posted August 10, 2021 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I’m a Gemini Mars and I’m supposed to be compatible with Aquarius Mars but I don’t like men with this placement. Maybe because it conjuncts my Moon. Have you ever been with a Gemini Mars? I like Men with Cancer Mars I know you need to feel an emotional connection when it comes to sex.

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I get what you mean - I think multiple factors influence your connection with someone. Venus also plays a role. I had my Venus in Scorpio in a square with his Mars (and Moon), which didn't help at all...I think the Moon-Venus square is what did us in when it came to intimacy even more than the Mars-Venus square, since I am such a lunar and emotional person (I have a 12H stellium as well as 8H and 4H planets).

posted August 10, 2021 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by oceansofstars:
That makes a lot of sense, even if both parties don't actually have Mars in aspect. Just having a compatible Mars sign in general seems more fortunate for a better mutual understanding of how action is taken, sexually or otherwise.

That's not to say that incompatible Mars signs can't enjoy sex and intimacy, though. I had pretty great sex with an Aquarius Mars, while mine is in Cancer, if we're looking just at physical pleasure alone...

But for me, sex isn't JUST physical pleasure. The overall vibe and lack of emotional intimacy that paved our sexual encounters was jarring. It was so ... task-oriented for him, there wasn't enough passion even though he had a good technique and learned how my body worked. It felt like a puzzle he was deconstructing and putting back together rather than anything deeper, and Mars in Water needs depth.

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Keep in mind that Aquarius and Cancer share a general, 6th-8th House type connection to each other. Meaning that the potential for strong sexual attraction is quite possible, though often more one sided.

In particular, strong Aquarius energy tends to be attracted to strong Cancer energy in that 8th House way. But generally speaking, that really isn't Aquarius's "jam", if they are closer to being attuned to the more archetypal side of that energy (i.e. more detached, cerebral, caring as much about friendship as sex and romance, etc).

In turn, strong Cancer tends to be attracted to strong Sagittarius energy in that kind of 8th House way, and Cancer is definitely more intune, comfortable with, and liking of such type of connection and energy exchange.

Anyways, deeper point being that inconjuncts can encode a deeply sexual type element to the energy interaction but often one way and perhaps even more obsessional type.

posted August 11, 2021 03:45 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Well that is what the synastry is partly for, to tell us what kind and level of attraction is probable. But we first have to look at the individual's charts in question and see what kind of energy, etc they are most attracted to, etc and why.

It's not just as simple as comparing this single planet/point to that single planet/point. For a very simple example, someone very attuned to Pluto and/or Scorpio is going to really like and be drawn to Plutonian, Scorpio, and/or 8th House type of connections, and conversely the opposite energy as well (Venus and/or Taurus).

I'm fairly attuned to Venus, especially in relation to women and close relationships (Libra Moon, Venus in 7th House in wide opposition to my Asc, and Taurus MC), and so Venus aspects "really do it" for me, especially when it involves Venus's opposite energy, Mars.

Then, my 5th and 8th House ruler, Jupiter, is conjunct Mars, indicating that I'm also directly attracted to that Mars energy romantically and sexually, besides the opposites attract kind of thing. But then again, I'm also attracted to Neptunian energy romantically and sexually, since Neptune rules my 8th and is in my 5th, and makes an extremely close sextile to the rather sensitive/highlighted Venus.

We need to look deeper and more holistically at our own charts before better understanding the synastry and connections with others.

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That’s what I meant when I said there has to be attraction in the first place. The other person has to match your relationship type and trigger your romantic interest, although sometimes there can be hit and miss as well…

My guy has Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra (Moon rules his 8th; Pluto rules his 12th) so he has the conjunction with many people in our generation. His Moon has a wide (almost out-of-orb) conjunction with my 5H Pluto but a close conjunction with one of our friends’ 2H Pluto. He is not attracted to her.

I have Moon conjunct Neptune in 7H so my Moon conjunct many people’s Neptune. However, attraction does not always get activated. I’ve had their Sun conjunct my Moon, their Neptune conjunct my Moon or their planets conjunct my Neptune/Moon.

