posted September 21, 2019 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
For some reason I also tend to attract weird/unstable people.

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posted September 21, 2019 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
Oh wait! I think I know where's the problem now. You stopped contacting him when you realized you had feelings for him. He has no clue what's going on, he might be even thinking that you got a boyfriend or that he did something wrong that upset you. We hate confrontation so he will not touch there. He might be hurt.

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posted September 22, 2019 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure:
[b] Oh wait! I think I know where's the problem now. You stopped contacting him when you realized you had feelings for him. He has no clue what's going on, he might be even thinking that you got a boyfriend or that he did something wrong that upset you. We hate confrontation so he will not touch there. He might be hurt.

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Oh u think the same too, that my libra moon friend doesnt know what's going on?

posted September 22, 2019 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
Spot on! That's my life! lol

The women around us is really a big problem, specially when we are chasing someone or, even worse, in a relationship...

At my work place there is a Scorpio Sun girl who I think likes me, once she told I was beautiful in front of everyone. I'm so glad my Scorpio Moon girl wasn't in there! Otherwise you can imagine the trouble. 🙈

Being Libra Moon sometimes is not easy! 😭

Yes if we love you we focus only on YOU. No discussion.

I also have Moon-Pluto!

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The thing is... why do you guys have to be so nice to every gal?! T_T At one point those gals thought he was interested in them and told me he was a player etc. That really caused huge misunderstandings between us. I thought he was playing with me. He said he didn't like those gals but I wouldn't believe him and when my Sag Moon gets heated up, I can spite venom hahaha...

posted September 22, 2019 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
Lmao, this is when he said, he saw with a resting ***** face. Ahahaha. Aww sweet at least he loves u. Have u read the whole thread of what the libra moon did wih me?

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posted September 22, 2019 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
Damn, i feel bad if he is hurt. I will contact him soon then. Its gonna take alot of effort, just to even hear his voice.

The worst part is that i could investigate, but ive worked too much on my scorpio moon to not entertain these foolish games lol..

Im not gonna wait months. A month is more than enough. Because if i wait, we will see each other at a family gathering and I dont need this to get weird 💀😂😂😂!

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Oh yes, contact him before the family gathering, you don't want to have any awkward moments!

I think you will have a lot to talk about.
When you reach him be prepare for 3 scenarios:

1. He will be cold for a bit*
2. He will react like nothing happened
3. He will react with excitement

*If point 1 occurs - don't worry about this, he will melt after 5 minutes, he just needs to hear you for a while. This occurrence will only happen if he's hurt.

posted September 22, 2019 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
For some reason I also tend to attract weird/unstable people.

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Maybe, you have some Uranus, or square with Neptune. It can do it)

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posted September 22, 2019 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:

Ha, these were my thoughts The guy has no idea what is really going on. 😊
Several time I saw weird reactions, emotions from Scorpio subject, I had no idea why.. I could guess, but you never know what's in the other head..
My resting face or annoying looks (I give them accidentally when I'm tired) were a big issue too, like he took it pretty personal.

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posted September 22, 2019 06:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
The thing is... why do you guys have to be so nice to every gal?! T_T At one point those gals thought he was interested in them and told me he was a player etc. That really caused huge misunderstandings between us. I thought he was playing with me. He said he didn't like those gals but I wouldn't believe him and when my Sag Moon gets heated up, I can spite venom hahaha...

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Because we have this crazy magnet charm, sometimes we don't even have to do anything and they still come to us! I'm trying to work on this tho. We have to create some sort of barrier to make them aware that I'm just being friendly, nothing else.
But the only way they get the message is when they see us in a relationship, everyone seems to back off. lol

People think: "he's so nice and friendly to me, he must like me".
But little they know we are nice and friendly to everyone.

We are far from being players, because we hate when this misunderstandings happen. We really don't want this to happen at all.

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His moon-pluto made him possessive and jealous at the same time but he hides it so well... how do you guys do it?? And then he goes crazy asking me about this guy, that guy... confusing. Haha

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I think it's because we have a self-image that is hidden, controlled, unseen. Much of this is because there is something to “protect”.

posted September 22, 2019 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
People think: "he's so nice and friendly to me, he must like me".
But little they know we are nice and friendly to everyone.

