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Topic: Whats the dynamic of scorpio moon/libra moon couple?
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 18, 2019 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999: [b] He is just being an immature scorpio moon. He has alot of grow up to do. My suggestion is to run and ignore. If he is doing all that then he probably watch you from afar
Oh, he does. But I don't understand what his weird attention to me about. It's a lot of time passed. It was time when we had crush at each other, but It's in the past now. Maybe, it's like his hobby 😊 If he has girlfriend/new interest, all his Scorpio attention supposed to be for her? And it's like he is mad at me.. And we still have a little telepathy, 12 house stuff left to go.. Yeah, I got sense I need to run from the moment I met him. [/B][/QUOTE] He dwells on the past, scorpio moon have difficulty of letting go. Especially if it was something worth it. But this mess is immature. He has someone and does that? This isnt scorpio moon at all. He must have other things on his charts. I could never be with someone if I'm not truly deeply in love with them. I just couldn't. Heck I'm stuck in a place of being in love with someone I dont even know if they feel the same. And your guy is out here being wild as hell. This is messy. He is immature because I know the game he is playing and it's dangerous. This is self sabotage IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 19, 2019 11:58 AM
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 19, 2019 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999: [b] He dwells on the past, scorpio moon have difficulty of letting go. Especially if it was something worth it. But this mess is immature. He has someone and does that? This isnt scorpio moon at all. He must have other things on his charts. I could never be with someone if I'm not truly deeply in love with them. I just couldn't. Heck I'm stuck in a place of being in love with someone I dont even know if they feel the same. And your guy is out here being wild as hell. This is messy. He is immature because I know the game he is playing and it's dangerous. This is self sabotage
I think he dwells on drama. His chart shows unstable emotions. I'm 90% sure he has girlfriend. I think he just cannot be alone because he has too much Scorpio. Maybe, there're not much emotions in his life to satisfy his psycho temper that's why he does it. And Scorpio Venus.. It's like he always trying to hurt me/ test or play. I have trouble to see difference nowaday. And when I'm mad at him, ignore him - he gets more angry. Weird calls, messing with my job (it's actually work relationship what looks like bad romance ) My libra gets mad because the person cannot even accept he isn't right.Kate, Take the bandage off. The more you wait - more painful it gets. I had some situations when I was waiting too long. The moment passed, but we weren't friends so you have advantage here. [/B][/QUOTE] Oh dear I feel you. The issue is he will always be part of my life. Therefore, I'm avoiding for now. I dont have the strength now, I have other things to focus on. It has brought alot of pain. I dont feel worthy. I have deep feelings, and I'm coping with it alone. I wish it was a crush or infatuation cuz I know the difference. But this..is this real and sincere. Your guy is unstable, I would recommend to block him. You cant let him be part of your life if he acts this way.
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 20, 2019 10:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Oh dear I feel you. The issue is he will always be part of my life. Therefore, I'm avoiding for now. I dont have the strength now, I have other things to focus on. It has brought alot of pain. I dont feel worthy. I have deep feelings, and I'm coping with it alone. I wish it was a crush or infatuation cuz I know the difference. But this..is this real and sincere. Your guy is unstable, I would recommend to block him. You cant let him be part of your life if he acts this way.
It's really reassuring to know somebody you care about is part of your life, and it doesn't depend on how your feeling would turn. I wish I had it. He almost killed all my positive feelings. But i cannot understand how somebody you like can be negative to you, and we never were romantically involved. Sometimes he makes it almost impossible to even work in the same place with him. I just wanted to be his friend, but he treats me like enemy. My Libra is so disappointed and confused.It might be your great gift to have sincere and deep feelings. I bet a lot of people would appreciate someone who can love in such way. You just need to make sure you give it to the right person. My squares with Neptune make me always doubt what is real. It was moment when I thought I could love him deeply like never before if I met him in different time.. But some people are too damaged to accept love. So it might be my gift from universe - I didn't meet him in the different time..
