posted September 23, 2019 01:13 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
I actually explained this to Kate on page 3 (4th post) 😊 [URL=http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/009462-3.html

---

"I might whisper to your ear: "They were right" while holding your hand."

That's so sweet! 😊 Is it only you or are all Libra Moon guys like this? I remember the night I met my Libra Moon, he saw me quarrelling with another guy over something (what a good first impression I gave, lol). That guy tried to intimidate me but my Libra Moon moved in and told him to back off. I was surprised he protected someone he just met - and of course at that moment I already knew he liked me...

I'm not sure how much he prioritises me but I know that when he says he'll meet me, he always will...and that's something I really appreciate.

posted September 23, 2019 02:20 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
Also, i noticed that 3 of my planets fall in his 8th house. I have moon, pluto and jupiter. (Apparently its intense when u have this energy in someone 8th house)

His moon conjunct my venus
Sun sextile his moon
Sun trine my moon
Our ascendants are opposite both in each other 7th house.

Him its pisces rising, me its virgo rising.
His chiron conjunct my moon, pluto & jupiter.

I did a reading with someone on another forum, they said this a soulmate synastry and saying since my scorpio moon conjunct my jupiter i could get him out of his shell.

They also warn me that he has communications and emotions blocks because he has sun square moon..
Very funny combination.

---

You do have a nice synastry with him, like I told you in my earlier post. ASC-DSC conjunction (are your IC/MCs also conjunct?) is very binding but this could be in a friendship way as well. It doesn't mean you will surely be together as a couple. And in reality you've only been friends, right? So that's why I say check your progressed synastry (and transits to natals and composite) to see if there's a chance this r/s can be brought to the next level. Check progressed-natal/progressed-progressed Sun/Moon/Venus/ASC. Check transits to your 7th rulers & Venuses. Check transiting Nodes to your composite/natal planets. Look for close applying aspects.

Your Saturn on his ASC, square his Venus. He feels your serious nature even if you don't mean it. Saturn-Venus can cause love to be slow forming. His Pluto conjunct your IC, sextile your Venus and square your ASC is making your Scorpio Moon very hooked.

posted September 23, 2019 07:00 AM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
I'm gonna recheck what you said above about the composite. I have a hard time readin these stuff 😂😂😂. Someone read it at some point to me that it could get somewhere.

Unfortunately love isn't logical, spending your whole life knowing someone and then poof you grow to love them and see them differently. Such a struggle to deal with this. And yeah @notsosure gave me several insights on how they behave, after everything I told him, he strongly believes it, even if i have my doubts. Canceling twice a party event to spend the rest of the afternoon or evening together, lying to someone in order so we can have alone time to talk and enjoy each other company. We met often every week that even at some point, I ask him if it was too much, he said no and he wanted to continue. He got way more touchy than he ever was before..now I'm just summarizing some of the things that have happened but by explaining these things. It definitely helped me understand better his behavior than just my own assumption...cuz scorpio moon often believes the worst instead of the best.

---

posted September 23, 2019 02:15 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
Libra moon are good at detachment tho..scorpio goes hiding and suffer in silence. Yeh jealousy may occur but more tham anything, they are deeply hurting in silence, where no one can see them..

The detachment part is a classic for libra moon i see ahhhh..

---

posted September 23, 2019 02:25 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
"I might whisper to your ear: "They were right" while holding your hand."

---

quote:

---

Originally posted by Hikaru29:
That's so sweet! 😊 Is it only you or are all Libra Moon guys like this? I remember the night I met my Libra Moon, he saw me quarrelling with another guy over something (what a good first impression I gave, lol). That guy tried to intimidate me but my Libra Moon moved in and told him to back off. I was surprised he protected someone he just met - and of course at that moment I already knew he liked me...

---

Well I guess we can all be like this 😊, Personally that's something I would do.

posted September 23, 2019 02:32 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
I'm gonna recheck what you said above about the composite. I have a hard time readin these stuff 😂😂😂. Someone read it at some point to me that it could get somewhere.

