posted August 09, 2019 04:13 AM            

In both there is a Moon square Pluto
In both there is a stellium with Eros/Venus/Jupiter.

Now the signs the aspects fall in are different? Could it be that?

Like the One I love the stellium was in Libra and with the other the stellium falls in Virgo.

With the one I love Moon is in Capricorn square chart ruler Pluto and activated by Tr Pluto and the other one has Moon in Aquarius square pluto.

I love:

posted August 09, 2019 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi hypatia238,

with the guy you love, you have Comp. Venus conjunct Jupiter and Saturn square Vertex in 8th house, and Sun in 1sth house/ASC trine Juno in 4th house. So there is a deep bond of loving feeling, and with Moon square Pluto conjunct Mars the intimacy and attraction is very intense.
With the second guy, Saturn square Mars and especially Uranus 11th house square Mars/Venus/Sun the feelings are detached and there' s little compatibility. In this picture, Neptune square Venus might look like one-sided love. Also, Chiron in 5th house square to Venus is an emotional block. Even though, with Uranus 11th house trine NN and Mars conjunct Jupiter you might be good friends and have shared views/activities and good mental exchange with Venus conjunct Mercury.

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I think the composite with the second guy shows more feeling. They have the "love stellium" plus a lot of jupiter. Her composite with the first person looks scarce by comparison.

posted August 09, 2019 11:10 AM            

Composite #2 might be too erratic to be steady, with an Aqua Moon and the Uranus squares. Yet at the same time maybe too intense with that 8th house stellium and Moon/Pluto square. Like a push/pull dynamic I feel like. With that Mars/Saturn square there's likely a blockage of feelings anyway.

IMO the "love stellium" isn't the be all-end all. The rest of the composite has to be supportive.

posted August 09, 2019 01:58 PM            

the adored composite has the stellium of Saturn/venus/Jupiter/eros sextile to the node. this is very favorable as it unites affection and devotion with a sense of longevity and support. do underestimate the power of a node sextile emotionally. it can give all the intensity of a venus square but is stable and reliable.

in addition with sun opposed to chiron and sextile to the moon, there is an eternal interest here. that is you both are very interested in how each other think rsond and feel to life. this aspect can give great intimacy because you can know each other inside and out. sometimes knowing each other inside and out it can led to bitter breakups because when arguments arise, you can use what you know about each others weakness and fault destructively.
but with a node sextile and the moon trine ,this is very unlikely to happen in this relationship. here the strength/sensitivity of the sextile/node to work through difficulties stands out.

hmmm Osiris/Isis midpoint is conjunct to phlous and opposed to eros and square the vertex......metaphysical...this can certainty gives a feeling of other worldly connections between you.it as if there is a hidden astral/psychic reality underlying the physical between you.but be careful, as if he is not sensitive to these forces he might think you are a bit obsessed if you try to bring this up.

as for mr nothing,he is all into himself. it doesn't seem the can see the importance of others.
the moon/pluto is a emotional blockage with no emotional flow between you.
on the surface, one would expect a degree of affection as the stellium of mercury/sun/venus/eros/Jupiter usually gives a very affectionate feeling and mercury give joyous and happy conversation and time spent. so I can see you confusion. on the surface it looks like this guy would be your emotional choice, except for the selfishness I described about.
here the stellium is square to chiron which would give a similar impulse to get to know each other, but because it is a chiron square, the getting to know each other activities would be more like a sparing match. that is he would try to one up you on everything. and the square shows he could be very abrupt,critical and self righteous....he knows everthing and you know nothing

todd

posted August 09, 2019 10:18 PM            

I am going to give second guy a chance, I wonder if saturn is just delaying the impact of moon square pluto and the expression of mars. We are going to go hiking Sunday, I only hanged out with him yesterday for the first time and we did have great conversations and a lot of in common in how we think etc but that mars square saturn concerns me.

Here are the synastries with both, again I feel I have a good synastry with both:

I love:

posted August 12, 2019 12:57 PM            

Okay so I did go hiking with him yesterday and when I did not meet expectations his Mars in the 7th square Uranus showed up and ended it and he did try to one up me a number of times, I guess when he is angry he becomes passive aggressive and does this...for instance once he tried to kiss me again and I was not receptive later when I was trying to warm up to him and attempted to give him a massage he did not let me followed by a comment along the lines of "now you know how it feels to get the cold shoulder."

Anyhoo.....I am just not into him. I feel the pluto pull a little I do from the moon square pluto but I am not into him. I think part of it is the mars square saturn for sure in the composite but I think our synastry is too heavy on southnode contacts and there are no northnode contacts...I think my past relationships with southnode contacts also had northnode contacts so I had the desire to move forward with them, I think when you have both types of nodal contacts it feels great but if there are only southnode stuff, it feels like I have done this already and don't want to do it again type of feeling.