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 20, 2019 10:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999: [b] Oh dear I feel you. The issue is he will always be part of my life. Therefore, I'm avoiding for now. I dont have the strength now, I have other things to focus on. It has brought alot of pain. I dont feel worthy. I have deep feelings, and I'm coping with it alone. I wish it was a crush or infatuation cuz I know the difference. But this..is this real and sincere. Your guy is unstable, I would recommend to block him. You cant let him be part of your life if he acts this way.
It's really reassuring to know somebody you care about is part of your life, and it doesn't depend on how your feeling would turn. I wish I had it. He almost killed all my positive feelings. But i cannot understand how somebody you like can be negative to you, and we never were romantically involved. Sometimes he makes it almost impossible to even work in the same place with him. I just wanted to be his friend, but he treats me like enemy. My Libra is so disappointed and confused.It might be your great gift to have sincere and deep feelings. I bet a lot of people would appreciate someone who can love in such way. You just need to make sure you give it to the right person. My squares with Neptune make me always doubt what is real. It was moment when I thought I could love him deeply like never before if I met him in different time.. But some people are too damaged to accept love. So it might be my gift from universe - I didn't meet him in the different time..[/B][/QUOTE] This scorpio moon isnt worh it. I'd block him if I were you. Yeah it may feel nice but look it's been 2 months no communication..now I know this isnt normal because not 2 weeks even go by without us talking. So now i know he can sense something must have changed.. and thanks to a good libra moon friend advice. Im not convinced he thinks about it but libra moon people belivee he does since the communication has changed since there is no communication since middle august. Yeah well i personally didnt want to love deeply for no one lol. This is type of things that scare the crap out of me. For now I'm just avoiding as much as I can... I know I wont be able forever since I'm bound to meet/stumble on to him whether in college, family gathering, etc. Because the sad thing is, everything that was built through that family friendship between us could affect the family with this situation. This is why I have been distancing myself from him. Trying to forget him..cuz I feel like this wont happen to me. Even tho, I'm being told to not do that and that it would affect him but ohh, I wanna believe with all the friends and people he has in his life he has no time to think of me. #denial lol
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 22, 2019 01:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: This scorpio moon isnt worh it. I'd block him if I were you. Yeah it may feel nice but look it's been 2 months no communication..now I know this isnt normal because not 2 weeks even go by without us talking. So now i know he can sense something must have changed.. and thanks to a good libra moon friend advice. Im not convinced he thinks about it but libra moon people belivee he does since the communication has changed since there is no communication since middle august. Yeah well i personally didnt want to love deeply for no one lol. This is type of things that scare the crap out of me. For now I'm just avoiding as much as I can... I know I wont be able forever since I'm bound to meet/stumble on to him whether in college, family gathering, etc. Because the sad thing is, everything that was built through that family friendship between us could affect the family with this situation. This is why I have been distancing myself from him. Trying to forget him..cuz I feel like this wont happen to me. Even tho, I'm being told to not do that and that it would affect him but ohh, I wanna believe with all the friends and people he has in his life he has no time to think of me. #denial lol
I used to avoid a lot of things, but in the end you probably will have more regrets about what you didn't do than what you did. Your situation might be more complicated, it's frustrating you need to think not only about his reaction, but how it might be a public situation. However, it sounded like you do have some special connection (doesn't matter if it's that love or not). And by distancing yourself for too long, you might lose that special place in his life. Guys often don't sit around alone for months being upset about the girl even if they really like her.I let my Scorpio moon fade away. He is almost gone. It felt like fated from the beginning: circle, repeated situations, signs. Even your topic, I thought he's gone from my life completely. I couldn't find anything about Scorpio/libra. (that nut-job faked he moved away! now I see it'd be for better..) And you created the topic ,in the same day, he popped in my life again. I try to figure out what all of these about.. Maybe, just lessons. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 22, 2019 03:09 PM
