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Topic: I Want To Hear Your Saturn Synastry Stories
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thatonegirllol
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posted March 19, 2020 09:17 AM
  
I know that saturn is considered a great deal in the astrology of long-lasting relationships. If you have any people in your life you've known, loved, or been stuck on longer than 3 years drop the saturn synastry between you guys if you have any! Could be family, friends, coworkers, boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. If you have saturn contacts in composite talk about that too. IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted March 19, 2020 12:13 PM
I started to think one sided Saturn synastry is more painful than Pluto. Saturn wants commitment and responsibility, and Pluto - power. I think it never was that hard to be separated from Pluto synastry than from Saturn. I don’t want to be Saturn in synastry.IP: Logged |
thatonegirllol
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posted March 19, 2020 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I started to think one sided Saturn synastry is more painful than Pluto. Saturn wants commitment and responsibility, and Pluto - power. I think it never was that hard to be separated from Pluto synastry than from Saturn. I don’t want to be Saturn in synastry.
Thats a take I havent heard before. Usually people talk about how much the saturn person nags them, helps them restructure something, or both. Its usually pluto synastry that turns sour, one-sided and painful from what I've heard. Saturn can be TOO binding though, so I see where you're coming from.
Me, I have a scorpio venus so liking someone romantically turns into a dramatic, plutonian rollercoaster. Saturn at least helps stabilize that when its present.
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manymoones
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posted March 19, 2020 08:23 PM
My Saturn is on my husband’s NN, his Saturn is on my NN!  IP: Logged |
anska5
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posted March 19, 2020 08:28 PM
I've found saturn extremely binding in friendships, all of my longest friendships have very strong saturn. But one sided saturn links in a more 'attraction or romantic' synastry context in my experience and that of friends always had an element of heartache or rejection. Either because the attraction/strong feelings weren't mutual or because the relationship wasn't possible for whatever reason (one person married with children, too much of an age difference, or in the case of one friend, he just felt so inferior and for some obscure reason unworthy of the other person, he broke up with his girlfriend) IP: Logged |
implosions
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posted March 19, 2020 09:50 PM
I've had a few!A number of Saturn-oppositions where I'm the Saturn, actually. I dunno if it's because my Saturn is in Capricorn (so domicile) that most of the people who have the opposition have this projection of authority on me from their subconscious, and it ends up leaving me feeling guilty because I couldn't live up to their expectations of care -- OR that they think I assume more from them than they're willing to give. I mean, typically I do have high standards when it comes to the people I let close in my life, but I decide on that, people can still live by their own standards. If it doesn't work out though, they seem to take it harder and eject more than walk away. I CAN be a bit of a hard head about my own standards though, admittedly. -- I've had a DW Saturn square Sun-stellium, too (or more closely, DW Saturn square Mercury). We had great chemistry and silliness between us in the beginning, but I think the difficulties communicating had us eventually drifting apart in the end. Sad to experience, but understandable. -- The only other one I can think of is where I was in a partnership a while ago where their Ceres was on my Saturn (this was prior to my Saturn Return), and they would try SO HARD to care for me, but maybe it was unconscious? It was like whatever they tried, it triggered a boundary for me, and I ended up with all my walls and guards up by the closing of the relationship. They were very put out by my supposed rejection of it. I will say though, it really highlighted my inner need for self-security, or like my own Saturn-strength and independence, rather than relying on a partner in ways that I didn't realize I was letting until it was uncomfortable.
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That being said, I love Saturn energy. It's so secure and able to just LET you do your own thing without demanding (like say, Pluto). Sense of security of self for the win! IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted March 20, 2020 01:46 PM
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Originally posted by thatonegirllol:
Thats a take I havent heard before. Usually people talk about how much the saturn person nags them, helps them restructure something, or both. Its usually pluto synastry that turns sour, one-sided and painful from what I've heard. Saturn can be TOO binding though, so I see where you're coming from.
Me, I have a scorpio venus so liking someone romantically turns into a dramatic, plutonian rollercoaster. Saturn at least helps stabilize that when its present.
Maybe, because the whole synastry was complicated and pretty Scorpionic. He was Pluto and Neptune. Originally, I saw him as someone who might use my help. Eventually, I started to see him as someone who might use me for his weird ego games. We mostly made each other mad and confused.
I couldn’t handle that level of immaturity.It was overwhelming, didn’t feel like Saturn. I wonder if his Uranus on my Saturn had something to do with it.
I’m looking for stabilizing energy too. I’d run away earlier and faster without Saturn, and it’d be a smart thing to do. So Saturn is like a curse when it makes you feel attached to a wrong person/ situation.
And this person doesn’t feel responsible and caring. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth
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posted March 20, 2020 06:35 PM
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Originally posted by thatonegirllol:
I know that saturn is considered a great deal in the astrology of long-lasting relationships. If you have any people in your life you've known, loved, or been stuck on longer than 3 years drop the saturn synastry between you guys if you have any! Could be family, friends, coworkers, boyfriends, girlfriends, etc. If you have saturn contacts in composite talk about that too.
That bloke had his saturn trine my venus. Crazy attraction (he put a bunch in my 8th house and his Pluto aspected my sun and other things, can't remember it all). He refused to go any further with me because he said he felt it would be binding and had to be forever and as he didn't think I was forever material...
I don't know if that was the saturn trine venus or he was just a mess though  IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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Registered: Nov 2018
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posted March 21, 2020 09:39 AM
If you check the long-term relationships, a lot of them have Saturn contacts DW with each other's inner planets and/or nodes in Synastry. Nodes-Saturn contact in Synastry may be just one way.IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted March 21, 2020 02:00 PM
Nodes-Saturn contact. Who would be affected more and have desire to stay, Nodes or Saturn person?IP: Logged |
implosions
Knowflake Posts: 438
From: canada
Registered: Aug 2017
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posted March 21, 2020 02:03 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Nodes-Saturn contact. Who would be affected more and have desire to stay, Nodes or Saturn person?
Would definitely depend on how aspected the Nodes or Saturn is in the natal chart- if Nodes are weakly aspected, but Saturn is very central, then Saturn would feel it, and vice a verse. IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted March 21, 2020 07:12 PM
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Originally posted by implosions:
Would definitely depend on how aspected the Nodes or Saturn is in the natal chart- if Nodes are weakly aspected, but Saturn is very central, then Saturn would feel it, and vice a verse.
What would be weakly aspected Nodes? No aspects to Planets, mostly hard aspects or just couple trines or sextiles? IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 27, 2020 04:12 PM
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implosions
Knowflake Posts: 438
From: canada
Registered: Aug 2017
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posted March 27, 2020 04:58 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
What would be weakly aspected Nodes? No aspects to Planets, mostly hard aspects or just couple trines or sextiles?
Technically any aspect- if there are a lot of them, that is a strong set of Nodes. Especially if they are coming from the main 12 placements. Weakly aspected would be, perhaps one or two aspects from minor asteroids or numerical asteroids (that you have to manually input). It also depends on how sensitive one is to their own energy, and possibly if someone is over the age of 30 (past the first Saturn Return is usually when the North Node starts activating more consciously). IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted March 28, 2020 06:28 AM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Nodes-Saturn contact. Who would be affected more and have desire to stay, Nodes or Saturn person?
My Saturn square my guy's Nodes. So far it seems that we both have desire to stay together for the long haul. In natal, his NN conjunct Moon/Pluto, sextile ASC/Neptune. My Saturn sextile Sun/Mercury, trine Mars, square Jupiter/Pluto. IP: Logged |
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