My 5th is ruled by Venus and 7th is ruled by Jupiter. 8th ruled by Saturn. But somehow my 10H Mars (ruling 11H; depositor of my Jupiter) always gets strongly activated in a relationship with aspects to the other party’s Sun/Mars/Neptune/Pluto/Uranus/Jupiter.

posted August 11, 2021 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I’m a Gemini Mars and I’m supposed to be compatible with Aquarius Mars but I don’t like men with this placement. Maybe because it conjuncts my Moon. Have you ever been with a Gemini Mars? I like Men with Cancer Mars I know you need to feel an emotional connection when it comes to sex.

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posted August 11, 2021 10:19 AM            

P.S., thanks for the head's up, saw your reply on that other thread.

posted August 11, 2021 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Wonder why Mars conjunct Moon does not attract you? I’ve not experienced this aspect but I’ve read about how this is the hottest sexual aspect.

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Moon Mars, especially Moon opposite and conjunct Mars does tend to be one of the most intense sexually, and often is far more primal and purely "rutting" in nature than Venus Mars or the like which tends to be a bit more conscious and/or romantic.

But sometimes it is too intense. Particularly, sometimes when it's the males Mars conjuncting or opposing the females Moon, he may come off too strong and intensely for some women's preference. Which goes back to the whole individual chart thing.

Take her chart for example, she has Taurus Sun, Gemini Mars, and Aquarius Desc with Saturn conjunct Uranus and both square Venus. Anyways, this indicates that she tends to be attracted to somewhat more passive and/or intellectual/cerebral type guys, and perhaps likes to do some of the pursing herself and/or the Aquarius Mars guys are just coming on too strong and aggressive?

Now, if she had say Sun in Aries, Leo, Scorpio, and/or with Mars conjunct it, and Mars in Leo, Aries, Scorpio, and Desc in one of these signs and/or with Mars conjunct it, she would tend to like such aggressive pursuit more.

Anyways, Moon and Mars tend to heat each other up, and sometimes to the point of potential discomfort on one or both sides. Intense emotional anger is another common theme between this pairing at times.

I worked with a lady who had her Mars closely conjunct my Moon, and I was definitely attracted to her and sensed she had some attraction back, but she was married and not open (and she didn't know about the open part of my status), and so both of us had to suppress or redirect it. Had we both been single, things may have been different.

posted August 11, 2021 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Ah, read you loud and clear now Hikaru. I had thought maybe you were talking more about looks and physical attraction from looks. Especially since that can't necessarily be seen in charts since charts don't often show us things like gender, sexual preference, exact looks, etc. My partner has a super steamy synastric connection with this guy that she initially found very attractive, but he turned out to be gay and so wasn't into her like that. But there is a general attraction there on his side, just not sexually/romantically like it probably would be if he wasn't gay.

P.S., thanks for the head's up, saw your reply on that other thread.

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posted August 11, 2021 12:07 PM            

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[b] Wonder why Mars conjunct Moon does not attract you? I’ve not experienced this aspect but I’ve read about how this is the hottest sexual aspect.

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Moon Mars, especially Moon opposite and conjunct Mars does tend to be one of the most intense sexually, and often is far more primal and purely "rutting" in nature than Venus Mars or the like which tends to be a bit more conscious and/or romantic.

But sometimes it is too intense. Particularly, sometimes when it's the males Mars conjuncting or opposing the females Moon, he may come off too strong and intensely for some women's preference. Which goes back to the whole individual chart thing.

Take her chart for example, she has Taurus Sun, Gemini Mars, and Aquarius Desc with Saturn conjunct Uranus and both square Venus. Anyways, this indicates that she tends to be attracted to somewhat more passive and/or intellectual/cerebral type guys, and perhaps likes to do some of the pursing herself and/or the Aquarius Mars guys are just coming on too strong and aggressive?

Now, if she had say Sun in Aries, Leo, Scorpio, and/or with Mars conjunct it, and Mars in Leo, Aries, Scorpio, and Desc in one of these signs and/or with Mars conjunct it, she would tend to like such aggressive pursuit more.

Anyways, Moon and Mars tend to heat each other up, and sometimes to the point of potential discomfort on one or both sides. Intense emotional anger is another common theme between this pairing at times.

I worked with a lady who had her Mars closely conjunct my Moon, and I was definitely attracted to her and sensed she had some attraction back, but she was married and not open (and she didn't know about the open part of my status), and so both of us had to suppress or redirect it. Had we both been single, things may have been different.