Kate, you need to work on your self-esteem. It's a classic Scorpio story: they are ruining their relationships and life because of fears and self-doubts.IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 22, 2019 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999: [b] This scorpio moon isnt worh it. I'd block him if I were you. Yeah it may feel nice but look it's been 2 months no communication..now I know this isnt normal because not 2 weeks even go by without us talking. So now i know he can sense something must have changed.. and thanks to a good libra moon friend advice. Im not convinced he thinks about it but libra moon people belivee he does since the communication has changed since there is no communication since middle august. Yeah well i personally didnt want to love deeply for no one lol. This is type of things that scare the crap out of me. For now I'm just avoiding as much as I can... I know I wont be able forever since I'm bound to meet/stumble on to him whether in college, family gathering, etc. Because the sad thing is, everything that was built through that family friendship between us could affect the family with this situation. This is why I have been distancing myself from him. Trying to forget him..cuz I feel like this wont happen to me. Even tho, I'm being told to not do that and that it would affect him but ohh, I wanna believe with all the friends and people he has in his life he has no time to think of me. #denial lol
I used to avoid a lot of things, but in the end you probably will have more regrets about what you didn't do than what you did. Your situation might be more complicated, it's frustrating you need to think not only about his reaction, but how it might be a public situation. However, it sounded like you do have some special connection (doesn't matter if it's that love or not). And by distancing yourself for too long, you might lose that special place in his life. Guys often don't sit around alone for months being upset about the girl even if they really like her.I let my Scorpio moon fade away. He is almost gone. It felt like fated from the beginning: circle, repeated situations, signs. Even your topic, I thought he's gone from my life completely. I couldn't find anything about Scorpio/libra. (that nut-job faked he moved away! now I see it'd be for better..) And you created the topic ,in the same day, he popped in my life again. I try to figure out what all of these about.. Maybe, just lessons. [/B][/QUOTE] Oh i already made peace with that. Of course it would be easier if we werent bond with family..so i know hell always be part of my life. Look idk what im going to do. Im just am not in the right state of mind for now. Im not even sure if we have a deep connection. Thats what i feel but heck do sometimes i feel like i'm delusional. Thats the thing, it didnt feel fated because we knew each other since birth. So for this happening this summer was not only unexpected but triggering as hell. Maybe i'll find the strenght to say something, but either way it will hurt. I need sometimes. Im glad this topic helped you. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted October 22, 2019 05:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: (...) Im glad this topic helped you.
Not only helped Librapurr, but it helped me as well, and maybe others? Funny about the timing - because when you created this topic that's when things started to get serious with my Scorpio Moon girl. I came here to post something about her and boom, saw your topic! What are the odds!? Maybe it's Libra Moon/Scorpio Moon season! lol Actually it's Libra period right now, and Scorpio just around the corner! IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 23, 2019 10:33 PM
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 23, 2019 10:45 PM
New Moon in Scorpio October 27th, opposite Uranus could pretty shaky) C'mon, guys, somebody should finally get some happy ending or at least some positive closure to this topic.IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted October 25, 2019 04:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: New Moon in Scorpio October 27th, opposite Uranus could pretty shaky) C'mon, guys, somebody should finally get some happy ending or at least some positive closure to this topic.
I'm very close to give something positive to this topic... BUT... Coincidentally, I was planning doing something very important this Sunday, before knowing about the New Moon situation. My Uranus is in Scorpio, so...nope! Or... should I? IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 27, 2019 01:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: I'm very close to give something positive to this topic... BUT...Coincidentally, I was planning doing something very important this Sunday, before knowing about the New Moon situation. My Uranus is in Scorpio, so...nope! Or... should I?
If you're pretty Uranus person, you might feel comfortable in this shaky time) Also, your personal transits might be good. Good Luck.
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted October 27, 2019 05:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: If you're pretty Uranus person, you might feel comfortable in this shaky time) Also, your personal transits might be good. Good Luck.
