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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 08, 2021 09:46 AM
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Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 08, 2021 03:08 PM
Hi ChildofVenus! No, I am not a professional and I dont take payment for readings! If you want to keep private, I could contact Randall and ask him to send you my email address. Otherwise post your chart and questions on here :-)IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 14, 2021 11:58 AM
I recently started talking to this guy and we really hit it off. But our Moons aren't compatible and I'm worried about the squares to Mercury and Venus in the Composite chart. He's the Taurus with Pisces Moon on the outside.
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Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 15, 2021 01:53 AM
Hi ChildVenus,the attraction is very strong and there are significant nodal contacts, so yes, you seem to get along pretty well and apparently on the same page. I dont see a big problem with the Moon in synastry, actually there are mutual strong Moon contacts suggesting a deep emotional connection, the problem though is that his Mars attached to his Moon is square to your Saturn/Uranus, and his Uranus/Neptune is square to your Jupiter, these are difficult aspects for long term. Both these squares may suggest he's not a completely reliable person, and since his Chiron is square to your Pluto which is opposite his Sun, there's a toxic vibe in the whole picture... a strong attraction may turn to carry a strong controlling attitude and with those Neptune aspects he may actually be the one who could escape from the situation or could not be completely honest beyond the surface. But the Composite looks especially a bit concerning 'cause of Neptune as midpoint between Uranus and Saturn, square to Venus, and Mars/Venus midpoint square Saturn. This would look like you may hang out together and have fun, there may be a romantic vibe and certainly a strong chemistry, but at a more serious level of committment with the square to Saturn the guy might not be up for it... Usually Neptune in between Saturn and Uranus, and in addition square to Venus, would point to a platonic affair, and with Uranus also square to Venus, it would look like a short affair. North Node on DSC and trine to Jupiter is very psychic and may give you love at first sight or the feeling to be deeply mentally connected to this person. The Juno/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct Mars and sextile Moon, Mars is conjunct Sun, so there's definitely a positive energy between you two, apparently a strong emotional and sexual connection, likely things developing quite fast. Chiron though is opposite to the Uranus/Neptune midpoint and square to Venus/Mercury, this looks difficult 'cause likely your individual expectations about the relationship might not match on a more serious level and Chiron in such placement might give false hopes on the long run, so be careful. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 15, 2021 09:51 AM
Thank you for your input another issue is that it's the Scorpio guy's friend. I used to really be into the Scorpio guy. But it seems like this guy and I are more compatible. But the Scorpio keeps saying he likes me though. And the Composite chart with him is better. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 15, 2021 03:53 PM
Well... apparently, you may feel more compatibility with the Taurus guy cause of the composite Sun conjunct Mars, and the Nodes on the axis (if tobs are correct) trine to Jupiter... but on a deeper level, it seems to me that with the Scorpio guy there's a karmic connection with the natal nodes in square involving your Jupiter/Mercury and his Neptune, and South Node conjunct Mars in Composite. His natal Neptune here may give you a lot of insecurity though. Composite Venus-Jupiter (very nice for compatibility and romance) and Juno midpoint is conjunct DSC, the stellium is sextile Moon, and the Mars/Venus midpoint is opposite the Moon/Juno midpoint, so on a romantic level it looks very nice and with Mars in exact sextile to Venus it shows he has feelings. South Node attached here may actually suggest unrequitted feelings, or that this infatuation may be challenged. Chiron is opposite Saturn/Neptune and Uranus is opposite Venus/Jupiter, so it doesn't look long lasting and for some reason things may not take off the ground, this whole composite looks more like unrequitted love to me, even though the compatibility is not bad at all in my opinion. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 15, 2021 04:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: Well... apparently, you may feel more compatibility with the Taurus guy cause of the composite Sun conjunct Mars, and the Nodes on the axis (if tobs are correct) trine to Jupiter... but on a deeper level, it seems to me that with the Scorpio guy there's a karmic connection with the natal nodes in square involving your Jupiter/Mercury and his Neptune, and South Node conjunct Mars in Composite. His natal Neptune here may give you a lot of insecurity though. Composite Venus-Jupiter (very nice for compatibility and romance) and Juno midpoint is conjunct DSC, the stellium is sextile Moon, and the Mars/Venus midpoint is opposite the Moon/Juno midpoint, so on a romantic level it looks very nice and with Mars in exact sextile to Venus it shows he has feelings. South Node attached here may actually suggest unrequitted feelings, or that this infatuation may be challenged. Chiron is opposite Saturn/Neptune and Uranus is opposite Venus/Jupiter, so it doesn't look long lasting and for some reason things may not take off the ground, this whole composite looks more like unrequitted love to me, even though the compatibility is not bad at all in my opinion.
I’ve read that South Node contacts can be comforting to both people. Like they have always known each other. Unrequited love from my end? Because he’s always saying that he likes me. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 15, 2021 04:57 PM
The Nodes always give comforting feelings, but South Node attached to Mars may suggest frustration and that the Mars energy is going to "fade away"... yes I think you don't feel about him as much as he feels for you.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 16, 2021 04:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: The Nodes always give comforting feelings, but South Node attached to Mars may suggest frustration and that the Mars energy is going to "fade away"... yes I think you don't feel about him as much as he feels for you.
