posted October 20, 2020 10:33 AM            

What have you experienced? I have recently came to understand more about this fated point.

Have some major connections regardging it with their Venus conj my Vertex, which lasted for years.

Anyone have, or had connection with your Vertex with their Sun, moon, Mars, Pluto, Venus?

What about the other way around? (meaning their vertex and your planets).

What about Vertex Conjunct Vertex.

posted October 20, 2020 04:17 PM            

I can't speak for his end with the anti-vertex, but for my vertex...I caught feelings early on, despite telling myself otherwise. I'd always known who he was but our last year of high school I went from never speaking to him to suddenly having over half my classes with him.

We clicked off the bat -- and it's hard for me to click with most people. I was thrown by how much I was into him; It also was the first time I felt I had an "attainable crush", meaning I was actually speaking with this person, comfortable with this person, they knew I existed, etc. But timing wasn't in our favor, since we were graduating and heading to college, he didn't date, I didn't date. Despite moving towns, developing other crushes, going on dates, my feelings always fell back on him, whether I wanted them to or not. It felt...never-ending. Exhausting.

I'd be lying if I said that I hadn't thought we were "meant to be" (noting more on our synastry: his Mars and Venus fall in my 7H and our ASC/ASC are opposed), esp. since I felt there was mutual interest on his end. Basically I waited 3.5 years before I finally racked up the guts to tell him I was interested. Results were ultimately no, he wasn't ready for any relationship and we agreed I should move on. (I've answered this in another thread, but this relates to the vertex...I don't think it's a coincidence that on the day I confessed my feelings to him, the transiting moon was conjunct my vertex plus mercury was transiting the third house. Moon is our emotions/vulnerability, Mercury was in its home of communication...).

The fallout of that experience hurt a lot, and it was a transforming experience for me. I don't regret it or hold any grudges towards him. I view that day as a fateful one because in the long-run it really helped me grow for the better: it pushed me to determine what exactly I wanted out of relationships, what my relationship was with myself (confidence), and it changed how I wanted to approach relationships and handle rejection in the future.

But it really took me a while to move on, not gonna lie. I clung to the hope that one day he'd come around and tell me he was "ready"...at the same time, I knew I couldn't put my life on hold for one person. I hated the idea of moving on because I'd invested all this time, these feelings -- but that point it becomes a slippery slope. Honestly when I look back at it, I was afraid to move on because I'd felt so familiar with those feelings and that, if I let go, I wouldn't know who I was. Which is crazy (!!!!) but that's really just how deep I was, I suppose.

posted October 20, 2020 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
How many degrees were your Venus and moon from his Anti-vertext? Was the timing very accurate for his birth?
Because Moon/venus on antivertex supposed to be really intense for him as well.

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According to Astro.com it's a 2 degree orb for his vertex opposing my Venus and Moon (both those planets of mine are very conjunct) -- so again, fairly tight. I'm pretty confident of his birth time, since I'd sent a Human Design form to a bunch of my friends (which requires your birth time, similar to natal charts). All of them gave specific birth times/no rounding.

I haven't looked too much into moon/venus conjunct the anti-vertex, mainly because I've found little out there to explain it.

posted October 23, 2020 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Sinder:
Sky in one of the sites it says the venus person would love the vertex person.

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posted October 23, 2020 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by skynote:
A guy I liked for years has his sun tightly conjunct my vertex (< 1 degree). In turn, his anti-vertex is conjunct my Moon and Venus (which is another way of saying his vertex opposes both those planets of mine). We're good friends and are from the same town.

I can't speak for his end with the anti-vertex, but for my vertex...I caught feelings early on, despite telling myself otherwise. I'd always known who he was but our last year of high school I went from never speaking to him to suddenly having over half my classes with him.

We clicked off the bat -- and it's hard for me to click with most people. I was thrown by how much I was into him; It also was the first time I felt I had an "attainable crush", meaning I was actually speaking with this person, comfortable with this person, they knew I existed, etc. But timing wasn't in our favor, since we were graduating and heading to college, he didn't date, I didn't date. Despite moving towns, developing other crushes, going on dates, my feelings always fell back on him, whether I wanted them to or not. It felt...never-ending. Exhausting.

I'd be lying if I said that I hadn't thought we were "meant to be" (noting more on our synastry: his Mars and Venus fall in my 7H and our ASC/ASC are opposed), esp. since I felt there was mutual interest on his end. Basically I waited 3.5 years before I finally racked up the guts to tell him I was interested. Results were ultimately no, he wasn't ready for any relationship and we agreed I should move on. (I've answered this in another thread, but this relates to the vertex...I don't think it's a coincidence that on the day I confessed my feelings to him, the transiting moon was conjunct my vertex plus mercury was transiting the third house. Moon is our emotions/vulnerability, Mercury was in its home of communication...).

