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Topic: Whats the dynamic of scorpio moon/libra moon couple?
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Nine Moderator Posts: 3931 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted September 16, 2019 09:56 PM
Scorpio moon men love strong women, pushy women. True, they're not easy. However they can be pushed around, bullied, and manipulated into things... As a strong woman you have a career and make good money of your own. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 12:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Thats lovely, no worries. Ive worked so much on my intensity. I already forgave him after a bad move he did last year when he would literally ignore my calls (do know this was during a time where no feelings was imvolved) But he reach out and see me and apologized, after 2 months missing, i was worried sick. He had family issues and when we talked about it and i undeerstood he has confrontations issues. He doesnt communicate often on these things. He always keeeps it light. If i didnt work on myself i would have cut him off, but i didnt, because i understand people make mistake, nobody is perfect. And holding grudges will only hurt yourself. The fact he is so social makes me thing he will more people interesting than me. Ugh this is so overwhelming having feelings for someone. Help 😂😂😂
Good, you know your shortcomings. But Libra moon can play games too, not the same as Scorpios. I read they like to make themselves seen more desirable by attracting attention of different people.
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HelixID Knowflake Posts: 427 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 17, 2019 12:56 PM
It would really depend on the entire synastry. The Pluto in Libra generation with a Libra Moon nearby would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. A H8 Libra Moon would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. If the Scorpio Moon is in hard aspect with the natal Venus or in H7, it would be compatible with the Libra Moon.Compatibility would also show if one had a Scorpio Venus and the other a Libra Venus, so basically with switched signs of the female planets. One could have their Asc ruler in either Scorpio or Libra conjunct the other's Moon. There are so many possibilities, you can't determine compatibility based on the signs alone. Isolating one placement will never tell the entire story of two people. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 01:07 PM
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 01:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: It would really depend on the entire synastry. The Pluto in Libra generation with a Libra Moon nearby would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. .e.
Are you sure you don't mean Pluto in Scorpio with Libra Moon instead? Isn't Pluto in Scorpio generation more Scorpio than Pluto in Libra? IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 04:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: Good, you know your shortcomings. But Libra moon can play games too, not the same as Scorpios. I read they like to make themselves seen more desirable by attracting attention of different people. I'm not typical Libra moon (some Scorpio Stellium) , more introverted; but I noticed after myself couple times; if I want one person attention I become more social with the other people around. And it's often easier to be flirty with somebody I don't care much than with this the one person. And I think Libra can play a little hard to get game. ,Scorpios I know are not so understanding. It's often like that one person is more forgiving and trying to make things work. And usually, it's a woman whatever are moons)
I'm a Libra Moon in conjunct Pluto, and I feel a lot of Scorpio energy sometimes. I would say I'm not a typical Libra Moon too. "And it's often easier to be flirty with somebody I don't care much than with this the one person. " THIS is so true! I'm the same! I can easily flirt with anyone (when single), but if I'm trying to flirt with the woman I like it's like she takes away all my flirting powers. I wouldn't say I play hard to get, I actually don't like to do that - But I do keep a distance sometimes, specially if I start seeing that the chase is not balanced or when I start the analyzing process. Funny because I'm actually chasing a Scorpio Moon woman at the moment.
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 04:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: It would really depend on the entire synastry. The Pluto in Libra generation with a Libra Moon nearby would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. A H8 Libra Moon would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. If the Scorpio Moon is in hard aspect with the natal Venus or in H7, it would be compatible with the Libra Moon.Compatibility would also show if one had a Scorpio Venus and the other a Libra Venus, so basically with switched signs of the female planets. One could have their Asc ruler in either Scorpio or Libra conjunct the other's Moon. There are so many possibilities, you can't determine compatibility based on the signs alone. Isolating one placement will never tell the entire story of two people.
I'm a H8 (edited) Libra Moon with conjunct in Pluto, and my Pluto is in Libra. I feel a lot of Scorpio energy. I'm currently chasing a Scorpio Moon woman. I'm not sure yet if we are compatible, but I can guarantee you that there is a mutual attraction that words cannot explain. But I'm a Cancer Sun, Pisces rising, Leo Venus, and I have Scorpio in Uranus and Lilith. She has a Pisces Sun.
