posted July 16, 2019 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Thank you he is my ex husband. Swedish. Together 10 years, married for 2.5. Been divorced for 4 years now.
As it happens I have now moved overseas and the man I’m in love with has also moved overseas. We are from the same city back home. Anyway his dsc ruler is Jupiter in Leo in his 3rd house. Also has neptune conjunct his DSC. Do you think this could point to an element of our attraction towards one another? Would be funny if we ended up marrying

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posted July 16, 2019 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
You’ll probably meet your spouse from your hometown. So if you moved, whenever you go back and visit there is when you’ll most likely meet him, or somewhere that is your spouses hometown if you moved. Could also meet through your family/relatives somehow.

And yes! That’s true what you said about the composite and the asc ruler describing how you met etc. I’ve studied this myself and can 100 percent confirm

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That's what I was saying. I've been stuck t/here again for the last 6 years, getting stuck in between moves when my mother died, and I "look down on" the kind of people who would live anywhere like this as a choice. It's a ghastly place where only the kind of people I don't fully want to associate with stay/ed after growing old enough to move out. Me being the kind to move out as soon as possible. There only being two kinds of people in such small towns, the kind who leave and the kind with zero vision, ambition, dreams or drive for the ones who stay. I've been stuck because of financial reasons but nobody would come here as a tourist & as said, the kind of people you meet somewhere small-town like this are nothing I want. I want to live abroad where I used to work & live & be much happier. Partners from somewhere I come from seem a horror story NEVER wanted.

There also isn't much selection that wasn't seen (& said no to) in teens or before moving out in your twenties, so whatever selection left unmarried or divorced in suitable age ranges AND decent & good enough to do for partners is marginal at best. And I say this with a solar return ASC coming up on my Part of Marriage & a progressed New Moon in 4H Libra coming up in the autumn, being aware that some things are trying to suggest chances of partners maybe showing up?

I have zero contact with the remaining supposed "immediate" family after my mother's death, and they weren't socializing sorts even when I was younger, so to have to stand someone who they'd know first, as a partner, seems possibly an even worse horror story in the making. I have zero desire to let any husband of mine associate with the paternal in any amicable fashion given the history there, and the brother hasn't acted much better either so comes to about the same end result there.

I.e., if I wasn't stuck here already, I would also have zero reason to visit since my mother's death. Apparently.

"somewhere that is your spouses hometown if you moved" is a bit unclear to me though since it doesn't then tie to my fourth house in apparent ways? I probably won't mind if it's meeting in their hometown or city, as long as there isn't the inherent stagnancy involved if coming from a smaller place. Just that since I wouldn't at all mind a British guy, e.g., if I can't even get there the chances of running into someone in their hometown somewhere like that are also on the lower side.

posted July 16, 2019 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Oh cool my Desc ruler Jupiter as well in Leo in 3rd lol. Noice

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posted July 21, 2019 10:50 AM            

i have 7th house in aqua

uranus is in 6th house conjuncting neptune (ruler of 9th)

so work related to foreigner thingy...

posted July 21, 2019 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Hemilla:
i love obsessing over 7th house and who my husband will be

i have 7th house in aqua

uranus is in 6th house conjuncting neptune (ruler of 9th)

so work related to foreigner thingy...

also my 6th house ruler saturn is in 9th house - me working with foreigners can happen mostly through my pc as i am freelance graphic designer and writer
- i dont see myself meeting anyone let alone a man i would marry online - if i hate anything its stories of people marring people they met online lol

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Definitely looks like you’ll marry someone foreign from you with Saturn (traditional ruler of your DSC) in the 9th and Uranus conjunct Neptune (9th ruler 👍 . Different culture, country, race etc. Or you’ll meet when you’re travelling, or when you’re learning/studying something, a class of some sort. Could also meet at their job of place of work, a work environment, yours or theirs

posted July 24, 2019 01:32 AM            

So, my first husband I met on the campus of the university I attended. He did not, he was just there visiting his friends. I don't have his tob, just date: 2/3/62.

Second husband, met in bar I was working at. Don't have tob, date of birth: 6/19/57.

Third husband met on the front porch of a friend (he was their postman). Date of birth: 9/6/64.

I am including my natal chart.

From what I have read, I should look for first husband in 7th, second husband in 9th, and third husband in 11th.

Looking at my 7H in Cap, I don't have any planets here, so I have to look at the ruler, which means Saturn, which is 9H Aquarius. Uranian type. And yes, 1st husband was...

9th house is also Aquarius, so Uranius again....Uranus is in 3H Virgo. Ruler is Mercury, and 2nd husband was Gemini Sun.

11th house is Aries, and it has Jupiter. Ruler is Mars, and my mars is 3H Virgo. Third husband was Virgo Sun.

I think one thing that I have learned in researching my chart is that I have Vertex at 25 degrees Scorpio, so I like a strong Plutonian guy, but I also need the Uranian combination, or I would get bored quickly. I have a lot of Pluto in my natal, so I understand the need for an intense and powerful connection. But it is odd that Uranian (airy) types are what I keep attracting.

However, I will state that my very first boyfriend (who I am still friends with) is a Scorpio Sun, Virgo Moon, Aquarius AC. He would have been perfect for me! I was too young at the time to appreciate the connection we had.

I also have several other relationships with Plutonian men. Intense is all I can say!

posted July 24, 2019 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by moongirl22:
So, I have a question about looking for relationships going forward...committed but not marriage. Will I look to the 1st house? If so, how will that work, as my 1st house is Cancer, Ruler Moon, and the Moon is in 1st house. So, where would I meet this partner? Or does this mean that he would be Cancer Sun or Moon? Strong moon placements? Thanks for any help!

