posted January 21, 2019 06:46 PM            

For instance, when someone's Venus touches your Descendant, that person really tends to embody that Venus sign qualities! You may even feel that they project them onto you (or vice versa). It's nice with Venus, but as with any planet, take time to observe what you like and dislike about it.

The descendant is our shadow side, what can be harder for us to see in ourselves, but also what we bring into a relationship. Maybe with Venus there, YOU end up embodying those traits you like for that person. Maybe you mirror them.

If it's something you don't like, or makes you uncomfortable, make sure it's not something that you do yourself.

posted January 21, 2019 09:11 PM            

I had this with one of the two greatest sexualovers of my life: her Gemini Merc on my Venus. Beautiful easy communication and comfort with each other. Now I'm powerfully drawn to a girl born 5/19/87 with Merc/DESC conj my Venus. Our Vedic synastry is stellar.

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Originally posted by MMarie:
What does this mean in synastry? Who feels it? Is 5 degrees orb too wide? Someone’s Venus/ Juno/ Merc conjunction is 5 degrees away from my descendant/ North node conjunction...

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posted January 21, 2019 09:48 PM            

he has aries mars conjunct his aries ascendant (my moon is there) and i have venus libra conjunct my libra ascendant (my south node is on my ascendant north node on my descendant)

there's mutual attraction there, but we've only ever worked on occult **** together

posted January 22, 2019 06:45 AM            

I've never liked someone whose Venus wasn't in Capricorn 3-4 orbs max away from my DSC.
However the strongest one was when someone's Venus conjucted my NN in 7th H and his Mars conjuct my DSC and Neptune.
I felt like I saw a man for the first time in my life. I just want to be close to him, feel his energy, be around him, hug him, touch him, he is ideal for me both superficially and not (we have other powerful aspects though). I'm so attracted to him but I can't find a satisfying way to describe my attraction to him.

It is very intense but not in a Pluto way, it is very ideal but not in a Neptunian way, it is exciting but not in an Uranian way, it is sensual and sexual but not in a Martian way. It is not the kind of attraction that is intense/exciting/fairytale like and then at some point it ends in one way or another. It feels completely positive, stable, safe and earthy. I feel like it's the only synastry aspect I trust. Keep in mind that they all have their Cap Venus conjuct their Saturn so that may play a role to why it feels so stable and earthy to me.

I read the Venus person goes out of his way to please the DSC and I think it is true and nit in a bad way, like the DSC being a burden for the Venus person. It feels like the Venys person is happy to do things for DSC.

The Venus conjuct North Node fells fated.. And like immediate extreme love in my case not knowing why (well we have SN conjuct Venus, I'm Venus) I've read many times that the Venus person loves unconditionally North Node person (I can't say for sure because I've had this just once and I didn't have the chance to experience it).
But in my opinion it's the North Node person who loves Venus because Venus way of loving is part of what the North Node person has to learn.

The North Node person may be scared though and run away.. Especially North Node in 7th H. The North Node person has a lot to learn from the way Venus person loves the North Node person.. especially since North Node is in 7th H of Venus. It couldn't be better.
However we feel uncomfortable with our North Node unless it's supported by personal planets.

North Node in 7th H has to understand how relationship work but it has great difficulty in doing so especially before 30s.

posted January 24, 2019 04:38 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I have my venus EXACT conjunct my ex DSC and he was immediately attracted to me when we met. We were together almost 3 years and the attraction part never went away, he was always super attracted. He would get a boner just being close to me lol.
I think it was this aspect that played a big role in that. My venus is also my ASC ruler, so ASC ruler conjunct DSC. The ASC/DSC Axis is the magnetic axis, so it’s a very magnetic attraction when this happens, very instinctive and energetically based as well. Chemistry. He used to grab me and say thing like “I wanna feel your energy” etc. lol. You’re just drawn to the person. And Venus rules beauty and attraction, so, they think you’re really beautiful as well. It’s a great aspect!
I was also really attracted to him and always wanted to touch him and be close to him, so it’s a mutual thing.
Venus is the natural ruler of the 7th, so this overlay really doesn’t have any drawbacks. It’s right at home and this is the best overlay possible for Venus.