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I’m ok with a guy pursuing me if I like them. But yes I like to pursue because I know what I like in a guy. I have hard aspects to my Moon so that could be why I don’t like having a guys Mars conjunct my Moon. I know a guy who has his Mars conjunct my Moon and he was talking about me having his kid and I don’t even really know him. I don’t know I just don’t like men with Mars in Aquarius. It’s different if it’s a woman though. I’m attracted to women who have this placement. So far I like Libra Mars and Cancer Mars. I’m surprised I like Cancer Mars because I’m not supposed to be compatible with them. But I like men who have this placement over Aquarius Mars. It must be because I have Moon trine Mars in my natal chart.

posted August 11, 2021 01:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
😆 Can’t say I’m not into looks at all, but aren’t we all? That person has to first attract me physically and mentally before any romantic and sexual attraction can develop. I’m usually attracted to men who appear soft, polite and sensitive, yet have strong inner resilience. And if he can also engage with me intellectually and put up with my quirkiness, I’m sold.

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Yeah, I think the huge majority of us humans tend to at least want some physical attraction. (Course there are the asexual folks who don't seem to care at all). I do like some physical attractiveness, but I'm also very much a vibe guy. I'd take a 4 or 5 woman with a deeper personality/mind, some attunement to her Soul, expression of fruits of the spirit, etc over a 10 super shallow, overly self centered, mean or nasty to others, etc type of woman, every time.

But if both were about equally deep, high vibe, multifaceted, etc but one a 5 and the other a 10 purely physically.. well I'm probably going to lean to the more physically attractive one.

Re: the latter part, makes sense in your case, since you have Taurus SUN (Edit, originally wrote Moon for some reason), Pisces Mars, and Sag Desc with I think Sag Moon in your 7th? All in all, this indicates that you tend to be attracted to guys that are very in touch with their inner Yin/Feminine side (Taurus and Moon in particular are very Yin polarized, whereas Pisces is Yin but definitely more balanced/integrated all in all and while Sag is Yang, it is the most balanced/integrated of the Fire signs).

Carl Jung was quoted as saying that the Soul of a man was feminine and the soul of a woman was masculine or something like that. While that is a HUGE over generalization, sometimes it does apply. Particularly with mid to older Souls, often times we incarnate in the gender that is different than our inner polarization to Yin or Yang.

My partner and I are classic examples of that. We are twin souls. When our Spirit first split, I swear that I received the more Yin polarized half, and she the more Yang polarized half. And yet, I am primarily aware of male incarnations, and she of female incarnations.

I think what it was in our case (and in some others of older, more service oriented Souls and Spirits), that we have been trying to reach for an inner balance and attunement between the inner Yin and Yang within ourselves, and so chose the gender that wasn't comfortable or innate to our inner attunement.

I wonder if this is similar in y'alls case?

But I have noticed that a lot of immature Souls often incarnate in the gender that is more comfortable and like their inner attunement. Hence, you get a lot of Yang polarized Souls in male bodies, and get a lot of Yin polarized Souls in female bodies, and so these people tend to be more overtly hyper polarized/imbalanced.

Whereas the older (more mature) the Soul, the more they tend to be blended, balanced, and integrated, whatever their body's gender. Very interesting topic for sure.

posted August 11, 2021 01:16 PM            

So our Souls, conspire with our Expanded self level, and create life circumstances where often times we are first intensely attracted to that person. And YES, definitely, Moon-Mars can be one of those curve ball, switch'a'roo indications.

posted August 11, 2021 01:31 PM            

I LOVE to cuddle and be affectionate. And while I'm not gay/attracted to men sexually in the least bit, I've been known to sometimes cuddle/be physically affectionate (platonically) with other guys (though with many straight and gays guys you can't because they take it the wrong way. I like how women tend to be more open and free with that kind of expression with each other).

Also, sexually with women, I LOVE to please my partner. I tend to care more about her pleasure than my own, and often times won't even go into her until she is already climaxing (and it's the latter that really turns me on). Though I've experimented some with more Tantric sex where I'm inside, but not moving at all, and just looking into the other's eyes, etc.

posted August 11, 2021 01:49 PM            

I know it probably sounds super cliche and like a spiritual platitude, but truly, in the end, only Love is real and what we take with us.

When people drop their bodies and move into their more true, nonphysical form and mode of being, many are quite surprised by who comes and greets them, "You?! I thought you hated my guts!?" lol, but really, if we didn't have deeper love for each other at a soul level, we wouldn't incarnate with them to try to work on stuff and help each other grow.

