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Topic: Whats the dynamic of scorpio moon/libra moon couple?
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 12:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: She seems 10 years younger too, both appearance and romantic-wise.Seems that you have a bumpy saturation! Maybe you need to talk to him to know where you both stand and what he really wants from you. Easy said than done, but... What do you have to lose?
When I tried to reach him, he ignored it, but instead played some weird joke using his work position. It almost killed all my positive feelings toward him (my libra moon never could figure out why I like him at all). But in a week their came back, but in a different way. Freakish 12 house Synastry - the weirdest thing ever. I've never had so much trouble to let go!
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 12:48 AM
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Oh okay, then I feel bad lol. All this time went by. It did give me enough time to cry tho, I was able to release all my pain over falling for him. It's probably what she is doing also. She is probably hurting for feeling this way. When scorpio moon have feelings for someone they dont react positively, they already expect the worst outcome and feel like a clown. This is a protection mechanism, we often want these feelings to disappear because it feels like "nah this story is impossible, I could never get him, I'm out of his league" Or "well he is probably sleeping with someone else"
I hope she hasn't been crying because of me, I don't want her to cry. This is why I need to talk to her about my feelings, I want her to be assured that there is no need to be insecure and negative and that she is absolutely not out my league, she is in my league and I want her in my league, only her and no one else. quote:
He never talked to me about dating or anything like that unless I brought it up.. The only thing he told me, and that was before I even had feelings, is that there was this girl he had sex with but he wasnt interested. He was being honest to me about it. Apparently she wanted more.
We usually only have sex when we are in a relationship, or when there is a strong connection with someone. We don't sleep around with girls. So believe him when he said he had sex only with that girl. If there is a strong sexual attraction then Libra Moons sometimes can surrender and break their own rules when they're single, but it's nothing more than that. quote:
But yeah, I'm just going to focus on college, work and my friends. Whether I dream, he is here, whether I walk somewhere I see his name written or talked about. Crazy this universe.
I feel you Kate... Whenever I hear or read her name I have butterflies inside. Yes don't let this affect your personal life and goals. Honestly this girl has been affecting my life a little bit, but I have everything under control now. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr:
When I tried to reach him, he ignored it, but instead played some weird joke using his work position. It almost killed all my positive feelings toward him (my libra moon never could figure out why I like him at all). But in a week their came back, but in a different way. Freakish 12 house Synastry - the weirdest thing ever. I've never had so much trouble to let go!
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr:
Also, immature Libra could go after pretty things. You can try to change your appearance a little. He might see you in a new way.
quote: To correct myself, libra is never into superficial pretty things. It's supposed to be some filling and something to talk about. Also, you can use their indecisiveness and gently push them toward your opinion if they are not sure. It sounds like he really likes you, but Libra is not decisive to make a strong move. He might make some moves already, but you didn't notice) I make deal with Libra Sun/ Scorpio. And I think his Libra makes him more girly than I am..
"To correct myself" ← This is SO Libra Moon! 😂 True! We hate superficial things. I have to disagree when you told her to change her appearance, she needs to be herself and feel comfortable with the way she is and not change because of him. But I totally know what you mean, Libra Moons are extremely visual creatures, external (natural) beauty stands out from everything else around us. But in Kate's case he already likes her inside and outside. "He might make some moves already, but you didn't notice" Yes! That could be true... IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 09:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: I feel you Kate... Whenever I hear or read her name I have butterflies inside.Yes don't let this affect your personal life and goals. Honestly this girl has been affecting my life a little bit, but I have everything under control now.
I'm so convinced its gonna work for you guys, I can't wait to get an update on this. Also, you may not know this, but scorpio moon loves to help others, I know that libra moon loves to be there for others and services but scorpio moon feels the need to be needed, they wanna feel like they matter and are someone u can rely on and open to when something is going bad for you. Its funny because I remember when I was in the bus with him, we talked about far we became so close. Our impressions of each other before, he said he appreciates me alot and that he finds me smart. (But then again my ass is like:"well he probably say that to his friends too") Or when we went to eat, he was like "look that's my burger" as if he would mark his territory. I still took a bite, 😂😂😂! That's the silly side I'm talking about. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 11:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: What's his Sun and Venus?
