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Topic: Moon in partner's 8th house synastry - who feels it more/is obsessed?
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ChildofVenus
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posted March 11, 2019 11:55 AM
  
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Don’t forget, you have his Pluto squaring your moon too. This will certainly change the complexion of things
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MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 11, 2019 12:03 PM
It’s hard to say how it manifests.It’s certainly not going to be like a sun conj Venus feeling, that’s for sure. Explain how you’re feeling? IP: Logged |
PiscesVenus
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posted March 11, 2019 01:45 PM
This is going to be long...I have my Venus and Mercury in Pisces 8th house natally. I share with my bf same ascendant, so these two fall into his 8th house, while his Pisces moon falls into my 8th house. I would say, I am the obsessive one and he is the one, who holds the power on me. Not because only 8th house matters, but also his Cancer stellium (sun,mercury,mars) falls into my 12th house, opposes my 6th house Neptune. It also turns to be a grand water trine with my 4th house Pluto. We also share a retro Saturn (me) and SN (him) conjunction in 5th house. I have never felt so desperate,jealous, obsessive and powerless over somebody in my life. Yet, one single thought of break-up kills my heart. I see, how his stellium from 12th house opposing to my 6th house Neptune plays out. I feel psychologically and physically ill. We experience all kind of 12th house themes (secrecy, hidden enemies, blaming each other for keeping secrets, for cheating etc.) and i still can't end this story. What did I do in my past life to pay a karmic debt? Because this is definetely karmic! IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 11, 2019 03:59 PM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
It’s hard to say how it manifests.It’s certainly not going to be like a sun conj Venus feeling, that’s for sure. Explain how you’re feeling?
I don’t know really different things sometimes I feel like I dislike him. Then it changes to obsession and curiosity like I want to know everything about him including sexually. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 12, 2019 05:15 PM
I saw him again today where he works this is rough. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted March 13, 2019 12:06 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I hate this overlay being the Moon person.
really? i honestly didn't think the planet person felt the house energy. as the 8th house person i'd be surprised if my drummer felt this way about me. (however i do feel that way about him a little bit) i think it is the pluto/moon thing you have going on... IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 12:24 AM
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Originally posted by Selenite:
really? i honestly didn't think the planet person felt the house energy. as the 8th house person i'd be surprised if my drummer felt this way about me. (however i do feel that way about him a little bit) i think it is the pluto/moon thing you have going on...
You hate the planet person? Why? Well maybe you should stay away from them then. What is the Moon/Pluto thing? No one ever goes into detail. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted March 13, 2019 04:44 AM
No i don't hate him at all! We're really good friends and in a band together lol. U said u hate the overlay and I sort of know what u mean. it's intense for me but I'm the house person. Hence my confusion. Anyway, u also said u have moon square pluto in synastry so that's what i was referencing. IP: Logged |
anska5
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posted March 13, 2019 09:02 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
You hate the planet person? Why? Well maybe you should stay away from them then. What is the Moon/Pluto thing? No one ever goes into detail.
Actually....MarsSaturnDelight DID already point it out for you, see a few posts above, moon square pluto. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 09:27 AM
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Originally posted by anska5:
Actually....MarsSaturnDelight DID already point it out for you, see a few posts above, moon square pluto.
I’m asking why would my Moon square to his Pluto make me feel like I hate him? IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
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posted March 13, 2019 09:30 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I’m asking why would my Moon square to his Pluto make me feel like I hate him?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Fpdl1sw9-8 IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Fpdl1sw9-8
This is about Plutonic relationships one or two aspects in synastry doesn’t make a relationship Plutonic. IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
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posted March 13, 2019 10:55 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
This is about Plutonic relationships one or two aspects in synastry doesn’t make a relationship Plutonic.
Yes, it can, especially if it shows up in the composite. However, even without it showing up in the composite, it can explain how you're affecting eachother. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 11:36 AM
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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
Yes, it can, especially if it shows up in the composite. However, even without it showing up in the composite, it can explain how you're affecting eachother.
This is talking about Pluto and Persephone. IP: Logged |
Bismarck2
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posted March 13, 2019 11:41 AM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
This is talking about Pluto and Persephone.
No, it's talking about the nature of pluto in relationships. The myth of Hades/Persephone is relevant to understanding these aspects. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 12:10 PM
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Originally posted by Bismarck2:
No, it's talking about the nature of pluto in relationships. The myth of Hades/Persephone is relevant to understanding these aspects.