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Thanks for your previous post and data! Super cool how it all comes together and yes you looked at the correct houses for second, third marriages etc. 😊

Since you have cap DSC (which is usually commitment phobic and doesn’t really need or believe in marriage) and the ruler being in aqua in the 9th, these are all very freedom loving energies. A non-traditional type relationship would be best. I think marriage would make you feel “trapped” or limited. Maybe that’s why your previous marriages didn’t work out, I truly think marriage isn’t for you looking at your 7th. And that’s perfectly ok!

Someone who is responsible, ambitious or successful , practical, well-read/knowledgeable, almost someone who you look up to as a mentor or who can teach you things and be a solid, supportive, structured influence in your life would be ideal. You want someone down to earth with a good head on their shoulders, marure. You really want intelligence above all (mars in Virgo, conjunct Uranus, 3rd house, 7th ruler in aqua in the 9th), but also you need someone fair, balanced and logical with your 5th cusp in libra and the ruler also in Libra. Scorpio is intercepted so that’s the draw to Plutonian types plus your mars conjunct Pluto. So someone insightful, passionate, loyal and committed too.
A Scorpio moon would be great, since it matches your moon in cancer energy. Scorpio moon is very committed, serious, practical, ambitious and good with money which matches the Capricorn energy, plus the loyalty, passion etc. your 5th house likes 😊.
You have such strong cancer energy though that you need to find someone else with it too for true compatibility, someone with Venus in cancer, or moon in their 7th would be perfect!

Virgo sun
Venus in cancer
Moon in Scorpio
ASC in Aquarius or Saturn conjunct their asc/in their 1st house, or their asc ruler in the 9th, 10th, or 11th would be ideal.
Mars in Capricorn

posted July 24, 2019 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Aquarius DSC and Uranus in my 4th house (eehw! lol), so, I guess I'll just stick to non-marital relationships

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posted July 24, 2019 04:47 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
You have to look at Saturn too. It’s more important than Uranus, traditional rulers are more powerful

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posted July 24, 2019 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Moonbeth:
Thanks a lot! It's in the 3rd, does that mean I can think my husband into being? I certainly hope it doesn't mean I have to find him on the internet or in my phone, because that is not something that will happen

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posted July 24, 2019 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Thanks for your previous post and data! Super cool how it all comes together and yes you looked at the correct houses for second, third marriages etc. 😊

Since you have cap DSC (which is usually commitment phobic and doesn’t really need or believe in marriage) and the ruler being in aqua in the 9th, these are all very freedom loving energies. A non-traditional type relationship would be best. I think marriage would make you feel “trapped” or limited. Maybe that’s why your previous marriages didn’t work out, I truly think marriage isn’t for you looking at your 7th. And that’s perfectly ok!

Someone who is responsible, ambitious or successful , practical, well-read/knowledgeable, almost someone who you look up to as a mentor or who can teach you things and be a solid, supportive, structured influence in your life would be ideal. You want someone down to earth with a good head on their shoulders, marure. You really want intelligence above all (mars in Virgo, conjunct Uranus, 3rd house, 7th ruler in aqua in the 9th), but also you need someone fair, balanced and logical with your 5th cusp in libra and the ruler also in Libra. Scorpio is intercepted so that’s the draw to Plutonian types plus your mars conjunct Pluto. So someone insightful, passionate, loyal and committed too.
A Scorpio moon would be great, since it matches your moon in cancer energy. Scorpio moon is very committed, serious, practical, ambitious and good with money which matches the Capricorn energy, plus the loyalty, passion etc. your 5th house likes 😊.
You have such strong cancer energy though that you need to find someone else with it too for true compatibility, someone with Venus in cancer, or moon in their 7th would be perfect!

Virgo sun
Venus in cancer
Moon in Scorpio
ASC in Aquarius or Saturn conjunct their asc/in their 1st house, or their asc ruler in the 9th, 10th, or 11th would be ideal.
Mars in Capricorn

This would be a really good combo for you!
But a water moon is best!!! This is the most important thing for you. You’re so sensitive and emotional that you need someone who can understand, emphasize, and relate, and only a water moon would truly be able to do that for you.

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Lunalscariot, thank you!

posted July 25, 2019 12:40 AM            

I won’t marry someone in the family, will I?

posted July 25, 2019 05:46 AM            

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Originally posted by moongirl22:
Lunalscariot, thank you!

Two more questions: Where might I meet this new fella, and with all of my Pluto aspects in my chart, does this give me a strong Plutonian energy? Is this also another reason why I am so attracted to Plutonian men?

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posted July 25, 2019 09:14 AM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Probably in your neighbour, or thru your cousins/siblings. But your environment, like your cornerstone etc. Not long distance travel but like within your town or city and mainly your area, like within 30 miles radius

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Single it is! My closest neighbours are racists, only child, no close cousin, and I basically hate where I live and meet nobody here lol

Could it be a town that would be the other person's hometown and that feels like home to me?

Also, to help with your corpus. My parents aren't legally married, but have had a civil pact for a few years now and they have been together for almost 50 years.

Her 7th house is in Cancer with her moon on the cusp of 10 and 11 and his 7th is in Taurus which is where his Venus also is.

They met through my father's brother, who had eyes on my mother until he introduced her to his baby brother and the rest is history.