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How would we know "who" you actually like if you're nice to everyone? What are the tell-tale signs?

It used to be when we were out for drinks, one of his gal pals would flirt with him and then started dragging him to some other place. He would reluctantly follow while constantly turning around to see if I was coming along. Of course I just stood there with a murderous look!

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I think it's because we have a self-image that is hidden, controlled, unseen. Much of this is because there is something to “protect”.

We think being possessive and jealous is weak, so we do our best to hide it.

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posted September 22, 2019 09:31 AM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
I didnt tell him how i feel yet, but i stopped communicating the moment the feelings hit me.. @notsosure believe that my libra moon friend is prpbably hurt and confused that i stopped reaching out.

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posted September 22, 2019 11:16 AM            

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Originally posted by kate999:

When a scorpio moon realize they have developped deep real feeling for someone, it scares the hell out of us. Its even morr scary that its someone you have known your whole life. We dont process the same way with love.

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That's what my Scorpio Moon friend said when she realised she'd fallen deeply in love with a guy. She hated the feeling and felt afraid.

posted September 22, 2019 11:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
That's what my Scorpio Moon friend said when she realised she'd fallen deeply in love with a guy. She hated the feeling and felt afraid.

I think it's very hard for Scorpios to reveal their feelings. It's like asking them to jump off a building (lol). You're better off letting the Libra Moon does the talking although they might take a long time and send you a lot of mixed signals which they don't see (but we do!). I waited a year!

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posted September 22, 2019 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
This is why i keep believing he is just friendly. I don't wanna be on a delusion state..it is comforting however to hear that you believe he does like me, based on the hingw . Cuz often scorpio moon believes its all in their beads and that these things only happen to other people...

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I'm learning a lot about Scorpio Moons from you!

I think the reason why you are thinking this is because you don't want to deal with false expectations. So you always think "he probably doesn't like me" so that you don't have any surprises if that is actually the case. Which is not.

Always remember that you guys have the same right/reason to be liked and loved by other people. Sometimes you are the "other people" to other people.

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There was this guy from his workplace he kept following us from the metro through a fastood.. my friend noticed i wasnt liking it, becauae we didnt have time for only the both of us. I didnt say anything to him about it, he instead told me: "sorry i know he wasnt suppose to be here and we cant have our moments to talk, i'll tell him we are taking a bus soon.
Yet he knows his friend actually could take the same bus as us since he doesnt live too far, but my friend lied to him, so he wouldnt follow us and we would get the chance to talk. "

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And you still think he doesn't like you? Look what he just did! 😊
If he didn't like you he wouldn't care if the friend joined or care to "escape" with you.
And he lied to protect your "alone time" together. We always try to avoid lying.

This is definitely something I would do if I was interested in someone!

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He also talked to me a bit about his bestfriend and how she means alot to him.
Yes its a she lol. And she is in a relationship already, no worries lol.

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Haha I liked when you said "no worries" 😄

Libra Moons usually have more female friends than males.
But nothing to worry about. You can trust us on this, because we avoid being friends with women that potentially can be relationship material. We skip the friendship if that's the case.
(I'm not sure if I'm explaining this correctly, another Libra Moon maybe can help me!)
Your case is different because you know each other since birth.

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Even with his happiness and smile, my gut have been telling me since summer that he is holding stuff, something he is hiding. Your scorpio moon girl will know something is going on with you even if you dont tell her, even if you appear secure and happy. She can sense this. This is why we can see ******** miles away.

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If you radar is detecting that he is hiding something then it's probably because he is. But you will figure that out with him.
That's funny because when my Scorpio Moon girl avoided me I was exploding inside but outside I was smiling and relaxed, we work together so we see each other every minute! And I think she noticed that I was upset, she sent me an email checking how I was right before my exploding meter was reaching red...

When Scorpios or any other sign are suspicious about something, we can feel it. Not sure if this trait comes from my Libra or Cancer. I think it's a water thing. But I know when you are having doubts or suspicion. Could also be my strong Scorpio energy in my chart. Sun square Pluto and Moon (8H) conjunct Pluto, and Uranus and Lilith in Scorpio. Lots of 🦂 going on here!

