posted February 09, 2017 06:42 PM            

In synastry, if the planet of pain touches the NN , the relationship will have a pain theme. One may ask, “Should I leave the relationship based on this?” I could not answer that, obviously. In every synastry, there will be hard factors. I will try to explain how I see Chiron conjunct the NN playing out in a long term marriage. Chiron conjunct the NN does NOT mean that every minute of the marriage will be fraught with pain. Chiron is an attractor to people,also. In many synastries, Chrion conjuncts planets between people. This is not, necessarily bad. One shares one’s pain in one’s intimate relationships. However, with Chiron conjunct the NN in synastry, one of the main themes, perhaps THE main theme will BE pain, in my experience. The pain is not a 24/7 event. There are many periods of time which are not painful. There are many shared events which are not painful. However, if one looks at the relationship, as a whole , from a future vantage point,for example, one would describe it as having a theme of pain. That is my my point of view. Please comment on anything, if you care to. I welcome any comments, as always.

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posted February 10, 2017 04:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
Interesting. I don't have a Chiron/NN conjunction in synastry, but what if someone's Chiron falls in someone else's 8th House?

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In a chart, there are prolly thousands of things one could study, so I look to close aspects, first of all.

I may consider this but only after looking at everything else first.

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posted February 11, 2017 09:41 PM            

We all go through pain as it is a part of life. We learn through our experiences.

With synastry, I would think the Chiron person would be key in the North Node person's evolution.

Now, if the Chiron person hasn't attempted to work through the baggage and the NN person refuses to grow, I could see how it could be painful.

Just my two cents.

posted February 11, 2017 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by LibraGirl92:
I know this is about NN conjunct chiron but what about SN conjunct Chiron? My SN conjuncts my fiance's chiron by 1° and i could never find info on it?

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The SN is where you feel comfortable. I have not seen a relationship with Chiron conj the SN, so you tell me how you relate to this? How long have you known him, L?

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posted February 12, 2017 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by fireopal09:
Chiron is not just about pain. Chiron is the permanent wound. From my haphazard study, I think the Chiron wound is where a plethora of wisdom resides.

We all go through pain as it is a part of life. We learn through our experiences.

With synastry, I would think the Chiron person would be key in the North Node person's evolution.

Now, if the Chiron person hasn't attempted to work through the baggage and the NN person refuses to grow, I could see how it could be painful.

Just my two cents.

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That's very accurate! Someone s Chiron is exactly on my NN and my Chiron is on his SN. We are both instrumental in each other's growth and sometimes it's painful, but very rewarding in the end.

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posted September 18, 2018 07:45 AM            

Is this the Virgo type of nasty?

posted December 26, 2020 03:27 PM            

I have this aspect as well with someone however we
Have opposite nodes
Meaning my SN conjunct NN and then my
North node conjunct his Chiron, Sappho
And his north node my Asmodeus.

It is an on and off thing, with pain and disappointment ... due to external circumstances.

it is hard to create any permanence in our bond
Due to our Venus - Uranus opposition. Loads of other people in between many goodbyes, fights...
but also laughter.

posted May 16, 2022 05:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Rooted_Tree_33:
Is it safe to say that chiron conjunct NN in composite basically points to the same thing, assuming that it's a tight-ish orb? Like, the relationship is bound to have a painful element to it, or it is bound to touch on a wound that might not be able to be healed in this lifetime?

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I would say in a composite chart, it would be a painful theme as Ami Anne said about the synastry. I would add that this theme of an open wound, would be something that is perceived and felt equally by both partners.

My experience with NN conjunct Chiron in synastry, was that the Chiron person experienced most of the pain, being triggered by activations of NN person’s NN. Of course, this aspect did and would also activate the Chiron of NN person. That being said, Chiron is a pain w/ gain deal for me. There’s always some unique, progressive perspective (Uranus) that is vetted with a solid foundation (Saturn) of experience behind it.

posted November 02, 2023 10:11 AM            

We also have a pretty exact vertex conj Asc DW

It’s an interesting, kinda crazy but very sweet connection.

Instant bond after we met for the first time.

I’ve never experienced being so close emotionally with anyone before in such a short amount of time and it’s absolutely mutual.

It’s so deep and gentle, too.

Everything about it can be described with this quote:

“No matter what you do, I won’t judge you. I will always try my best to understand you.”

Something he said to me once. He said it after knowing me for a week! He’s a tall, athletic guy, outgoing and always fun. You’d never think he’d be this deep.