posted December 21, 2018 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by mir:
[b]Ow yea I do think you could have a FWB thing. Point is, be prepared for "him arriving then whenever he feels like it" without any more investment. IF you can live with that for a while and having the same attitude, then it would be ok.

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posted December 21, 2018 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by kani:

Not necessarily.It's actually quite hard for me to get attached and I have moon in Cancer. But it is trine Uranus and contraparallel Uranus.

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posted December 21, 2018 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I get that having Uranus in the mix makes things different. But this person thinks he can predict whether or not two people are invested in each other via astrology.

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posted December 22, 2018 03:42 AM            

So I'm keeping my fingers crossed. LOL.

What I observed in my friend's past marriage (since you asked about opposition in specific) is periods of separation (he was posted overseas)... they also relocated overseas twice due to his work and she had to quit her job to follow him. So you can probably conclude these as changes/instability to the home life caused by this aspect. In addition, they also gave each other a lot of freedom to do their own things. He wasn't controlling of her but she was quite controlling of him due to his free spirit lifestyle, and that caused some friction.

posted December 22, 2018 04:07 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Let's say this: you can have the best synastry in the world (= natural interaction) but without 'being ready' to INVEST - denoted by the progressed Moon in hard aspect to natal or prog Sun - in something it will result in opportunistic behaviour. And this inclined to be especially true when having such a nice pSun/nVenus coming up which might even camouflage a lack of investment at first. You then get something like "We're sooo great when being around each other but wth why doesn't he invest like I want him to.."

Ofcourse if you can handle a huge degree of opportunism, go for it. But in my experience that would only be a denial of the Self which sooner or later during some heavy Saturn transits will come to the surface without any mercy.

Astrogy aside, follow your gut. Nothing is set in stone they Always say but when it comes to the pMoon it isn't far from it in my experience.

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posted December 22, 2018 05:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
It has to be only Sun and Moon and in hard aspects?

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posted December 22, 2018 05:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I have this in Composite and was told he won't commit long-term. In natal he has the trine while I've the sesquisquare. Could be right, could be wrong... I don't know...but I'm taking comfort that my parents have the square and they've been together 40+yrs. My friend and her ex-husband have the opposition and they were together 16yrs until she divorced him.

So I'm keeping my fingers crossed. LOL.

What I observed in my friend's past marriage (since you asked about opposition in specific) is periods of separation (he was posted overseas)... they also relocated overseas twice due to his work and she had to quit her job to follow him. So you can probably conclude these as changes/instability to the home life caused by this aspect. In addition, they also gave each other a lot of freedom to do their own things. He wasn't controlling of her but she was quite controlling of him due to his free spirit lifestyle, and that caused some friction.

Have some faith in yours. If he has been asking you out and you feel like going out with him, just go.

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posted December 22, 2018 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
There are a lot of things said about Mars in hard aspects to Uranus in composite. I've read it can make the sex life of the couple exciting. Whereas they both like experimenting with each other etc.

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I do hope so and that this aspect doesn't necessarily mean the man won't commit in the long-term.

posted December 22, 2018 09:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I do hope so and that this aspect doesn't necessarily mean the man won't commit in the long-term.

Yes, in my experience it makes sex life interesting like you wanna try different things with them.

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posted December 22, 2018 09:37 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:

Composite Mars in hard aspect to Uranus (From astro.com)
The opposition of Mars and Uranus in the composite chart requires the two of you to have a great deal of flexibility. With this aspect it is very difficult to let things be. Usually you get into a very competitive situation in which you are constantly trying to goad each other. Each person's self-expression becomes a challenge to the other.
Sometimes the relationship itself takes such an unusual turn that you will find it very difficult to pursue in ordinary society. Other people often cannot tolerate such an "impossible" relationship because it is such a challenge to their way of looking at life. Something about the way you act together does defy society at large.
Obviously a relationship with this aspect should find a social setting that is extremely tolerant of the unusual. At the same time the two of you must also be unusually tolerant of the unusual. Trouble is often caused if you try to make this relationship into something ordinary.

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I kind of can relate to the goading (lol) but not in a malicious way. Like he'll say something and I'll say "Ok, let's see you do it." and then I'll laugh when he can't do it. He will get annoyed of cos but we will later laugh about it. But I think if one or both are the petty types this might not go down well.

posted December 22, 2018 10:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I kind of can relate to the goading (lol) but not in a malicious way. Like he'll say something and I'll say "Ok, let's see you do it." and then I'll laugh when he can't do it. He will get annoyed of cos but we will later laugh about it. But I think if one or both are the petty types this might not go down well.

Can't relate to it being "impossible" but I've gotten remarks from people who don't know us well that I should look elsewhere becos they see our interactions so strange... but they don't know us well so I don't give a **** what they think honestly. Haha...

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posted December 22, 2018 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Do you mean people in public say things to you? Like when the two of you are out together?

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