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Now i dont know if its a libra moon thing, but he often said he doesnt like people who complain all the time about their problems..

Welp, i said "ive told u about some problems that frustrate me, this is why i dont like to share them, because u would see me like that"

He said "no this isnt the same for you, i want to listen to whar you are going through, you are very strong and you dont project that negativity on me."

And fml, because yesterday I dreamed about him. Smh it was weird, i was seeing his enviroment with his friends in my dreams.

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Yes that's definitely a Libra Moon thing! We absolutely hate when people keep complaining over and over again about the same issue, I close myself off when people do that and then they don't understand why: "But I thought this guy was so nice and friendly and now doesn't acknowledge my complaints?". The reason for this is because we believe that people who keep complaining are weak and have no strength to deal with problems, and so need someone else to do what they can't do.

We love helping people but we don't tolerate people who can't deal with their problems on their own after we helped them the first time.
I don't mind hearing complaints at all! I actually enjoy it, the problem starts when the complaints keep repeating. It's saturating and very negative.

posted September 22, 2019 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
How would we know "who" you actually like if you're nice to everyone? What are the tell-tale signs?

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I actually explained this to Kate on page 3 (4th post) 😊
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009462-3.html

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So if a Libra Moon-Pluto shows jealousy and possessiveness, does it mean their "operating system" is going haywire? Lol.

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posted September 22, 2019 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
Yes that's definitely a Libra Moon thing! We absolutely hate when people keep complaining over and over again about the same issue, I close myself off when people do that and then they don't understand why: "But I thought this guy was so nice and friendly and now doesn't acknowledge my complaints?". The reason for this is because we believe that people who keep complaining are weak and have no strength to deal with problems, and so need someone else to do what they can't do.

We love helping people but we don't tolerate people who can't deal with their problems on their own after we helped them the first time.
I don't mind hearing complaints at all! I actually enjoy it, the problem starts when the complaints keep repeating. It's saturating and very negative.

However, there is an exception to the personal I love - I don't mind hearing complaints from her, even if she repeats it. I could listen to you all day without blinking my eyes, because your energy has a different effect on me. You are special.

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Yeah I understand. I know, I shouldnt doubt that he likes me. But i have had traumatic experiences of being played and betrayed.

I just thought its something he would do for a friend of his. But the things that you said, does give me insights.

posted September 22, 2019 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
Also, i noticed that 3 of my planets fall in his 8th house. I have moon, pluto and jupiter. (Apparently its intense when u have this energy in someone 8th house)

His moon conjunct my venus
Sun sextile his moon
Sun trine my moon
Our ascendants are opposite both in each other 7th house.

Him its pisces rising, me its virgo rising.
His chiron conjunct my moon, pluto & jupiter.

I did a reading with someone on another forum, they said this a soulmate synastry and saying since my scorpio moon conjunct my jupiter i could get him out of his shell.

They also warn me that he has communications and emotions blocks because he has sun square moon..
Very funny combination.

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I'm not very familiar with aspects deeply. I just know the basic. But if you were told that it's a soulmate synastry than it's all very positive!

posted September 22, 2019 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by kate999:
Yeah I understand. I know, I shouldnt doubt that he likes me. But i have had traumatic experiences of being played and betrayed.

I just thought its something he would do for a friend of his. But the things that you said, does give me insights.

I hope to find the right approach and the strenght to share what i feel to him..

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All the Scorpio Moons I've met have had traumatic experiences in the past regarding betrayal.
That sucks...

posted September 22, 2019 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
All the Scorpio Moons I've met have had traumatic experiences in the past regarding betrayal.
That sucks...

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Yeah it does, but i need to rise above it.

posted September 22, 2019 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by NotSoSure:
All the Scorpio Moons I've met have had traumatic experiences in the past regarding betrayal.
That sucks...

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posted September 22, 2019 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure:
[b] All the Scorpio Moons I've met have had traumatic experiences in the past regarding betrayal.
That sucks...

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Libra moon are good at detachment tho..scorpio goes hiding and suffer in silence. Yeh jealousy may occur but more tham anything, they are deeply hurting in silence, where no one can see them..