Libra Sun ; Moon and Venus in Scorpio; Leo Mars. But His Mars squares his Venus and Moon - scary. I think he has anger issues. We had some competition spirit going, and it never was really friendly. But a lot of chemistry. And I was more interested in him as psychology subject I'm attracted to a little weird/ unstable people. And his natal pattern really similar to mine, but darker. I wonder sometimes if I would get over him much quicker if I didn't read his chart ) He is just stuck in my head, but he is bad for me. (
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Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 11:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Oh you read the stuff I went through with the libra moon man? You think my friend likes me? 😭😭😭😭.
Not everything It sounds like you're already in relationship. I have an opposite situation with Scorpio moon. I want he sees me as a friend, but all I sense is physical chemistry. And I don't think I like the way he sees me. Libra needs friends and understanding, not just emotions) IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 11:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: [b]"To correct myself" ← This is SO Libra Moon! 😂 /B]
😊 Yep, can't escape it) quote: True! We hate superficial things. I have to disagree when you told her to change her appearance, she needs to be herself and feel comfortable with the way she is and not change because of him. [/B]
I didn't mean really change, just bring something new what would get his attention. Maybe, some accessories, clothes. [/b] quote:
But I totally know wha you mean, Libra Moons are extremely visual creatures, external (natural) beauty stands out from everything else around us. But in Kate's case he already likes her inside and outside. .[/b]
I have some Scorpio/Pluto so I go after energy too, but with intellectual filling. And it can really outweigh beauty aspects.
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 11:59 AM
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted September 21, 2019 01:11 PM
Finally I hear from a Libra Moon guy, haha.. the loads of women hanging around them is a real problem. I used to get really angry with my guy because of this. Then one day he suddenly told me he realised he really loves me and those women seemed to "disappear" from his life. He became very focused on me and even gets jealous of the men around me (his moon-pluto activated). Sometimes he behaves more scorpionic than Libran. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 1585 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 01:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: We are not in relationship, lol we are close friends but i never told him how i feel yet. Heck itw been a month we havent spoken since summer ended. But based on eveyrthing i saif above, you really think he digs me?
I don't know why you don't talk. If his Libra is just out of balance, and he is in recovery, - give him time. (Libra like to go in public when they're put together. ). And you need to be comfortable with his out of balance Libra. Or you had some issues- different story. I meant you have almost everything for relationships) There're already some romantic parts in your friendship if I got it correctly. You might just need to seduce him ;) However, he is young,and Gemini likes to have fun. if he is not ready for relationships, you need not to take it personally. I noticed Scorpio moon takes a lot of things really personally.
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 01:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: [QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999: [b] We are not in relationship, lol we are close friends but i never told him how i feel yet. Heck itw been a month we havent spoken since summer ended. But based on eveyrthing i saif above, you really think he digs me?
I don't know why you don't talk. If his Libra is just out of balance, and he is in recovery, - give him time. (Libra like to go in public when they're put together. ). And you need to be comfortable with his out of balance Libra. Or you had some issues- different story. I meant you have almost everything for relationships) There're already some romantic parts in your friendship if I got it correctly. You might just need to seduce him However, he is young,and Gemini likes to have fun. if he is not ready for relationships, you need not to take it personally. I noticed Scorpio moon takes a lot of things really personally.[/B][/QUOTE] We had no issues, but i step away and didnt contact when i realize i was feeling more than just friendship. I dont know if im ready for one. But i know what i feel for him. I mean we are both young and i understand the gemini energy. I have it too. Libra venus and gemini mars balance my scorpio moon. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 02:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Finally I hear from a Libra Moon guy, haha.. the loads of women hanging around them is a real problem. I used to get really angry with my guy because of this. Then one day he suddenly told me he realised he really loves me and those women seemed to "disappear" from his life. He became very focused on me and even gets jealous of the men around me (his moon-pluto activated). Sometimes he behaves more scorpionic than Libran.
