posted February 17, 2019 10:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:
I'm curious now to see your chart if you don't mind posting it

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Sure idc lol, curious why you’re curious tho?

posted February 17, 2019 10:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck:
You're thinking of Rasi/Rashi kuta, which uses the same logic, but instead of comparing nakshatra distance from man to woman, it measures house distance from man to woman.

Using LunaIscariot's example, her moon is in the 11th position from her exes. Looked at from a different perspective, his moon was in the 3rd house from her moon.

If you look here(https://varahamihira.blogspot.com/2004/10/marriage-compatibility.html) you'll see that that results in "sorrow" in the long run in ADDITION to the negative effects that come from having negative Stree Deerga.

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He caused me lots of sorrow alright! 🙃😂
But Scorpio moon is ironically my fav moon placement. All my life the people closest to me and that I care about the most have this placement. All my best friends who are women, have this, all 3 of them. I’ve never not gotten along with another moon in Scorpio (male or women) besides him actually. Quite the opposite. He’s just a jerk lol. He doesn’t get along with most people

posted February 17, 2019 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
He caused me lots of sorrow alright! 🙃😂
But Scorpio moon is ironically my fav moon placement. All my life the people closest to me and that I care about the most have this placement. All my best friends who are women, have this, all 3 of them. I’ve never not gotten along with another moon in Scorpio (male or women) besides him actually. Quite the opposite. He’s just a jerk lol. He doesn’t get along with most people

Can I ask you what the best moon sign match would be for me then according to this system?

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It works better in platonic relationships.

I would need to know what nakshatra your moon falls in then. It's either Magha, Purva Phalguni or the first part of Uttara Phalguni, which are all in the sign of Leo using Sidereal zodiac.

posted February 17, 2019 11:34 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
It’s Uttara phalguni

And ok brb I’ll check it out! Thank you btw!

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Purva Phalguni and Bharani are the best for you, IMO.

posted February 17, 2019 11:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Sure idc lol, curious why you’re curious tho?

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I need to see the whole chart and see what attract you to those Moons.
Although still is not enough by itself because it would be better to see the other's person chart too.

If I don't see a chart for myself I can't have the whole picture to see what's really happening.

I can't trust people like that unless I see that they have a general idea of how a planet aspect/placement may work having in the back of their head the whole chart.

For example I attract Venus in Cap which inconjuncts my Venus, Mars and jupiter in Leo. That's a truth I'm telling you.
And you'll be wondering "how is it possible she is compatible with those men since Venus which shows our values and tastes has absolutely nothing in common with her Venus?"

Here is another truth: My 7th H is in Capricorn and has Neptune, North Node and Juno all in Capricorn in there.

And if I tell you that I'm never attracted to Venus/Mars signs that are compatible with mines you'll be like "what is wrong with astrology does it even work?"

But my Venus and Mars in Leo are square Pluto

If you give half the truth you lie unintentionally.

There are people who are studying celebs' synastries they don't even know! I have no problem if they do it out of curiosity or fun or for whatever reason.. But taking it seriously when you have no idea if their relationship is even real and what is going on in that relationship it drives me nuts.
I can't believe it that they draw conclunsions about asoects and synastries for people like celebrities who always have a mask on.

That's why I want to look charts of "real" people I know and ask them and learn as much as possible.

Leo Moon fall in your 5th H (this really feels nice)
Taurus Moon is obvious.. You have Virgo and Cap so Taurus is the earthy sign missing to complete the earthy trine. (Virgo and Taurus go well together)

What defrees are the Cancer Moon you like? early late or in the middle?

posted February 17, 2019 11:55 PM            

And yes I know why I like those moon signs, I was just curious about the Vedic compatibility thing.
Moon in cancer falls in my 4th, so that’s why I like moon in cancer. I feel at home with them. I’m also super sensitive and empathetic and I like their caring nature.