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Oh I bet that felt really nice! I want to experience that, too.

posted January 26, 2019 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I have my venus EXACT conjunct my ex DSC and he was immediately attracted to me when we met. We were together almost 3 years and the attraction part never went away, he was always super attracted. He would get a boner just being close to me lol.
I think it was this aspect that played a big role in that. My venus is also my ASC ruler, so ASC ruler conjunct DSC. The ASC/DSC Axis is the magnetic axis, so it’s a very magnetic attraction when this happens, very instinctive and energetically based as well. Chemistry. He used to grab me and say thing like “I wanna feel your energy” etc. lol. You’re just drawn to the person. And Venus rules beauty and attraction, so, they think you’re really beautiful as well. It’s a great aspect!
I was also really attracted to him and always wanted to touch him and be close to him, so it’s a mutual thing.
Venus is the natural ruler of the 7th, so this overlay really doesn’t have any drawbacks. It’s right at home and this is the best overlay possible for Venus.

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This sounds amazing Luna! You’re so lucky to have experienced this.

posted January 27, 2019 07:26 AM            

My DSC is in Aquarius, but nothing else is. In fact, the only planet I have in Air at all is Pluto and the only planet I have in a fixed sign is Uranus in Scorpio.

This generally means if someone has Venus (or Mars for that matter) conjunct my DSC chances are its otherwise unaspected. I do have Mars in Sagittarius which offers a possible sextile but I've read this isn't the most passionate of aspects.

posted January 27, 2019 08:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Capguy75:
I'll agree with the others and also add that this placement is a major pain in the ass for me!!

My DSC is in Aquarius, but nothing else is. In fact, the only planet I have in Air at all is Pluto and the only planet I have in a fixed sign is Uranus in Scorpio.

This generally means if someone has Venus (or Mars for that matter) conjunct my DSC chances are its otherwise unaspected. I do have Mars in Sagittarius which offers a possible sextile but I've read this isn't the most passionate of aspects.

In summary then: its the source of a lot unrequited crushes!

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posted January 27, 2019 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Lol yeah it was nice, but we also had a pretty toxic relationship with a lot of arguements/communication issues and just lack of compatibility. Just weren’t right for each other. We haven’t been in contact for awhile, but I’m a psychic intuitive and also do a lot of reading in the personal readings section here, and my guides (as well as lots of others lol) have told me he would be contacting me in March again, so yeah this contact is powerful!!!! He can’t stay away apparently 😂
But we had quite a few attraction things going on in our charts, plus we have lots of karmic soulmate and past life stuff as well so there’s that.
But this was our most exact aspect and anything exact between charts is going to be be felt and manifested intensely.

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It does sound nice that you had that type of energy! And I’m curious what other placements you had attraction wise and karmic/ soulmate aspects. What would you consider karmic/ soulmate stuff?

posted January 27, 2019 09:04 AM            

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Unrequited as in they have a crush on you, but you don’t on them?

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No, me crushing on them mainly. Sometimes we both crush on each other for a little bit but it usually becomes apparent we're just on different wavelengths in other ways and things never really "click". I don't pretend to be an expert in astrology, but I often put it down to the lack of Air and Fixed signs in my chart which, I guess, doesn't offer much in the way of astrological empathy.

I've also got Venus in Capricorn sitting next door which I guess doesn't help!

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I have Aqua DSC as well conjunct my north node. No planets in Aqua, but a bunch in Leo and some conjunct ASC so those that which conjunct my DSC would oppose the Venus/ Jupiter on my ASC.

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posted January 27, 2019 10:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Capguy75:
I guess the oppositions should create a bit of passion! Am I right in thinking that "hard" angles to Jupiter are often not all that bad compared to similar aspects between other planets?

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posted January 27, 2019 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
Also Capguy - do you feel you relate to Aqua DSC? And your approach relationships being Aqua like?

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posted January 27, 2019 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Capguy75:
Yes! There was a great thread on here a month or so back where someone gave a synopsis for DSC shadow sides and it definitely struck a chord. I'm also useless at "chatting up" women - if there's someone I like I always end up approaching them like I would someone I want to be friends with! I love that quote by Bruce Lee: "Love is like friendship on fire".

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That is a nice quote! I’ve never put much thought into the DSC and don’t think any of my relationships have been a friendship first but maybe that’s why they haven’t worked out 😅.

posted February 07, 2019 08:43 AM            

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I’d love to hear an update about this if it comes to fruition!

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posted February 07, 2019 09:57 AM            

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It does sound nice that you had that type of energy! And I’m curious what other placements you had attraction wise and karmic/ soulmate aspects. What would you consider karmic/ soulmate stuff?

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Nodes conjunct the angles is HUGE for soulmates, pretty much need at least one person’s nodes conjunct the others angle for a soulmate connection. Also angles conjunct angles is always a sign of a significant connection, usually a soulmate of some kind especially if nodes to angles are involved. Also planets conjunct the others angles or in the same sign as the others angles, personal planets to angles are always significant. Asteroids karma and union; check to the Angles, the nodes especially, and personal planets.
Chiron can also be soulmatey but usually karmic.