Unfortunately love isn't logical, spending your whole life knowing someone and then poof you grow to love them and see them differently. Such a struggle to deal with this.

---

posted September 23, 2019 04:08 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
It is, but the thing is though, we were friends but not that close. We recently became very much close 2 years ago, when we started doing activities outside of the family environment. But even then, I wasn't even thinking of him like that. Something triggered me this summer.

Yeah, this is the type of things you see in movies. It doesn't happen often, sometimes you think you know someone completely and something about them changes. It's a very weird feeling.

That's so sweet, you'd keep your love in your little planet even when you want to be alone. 😭

---

So then you started to see your friend differently, people change a lot, specially between the age of 20-25. That's why when couples meet when they are, for example 18, very rarely stay together long-term (new generation). Because both personalities change directions in life. It's when we define who we are (I'm still trying to figure myself out and I'm over 30 😭).

Maybe you and your friend were meant to be together, and only now you realized that. He really cares about you from what I can tell. That you cannot doubt at all.

Yep I keep my love in my little planet, she stays with me all the time 😌.

posted September 23, 2019 05:06 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
Yeah we are both in our early-mid 20s. I have realized what I'm feeling is definitely not infatuation. Cuz I have felt that feeling of thinking I was in love but I barely knew that other person. But with him, I just know cuz I know his flaws and he can such an idiot at times. 😂😂😂 and yet he is so caring.

People do change alot. Energy change.
A part of me want to travel the world with him. At least me visiting some countries. He has traveled alot in his life as children.

But I dont know there is a part of me who would love too. Like just escaping and traveling and see the world.

---

I don't think it's infatuation either, developing feelings for a friend is serious stuff... It means a lot. Yes you're right, we only have infatuations when we barely know the person. I had those in the past, I was so convinced I "loved" someone when in reality I didn't.

Are you calling us idiots? Haha I'm kidding! 😝

You know, travelling with someone we like is a great 'test' to determine if you can be together. You will see things you didn't see before, you will see and feel every emotion/moods from the other person, because you are together 24/7 for a while. You will cooperate together in easy and difficult challenges.

posted September 23, 2019 05:30 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
I've just noticed you have more posts than me...
You have 85 and I only have 60. I can't live with this...😁

---

Ahahaha a little competition is hurting you? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂! Its because of you, I got to that point ahahah. It's so interesting this conversation, it brought so much to my knowledge.

One time, and that's probably something your scorpio moon girl will do. We were going to get inside a rollercoaster with other friends, he said something about someone losing an arm in that rollercoaster, I was being petty and wanted to leave the line because I told him I didnt wanna hear that story 😂, he kept saying no stay with a smile, the whole face was like: "come on, now you cant go, I'm not letting you go"

My ass still get into the rollercoaster tho. I was just playing 😂😂😂😂

I shouldn't even tell you that, sorry for my scorpio moon sister lmao, that I'm revealing these habits. It's one our habits. The stupid test we do involuntarily.

posted September 23, 2019 05:32 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
The detachment doesn't occur in a relationship when we are secure/relaxed. I could get detached from my friends/family if I'm dealing with something personal but never with my love. Even if I need to be alone on my planet I want you to be there with me. Only you have access.

---

posted September 23, 2019 05:37 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:

That's true, I want to do one alone too. But i sure would like to do one with him. I want to do it with someone that I will feel like a children exploring. It's not my closest relationship and yet it's probably one of the deepest I have. Like i know him alot but I don't know him fully. I think you never stop knowing someone fully. That's the beauty of it.

---

posted September 23, 2019 05:42 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Librapurr:
This topic is growing so fast. 😯

[QUOTE]Originally posted by NotSoSure:
[b] The detachment doesn't occur in a relationship when we are secure/relaxed. I could get detached from my friends/family if I'm dealing with something personal but never with my love. Even if I need to be alone on my planet I want you to be there with me. Only you have access.

---

[/B][/QUOTE]

True. Those who aren't mature will play the tests..I feel.people have flaws to work on both sides. Libra moons refuse to confront, which can leave scorpio moons unwanted.

posted September 23, 2019 05:43 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
Ahahaha a little competition is hurting you? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂! Its because of you, I got to that point ahahah. It's so interesting this conversation, it brought so much to my knowledge.