We drop a lot of the ego and heavier stuff sometime after we drop the body. So much of that stuff is related to the physical level and the body and its built in ego complex which is a double edged sword--provides filtering protection for the more sensitive inner Soul, but also makes us react and act out of fear and separativeness a lot more than we would otherwise.

posted August 11, 2021 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
^ My guy has Cancer Mars. You’re right, they love to cuddle. Even though he doesn’t say it and acts passive, but he lets me hug and kiss him whichever way I like. Sometimes I jump on him too. He doesn’t get angry.

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posted August 11, 2021 05:40 PM            

That shroom experience you detailed with your partner is really interesting because my first boyfriend was similar! He had a Pisces Moon and a giant Sagittarius stellium, he was really quite quite spiritually attuned for being a “normie” in a lot of ways. Whenever I was in a bad mood, or had a headache even, he’d put his hands on my forehead and “suck” all of the negative energy out of me, it was like his intuitive interpretation of reiki (not like he even knew what that was). I kid you not, after about a minute or two, the mood/migraine would completely leave me. But the consequence was that he would then have it in his body! Really quite insane. (He was also a Leo rising with Jupiter conj his ASC from the 12th house)

Also I do respect 12th house connections to some extent! For other people mostly :P Maybe I’ll open my mind up to them again, but I’ve just had such horrible experiences. Actually I think they’re borderline Oedipal for me really. My parents were both born in 1968 so their Uranus/Pluto is conjunct my Virgo ASC, both from the 12th house. I found (and still find them to be) highly chaotic, mischievous figures who delight in sending my life/mind into disarray. As a Taurus Sun with Saturn exactly trine it, I can’t say I enjoy any part of that much.

I’ve also befriended other Virgo Suns who put their planets into my 12th house and there is always some hideous betrayal that happened that I did not see coming (and I pride myself on having good instincts/being a good judge of character). So I have a bit of PTSD regarding stuff in my 12th house, though I don’t mind it as much when I put *my* planets into other people’s 12th house (and the relationships don’t implode in short order in such scenarios). Might also highlight that I need to do a bit of shadow work so I can be more comfortable with this stuff in the future.

But you mention 12th house sex and no, I can’t say I ever had a sexual relationship that involved the 12th house albeit it does sound fascinating..

I do love Neptunian connections though, all of my major relationships involve some form of major Neptune all over the synastry/composite

Ah I LOVE Mars-Pluto so much. I have Mars trine Pluto (trine Jupiter) in my chart so I gel really well with that energy. I can completely understand why people have a distaste for it, absolutely.

Like you were saying in another thread, I think you’ve superseded being a slave to the Siren’s song of base, animalistic attraction. I have a pretty high sex drive so when that Mars-Pluto drum starts up it’s really hard for me to resist that call. Plus if you felt like she was a priestess and you were a priest in a past life, it makes sense why that particular connection didn’t really alight your sexual interest much, right? Mars-Pluto might have meant power struggles for you in a past life (Orange highlighted the darker aspects of Mars-Pluto in another thread, but I think because I’ve healthily integrated these energies into my psyche I don’t experience the downsides/irritation of it too much?)

Oh yeah I completely agree that Mars falling into someones 8th house is just bonkers. My big DW Mars-Pluto relationship involved that, with my exes Taurus Mars falling into my 8th house. The sex is just haunting now when I look back at it. I really hope I get to have something that knocks that one off it’s 1st place pedestal someday

posted August 12, 2021 11:32 AM            

I would gently suggest that perhaps the astrological connection with your parents might have less to do with the 12th House and more with the conjunction of two difficult, very stubborn Planets being conjunct your Asc, which is the amplifying lens of Natal and Synastric charts par excellence...

Uranus too often gets put on a too high of a pedestal in mainstream, pop astrology I've noticed. Uranus by itself, is that of the extremes, and can be/become very negative and selfish at times. But it is very bi polar like in that it will swing, erratically, from more positive and loving attunement to more negative, ego centered attunement. Some people might be surprised to know, but Hitler was not a predominant Saturnian, Plutonian, nor Martian, but a predominant Uranian (it was conjunct his Asc among other indications). In his case, clearly he eventually went completely to the lacking in Light side of things. But then again, Edgar Cayce was also a predominant Uranian (conjunct his Asc), and eventually went to the more consistently Light side of things. But Uranus is the symbol of extremes, especially quick and changing extremes.