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HelixID Knowflake Posts: 427 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 17, 2019 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr:
Are you sure you don't mean Pluto in Scorpio with Libra Moon instead? Isn't Pluto in Scorpio generation more Scorpio than Pluto in Libra?
No, I meant Pluto in Libra and with Moon nearby I meant within orb of a conjunction with Pluto. This conjunction in Libra would be compatible with a Scorpio Moon. IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 427 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 17, 2019 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: I'm a H7 Libra Moon with conjunct in Pluto, and my Pluto is in Libra. I feel a lot of Scorpio energy. I'm currently chasing a Scorpio Moon woman. I'm not sure yet if we are compatible, but I can guarantee you that there is a mutual attraction that words cannot explain.But I'm a Cancer Sun, Pisces rising, Leo Venus, and I have Scorpio in Uranus and Lilith. She has a Pisces Sun.
The Moons are one thing and they are compatible. You could look at your Mercury (Dsc ruler) and what it does. Your Neptune (Asc ruler) is in Sagittarius, so you could look if it contacts anything important in her chart. The Asc/Sun interaspect in Pisces is a very good one. Look at both natals and the more mirroring placements/aspects there are the better.
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 06:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: The Moons are one thing and they are compatible. You could look at your Mercury (Dsc ruler) and what it does. Your Neptune (Asc ruler) is in Sagittarius, so you could look if it contacts anything important in her chart. The Asc/Sun interaspect in Pisces is a very good one. Look at both natals and the more mirroring placements/aspects there are the better.
My Mercury is in Gemini (28˚ ). How did you know my Neptune is in Sagittarius? Is it because Pisces ruler is also Jupiter? Thanks for the suggestions, will have a look!
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 06:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: I feel out of his league. SO many girls wants him, even though he never talked about it. I can see it in public. Whenever they speak to him.
The same is happening with "my" Scorpio Moon woman. She never told me this, but I can feel that she thinks she is out of my league. When she sees other girls surrounding me she gets angry inside and becomes temporarily cold. It's like she is thinking: "I have no chance with him, look at all of those girls around him all the time". However, let me assure you something - I'm a Libra Moon, if I like someone she will be the only woman in my mind, period. The other girls you "see" me with means nothing to me (romantically), even If I'm still nice to them, I'm not going to stop being polite, but I will behave differently. I know it's very hard to a Scorpio Moon to be secure about their lovers, but you will see something that others don't get to see, as soon as you both start a journey together. Libra Moons may attract a lot of people, but they only want ONE. And that "one" is not the "so many girls that wants him". IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 17, 2019 07:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: I'm a Libra Moon in conjunct Pluto, and I feel a lot of Scorpio energy sometimes. I would say I'm not a typical Libra Moon too."And it's often easier to be flirty with somebody I don't care much than with this the one person. " THIS is so true! I'm the same! I can easily flirt with anyone [b](when single), but if I'm trying to flirt with the woman I like it's like she takes away all my flirting powers. I wouldn't say I play hard to get, I actually don't like to do that - But I do keep a distance sometimes, specially if I start seeing that the chase is not balanced or when I start the analyzing process. Funny because I'm actually chasing a Scorpio Moon woman at the moment. [/B]
I don't play hard to get too. But I do put that distance to keep some balance/ control. You explained it pretty good) Funny, how people can have common things based on Astrology) I didn't chase him, but I think it looked like that in some moments.. (Here's the Gender thing Rrr. If you're a boy, it's more appropriate to chase someone. I wish you luck with it. ) I wanted to be friends, but everything got misunderstood again.. And I started to feel bad. And he likes to play games. Unfortunately, I'm not Scorpio enough to completely cut off someone. And we have crazy 12 house overlay going on.. I don't know what is the truth anymore.. I thought my Scorpio Stellium and 1H Pluto would be enough to make deal with him. However, my Libra moon conjuncts Sun, AC and sextile Uranus imight be not strong enough. And my emotional state is getting a little out of control since I met that Scorpio moon/ Venus. The gift what keeps on giving..IP: Logged |
HelixID Knowflake Posts: 427 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted September 18, 2019 12:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: My Mercury is in Gemini (28˚ ). How did you know my Neptune is in Sagittarius? Is it because Pisces ruler is also Jupiter?Thanks for the suggestions, will have a look!