Well that’s ok I’ve decided to cut communication with him. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 12:22 PM
As the Moon person I’m already starting to feel the negative influence from this overlay and aspect. I don’t like it just too much. And I guess the Pluto person could careless. I told him I don’t think we should be friends anymore.IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 13, 2019 12:23 PM
Moon in the 8th house synastry is very much like a moon/Pluto synastry aspect.IME, the moon certainly feels the house overly, and experiences the themes of the house (in contrast to Sun, Mars ...), and having your moon being squared by his Pluto. Wow. That’s like a double dose of moon/pluto. And as you’re the moon, you will really feel this emotionally. The chances of experiencing the potential extremes that moon/Pluto bring are high. Lust, obsession, fear, irrational feelings, compulsion, love, hate, emotional depth, emotional dependence, emotional manipulation, emotional satisfaction, intense sexual intimacy, transformation, intense insecurity, power plays. Enjoy 😊 IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 12:30 PM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Moon in the 8th house synastry is very much like a moon/Pluto synastry aspect.IME, the moon certainly feels the house overly, and experiences the themes of the house (in contrast to Sun, Mars ...), and having your moon being squared by his Pluto. Wow. That’s like a double dose of moon/pluto. And as you’re the moon, you will really feel this emotionally. The chances of experiencing the potential extremes that moon/Pluto bring are high. Lust, obsession, fear, irrational feelings, compulsion, love, hate, emotional depth, emotional dependence, emotional manipulation, emotional satisfaction, intense sexual intimacy, transformation, intense insecurity, power plays. Enjoy 😊
Why are you saying enjoy? This isn’t pleasurable I suppose you’ve never experienced any of this before as the Moon person? It’s all one sided as the Pluto/house person feels nothing. It won’t be any of the things you listed for me though because I’m ending the friendship. IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 13, 2019 12:44 PM
Sorry, I was trying to bring some humour to the convo.I have so much experience with moon/8th and moon/Pluto; both as house/moon/Pluto. It’s a tough one, I way prefer to be the moon in the aspect (counter intuitive, I know) and the house in the overlay. Purely because my moon needs the desperation that I can always rinse out of Pluto, and as the house I love watching the moon surrender to me, I give just as much as I get. I’m a bit complicated. I’m so glad I’m married. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 12:55 PM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Sorry, I was trying to bring some humour to the convo.I have so much experience with moon/8th and moon/Pluto; both as house/moon/Pluto. It’s a tough one, I way prefer to be the moon in the aspect (counter intuitive, I know) and the house in the overlay. Purely because my moon needs the desperation that I can always rinse out of Pluto, and as the house I love watching the moon surrender to me, I give just as much as I get. I’m a bit complicated. I’m so glad I’m married.
The Pluto and house person is careless they could careless about the Moon person. But I’m not going to allow myself to go through this. It’s not worth it to me people say this placement and aspect is about transformation. But I really don’t think that’s the case I’d rather not be involved. But I am going to be honest when he asks me why I don’t want to be friends anymore.IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 13, 2019 01:06 PM
It’s a tough one for me, I don’t know how deep you are with this guy; what your relationship is like and what you want from this interaction.I remember you saying that you was going to sleep with him, get it over with and end it. I told you something along the lines of ‘don’t do it’. Reason being that, this dynamic will certainly play out. If he is not interested or not reciprocal, you need to distance yourself and stop putting energy into it if it’s making you feel like **** . Certainly, don’t tell him the real reasons why you want to call a hard stop to the relationship; just be cordial and gain some control of the dynamic. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 01:09 PM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
It’s a tough one for me, I don’t know how deep you are with this guy; what your relationship is like and what you want from this interaction.I remember you saying that you was going to sleep with him, get it over with and end it. I told you something along the lines of ‘don’t do it’. Reason being that, this dynamic will certainly play out. If he is not interested or not reciprocal, you need to distance yourself and stop putting energy into it if it’s making you feel like **** . Certainly, don’t tell him the real reasons why you want to call a hard stop to the relationship; just be cordial and gain some control of the dynamic.
Why wouldn’t I tell him the real reason? IP: Logged |
MarsSaturnDelight
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posted March 13, 2019 01:11 PM
Again, that’s your call. I can only give advise on what I read.What is it you are actually going to say to him? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted March 13, 2019 01:18 PM
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Originally posted by MarsSaturnDelight:
Again, that’s your call. I can only give advise on what I read.What is it you are actually going to say to him?
Because I don’t like the emotional effect he has on me. Or I’ll just make up something what difference does it make? IP: Logged |
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