These are my ex and I’s charts, as you can see we had all of the above 🙃🙃. Intense connection, but extremely toxic and karmic and caused us both incredible amounts of pain.

We had DW node conjunct angles (his nn conjunct my DSC, my NN conjunct his IC)
Conjunct angles (asc conjunct IC)
DW moon conjunct Chiron
My moon conjunct his IC (which is my IC ruler so IC ruler conjunct IC)
My ASC ruler exact conjunct his DSC (Venus conjunct DSC)
DW ASC ruler conjunct DSC by sign (which is huge in terms of attraction, but his is out of orb to my DSC).

The attraction factors are we match each other’s 5th, 7th and 8th houses well. Mutually. When someone activates all of them for you, you’re going to be attracted and fall in love whether you like it or not lol.

For example; my 5th is Leo, ruler is sun in Aquarius. My 7th is Scorpio, ruler is mars in libra in the 6th and Pluto in sag in the 7th. 8th house is sag, ruler is Jupiter in Aquarius.

He has sun in aqua in the 7th, moon in Scorpio in the 5th, mars in Leo in the 3rd, Venus in sag in the 6th and mercury in aqua in the 8th.

He puts his mars in Leo in my 5th, his own moon is in his 5th and it’s his ASC ruler (symbolism match), his sun conjuncts my 5th and 8th ruler (ruler activation as well and another symbolism match with his sun being in Aquarius which my 5th ruler is).
His moon is in Scorpio (his ASC ruler) so he matches my 7th, another symbolism match, my ruler Pluto is also being aspected, another symbolism match with my Pluto being in sag which he has Venus conjunct Jupiter in sag, and it’s in the 7th house, he has sun in his 7th house.
And lastly my mars is in libra in the 6th; he has his sun in the 7th (matches libra) and also his Venus is in the 6th which is another type of symbolism match.

And my 8th house is sag; he puts his Venus there and my ruler Jupiter is conjunct his sun.

For him;
His 5th house is libra, the ruler in sag in the 6th house.
I have mars in libra (doesn’t fall in his 5th but is still a symbolism match, sign/energy resonance I’m still acting out libra traits/qualities), I have sun conjunct Jupiter and lots of other aspects to my Jupiter, mercury in my 9th house (matches the sag energy of his Venus) and my moon is in Virgo and my moon/mars is in my 6th house which matches his Venus in the 6th which is of course again his 5th ruler.
His 7th is Capricorn with sun, uranus and Neptune there. I have a big 10th house stellium, including my ASC ruler in Capricorn so I match the cap. My sun is in aqua conjunct Uranus, I match the Uranus there, and my sun and venus (asc ruler) is conjunct Neptune, which matches the neptune there as well. Neptune is highly aspected in my chart and on my MC. It’s my most dominant planet actually. His ruler Saturn is in the 9th and in Pisces, again neptune energy and the sag energy.
Only thing I don’t match is his sun there, although sun is square my ASC lol.

And of course his 8th is Aquarius; my sun is in his 8th and his ruler Uranus in cap is conjunct my stellium. Strong symbolism, overlay and ruler activation.

This is why the attraction between us is so strong. But as you can the, the aspects between us are lacking and aren’t that great. That’s what I mean about lacking compatibility. The aspects (harmonious) between charts shows compatibility/harmony. How well you activate and match each other’s 5th, 7th and 8th shows attraction. Ideally you want both. But you can have lots of attraction (like us) and lack compatibility (aspects), or have lots of harmonious aspects (compatibility/harmony) but lack attraction (no 5th, 7th or 8th overlays or symbolism matches).

Also, my karma conjunct his NN which says everything lol we have a karmic destiny (NN).
My union conjunct his DSC....

Our draconic is pretty interesting as well.

posted February 07, 2019 08:32 PM            

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This is our draconic. We have an exact psyche conjunct Cupido 0.28 degrees... this makes sense lol.
Natal to draconic; my venus conjunct his ASC exact, Venus is my DSC ruler in draconic as well.
His draconic mars conjunct my natal Venus, 3 degrees hmm. Makes sense with the bomb sex connection.
Moon conjunct moon in draconic 3 degrees. Always felt super comfortable with each other to an extreme degree, he told me he’s never felt more comfortable with anyone in his life and i agree.
Oh and his Venus is in Taurus in draconic! This actually makes sense with why he is so sensual and likes that I am with my asc in Taurus. With his Draco Venus conjunct my natal asc. It’s wide at 7 degrees but still a sign/energy resonance.

I’m inside he’s outside

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