posted July 09, 2017 08:42 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Then you must be gemini if you have an air sun with mars in aries.

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posted July 09, 2017 09:02 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Mars in Aries is so hot!

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Hotter than Mars in other fire signs?

I have the impression here that fire Mars people like each others heat. Is that what you're saying?

posted July 09, 2017 09:07 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Hotter than Mars in other fire signs?

I have the impression here that fire Mars people like each others heat. Is that what you're saying?

Never hurts if a little air is fanned into the campfire.

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posted July 09, 2017 09:15 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Hypatia, do you mind telling me how you arrived at such a conclusion?

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I don't think I have ever come across a chart with Sun in Libra and Mars in Aries. Aries is too far away from Libra so you cannot have a Sun in Libra with Mars in Aries.

Like aquarius and aries are close enough that you can have sun in Aquarius with mars in aries. Aries and Gemini are close enough that you can have Sun in Gemini with Mars in Aries.

posted July 09, 2017 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I don't think I have ever come across a chart with Sun in Libra and Mars in Aries. Aries is too far away from Libra so you cannot have a Sun in Libra with Mars in Aries.

Like aquarius and aries are close enough that you can have sun in Aquarius with mars in aries. Aries and Gemini are close enough that you can have Sun in Gemini with Mars in Aries.

You said you are not an Aquarius but mentioned you have an air Sun so then the only option left truly is Gemini given you have mars in Aries.

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posted July 09, 2017 09:52 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
No expert am I but I believe you might be thinking about the possible positions of Venus relative to the Sun.

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posted July 09, 2017 10:06 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Mars has a 2 year orbit and venus about 7 months so both have fast orbits compared to the generational planets but like I said I have not come across a Sun in libra and Mars in aries ever. If you have do share their birth date with me.

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posted July 14, 2017 09:58 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Very cool, I hope I meet a libra with mars in aries sometime, sounds like a fun mix actually! Thanks for the info.

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posted July 22, 2017 07:03 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Very cool, I hope I meet a libra with mars in aries sometime, sounds like a fun mix actually! Thanks for the info.

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posted July 22, 2017 09:27 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Very cool, I hope I meet a libra with mars in aries sometime, sounds like a fun mix actually! Thanks for the info.

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posted July 23, 2017 02:11 PM            

No one here has ever heard of a decisive Libra.

We appreciate your insightful forewarning and anxiously await the subject's arrival.

posted July 23, 2017 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
FireWoman, what do you think would happen if you did meet such a guy?

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Well libra is funny, witty, playful, charming, cerebral and good a conversationalist. We get along great bc:

Early degree libras (first decan) conjunct my sun in virgo at 28d and sextile my jupiter conjunct uranus in sagittarius at 5 degrees.

Libra at 14d quintiles my eros.

Libra at 20 to 26 degrees sextiles my venus conjunct mars in leo

Libra in the 3rd decan conjuncts my pluto chart ruler in libra at 28d.

So there is that....

My best friend who is a girl has moon in libra at 9d and mars in aries at 21d. We have a great connection, sadly we live in different states...the only fwb I have had that I am still friends with has mars in aries, also we live in different states...

Anyways mars in aries is super awesome for me bc it forms a grand trine with my venus conjunct mars in leo and my 5th house ruler Neptune while it opposes my pluto so is a very hot placement for me in synastry.

I love mars in aries is confident, independent and wont let others dominate them.

posted July 23, 2017 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
GG,
Your latest message sent shock waves through Whitehall.

No one here has ever heard of a decisive Libra.

We appreciate your insightful forewarning and anxiously await the subject's arrival.

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Lol I hate to burst your bubble but Libra isn't indecisive all the time. I can only speak to a Libra/Libra type with a large amount of Water (esp Scorpio and or strong Pluto to Moon), but they (this includes myself as my Moon or chart/1st house ruler is in my 7th Trine Venus) can be quite decisive.

The thing about strong Libra energy is peace is the goal, and how that can manifest is a personality who tries to avoid conflict at all costs. Depending on the individuals maturity that can even be staying in a relationship just to avoid the conflict of breaking up. This also goes hand in hand with a strong desire for a significant other or partner. So you can end up having a personality that is on the fence about ending things with you, but flirting with other people to get the feelers out. This can also take the form of a person flat out staying for fear of being alone. If you have some Cap or even Leo, that can add an element of someone staying because it "looks" good and or is the acceptable thing to do.

I've fit into the above scenario, and when I'm on the fence about something one way or the other it's because I'm not emotionally engaged (natal Moon Square Pluto) and feel everything. When I'm not emotionally engaged the person will view me as waffling back and forth. I'll also be slow to end things (or close the door...I hate burning bridges as my mind might change). I will also admit I become quite flirty before things are close to being done (I tend to have someone I want in mind prior to the relationship ending). This changes when my Moon Pluto is activated. When my Moon Pluto is activated I'm all in. No one else exists or if you hurt me I want to blow the bridge up lol. This is fine and dandy until I stop being angry and go back to being an even tempered 7th house Mooner.

posted July 23, 2017 08:58 PM            

I'm impressed by the way you gals dive into this synastry business and come up with sketches of good matches - or at least some clues about who a good match might be.

H, unless I'm missing something, in your last post you don't bring your Moon position into the picture. Apparently She is compatible with the Sun/Mars planetary positions you describe?

GG, you have a very good grasp of just how complicated human beings really are and how difficult it is to understand them from one day to the next, one relationship to the next.

Too bad there isn't an active astrology dating web site with a solid membership. Possibly not enough people "believe" in astrology to gather suitable numbers. .

posted July 23, 2017 09:43 PM            

His Venus is also opposite my Sun at 1 degree.

