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Topic: Tell me all about Composite Venus in 12th House
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Starry~*
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posted November 17, 2016 10:28 AM
  
Hey guys,I've been doing a few research about venus in the 12th house..what I really want to know is if any of you know people that experienced it..or you yourself have experienced it. What were some of the repercussions or common themes that kept creeping up? Was the relationship lasting? Was it hidden from the public eye? Was it an affair or were there affairs surrounding these two people? IP: Logged |
AwakenSky16
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From: between here and threre
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posted November 17, 2016 01:52 PM
I can't say much because I'm not sure (50%)of the composite asc here, but it looks like Venus in 12th: the relationship couldn't be demonstrative for everyone and other because it was impossible, but the feelings were very strong for me and deep. No growth or completion because the relationship ended: work mission ended and he disappeared. Remains deep painful attachment to no longer see him. Maybe see him again someday, differently, but little hope.
(C.Venus was opposed C.sun/C.amor and C.osiris, trine C.NN, sextile C.mars/C.SN).Find this :
"composite Venus in the Twelfh House : Composite Venus is on of the least difficult planets to have in the twelfth house. There are problems associated with it, but there are strong points as well.
This placement signifie that while you may have strong feelings of affection for each other, you may not be demonstrative about them.Other people may not even be aware of how you feel about each other.The twelthf-house Venus can be a sign of a secret relationship.
This also the house of your own unconscious, of those areas of your lives and experience that you have repressed from your conscious mind. With degree by unconscious factors in both of you. If you may be difficult to understand the dynamics of this relationship, and you may do things for no apparent reason. This can be either good or bad, of course, depending on what you do. In any case, you should try to understand what lies behind your relationship, if only to gain greater control over yourselves.
On the clearly positive side, this placement can help both of you overcome your ego-drives within the relationship.It enables each of you to give way to the other when that is desirable. Your are able to think of yourselves as a unit and to subordinate your personal interests to your interests as a couple.This ability can eliminate many problems that will arise."
[Robert Hand, "planets in composite", Whitford Press, PP.200] IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 17, 2016 02:10 PM
I had this with someone who i owed a karmic debt.I hated hid guts and kept our relationship very private because I was ashamed of being with him. He was very psychologically damaged and had a lot of childhood trauma to sort through and Im guessing I was the catalyst for it all. He was very selfish, manipulative, and childish. Our "relationship" was very private, weird, and sort of disturbing. But we also had Sun, Mercury, mars in the 12th as well. Im sure every CVenus in 12th isnt like thid Im sure. Ours was karmic more than anything IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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From: New York, USA
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posted November 17, 2016 02:24 PM
@Yanmorg:Wow..I also have venus/merc in 12th with someone I'm seeing right now but I guess it is also related to Karmic Debt. This person I'm seeing is also damaged. He has addiction issues, on top of that some very hardcore trauma from childhood and also past relationships. Our relationship is private but alot of my close friends know most of the back story behind him and I. They all said the same thing: just walk away. He is older than me, and you'd think at age 37 someone would have their **** together..but age doesn't mean anything apparently. Always a rollercoaster with him, and it doesn't help that he's a scorp sun too. How long did your karmic relationship last?
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Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 641
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posted November 17, 2016 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by AwakenSky16:
I can't say much because I'm not sure (50%)of the composite asc here, but it looks like Venus in 12th: the relationship couldn't be demonstrative for everyone and other because it was impossible, but the feelings were very strong for me and deep. No growth or completion because the relationship ended: work mission ended and he disappeared. Remains deep painful attachment to no longer see him. Maybe see him again someday, differently, but little hope.
(C.Venus was opposed C.sun/C.amor and C.osiris, trine C.NN, sextile C.mars/C.SN).Find this :
"composite Venus in the Twelfh House : Composite Venus is on of the least difficult planets to have in the twelfth house. There are problems associated with it, but there are strong points as well.
This placement signifie that while you may have strong feelings of affection for each other, you may not be demonstrative about them.Other people may not even be aware of how you feel about each other.The twelthf-house Venus can be a sign of a secret relationship.
This also the house of your own unconscious, of those areas of your lives and experience that you have repressed from your conscious mind. With degree by unconscious factors in both of you. If you may be difficult to understand the dynamics of this relationship, and you may do things for no apparent reason. This can be either good or bad, of course, depending on what you do. In any case, you should try to understand what lies behind your relationship, if only to gain greater control over yourselves.
On the clearly positive side, this placement can help both of you overcome your ego-drives within the relationship.It enables each of you to give way to the other when that is desirable. Your are able to think of yourselves as a unit and to subordinate your personal interests to your interests as a couple.This ability can eliminate many problems that will arise."
