posted October 19, 2016 08:07 PM            

I've always experienced relationships where I meet someone with distance between us (geographically). I've "met" people in standard situations--at school, at work, at bars, at concerts, etc.--but one thing I have noticed is that the nature of these relationships is always very "slippery," as in it's hard to actually grasp onto partners, whether that means physically because of distance or emotionally because I build up these constructs of how dreamy/romantic things with them might be. Building a sense of the other person/our relationship is always very idealized on my end, and I spiral with all the "what if's" and how things could be perfect about this person or a relationship with them (my own imaginations, usually) and fall fast, but also I can fall out of this obsession equally as quickly.

posted February 18, 2017 08:45 PM            

My significant relationships.
First was a taurus, who was a sports coach (mars-jupiter conjunction).

Second was a Virgo who was a sports journalist.

Third, met online, an Aries (Mars conjunct Jupiter again) - and our early dates were heavily based on physical activity eg cycling, climbing, running.

Potential next - we met at work. We got talking after working up new developments together. He's a Scorpio (Mars) with Sag rising, and his Jupiter exact conjuncts my Midheaven.

His Venus (the counterweight) is in Virgo in the 10th (house of career). Incidentally, it's conjunct his Mars.

posted February 22, 2017 07:06 AM            

[Interesting side point, that I just read on Dark Pixie Astrology that Jupiter in the 7th can indicate lots of marriages or marriage near-misses :blush: ]

If we go strictly on the jupiter in isolation, then I'd expect an actual marriage partner to have lots of virgo or to be a virgo/merc type. The 7H element might come from some form of platonic 121 interaction maybe?

Would having Mars in such close proximity to Jupiter be an indicator that actually crossing the line and becoming a married partner will be much harder? As if Mars is keeping men at boyfriend status rather than letting them pass through into full marriage? Just a thought.