Oh really? That's interesting, because everyone is trying to avoid starting things at the moment, but I feel the opposite, I want to start things now. lol Thank you! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 156950 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2019 11:12 PM
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rayofnight Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Troy, Missouri Registered: May 2017
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posted December 18, 2019 04:12 PM
I lived it for 18 years - husband was Scorpio Sun and Moon (and Mercury and North Node). A nightmare I never wanted to experience. And I mean that literally. Randall helped me out a couple times with advice but even more horrific secrets were exposed after that. I have to disassociate or I would probably lose my mind.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9295 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 19, 2019 11:17 AM
Am I late to the discussion? You (like me)have Moon in 3rd-this makes communication the blood you need for any relationship to prosper-especially one that is intimate. From what I have read, the Libra has ceased communication? And that can be tough for someone like you who has Scorpio Moon in 3rd conjunct Pluto. What can happen here is an obsessive preoccupation with questions that go unanswered. Often resulting even in an inability to sleep. What I have noticed about Libra Moon & Taurus Moon (both Venus ruled) is that there is rarely clarity on how they feel in this red hot minute. There is usually a tendency to let feelings stew in their mind for a while before letting them get to their heart. So the response one gets from from both can be impassivity when it comes to any urgent call for engagement. Libra especially tends to assess oneself through others. Whilst Scorpio (Mars ruled) assesses others through the self. Therein lies the rub. So for Libra Moon(more expecially when in the 7th house)the response is often to interact with others BEFORE forming an opinion about the feelings that are occurring within ie. "How do you think you would act when....?" or "Do you think I am correct in feeling....?" etc. Scorpio tends to form a clear opinion on ones own feelings and then be baffled that others don't feel the same way ie. "Surely it is obvious that you should feel....?" Or " This is how you should be feeling towards this, why are you not. ..?" etc. The thing that helped you two are the similar perspectives due to house placements.But be sure that Moon in Libra can disappear on my to reappear later with a new "perspective" or point of view. Often their excuse for spontaneous & periodic disappearances is to gain perspective. But Scorpio moon may see this as "abandonment" detachment/disengagement or not caring enough for them etc.This is what may cause the rift. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted December 20, 2019 05:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by rayofnight: I lived it for 18 years - husband was Scorpio Sun and Moon (and Mercury and North Node). A nightmare I never wanted to experience. And I mean that literally. Randall helped me out a couple times with advice but even more horrific secrets were exposed after that. I have to disassociate or I would probably lose my mind.
I made deal with Scorpio Sun and Moon separately, but all in one... I cannot imagine. It’d be interesting to see it ( I’m a little obsessed about Scorpio placements lately)..from some distance 🙂PS every time this topic got bumped, I got my Scorpio moon problems bumped. Now I’m afraid if he is gonna pop somewhere again🙊 IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 21963 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2019 06:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Am I late to the discussion? You (like me)have Moon in 3rd-this makes communication the blood you need for any relationship to prosper-especially one that is intimate. From what I have read, the Libra has ceased communication? And that can be tough for someone like you who has Scorpio Moon in 3rd conjunct Pluto. What can happen here is an obsessive preoccupation with questions that go unanswered. Often resulting even in an inability to sleep.
Same with Gemini Moon/Venus. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted December 21, 2019 05:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: .From what I have read, the Libra has ceased communication? And that can be tough for someone like you who has Scorpio Moon in 3rd conjunct Pluto. What can happen here is an obsessive preoccupation with questions that go unanswered. Often resulting even in an inability to sleep. What I have noticed about Libra Moon & Taurus Moon (both Venus ruled) is that there is rarely clarity on how they feel in this red hot minute. There is usually a tendency to let feelings stew in their mind for a while before letting them get to their heart. So the response one gets from from both can be impassivity when it comes to any urgent call for engagement. Libra especially tends to assess oneself through others. Whilst Scorpio (Mars ruled) assesses others through the self. Therein lies the rub. So for Libra Moon(more expecially when in the 7th house)the response is often to interact with others BEFORE forming an opinion about the feelings that are occurring within ie. "How do you think you would act when....?" or "Do you think I am correct in feeling....?" etc. Scorpio tends to form a clear opinion on ones own feelings and then be baffled that others don't feel the same way ie. "Surely it is obvious that you should feel....?" Or " This is how you should be feeling towards this, why are you not. ..?" etc. .
This is the pretty amusing, but confusing point. If Scorpios are so sure about not only their own, but the other people feelings why all these famous Scorpio tests, games and suspicions? And Libra is much better on communication than Scorpio even if it ceases it. Libra still could be pushed toward it and respond eventually. It seems like if Scorpio ceases communication, that’s the deadly end.
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