Moon in scorpios I LOVE though. Falls in my 7th, so naturally I relate best to people with Scorpio placements. Only people I’ve ever truly gotten close to and I can’t say anything bad about this placement tbh. Super trustworthy, loyal, and I feel most comfortable with moon in Scorpio. All my besties have it, BUT funny you mentioned in early degrees it’s challenging. My ex his moon was 0 degrees Scorpio lol was square my aqua stellium. And all my friends have it in the 14-26 degrees range 👍

posted February 18, 2019 08:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Plut0nian2:

It's like your 'hearts" are so different and I think it's always worse for the more emotional one. The other is just confused.

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^TRUTH

posted February 18, 2019 08:37 AM            

For ex with one of my friends I work very well with, my moon is gemini conjunct mars. His is aries square mars. So his moon is marsian, so is my moon even if its not the same signs. His moon aspects saturn. My moon aspects saturn aswell, so both have saturnian moons natally. We get each other that way and we have other same or similar planatery natal aspects to our moons.

Your moon is in your 5th so you have a firy moon. His is in 11th house (plus libra) so its an air house with air moon. Air+fire works very well and complete each other. You don't have to worry that much about libra-cance thing imo but thats just based on what I see libra and cancer as.

Cancer is sensetive. Libra is also sensetive and cares for other peoples feelings ad emotions. I think its a good combo. But I talk signs wise now. Natal aspects etc is of importance too. Dont be blinded by signs only.

posted February 18, 2019 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
Its best to look at your charts one on one as people suggested before. You may have same themes or houses that compliments each other. I can't see well in your synastry chart what your natal aspects are.

For ex with one of my friends I work very well with, my moon is gemini conjunct mars. His is aries square mars. So his moon is marsian, so is my moon even if its not the same signs. His moon aspects saturn. My moon aspects saturn aswell, so both have saturnian moons natally. We get each other that way and we have other same or similar planatery natal aspects to our moons.

Your moon is in your 5th so you have a firy moon. His is in 11th house (plus libra) so its an air house with air moon. Air+fire works very well and complete each other. You don't have to worry that much about libra-cance thing imo but thats just based on what I see libra and cancer as.

Cancer is sensetive. Libra is also sensetive and cares for other peoples feelings ad emotions. I think its a good combo. But I talk signs wise now. Natal aspects etc is of importance too. Dont be blinded by signs only.

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posted February 19, 2019 06:21 AM            

Your moons are not that different at all. So I stand by what I said, don't be blinded by moon square moon.

His moon is in libra. But your moon is aspecting your venus, surprice! Your moon have more "venus energy" then his libra moon.

Both you and he has moon aspecting a fire sign sun.

There are differences too of course. His moon is aspecting his uranus and pluto for ex. Very intense moon. His moon is sensetive with that pluto contact. More sensetive then your cancer moon imo but I'm no expert...

posted February 19, 2019 01:44 PM            

I have this aspect with someone... My Moon is in Gemini and their Moon conjuncts Mercury (in Pisces - and in the twelfth house). And yeah we get along really well. But there's 'something' I can't put my finger on. Like an uncomfortability around them. Not even uncomfortable. It's more so I don't feel like I have 'access' to him lol if you know what I mean. Perhaps if the Mercury aspect would be from a different sign or house it would be different.

I have my Moon in my twelfth too, so although that would normally make matters different, it really didn't. The lack of 'access' that I'm feeling is definitely the Pisces/12th house sort. It feels like there's always something hidden about him that I can't get to. Which obviously puts me in an uncomfortable position. (interesting he claims that he feels that way about me - so I guess the square in this case goes both ways)

I also think it depends how they personally relate to their Moon. Like I have this aspect with my brother. Also a Pisces Moon. We just get each other so well. His Moon is in his fifth oppose Mercury in the eleventh (like mine). And although both of those planets square my Moon... He's still my homie lol. His Sun and Moon inconjunct each other by sign. I think that's something to consider as well.

posted February 19, 2019 10:45 PM              

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Exactly. This is why I said I think this is a little better in a friendship rather than in a partnership. Even with my friend we can`t be around each other for too long or too much before we start getting on each others nerves. I think its really important to give each other space with this aspect in synastry. The differences will eventually start to show full time and get really frustrating esp if you are close to that person or have to deal with that person on the regular. I have even had issues with other incompatible moons that aren't even aspecting mine like Leo moons and it always ends up getting more and more frustrating to deal with ime.