Lmao, this is when he said, he saw with a resting ***** face. Ahahaha. Aww sweet at least he loves u. Have u read the whole thread of what the libra moon did wih me?
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 03:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: I'm so convinced its gonna work for you guys, I can't wait to get an update on this.
I hope so! I will update 😊 quote: Also, you may not know this, but scorpio moon loves to help others, I know that libra moon loves to be there for others and services but scorpio moon feels the need to be needed, they wanna feel like they matter and are someone u can rely on and open to when something is going bad for you.
I've noticed this when I asked her for help/advice once, it was work related, she helped me immediately with a lot of detailed information. She was enthusiastic and very happy to help me. But I'm not going to ask her for help with personal issues, I never do that to anyone. I usually fix my issues by myself. BUT when we are in relationship I will ask help/advice. quote:
Its funny because I remember when I was in the bus with him, we talked about far we became so close. Our impressions of each other before, he said he appreciates me alot and that he finds me smart. (But then again my ass is like:"well he probably say that to his friends too") Or when we went to eat, he was like "look that's my burger" as if he would mark his territory. I still took a bite, 😂😂😂! That's the silly side I'm talking about.
I don't say that to everyone, I only say that to people I like romantically. I will never tell a friend I appreciate them, even if I do (let alone the opposite sex). I don't drop my emotions/feelings to anyone except for the person I love. If I said to a female friend that I appreciate her she would think that I like her romantically, it happens a lot with Libra Moons, giving the wrong impression to the opposite sex. That's why Libra Moons have to be very careful with the wordings they use. We attract a lot of people interested in us. Haha but it was HIS burger!! How dare you? 😜 He really likes you! 😊 IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: What's his Sun and Venus?
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: Libra Sun ; Moon and Venus in Scorpio; Leo Mars. But His Mars squares his Venus and Moon - scary. I think he has anger issues. We had some competition spirit going, and it never was really friendly. But a lot of chemistry. And I was more interested in him as psychology subject I'm attracted to a little weird/ unstable people. And his natal pattern really similar to mine, but darker. I wonder sometimes if I would get over him much quicker if I didn't read his chart ) He is just stuck in my head, but he is bad for me.
For some reason I also tend to attract weird/unstable people. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 03:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: I didn't mean really change, just bring something new what would get his attention. Maybe, some accessories, clothes.
Ah gotcha! 😊 quote:
I have some Scorpio/Pluto so I go after energy too, but with intellectual filling. And it can really outweigh beauty aspects.
I also have some Scorpio placements, and my Moon is "half" Scorpio. I feel the energy you are talking about. It's funny because I can tell when a girl has either Scorpio Sun, Moon or Venus in their chart just staring at them. It never fails! And it seems Scorpios are attracted to me more than any other signs. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Finally I hear from a Libra Moon guy, haha.. the loads of women hanging around them is a real problem. I used to get really angry with my guy because of this. Then one day he suddenly told me he realised he really loves me and those women seemed to "disappear" from his life. He became very focused on me and even gets jealous of the men around me (his moon-pluto activated). Sometimes he behaves more scorpionic than Libran.
Spot on! That's my life! lol The women around us is really a big problem, specially when we are chasing someone or, even worse, in a relationship... At my work place there is a Scorpio Sun girl who I think likes me, once she told I was beautiful in front of everyone. I'm so glad my Scorpio Moon girl wasn't in there! Otherwise you can imagine the trouble. 🙈 Being Libra Moon sometimes is not easy! 😭 Yes if we love you we focus only on YOU. No discussion. I also have Moon-Pluto!
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: We had no issues, but i step away and didnt contact when i realize i was feeling more than just friendship. I dont know if im ready for one. But i know what i feel for him.