The fallout of that experience hurt a lot, and it was a transforming experience for me. I don't regret it or hold any grudges towards him. I view that day as a fateful one because in the long-run it really helped me grow for the better: it pushed me to determine what exactly I wanted out of relationships, what my relationship was with myself (confidence), and it changed how I wanted to approach relationships and handle rejection in the future.

But it really took me a while to move on, not gonna lie. I clung to the hope that one day he'd come around and tell me he was "ready"...at the same time, I knew I couldn't put my life on hold for one person. I hated the idea of moving on because I'd invested all this time, these feelings -- but that point it becomes a slippery slope. Honestly when I look back at it, I was afraid to move on because I'd felt so familiar with those feelings and that, if I let go, I wouldn't know who I was. Which is crazy (!!!!) but that's really just how deep I was, I suppose.

But yeah, all in all, definitely think sun-vertex is a fateful encounter to have in synastry. The vertex is a point of "fate", but whether it's good or bad, you never know, but you'll definitely feel something or learn from it.

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You story is so spot on.the vertex is associated with intense feelings that can seem fated or even supernatural.
But just as you related the vertex energy often does not develop the way one would think or hope and many times in failed vertex relationships or even with no relationship,one can become me obsessed.consumingly obsessive.

Todd

posted October 25, 2020 12:51 AM            

So far I haven't noticed any particularly strong, recurring patterns with it synastrically.

I had an unusual, and somewhat spiritually intense connection with a woman who had Sagittarius Rising with late Sag Jup and early Cap Saturn conjunct her late Sag Rising. These were fairly close to my vertex.

It was a completely platonic connection, and she was a couple to few decades older than me. At some point earlier in our friendship, she had spontaneous visions/remembrances during meditation of being my mother in Egypt during a mutual past life. Before that, a little while into our friendship, I decided to share a pic of myself with her. I didn't hear anything back for a bit, but when she got back to me, she was pretty dramatic, and she said something like, "what, were you trying to give me a heart attack or something?!"

I was completely confused and was like, Huh? She explained, a few years before we met, she was meditating, and a man, she swears, fully materialized in her room right in front of her, smiled, and then immediately left. She said my pic looked exactly like the man who had showed up and she was very surprised by that.

If it was connected to me, then it was either future me, or part of my Expanded self, because I don't remember doing that consciously. I believe and know such is possible, but consciously speaking, I don't think I'm at the point where I can do things like that (consciously and in a personality sense). Might be different for my Soul, and definitely so for my Expanded/Spirit self level.

This is the pic I had sent her:
http://drive.google.com/file/d/1Lm3R0Vi0ctmTtbqRqnBPeuluzg9-BhxQ/view?usp=sharing

posted October 25, 2020 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
I have Vertex in late Sagittarius, in my 5th House.

So far I haven't noticed any particularly strong, recurring patterns with it synastrically.

I had an unusual, and somewhat spiritually intense connection with a woman who had Sagittarius Rising with late Sag Jup and early Cap Saturn conjunct her late Sag Rising. These were fairly close to my vertex.

It was a completely platonic connection, and she was a couple to few decades older than me. At some point earlier in our friendship, she had spontaneous visions/remembrances during meditation of being my mother in Egypt during a mutual past life. Before that, a little while into our friendship, I decided to share a pic of myself with her. I didn't hear anything back for a bit, but when she got back to me, she was pretty dramatic, and she said something like, "what, were you trying to give me a heart attack or something?!"

I was completely confused and was like, Huh? She explained, a few years before we met, she was meditating, and a man, she swears, fully materialized in her room right in front of her, smiled, and then immediately left. She said my pic looked exactly like the man who had showed up and she was very surprised by that.

If it was connected to me, then it was either future me, or part of my Expanded self, because I don't remember doing that consciously. I believe and know such is possible, but consciously speaking, I don't think I'm at the point where I can do things like that (consciously and in a personality sense). Might be different for my Soul, and definitely so for my Expanded/Spirit self level.

This is the pic I had sent her:
http://drive.google.com/file/d/1Lm3R0Vi0ctmTtbqRqnBPeuluzg9-BhxQ/view?usp=sharing

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Have looked at the composite node and vertex for this woman.also did she remember the time of her vision.because the vertex is pure energy any aspects especially exact aspects are significant.