[Robert Hand, "planets in composite", Whitford Press, PP.200]
Sorry to hear that..it seems like I haven't found any relationships that had 12th house planets last...unless you count John Lennon and Yoko Ono..lol but their relationship is just as weird and pretty out-of-the-norm. Do you have 12th house planets? Maybe that's why it was very deep for you? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 17, 2016 02:51 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
@Yanmorg:Wow..I also have venus/merc in 12th with someone I'm seeing right now but I guess it is also related to Karmic Debt. This person I'm seeing is also damaged. He has addiction issues, on top of that some very hardcore trauma from childhood and also past relationships. Our relationship is private but alot of my close friends know most of the back story behind him and I. They all said the same thing: just walk away. He is older than me, and you'd think at age 37 someone would have their **** together..but age doesn't mean anything apparently. Always a rollercoaster with him, and it doesn't help that he's a scorp sun too. How long did your karmic relationship last?
Thats exactly what all of my family and friends kept saying as well and he was also older! 31 and i was 22! IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 17, 2016 03:01 PM
9 years apart! Woo, that is some age difference  but that shouldn't matter. How long were you together with this person? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted November 17, 2016 03:10 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~*:
9 years apart! Woo, that is some age difference but that shouldn't matter. How long were you together with this person?
8 horrible months.. well 6 if we don't count the 2 momths after I ended things but I kept seeing him out of familiarity. IP: Logged |
AwakenSky16
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From: between here and threre
Registered: Oct 2016
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posted November 17, 2016 03:27 PM
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Originally posted by Starry~* Do you have 12th house planets? Maybe that's why it was very deep for you?[/B]
No, I haven't planets in 12th natal, but my SN is at 23 ° 37 (12th) conj. Asc. 23 ° 44... I have also POF in 12th ... I think nothing to do with what happens here . In our synastry, this guy had his NN / DNA (22 ° 04) conj. my NS and opp. my moon ... Maybe that's it ? Karmic again... ? IP: Logged |
AwakenSky16
Knowflake Posts: 1901
From: between here and threre
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posted November 17, 2016 03:37 PM
@ Starry would you post your synastry and composite, as you like ?
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OK I see your composite in a last post...IP: Logged |
Starry~*
Knowflake Posts: 641
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posted November 17, 2016 04:35 PM
 Yea I have it up on previous posts. Composite 12th house seems to spell trouble...still trying to see if anyone else can chime in on insights. IP: Logged |
Starry~*
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posted November 17, 2016 04:41 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
8 horrible months.. well 6 if we don't count the 2 momths after I ended things but I kept seeing him out of familiarity.
8 horrible months must've felt like 8 horrible years. 31 eh? Age isn't anything, it's up to the individual to "grow up" - do you or him have any 12th house planets in natal? IP: Logged |
nordicsoul
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posted November 21, 2016 02:54 PM
I had that with someone, but also composite sun-mars was in 12. I suspect that if only venus is in 12 and you are neptunian somehow it should not be trouble. I think I like venus in 12 but not mars-sunyes, the relationship was very private with lots of ups and downs. initially it was me who wanted to keep things low profile, but then it was him. at the end, it was always secretive even without reasons. in any case, I realize that the more i tried not to make it public the more i enjoyed it. like "who cares" so probably it is about not resisting the private bond, otherwise look for venus in 10 or 1. i believe in the dissolution of the ego. that is very true. both of us could forgive each other many times, although we also have neptune-venus in composite.. it did not last in a stable way, but there were coming back together for short periods and then back to enemies, then to friends, then to lovers, then again to friend (without benefits) and so on so forth.. well uranus-venus and pluto-venus in composite gives that quality to relationships, always transforming into something else... so I am not sure it was venus in 12 or something else.
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colorful butterfly
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posted November 27, 2016 12:37 AM
I can't remeber if it was sun or venus in the composit but just seemed like he kept it private, never met anyone and he didn't want to really go out with me I guess. I have venus in gemini so thats never going to work for me. We made up and then would break up over dumb stuff. I felt like it was just some big game he was playing and just wanted a booty call. Since he couldn't get his way he asked me to leave him alone and wish granted. I ain't bothering nobody whos not interested in me or only interested in one thing. Wish him well in life though and hope he finds what he is looking for. IP: Logged |
RealityDuality
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From: Los Angeles, California, USA
Registered: Jul 2018
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posted July 03, 2018 01:23 PM
I had this alignment (Composite Venus 12th) with a girlfriend several years back- we hung out in the same social circles and went to the same parties... But rarely talked in public- our eyes always met throughout the day/night and we communicated loads of energy and emotion just through glances. No matter who we talked to or what we did, we always ended up together at the end of the night or day- and always knew this deep down. Always meeting late at night and never showing our affections for each other in public. The connection was strong due to many other aspects in Synastry (things that actually drew us into each other or interested us) such as her Moon conjunct my Mars, but this private aspect to the first year of our relationship definitely came from this Venus placement. Very spiritual connection- Composite Venus in the 12th house is "spiritually affectionate" and "preciously private." ------------------
Casper Kayce IP: Logged |
arcturus90
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From: Arcturus
Registered: Nov 2017
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posted July 03, 2018 05:01 PM
I can't have Venus en 12th house in composite because mine is in 6th houseIP: Logged |
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