Pluto probably needs no introduction. Pluto being involved in the mix will likely tend to shift Uranus more towards the lacking in Light side of things all in all. Either way, both symbols are incredibly stubborn (and both can be rather highly control oriented, though Uranus more so when its in it's lacking in light phase). When our Asc point conjuncts another's Planet(s), we have the effect to amplify that energy in another more than it normally would be highlighted. In other words, you powerfully bring out the Uranian-Plutonian side of your parents more than most.

And the way that House cusps, especially the Angles work with Planets coming near them, it's like slowly approaching a speaker that is emitting a specific tone. In the case of the Angles, and especially the Asc and to a slightly lesser extent the MC, the speaker loudness is particularly loud. So as the Planet gets closer and closer to that speaker, the sound gets louder and louder (while the 12th House sound fades more and more into the background). When the Planet exactly conjuncts that that point, its akin to being right next to the speaker with your ear up against it. Then as the Planets moves away and further into that House and closer to the next House, the sound from the previous one gradually dissipates while the sound from the next cusp gradually gets louder and more noticeable than the previous. Just keep in mind, the amplitude/loudness of the House cusps are not all equal, and the Asc point is the loudest, and the 12th House cusp is one of the quietest.

It's a clumsy and inaccurate metaphor in some ways since in reality, the House cusps don't actually have their own tones so much as the Planets do.

Anyways, Neptune and 12th contacts certainly share some similarities. Other strong psychic/intuitive indications are Jupiter, Uranus, Pluto, Moon, 8th House (and/or its ruler), Pisces, Aquarius, and to a lesser degree Cancer, Capricorn, and Scorpio. Any strong interconnections of these symbols or areas between two people, tend to highlight a stronger than average psychic awareness connection.

I don't have a distaste for Mars Pluto, just haven't noticed it to be as strong for self as others have reported. It could be because both Mars and Pluto are only moderately highlighted in my Natal. Definitely neither are part of the list of most highlighted Planets.

But I think with my friend, there is both a conscious and unconscious part of ourselves that damp down that potential because of our situation. It wouldn't be helpful to let ourselves feel the full brunt of a more sexual connection and attraction. She wouldn't want anything to come between her friendship with my partner. Maybe that is where the Venus-Mars square comes in? Indicating a tension/conflict between us in that area?

Sexual energy and I have an odd relationship. When I meditate a lot deeply and consistently for longer periods of time and/or are otherwise feeling very spiritually intune, I often either completely to almost completely lose all sex drive and focus. It's like that energy gets re-routed somewhere else. But, these periods of more deep and consistent high attunement are somewhat rare for me, and when not in them, my sex drive/focus is closer to normal, but probably a bit less than the average guy my age (early 40's). Right now, I'm in a definitely unattuned cycle/phase. The fact that I'm focusing so much on a thread about sexual attraction etc, definitely speaks to that!

Btw, I haven't in this lifetime, had that kind of ultimate merging/telepathic 12th House/Neptunian/Piscean type sexual connection with another. My partner and I have come close at times. But in my last life, I did have that with another, with one particular priestess that I was deeply and madly in love with. Her and our connection was the only thing keeping me to the earth for awhile, even as I was being drawn back to the Stars and my home group. We came to experience a fully telepathic communication, and sex between us, was truly a spiritual and transcendent experience, and not just earthly pleasure, emotional connection, etc.

I really miss her and that kind of deep, all level connection. I think I mistook someone in this life for being connected to that priestess, when she probably wasn't. In hindsight, I feel gaslit by my guidance because I was getting all kinds of signs and synchronicity, having dreams about her, and feeling very strongly that she was the reincarnation of my Beloved of beloves.* For some brief examples, her core birth day AND life path numbers were the same as mine. Her Solar degree number is the same as my full life path number, super powerful synastric and composite chart comparisons, dreams of merging with her and feeling so at home and complete (and the feeling of Love was so, so intense), having our first date on the same day of the week and numerical month and day, as the marriage day and month/date combo of one of my Spirit's other Soul selves who got married to his twin soul beloved, etc

posted August 12, 2021 11:41 AM            

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ChildofVenus, I have Cap Sun, early Libra Moon conjunct late Virgo Saturn, Aquarius Venus, and Virgo Mars (though highly modified and closer to a Pisces Mars vibe with a hint of Sag).