My Venus conjuncts his ASC by sign only but my Venus also trines his Sun almost exact at 11 seconds.. so my response could be bias..

posted July 24, 2017 01:00 AM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Thanks H and GG. I appreciate your thoughtful responses.

I'm impressed by the way you gals dive into this synastry business and come up with sketches of good matches - or at least some clues about who a good match might be.

H, unless I'm missing something, in your last post you don't bring your Moon position into the picture. Apparently She is compatible with the Sun/Mars planetary positions you describe?

GG, you have a very good grasp of just how complicated human beings really are and how difficult it is to understand them from one day to the next, one relationship to the next.

Too bad there isn't an active astrology dating web site with a solid membership. Possibly not enough people "believe" in astrology to gather suitable numbers. .

People should encourage the administration here to start something.

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Her moon conjuncts my sun.
Her Jupiter trines by 1d my moon.
My jupiter opposes her venus.
My jupiter sextiles her Moon.
Her mars forms a grand trine with my venus conjunct mars and 5th house ruler neptune.

With him:
His moon conjunct mars in aries trines my venus conjunct mars in leo
His venus conjuncts my 5th house ruler neptune
His jupiter conjuncts my moon and opposes my sun

posted July 24, 2017 03:50 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Mars has a 2 year orbit and venus about 7 months so both have fast orbits compared to the generational planets but like I said I have not come across a Sun in libra and Mars in aries ever. If you have do share their birth date with me.

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My boyfriend is a Libra Sun Aries Mars

Granted, his Sun is at 29 Libra and his Mars is at 0 Aries, but these are his placements, regardless.

It's funny because I could see the Aries in him just as much as the Libra and was insistent to him that he had strong Aries placements. When I generated his chart and saw his Mars I threw my phone on the desk and told him "See! I KNEW IT!"

posted July 24, 2017 04:33 AM            

I am a Leo Riser and an Aries Venus.

I can't recall ever knowing an Aries Asc, so I really don't know if I find them beautiful. Maybe I'll go look at some celebs real quick..

So, after checking out a few, I apparently have a thing for French Aries Risers However, it definitely was not ALL of them.

I can think of two Leo Venus men with their Venus on my Asc who were head over heels for me.

One, a Leo Sun, has his Venus and Mercury both on my Asc and had no shame in telling me just how beautiful he thought I was on a daily basis. It never got old, Leos give the best compliments. We also shared Asc conjunct Asc and my Venus trines all of his Leo placments (Asc, Sun, Merc, Venus) except his Jupiter is a little wide, like 7 degrees or so, but the attraction was mutual. He was the most beautiful man I'd ever known.

The other was a Cancer Sun and he wasn't as vocal about it as consistently as the Leo, but he still made it known how much he liked the way I looked and presented myself. "Appreciation" is what I would call it in that situation.

I found it weird that my biological mother gushes to both myself and my siblings about how beautiful I am ( my sister was telling me how tired of hearing it she was), but would only give compliments on occasion to the others, or speak in reference to their appearances when they had put in effort to look nice. Her Leo Venus and Sun conjunct my Asc.

posted July 24, 2017 11:15 AM            

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My boyfriend is a Libra Sun Aries Mars

Granted, his Sun is at 29 Libra and his Mars is at 0 Aries, but these are his placements, regardless.

It's funny because I could see the Aries in him just as much as the Libra and was insistent to him that he had strong Aries placements. When I generated his chart and saw his Mars I threw my phone on the desk and told him "See! I KNEW IT!"

It's a wonderful mix. The compassionate, caring, social Libra with the drive to get sh*t done. Add in his Pisces Moon conjunct my Sun and I'm done for

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Awwww Lovely!

I feel the Mars sign is very noticeable like the south node, ascendant or first house placements. Since mars is desire, action, and passion I can see why its easy to pick up on someone's mars IMO, its like an energy they constantly access to get things done and go after what they want, I feel is an energy therefor you can feel in them.

posted July 30, 2017 09:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Hermathena:
I had this aspect with a coworker that I was into, he was the Venus and I was the Asc. Supposedly that means he was supposed to think I was absolutely stunning, the ideal image of perfection, or at least very attractive. Needless to say, he wasn't interested at all.

From experience, I think you're more attracted to those who conjunct your Venus, Vertex, or whose signs fall into the natural rulerships of any houses that a lot of your planets fall in natally (so if you've got a jam packed 8th house, you'll dig Scorps, if you've got a packed 5th house, you'll be into Leos).

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I can't confirm or deny this as my Venus is trine my Leo Asc, so any conjunction to my Asc receives that trine as well.

I also have a fairly full 5H so another point for Leos, yet on the flip side of that, my 9H is occupied by my Sun, Merc, and Venus and I have little more than desire for friendship with Sag influenced folk. And all the planets in my 5H are in Sag..

From my own perspective, Asc/Venus conjunctions act exactly as they should. But my Asc isn't harshly aspected by the rest of my chart.

So if Venus on your Asc doesn't vibe the way it should, look at what's going on natally on your Asc. Are there harsh aspects there in your natal? Is the ruler of your Asc in detriment, fall, or negatively aspected? If so, the person providing the Venus on your Asc is now feeling those aspects directed at their Venus. So even if they DO find you attractive, they may not want to show it. One of the things Venus shows is how we give love and if she is being harshly aspected, like say from a square from Saturn, she may not know how to express the appreciation for the Asc person.

Oh the possibilities

posted July 30, 2017 11:00 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:

Oh the possibilities

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Yes there are all these variables, I guess you can say that Venus conjunct Ascendant can be a great indicator for attraction but other factors may complicate this and is not always straight forward like this, there are exceptions!