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plutonianmenace
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posted May 14, 2021 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is definitely one of the more unique relationships I have seen. I actually saw them this past week at a park on a sunny day making out passionately, he had his hands inside of her pants. It was one of those intense love sessions which had people around them in shock because of the vibe and a couple of women smiling at how much they were into each other.

Not sure if it has been answered but what in their synastry and composite could have pointed to this?

I look and I see that the 8th and 5th houses are not that active at all.

Could it have been the tight mars and Pluto contact?

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posted May 15, 2021 01:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VeronicaNicole     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
It is definitely one of the more unique relationships I have seen. I actually saw them this past week at a park on a sunny day making out passionately, he had his hands inside of her pants. It was one of those intense love sessions which had people around them in shock because of the vibe and a couple of women smiling at how much they were into each other.

Not sure if it has been answered but what in their synastry and composite could have pointed to this?

I look and I see that the 8th and 5th houses are not that active at all.

Could it have been the tight mars and Pluto contact?



🤢 ummm...gross.

Yeah that level of PDA....probably made an interesting show for the people. Little theater in the park.

But seriously lol.. I would have grabbed a snack & a drink and pulled up a chair real close & just watched them for the sake of the moment. Probably would have been a bad idea for you but it would have been funny if a stranger did something like that. I mean if your gonna be acting that gross i might as well weird it up a little more. I mean they really wouldn't have any room to say anything. Nah... that is just trashy AF.

But moving on.. they certainly have a very strong attraction to one another which is very clear looking at their synastry chart. I don't see as much in the composite but still.

I think it is probably a number of things TBH. Definitely the mars/Pluto double whammy. I think the hard aspects between his Mars & her venus the likewise with her mars & his Venus. The square & opposition will probably be more problematic as the relationship matures..but sounds like they'll have some crazy make up sex afterwards. So there is that at least 😅

The pluto/mars conjunction is in hard aspect so I think that one may go either way at times. I'm not gonna lie..it being in Scorpio makes me cringe slightly but if they're both pretty mature then it should be manageable without the more darker aspects like violence & control..jealously. all those fabulous things. At least the other one is in easy aspect. The air should make it more manageable.

I have a similar placement with someone..double whammy as well. His Pluto in Virgo opposes my Pisces Mars & my Scorpio pluto/venus/Pallas conjunction trines his mars in cancer. We are both mature plus kind of have our own things. There is definitely some sort of power struggles in a non aggressive sense. Like I recently found myself with the power so I'm keeping it in my court til he prys it away. Lol..it's not a detrimental power struggle. Like now I'm kinda going cold on him not in a bad way but like for one I've got so much nonsense to deal with I just don't feel it is a priority you know.

Your people have some nice aspects that will soften it up though. So that should balance the heavier crap out. The venus/moon sextile will add some sweetness but Idk about his moon squaring both her sun & her moon. It's magnetic but there are going to be problems there guaranteed. They both have their venus in the others 4th house which acts similar to the moon/venus connections.

They have saturn which will give the relationship longevity but then there's alot of uranus too.


TBH..I think this relationship could go a few different ways. It's like they have equal amounts pleasant & difficult placements. I cannot see it ending anytime soon. Not for good at least. This looks pretty karmic but potential for it to work if the two are committed to it & can handle it like grown ups.

Best of luck to them both. Though.

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Hikaru29
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posted May 15, 2021 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you actually know their birth times? If not the houses and angles are not accurate.

The love stellium with Sun conjunct Pluto would reveal their intensity....although Sun-Pluto at a wide orb but Pluto-Mars-Neptune in a trine and Sun is at Venus-Pluto midpoint. The Saturn oppositions can actually be binding if they can overcome obstacles associating with their age gap and professional relationship, plus Moon joins to form a wedge.

Where is Juno?

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posted May 18, 2021 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
It is definitely one of the more unique relationships I have seen. I actually saw them this past week at a park on a sunny day making out passionately, he had his hands inside of her pants. It was one of those intense love sessions which had people around them in shock because of the vibe and a couple of women smiling at how much they were into each other.