You said your Pluto is in Libra. That's why I knew that your Neptune must be in Sagittarius. They are slow moving planets and Pluto was roughly the same amount of years in Libra as Neptune was in Sag at that time. Also take a look where her Asc and Dsc ruler are and if they contact your Asc/Dsc rulers and Sun and Mars. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 18, 2019 01:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: I don't play hard to get too. But I do put that distance to keep some balance/ control. You explained it pretty good) Funny, how people can have common things based on Astrology) I didn't chase him, but I think it looked like that in some moments.. (Here's the Gender thing Rrr. If you're a boy, it's more appropriate to chase someone. I wish you luck with it. ) I wanted to be friends, but everything got misunderstood again.. And I started to feel bad. And he likes to play games. Unfortunately, I'm not Scorpio enough to completely cut off someone. And we have crazy 12 house overlay going on.. I don't know what is the truth anymore.. I thought my Scorpio Stellium and 1H Pluto would be enough to make deal with him. However, my Libra moon conjuncts Sun, AC and sextile Uranus imight be not strong enough. And my emotional state is getting a little out of control since I met that Scorpio moon/ Venus. The gift what keeps on giving..
For Libra Moons it's very hard to accept that it's appropriate for the boy to chase someone, but society taught us that. I don't mind chasing at all, but I do like when the woman chases too once in a while. I actually find it very attractive when they do. I don't think he's playing games intentionally, I've noticed that most Scorpio Moons "play games" and test people unintentionally. It also depends how mature they are. One thing I've noticed between Libra Moons and Scorpio Moons is that communication is very important, there will be a lot of misunderstandings if there is no clear communication, this can be a challenge for the Libra Moon, because we are not so straightforward with our intentions/feelings, not because we lack confidence, but because we want the best of both worlds, so we need a lot of time to make a decision, and that can frustrate a lot of people. This is something I've been trying to work on. We also think logically and not with our hearts. That's why we are known as emotionless. I'm not sure if it's my Moon conjunct Pluto, but I can cut off people easily. Also, Libra Moons can heal themselves from emotional turmoil, which is a huge power! IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 18, 2019 01:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by HelixID: You said your Pluto is in Libra. That's why I knew that your Neptune must be in Sagittarius. They are slow moving planets and Pluto was roughly the same amount of years in Libra as Neptune was in Sag at that time. Also take a look where her Asc and Dsc ruler are and if they contact your Asc/Dsc rulers and Sun and Mars.
Ah gotcha! Unfortunately I don't know her time of birth... I just found out that my Moon House was incorrect, I'm actually a H8 Libra Moon and not H7 as previously stated. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 18, 2019 08:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: For Libra Moons it's very hard to accept that it's appropriate for the boy to chase someone, but society taught us that. I don't mind chasing at all, but I do like when the woman chases too once in a while. I actually find it very attractive when they do.
I don't mind to be chased too) I think a lot of people would find it as ego-boost ;) First time in my life, I felt like I can chase a guy in a crazy way (a lot of Pluto in synastry) So I put my Libra moon distance to prevent Plutonic craziness.. [ I don't think he's playing games intentionally, I've noticed that most Scorpio Moons "play games" and test people unintentionally. It also depends how mature they are. [/QUOTE] I started to think this one is really immature.. He is older than me, but behaves like 10 years younger. Maybe, my mistake because I thought he can figure out me and be more adult.. But he might be just a vicious guy with some mental issues. (He has couple squares with Venus). He is using his work position to play with me, I'd say unfair, even dirty games. It was kinda fun in the beginning, but now I wonder if he just enjoying his little power.
