 AM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

I notice that the father is usually more correct about the birth time. as mothers can be rather overwhelmed and their brains can be foggy for obvious reasons!

if it's the 10th, you can meet him in work-related environment and situations (like the 6th). and if it's in the 11th, you may meet him online or in a group of people you are friends with or do some social stuff together.

might be also useful to see which house cusp you have in sagittarius.

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posted October 12, 2016 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
@YellowGerbera

if you have your first cusp in sag, then he may be a client or a patient, like jupiter in the 1st. and with jupiter in your 2nd, maybe in a restaurant, or a bank, or the supermarket?!

with your current bf, only the Aqua theme seems to be relevant. you're immigrant but your 12th cusp isn't in sag, so it's not because of that.

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Haha I would like to think that my current bf is "the" one! My Jupiter is in 2nd but his is in 12th which falls into my 2nd. We are born in the same year so we share the same sign.

My progressed chart on the day I met him shows Jupiter in 1st though! That's interesting. His natal Jupiter conjuncts my progressed Jupiter by 3 deg.

posted October 12, 2016 08:55 PM            

My SO and I met at work. Not very "8th house-ish" right?
Except that he was my new boss *gasp* and I was in the agonizing process of choosing whether or not to leave my ex husband. Which I did when this man showed me that even a stranger cared more to know me than my "husband". Everyone thought I left my ex for this other man rather than the actual reasons due to the seemingly sudden and drastic decision to move out of my house. It was neither of those things to me because I had been considering it for months. But people's perceptions are their own reality and I felt no need to put my problems on display to change their minds.

The first day we worked together his pr DSC was exactly conjunct my natal Jupiter and his pr Juno was opposite my natal Jupiter.
Tr Juno was opp trKarma exact and sextile trJupiter
In our composite Moon, Kaali, and Jupiter are all tightly conjunct in Aries and opposite Juno in Libra almost exact (less than 2°).
We also have Vertex, Uranus, and Karma all tightly conjunct in the comp 5th. Uranus is our comp DSC ruler, and both our natal DSC rulers as well.
His nMoon in my 8th
My nSun in his 8th
My nSun conj his nMoon

posted October 12, 2016 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
@girlwiththerainysoul - is there any reference in vedic about which planet one would reference in a male's chart for the same type of clue - as to where/how he would meet his mate?

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yes, you look at the house which has venus in it. Or houses with taurus/libra cusps.

posted October 12, 2016 10:50 PM            

the fact that your current SO has helped you "bounce back" from your previous life is very much the 8th house.

I know this girl who has jupiter in the 8th. her car was stolen and she went to her insurance company to report. there she met this guy who was doing the financial paperwork for her and they married pretty soon after!

posted October 13, 2016 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
@YellowGerbera

if you have your first cusp in sag, then he may be a client or a patient, like jupiter in the 1st. and with jupiter in your 2nd, maybe in a restaurant, or a bank, or the supermarket?!

with your current bf, only the Aqua theme seems to be relevant. you're immigrant but your 12th cusp isn't in sag, so it's not because of that.

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Haha I would like to think that my current bf is "the" one! My Jupiter is in 2nd but his is in 12th which falls into my 2nd. We are born in the same year so we share the same sign.

My progressed chart on the day I met him shows Jupiter in 1st though! That's interesting. His natal Jupiter conjuncts my progressed Jupiter by 3 deg.

posted October 13, 2016 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
@lionfish

the fact that your current SO has helped you "bounce back" from your previous life is very much the 8th house.

I know this girl who has jupiter in the 8th. her car was stolen and she went to her insurance company to report. there she met this guy who was doing the financial paperwork for her and they married pretty soon after!

there seems to be always a sense of loss and then gaining something in return, with the 8th house.

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posted October 15, 2016 02:37 AM            

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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
My Jupiter is in 2nd but his is in 12th which falls into my 2nd. We are born in the same year so we share the same sign.

his progressed chart on the day shows his 11th house cusp in conjunction with my natal Jupiter by 2 deg. 11th House = social house. I met him at a party so I think your theory makes sense

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it's an interesting approach, to look for the progressions as well!

posted October 15, 2016 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

but I must say, that jupiter only applies to women. for men you should look at their venus position.

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So for my SO...

Venus in Virgo in the 2nd, Libra intercepted in his 3rd, and his MC (which is conjunct my NN) is in Taurus.

He moved 250 miles to be here for his job, where he met me

His Venus in the 2nd and my Jupiter in the 8th fits the 6 houses theory, too.