Not sure if it has been answered but what in their synastry and composite could have pointed to this?

I look and I see that the 8th and 5th houses are not that active at all.

Could it have been the tight mars and Pluto contact?


I did point out clearly all the things in their synastry that show they are probably very attracted to each other. Venus aspect mars double whammy and mars pluto double whammy would generate strong sexual attraction, then you add Uranus in the 5th house in composite and venus conjunct sun and pluto in the 4th house in composite and to me I could see this relationship turning sexual easily which I predicted and it did apparently.

That stellium in their 4th is very powerful, water houses make emotions run deep. I have sun conjunct pluto, mars and valentine in the 12th house with my ex and we were drawn like magnets to one another, no matter how many years pass if we are in front of each other we cannot avoid sleeping together bc of this strong magnetic pull that pulls us into each other that cannot be ignored, is a force, we kissed at first sight for two hours the night we met, there was a strong pull to merge from the start.

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posted May 19, 2021 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So got some updates for you guys, looks like Astrology is not always correct even as promising as it seemed. The company has gone through some changes to where she will be moved to another part of the world as she desired, working from there permanently. He will remain and Friday is going to be their last day working together.

Things also got somewhat heated and angry between the two in the past week where she would not look at him, maybe something happened.

Well, looks like this relationship is over.

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posted May 20, 2021 01:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
So got some updates for you guys, looks like Astrology is not always correct even as promising as it seemed.

Not entirely. I did point out the Saturn oppositions which indicate obstacles.

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posted May 20, 2021 12:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
So got some updates for you guys, looks like Astrology is not always correct even as promising as it seemed. The company has gone through some changes to where she will be moved to another part of the world as she desired, working from there permanently. He will remain and Friday is going to be their last day working together.

Things also got somewhat heated and angry between the two in the past week where she would not look at him, maybe something happened.

Well, looks like this relationship is over.


hahahaha they have uranus in the 5th house in composite, classic of a relatinship or romance that starts out of the blue and ends out of the blue and it can also manifest with a long distance relationship or on and off relationship.

So I don't think astrology has failed anything, everything I suspected about their chart is manifesting.

Her moving away can also be a manifestation of the Thor's Hammer, external forces getting in the way of them being together.

Also them having such an emotional composite means they will get into fights and with uranus in the 5th it can be an on and off romance or relationship or it could just end of out the blue. She moving though is not a guarantee is over.

I get this feeling you like the guy or something and don't want them to be together but thanks for the update.

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posted May 21, 2021 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
She moving though is not a guarantee is over.

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plutonianmenace
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posted May 31, 2021 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hmm can't seem to log in

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posted June 08, 2021 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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plutonianmenace
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posted June 08, 2021 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had the chance to talk to the Leo this past Friday over some drinks. Told me the following:

"It's like no woman has affected me like this and I do not even know why"

I wonder how she is feeling

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posted June 09, 2021 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithbabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I honestly feel like moon aspects are very overrated for synastry and quite frankly, passion can manifest as some sort of roughness and hatred. If anything, I find that overrated aspects like Sun conjunct Moon at best signal friendships than anything romantic.

I am of the stance that squares and oppositions are healthy in synastry because they keep that tense friction. Any astrologer who is against them and very traditional about it in my view is just way out of touch and perhaps even a bit biased.


100% agree!!!

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posted June 09, 2021 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you post their composite chart, too?

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plutonianmenace
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posted June 09, 2021 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought I already did but here it is

https://i.imgur.com/EGtaw7O.png

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posted June 09, 2021 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
While I don't agree with the way they've both been observed throughout the past few months, I am riveted by this saga.

Their adoration for one another in the composite is simple, they have not just a love stellium, but in a relationship friendly sign (Libra) and loosely conjunct Pluto, making it obsessive/sexual beyond what the love stellium already glues together.

I've experienced a love stellium before once and it really is something magical and otherworldly.

The stellium is also loosely supported by Neptune and the Moon, so no doubt this feels dreamy and fated for both parties.