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 18, 2019 09:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: . One thing I've noticed between Libra Moons and Scorpio Moons is that communication is very important, there will be a lot of misunderstandings if there is no clear communication, this can be a challenge for the Libra Moon, because we are not so straightforward with our intentions/feelings, not because we lack confidence, but because we want the best of both worlds, so we need a lot of time to make a decision, and that can frustrate a lot of people. This is something I've been trying to work on. We also think logically and not with our hearts. That's why we are known as emotionless. I'm not sure if it's my Moon conjunct Pluto, but I can cut off people easily. Also, Libra Moons can heal themselves from emotional turmoil, which is a huge power!
I sign under it. Maybe, It was a major problem because I avoided him for a while. I wanted slowly figure out things. But he might took it as negative. He was always around before. Now he is avoiding me. But he still knew how to find me. I cannot reach him. I wanted to be friends, but I think this Scorpio moon/ Venus has black and white mindset you're lover or you're nobody. He is not social. And most people who worked with him many years barely talked with him. Because of it I had thoughts I got some special attention from him, and didn't get mad when he messed with me before it got way over. Maybe, not. I wish he would explain me some things.. But he won't. I think Scorpio moon don't go upfront with their feelings if they don't feel somehow secure. Their are afraid of rejection. Yes, my moon eventually calms down after emotional craziness, but often goes in some numb, cold state - I don't really like it now. I cut off people more easily when I was teenager, but I gave them a chance (mostly friends) if they came back. IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 1777 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted September 18, 2019 10:00 PM
Libra and Scorpio by sign are semi-sextile. They are inherently compatible. "The good traits of one of the signs can usually offset the less than wonderful traits of the other, especially if we learn to use them consciously. [...] Still, when the positive qualities of both signs are carefully cultivated, next-door-neighbor signs like these can prop one another up like good neighbors do in real life. A solid sense of respect for your own and other people’s boundaries is part of what makes the difference with this aspect, as in so many other areas." Source: https://skywriter.wordpress.com/2009/08/23/is-the-semi-sextile-a-good-aspect-or-a-bad-one/ IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 21963 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2019 06:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by athenaia: Libra and Scorpio by sign are semi-sextile. They are inherently compatible. "The good traits of one of the signs can usually offset the less than wonderful traits of the other, especially if we learn to use them consciously. [...] Still, when the positive qualities of both signs are carefully cultivated, next-door-neighbor signs like these can prop one another up like good neighbors do in real life. A solid sense of respect for your own and other people’s boundaries is part of what makes the difference with this aspect, as in so many other areas." Source: https://skywriter.wordpress.com/2009/08/23/is-the-semi-sextile-a-good-aspect-or-a-bad-one/
This was one thing I thought of, with this guy who was in my life. Both our Suns and moons were semi-sextile. Other things connected, but it can be an irritant. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 19, 2019 02:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [b] I started to think this one is really immature.. He is older than me, but behaves like 10 years younger. Maybe, my mistake because I thought he can figure out me and be more adult.. But he might be just a vicious guy with some mental issues. (He has couple squares with Venus). He is using his work position to play with me, I'd say unfair, even dirty games. It was kinda fun in the beginning, but now I wonder if he just enjoying his little power.
She seems 10 years younger too, both appearance and romantic-wise. Seems that you have a bumpy situation! Maybe you need to talk to him to know where you both stand and what he really wants from you. Easy said than done, but... What do you have to lose? IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 19, 2019 02:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: This was one thing I thought of, with this guy who was in my life. Both our Suns and moons were semi-sextile. Other things connected, but it can be an irritant.
Didn't know about this semi-sextile thing. Good to know! How do people check that?
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 21963 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 19, 2019 02:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: Didn't know about this semi-sextile thing. Good to know! How do people check that?
Signs that are right next to each other, are semi-sextile.  IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 19, 2019 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Signs that are right next to each other, are semi-sextile. 
That makes sense, thanks!  IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 19, 2019 02:29 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure: [b] The same is happening with "my"IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 19, 2019 02:45 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Librapurr: [b] [QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure: [b] . IP: Logged |