Lol I was reading through this thread yesterday and showing him on astro.com what was being discussed. I told him, "I think the stars think we were meant to be." He responded with "I told you so." Referring to when we very first started dating when I had asked how I got so lucky to meet him. He'd told me, "Because our stars aligned perfectly." *swoon*

I guess time will tell!

posted October 15, 2016 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:

His Venus in the 2nd and my Jupiter in the 8th fits the 6 houses theory, too.

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posted October 15, 2016 02:24 PM            

Met ex-1 on the bus.
(My asteroid bus on my Moon sextile Jupiter, and near his Sun).
I was working in the Banking industry at the time, as was he.

This incredibly dashing handsome 6'5" redhaired (and bearded) man dressed in a professional suit, carrying a leather briefcase got on the bus, and came to sit next to me.

In those days the seat at the back of the bus was a long padded seat (instead of the individual hard bucket seats of today).

He had to sit in the center (of the aisle) as he was sooo tall, and a large man. He had plenty of leg and knee room there in the back and middle.

I was working downtown in a Stock Brokerage (H8 Banking Industry) as a Sales Assistant (a longterm permanent temp(consult) position).

He was a (computer) senior scientific programmer-analyst, creating~formulating a 401K Plan and a Thrift Plan {banking computer programs, and working as a consultant} for a world wide internationally known (h9) company.

His car had broken down and was in the shop for repairs. The bus had a stop in front of where he lived, and it was convenient for him (with parking fees, etc).

It was an almost two-hour trip to go downtown. I enjoyed my privacy there every morning for the commute in the back of the bus, daily reading my newspaper.
... He would crane his neck, trying to read my paper all the time, so I got frustrated with him doing that, and one day just ~OFFERED him my paper.

He was really nice... which opened communications between us. He continued to take the bus, even after his car was fixed (laughing).

He offered to take me to lunch (at The Panda)-- and later we each confessed there had been a creepy feeling that each independently had had; as we peered at our menus, we both had the premonition that we were sitting in front of our future spouse.

He was a super-stellium Virgo (a few years younger than me).
He had a Jupiter-Neptune Conjunction in early Scorpio (near my Juno, in 11th House).
His Vesta Cancer 23+, near my Vesta 17+, and
His Vesta Cancer conjunct my Vertex Cancer 24+.... (which conjuncts my Uranus Cancer 25+). (ALL in my H8)

His Moon was late Virgo to early Libra. (This would be my 9th and 10th Houses (career), sextile my VX-Uranus-Jupiter Cancer. (And if in early Libra, could have been Quintile my Jupiter).

We formed a consulting business together (this was his dream), and had done this just-in-time for the surprise news that his consulting company was downsizing and letting go of all east-coast business affiliations... We were ready (had our corporation), and this MegaCorporation made an exception for us, and included OUR small business (of 2 persons) as one of their subcontractors.

{as a note...}
My company went moot after the divorce-- The divorce just shattered me. I became a single mom, alone, with two very small tots, and very heavy bills {he refused to pay childsupport}-- and I wound up with a job that hardly paid enough. {The divorce was a surprise.}

On discovery, he had injured the company, through embezzlement, plus owing tens!!! of thousands in taxes never paid out.
The IRS (H8) went after HIM after we were thoroughly investigated and audited. {He was 'wanted' by marshalls from different companies both domestic and foreign for fraud.} I was able to satisfy and 'prove' that I had done my part, and he hadn't fulfilled his responsibilities. {It was discovered that he had subverted funds to run his own secret international side-business.} I was awarded the corporation, and two computers (which he stole).

Had I kept my corporation, I realize now (hindsight) that I could have hired and trained one other person, and kept 'my' clients at the NameCompany(selling server space/time), clients at the Stock Brokerages (known by and had good reputation with two different companies) at that time.

(Glug *little gentle bubbles*.... Staring into the waters of the past, under that nostalgic bridge and sky.)

I looked up positions of asteroid Banks today, and I found it at 27+ Scorpio trine my Jupiter Cancer with tVenus at 26.53 Scorpio too. (my H12). The {Name} of the company is CONJUNCT my Jupiter today (H8).

Right now tVenus is in my H12 Scorpio...
I'm laughing because some of the astrology vidders said this would represent thinking about your ex's, and taking trips down memory lane!
hashtag-- You can't make this stuff up!

Today tVesta in Cancer 28+ conjunct my Jupiter Cancer... coming up to my Banks at 29+.

Grand trine with transiting bodies--
Venus-Banks Scorpio <trine my Jupiter, Banks>
trine Vesta-{CompanyName} <conjunct my Jupiter, Banks>

One time, I was listening to a KRS vid about Vedic Jupiter Cancer H8! ... I remember the surprise when he described what happened.