He’s stuck around and I’ve put him through a lot. So I assume that he does like me. I want things to work out between us because I’ve shared a lot of personal things with him. I do have Mars conjunct South Node double whammy with another guy. And we have it in Composite. We’ve been friends for seven years now. So I don’t know if it always indicate that the relationship won’t last. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 16, 2021 05:15 PM
It depends on others Composite aspects for long term, one aspect alone might mean nothing. But Mars/South Node is always a significant aspect, it may merely suggest that the connection comes from the past or that the sole Mars energy may become weak, but other aspects may balance stability.IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 17, 2021 11:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: It depends on others Composite aspects for long term, one aspect alone might mean nothing. But Mars/South Node is always a significant aspect, it may merely suggest that the connection comes from the past or that the sole Mars energy may become weak, but other aspects may balance stability.
Thank you for your input I really appreciate it Should I not get involved with either one of these guys since it won’t last long term? IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 17, 2021 04:37 PM
It seems to me that you feel more at ease with the Taurus guy, even though it looks more like fun but short affair and he might have uncertainties about committment... with the Scorpio guy, it may be more serious even though there's an undelying instability, since the Moon/Saturn midpoint is opposite Venus/Jupiter, maybe it's you who don't feel completely involved at emotional level... but tell me if I am wrong. In any case, I would not suggest to get or not to get involved based on astrology, but on your true feelings :-) with astrology you get an idea of the potential developments, but getting involved with someone (for me) is about following your heart no matter what :-D ❤️ IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted January 17, 2021 06:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: It seems to me that you feel more at ease with the Taurus guy, even though it looks more like fun but short affair and he might have uncertainties about committment... with the Scorpio guy, it may be more serious even though there's an undelying instability, since the Moon/Saturn midpoint is opposite Venus/Jupiter, maybe it's you who don't feel completely involved at emotional level... but tell me if I am wrong. In any case, I would not suggest to get or not to get involved based on astrology, but on your true feelings :-) with astrology you get an idea of the potential developments, but getting involved with someone (for me) is about following your heart no matter what :-D ❤️
The Scorpio guy has Venus in the 10th house. Which means that he would be attracted to women with money. Or that he might mess around with women on his job. This is what I’ve read about people who have this placement. So I’m not sure why he says he likes me when I’m not rich. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted January 17, 2021 09:18 PM
I think that the Scorpio guy, with your Pluto on his Sun/Mars and his Pluto on your IC, feels a strong glue with you and can't let you go. True what you say about Venus in 10th house, but it's not always necessarily like that. It can also suggest he's a committed and dedicated person. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 139046 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 22, 2021 11:37 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 139046 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 28, 2021 12:42 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted February 06, 2021 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: I think that the Scorpio guy, with your Pluto on his Sun/Mars and his Pluto on your IC, feels a strong glue with you and can't let you go. True what you say about Venus in 10th house, but it's not always necessarily like that. It can also suggest he's a committed and dedicated person.
Thank you for your input so you don’t think all the hard aspects in the synastry between the Scorpio and I are problematic? IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted February 06, 2021 11:31 PM
In the synastry with the Scorpio, an on-off dynamic is shown, so it looks a bit unstable. There's attraction but I think you're not completely into him :-) Both charts don't look very favourable for long term for different reasons. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted February 07, 2021 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: In the synastry with the Scorpio, an on-off dynamic is shown, so it looks a bit unstable. There's attraction but I think you're not completely into him :-) Both charts don't look very favourable for long term for different reasons.
I really am into him though he’s the one that I really want to be with. I know I talk about different guys on here and I can be unstable. But I’ve never felt the way that I feel about him with anyone I love him. And I think we could actually be together long term. If I learned to control myself and didn’t be implosive. He tries but then I always act a certain way that causes conflict between us. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 1835 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted February 07, 2021 03:40 PM
I meant that it depends on your feelings, if you are into him just give it a try, don't base everything on astrology... it's a bit unstable, but as I said it looks more compatible than the other guy. What are your doubts? If you love him, and he's also into you, just be with him :-)There are some conflicts in the synastry, but you seem aware of it and willing to sort things out :-)
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted February 19, 2021 02:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: I meant that it depends on your feelings, if you are into him just give it a try, don't base everything on astrology... it's a bit unstable, but as I said it looks more compatible than the other guy. What are your doubts? If you love him, and he's also into you, just be with him :-)There are some conflicts in the synastry, but you seem aware of it and willing to sort things out :-)
What makes it unstable? Is it because of the oppositions and hard aspects? Wouldn’t the Saturn aspects provide stability? Sometimes I feel like I’m not sure about what I want. I think it’s because of my Gemini Mars and then I get bored and act out. And then the next minute I change my mind. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 139046 From: Your Friendly Neighborhood Juris Doctorate. Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2021 10:36 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5495 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 04, 2021 11:14 AM
I notice that women that he likes (models and pornstars) have Virgo, Cancer sometimes Libra placements. His ex is a Leo Sun with Mars in Virgo and she has Venus and Mercury in Cancer like his dad. So sometimes I wonder if he actually does like me or if he's just lying. Being as though I have no Virgo, Cancer, or Libra in my chart.IP: Logged |