I LOVE to cuddle and be affectionate. And while I'm not gay/attracted to men sexually in the least bit, I've been known to sometimes cuddle/be physically affectionate (platonically) with other guys (though with many straight and gays guys you can't because they take it the wrong way. I like how women tend to be more open and free with that kind of expression with each other).

Also, sexually with women, I LOVE to please my partner. I tend to care more about her pleasure than my own, and often times won't even go into her until she is already climaxing (and it's the latter that really turns me on). Though I've experimented some with more Tantric sex where I'm inside, but not moving at all, and just looking into the other's eyes, etc.

We have to look deeper than the Signs to get a more full picture (though, in my case, Leo Rising helps to counter balance some of the above Sign stuff). When you look at my chart from that deeper and more holistic angle, it makes more sense (i.e. strongest Planets, Signs on House cusps and their rulers and strongest aspects, etc).

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posted August 12, 2021 12:02 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Supreme cT:
[b] Im mars in cancer and my gf is mars in gemini and our sex is really good i realized i love gemini mars and venus and i could not understand why im so attracted to them and them to me and i finally found it! I realized that mars in cancer is parallel gemini planets! All the gem mars and venus i like usually have that gem planet parallel my mars in cancer so its like a conjunction just on a lesser level but its definitely felt

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posted August 12, 2021 12:09 PM            

I ask because my partner and I were mutual friends with a guy for years that was kind of between gay and bi, but closer to gay. He had a VERY difficult relationship with his father. He felt very unloved and unaccepted by his father (and not because of being gay, because his father didn't know about that). The father was just a cold guy with a rather closed down heart.

Anyways, I was talking to my partner one time, and out of intuition I stated, "You know, I think that some of our friend's attraction to men comes unconsciously from his difficult relationship with his dad, and he may be looking for male/father love, to some extent through male partners." Course neither I nor my partner said anything to our friend about this (what if I was wrong?).

A couple weeks or so later, he was talking to my partner (I wasn't there), and he was self reflecting, and he pretty much stated the same exact concept/idea to my partner in a thinking out loud and questioning kind of way. It was a rare moment of deeper self reflection for him, as his chart was* filled with a lot of Aries, Taurus, Mars, and Gemini.

We had a somewhat odd and stressed dynamic. We were definitely friends, but my partner and he were a bit closer. He used to call me Justina, and while on the surface it was supposed to be kind of a cutesy thing, I got the sense there was a bit of passive-aggressive undertone or bit of a "dig" to it. He was one of those guys who are gay that was more hyper masculine in a lot of ways. Most people couldn't tell just from looking at him that he was gay. Whereas, even though I am straight, in a lot of ways I was more in touch with my inner Yin/Feminine side. I found that he could sometimes be rather judgmental and intolerant of me, while I tried to focus on accepting him, even though I found him to be somewhat overly shallow and materialistic at times.

The Justina thing, seemed to be both a recognition that I was unusually in touch with my feminine/Yin side, but also almost like a dig on his part at the same time. (He kind of acted out/projected his father connection onto me a bit, where I was "childhood him", the more sensitive and feminine one, and he was the father, the harsh, cold, judgmental, and closed heart one).

*I say was, because some years back, he died in a motorcycle crash. He really liked fast cars and motorcycles, and going very fast (Aries Asc, Gemini Sun).

posted August 14, 2021 07:28 AM            

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Re: the latter part, makes sense in your case, since you have Taurus SUN (Edit, originally wrote Moon for some reason), Pisces Mars, and Sag Desc with I think Sag Moon in your 7th? All in all, this indicates that you tend to be attracted to guys that are very in touch with their inner Yin/Feminine side (Taurus and Moon in particular are very Yin polarized, whereas Pisces is Yin but definitely more balanced/integrated all in all and while Sag is Yang, it is the most balanced/integrated of the Fire signs).

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I can find someone extremely attractive but if nothing smart comes out of his mouth or if he’s super boring, I completely lose interest in an instant. I think this is why some of my dates have found me confusing. They thought I was fickle or playing with their feelings, but it wasn’t that. I don’t need a Harvard graduate but he needs to have EQ as well as IQ.