One time, and that's probably something your scorpio moon girl will do. We were going to get inside a rollercoaster with other friends, he said something about someone losing an arm in that rollercoaster, I was being petty and wanted to leave the line because I told him I didnt wanna hear that story 😂, he kept saying no stay with a smile, the whole face was like: "come on, now you cant go, I'm not letting you go"

My ass still get into the rollercoaster tho. I was just playing 😂😂😂😂

I shouldn't even tell you that, sorry for my scorpio moon sister lmao, that I'm revealing these habits. It's one our habits. The stupid test we do involuntarily.

This is some **** that scorpio moon do that screams attention 😂😂😂😂!

---

posted September 23, 2019 05:50 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
Libra moon are good at detachment tho..scorpio goes hiding and suffer in silence. Yeh jealousy may occur but more tham anything, they are deeply hurting in silence, where no one can see them..

The detachment part is a classic for libra moon i see ahhhh..

---

posted September 23, 2019 05:59 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Librapurr:
This topic is growing so fast. 😯

---

I know right? Kate never imagined how popular it would be when she clicked "Submit New Topic".

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
The detachment doesn't occur in a relationship when we are secure/relaxed. I could get detached from my friends/family if I'm dealing with something personal but never with my love. Even if I need to be alone on my planet I want you to be there with me. Only you have access.

---

quote:

---

Originally posted by Librapurr:
Comrade, you're giving people a too refined picture of libra moon😉 Image is important for us, but we need astrology too work with the dark corners too. And ability Libra to talk and randomly be nice like that could be a major dark corner When you're in a Lovey-dovey state, you want to see everything better, that's why love cannot handle real life test.
Sometimes detachment is needed to protect us from hurt or people from us; sometimes to protect love. Because something like Scorpio love often goes with tests and pain. (Not mature Scorpio) And I have feeling Libra (if not strong enough) has more opportunities to be hurt in this type of relationships.
And we don't really want all these tests and pain)

---

Very true! But I was talking about when you feel secure in a relationship, the detachments will eventually reduce.

"When you're in a Lovey-dovey state, you want to see everything better" I can't really deny this unfortunately...

A relationship with a Scorpio Moon and vice-versa brings challenges, it's not easy, and I stated that on my other threat. But sharing knowledge, sharing experiences and sharing real-life situations can help us deal with the difficulties we encounter. Of course that doesn't mean we are safe from getting hurt, but it helps to process things better.

posted September 23, 2019 06:06 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by kate999:
True. Those who aren't mature will play the tests..I feel.people have flaws to work on both sides. Libra moons refuse to confront, which can leave scorpio moons unwanted.

Cold vs warm. Y'all need to reach other already. 😂😂😂😂😂!

---

posted September 23, 2019 06:13 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by NotSoSure:
Very true! But I was talking about when you feel secure in a relationship, the detachments will eventually reduce.

[b]"When you're in a Lovey-dovey state, you want to see everything better" I can't really deny this unfortunately...

A relationship with a Scorpio Moon and vice-versa brings challenges, it's not easy, and I stated that on my other threat. But sharing knowledge, sharing experiences and sharing real-life situations can help us deal with the difficulties we encounter. Of course that doesn't mean we are safe from getting hurt, but it helps to process things better.

Ok I'll try to bring the darker side 😜[/B]

---

posted September 23, 2019 06:16 PM            

quote:

---

Originally posted by Librapurr:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by kate999:
[b] True. Those who aren't mature will play the tests..I feel.people have flaws to work on both sides. Libra moons refuse to confront, which can leave scorpio moons unwanted.

Cold vs warm. Y'all need to reach other already. 😂😂😂😂😂!

---

Yeah this is also why I'm so scared to reveal my feelings to the libra moon. We haven't talk in a month since I realize I had feelings for him. @notsosure believe it's the pattern that I stopped that makes him confused and why he isn't reaching out yet.