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idk dude it really depends my bf and i have exact inconjunct moons and his moon squares my sun and mercury and his mars squares my moon and his sun squares my mars but i literally never get tired of him because of our other aspects. and we both have trines natally. (grand moon/sun/mercury/mars trines)

and he's virgo moon and i'm an aries moon and we both have moon square uranus so you'd think it'd be really bad.

but being with him his almost like being by myself, and usually we both need a lott of space from people.

posted February 19, 2019 10:56 PM              

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I used to think like that too... That if the Moons are of similar energy they'll get along fine. But I think it's not really about getting along.

I have this aspect with someone... My Moon is in Gemini and their Moon conjuncts Mercury (in Pisces - and in the twelfth house). And yeah we get along really well. But there's 'something' I can't put my finger on. Like an uncomfortability around them. Not even uncomfortable. It's more so I don't feel like I have 'access' to him lol if you know what I mean. Perhaps if the Mercury aspect would be from a different sign or house it would be different.

I have my Moon in my twelfth too, so although that would normally make matters different, it really didn't. The lack of 'access' that I'm feeling is definitely the Pisces/12th house sort. It feels like there's always something hidden about him that I can't get to. Which obviously puts me in an uncomfortable position. (interesting he claims that he feels that way about me - so I guess the square in this case goes both ways)

I also think it depends how they personally relate to their Moon. Like I have this aspect with my brother. Also a Pisces Moon. We just get each other so well. His Moon is in his fifth oppose Mercury in the eleventh (like mine). And although both of those planets square my Moon... He's still my homie lol. His Sun and Moon inconjunct each other by sign. I think that's something to consider as well.

My Mom, although a Pisces Moon it only squares my Moon by sign. And again, we really get each other well. Her Moon is in her third. So the makeup is similar, hers in Pisces in a Gemini house, mine in Gemini in a Pisces house.

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Yeah I agree there are so many factors to consider with each situation. And I still believe some aspect is better than no aspect. Especially between moons.

posted February 28, 2019 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
My Mom, although a Pisces Moon it only squares my Moon by sign. And again, we really get each other well. Her Moon is in her third. So the makeup is similar, hers in Pisces in a Gemini house, mine in Gemini in a Pisces house.

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posted February 28, 2019 03:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Bismarck:
In vedic astrology, a man's moon coming after a woman's(counter-clockwise) would be considered NEGATIVE stree deerga. This probably explains why they don't get along.

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I've Sag Moon and he has Libra Moon.
In Vedic, I've Scorpio Moon and he has Virgo Moon.

This means his Moon comes before mine and is "chasing" my Moon, right?

posted April 13, 2019 11:36 AM            

We felt very drawn to each other because of our trine suns, venus, and mars, but in the end, I felt we didn’t really understand each other. The fire was there, but it wasn’t built to last.

It was indeed worse for me because I had the water moon.

posted April 13, 2019 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
My Sag Moon is in a Libra house, so it will increase my compatibility with that Moon sign?

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I think it certainly helps. But it's probably a case by case basis.

posted April 14, 2019 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I think it certainly helps. But it's probably a case by case basis.

I think you can feel when your Moon makeups are compatible, you know?

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posted April 14, 2019 03:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Yes, even if our Moon signs are not within orb I can still feel it as long as they're in compatible signs. It's usually instant comfort and we can naturally talk about a lot of deep things.

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