posted August 06, 2018 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by HelixID:
You'll see this aspect or the opposition in the synastries of a lot of married couples along with Mars square Saturn.

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posted August 06, 2018 02:47 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So I guess it's not as bad as people say.

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Can you say all marriages are happy? No. For some reasons people think they will be able to make it work. We as astrologers are not free of this thinking.

posted August 06, 2018 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
Can you say all marriages are happy? No. For some reasons people think they will be able to make it work. We as astrologers are not free of this thinking.

But we should try to be a little smarter.

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posted August 07, 2018 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by crystal_clear:
[b] Can you say all marriages are happy? No. For some reasons people think they will be able to make it work. We as astrologers are not free of this thinking.

But we should try to be a little smarter.

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One aspect is too little. It also depends on the signs and houses involved.

But Venus square Moon produces tension. It's sexy and attractive at the beginning but after some time you need to work through that.

Venus represents what we find attractive. Moon is our comfort zone. People who have this aspect natally have troubles. It counts for men mostly. So in their horoscope Moon is the woman they feel comfortable with and Venus is the woman they find attractive. Let's say Venus is in Saggitarius and Moon in Virgo. The woman they find attractive is that girl-next-door but they feel comfortable with someone organized, clean, typical Virgo. So what do you think happens when they get in relationship? At the beginning you sure ffind each other attractive as hell. But after a while you start to live together and she's messy, and want to go out spontaneously while he wants to set on the couch and spend Saturday on vacuuming ...

Do you have flexibility and will to work through that?

posted August 09, 2018 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:

One aspect is too little. It also depends on the signs and houses involved.

But Venus square Moon produces tension. It's sexy and attractive at the beginning but after some time you need to work through that.

Venus represents what we find attractive. Moon is our comfort zone. People who have this aspect natally have troubles. It counts for men mostly. So in their horoscope Moon is the woman they feel comfortable with and Venus is the woman they find attractive. Let's say Venus is in Saggitarius and Moon in Virgo. The woman they find attractive is that girl-next-door but they feel comfortable with someone organized, clean, typical Virgo. So what do you think happens when they get in relationship? At the beginning you sure ffind each other attractive as hell. But after a while you start to live together and she's messy, and want to go out spontaneously while he wants to set on the couch and spend Saturday on vacuuming ...

Do you have flexibility and will to work through that?

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posted August 11, 2018 09:44 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I understand what you mean. I don't think it would be impossible to work through. It's Moon in Saggitaurus square Venus in Pisces.

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It's a little different because in that case both are ruled by Jupiter.

But ... Moon in Sag has it's comfort zone in travel, fun, philosophical conversation. Moon in Sag loves freedom. Venus in Pisces is highly romantic.