Oh wait! I think I know where's the problem now. You stopped contacting him when you realized you had feelings for him. He has no clue what's going on, he might be even thinking that you got a boyfriend or that he did something wrong that upset you. We hate confrontation so he will not touch there. He might be hurt. I don't think he will contact you soon. If I was in his position I would love to receive a radio signal from you, can you do that Kate? 😊 IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:44 PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure: [b] I don't say that to everyone, I only say that to people I like romantically. I IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 04:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: Oh wait! I think I know where's the problem now. You stopped contacting him when you realized you had feelings for him. He has no clue what's going on, he might be even thinking that you got a boyfriend or that he did something wrong that upset you. We hate confrontation so he will not touch there. He might be hurt. I don't think he will contact you soon. If I was in his position I would love to receive a radio signal from you, can you do that Kate? 😊
Yeah, im aware he hates confrontation, we had a whole convo about this months ago lol. Really? You think he might be hurt? I just thought he didnt care thats why he didnt communicate, ive been feeling like wih these emotions, i should stay away. I didnt wanna bring any burden to him..i was probably thinking he has his fun with his friends etc and might even do something with another person. We are basically 8 minutes away from.each other in car.
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kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Finally I hear from a Libra Moon guy, haha.. the loads of women hanging around them is a real problem. I used to get really angry with my guy because of this. Then one day he suddenly told me he realised he really loves me and those women seemed to "disappear" from his life. He became very focused on me and even gets jealous of the men around me (his moon-pluto activated). Sometimes he behaves more scorpionic than Libran.
Ohhh tell me more about that relationship wih the libra moon guy ahahahah
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NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 07:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: Yeah, im aware he hates confrontation, we had a whole convo about this months ago lol. Really? You think he might be hurt?
He might be, because you stopped communicating all of a sudden. He've noticed the pattern has changed and now is probably wondering what the hell happened. I bet he's analyzing every moment with you to see if he made an "error", without even asking you. We create a lot of situations in our minds. Imagine a movie, we create several imaginary movies with ridiculous outcomes, because we are worried we did something wrong, or worse, worried that you found another guy and don't like us anymore. We do get paranoid and think stuff like that. 🤯 We need a confirmation that everything is OK. Misunderstandings is the worst enemy during the early stages when people like each other. quote:
I just thought he didnt care thats why he didnt communicate, ive been feeling like wih these emotions, i should stay away. I didnt wanna bring any burden to him..i was probably thinking he has his fun with his friends etc and might even do something with another person. We are basically 8 minutes away from.each other in car.
Follow him and investigate what he's doing. I'm jut kidding! Don't do it haha 😂 But seriously - I think he still cares about you. He will contact you at some point but don't expect it to be so soon. It might take months. Remember what I told you about the steps thing? He's waiting for your step, if you don't move it will take ages for him to move. He's waiting for a signal, for a confirmation that you still care about him. IP: Logged |
NotSoSure Knowflake Posts: 126 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 07:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by kate999: I wrote a story recently to expresd wbat i felt in a way. When i write, it helps me to express my feelings better and it inspire me to write stories. When we went to eat, he saw i was working on a story and wanted to know about it and absolutely love it and kept asking more and more questione about it and said it should be shown on tv. Funny part, every character in my story is based on real people that i know. Including him. He was able to guess who was who, but never asked who was the main character (which was him)
Aww that is so cute... I've heard that Scorpio Moons like to write diaries about things, specially about people you have feelings for. It's the only way you can express your feelings without exposure. IP: Logged |
kate999 Knowflake Posts: 129 From: Registered: Aug 2019
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posted September 21, 2019 08:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by NotSoSure: Follow him and investigate what he's doing. I'm jut kidding! Don't do it haha 😂But seriously - I think he still cares about you. He will contact you at some point but don't expect it to be so soon. It might take months. Remember what I told you about the steps thing? He's waiting for your step, if you don't move it will take ages for him to move. He's waiting for a signal, for a confirmation that you still care about him.
Damn, i feel bad if he is hurt. I will contact him soon then. Its gonna take alot of effort, just to even hear his voice. The worst part is that i could investigate, but ive worked too much on my scorpio moon to not entertain these foolish games lol.. Im not gonna wait months. A month is more than enough. Because if i wait, we will see each other at a family gathering and I dont need this to get weird 💀😂😂😂! IP: Logged |