Their stellium is technically square the nodes too which is said to be a soul mate aspect (the Mercury is tightly square the nodes so yeah it makes sense why they worked so well together all these years, their minds are very simpatico and they gel together well).

Transit Uranus is square the composite Moon so this sudden break up seems to be situational rather than permanent imo.

Saturn opposite the stellium could mean blockages, or that it took them a long time to finally hook up. It could also be a glue that further bonds them together.

Curious to see what will happen when transit Jupiter goes back into late Aquarius and is opposite their Mars again, since this affair really took off when Jupiter was in Aquarius - opposite their composite Moon and Mars.

I dunno, I don't really see this as being over. Transiting nodes are conjunct their composite Chiron (the eclipses were also conjunct their Chiron) which is why they're going through this painful time. It could forge them closer together. Who knows.

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posted June 09, 2021 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Their composite 4H is interesting. Venus cusp, love stellium, Sun midpoint Pluto/Venus... Implies a very sweet kind of intensity.

In synastry they have a cool Mars/Venus DW going on, and the Mars/Pluto DW situation as well. The Mercury trine probably makes communication between them easy and pleasant.

But all of this was said before. I get why they're into each other looking at these charts.

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posted June 09, 2021 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The news right now is she gets someone new working with her at the end of the month and will be moving countries. So yeah, seems like all signs point it to being over since she is moving permanently and he is staying put.

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posted June 09, 2021 10:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They could do a long distance thing. Maybe he'd want to go after her, maybe she has a change of heart, maybe they're forever broken up after this but will always carry a torch for each other. Who knows? Romantic/sexual relationships are so much more complicated than this absolutist thinking

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posted June 09, 2021 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
The news right now is she gets someone new working with her at the end of the month and will be moving countries. So yeah, seems like all signs point it to being over since she is moving permanently and he is staying put.

You seem oddly invested in this couple. I've been browsing the forums and there are many separate posts of you asking about aspects that I saw in their charts.

Are you relieved or upset that they seem to be "over"? (I don't think anyone can predict that anyway; people are complicated and moving to a different country means nothing in this day and age).

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posted June 09, 2021 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
she just seems to eat away so much of his mental space and it is now impacting his work, I think the dude might legit quit the job or do something crazy like that which sucks since he is a good worker

that's why, he is my best producer

Don't wanna talk to him too much about it but he seems hurt

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posted June 09, 2021 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Plutonian you should just post your charts with him so we can give you a good idea on when to swoop in

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Pale Blue Eyes
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posted June 09, 2021 11:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I think you're personally invested in this story for whatever reason.

Their synastry/composite charts are fine and look good. They seem to be into each other and there are a lot of aspects pointing to their attraction and potential feelings.

And I'm sorry, but if you were just worried about his work efficiency you'd talk to him directly about it, not ask dozens of questions about the nature of his romantic/sexual affair with a colleague in an astrology forum.

I agree with some posts on the first two pages, you should maybe do a synastry reading of you + them to see why you're so invested in their story. Maybe that would actually give you the answers you're looking for.

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posted June 09, 2021 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you're a Libra Sun (I feel like you are), then your Sun is conjunct their Love Stellium, which is why you can't get them out of your head.

No judgement from me btw with that. I was once super infatuated with this guy, nothing came of it but I was lowkey obsessed. For YEARS. Then he got engaged to this woman (they've since broken it off), but it burned me up inside. It was all I could think about for months. It made me physically sick to think of them together.

I plugged in their composite chart and lo and behold, their composite Sun was exactly sitting on my Moon, right down to the exact degree.

So that could be why you are very much trying to wrap your mind around them as a couple? Just some thoughts.

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posted June 09, 2021 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pale Blue Eyes     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, no judgement here either. Sometimes I get super curious about people's charts and like to read them for fun and learning purposes, and they actually end up revealing stuff about myself.

You seem to be personally involved in this particular story for months and, going by your tone, there are some stakes in it. So maybe doing a reading of you + them would help you to better evaluate the situation.

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posted June 09, 2021 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So this is why you posted those threads in the astrology forum?

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