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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
In my experience so far, I have found this to be fairly accurate: "Moon in 4th House Synastry Overlay
The Moon in the partner’s fourth house of a synastry overlay creates a love/hate relationship. You may have conflicting feelings about each other.
On the one hand, you feel deeply bonded to each other. The bond you feel is not the fairy-tale type of bond, but rather an ancestral bond, like that between siblings and close family members. (For those that believe in reincarnation, this overlay would indicate that you were very close, and possibly related, in a past life.)
On the other hand, you feel competitive with each other, like siblings do.
The Moon person may feel like a parent to the 4th house person. You (Moon person) feel a need to establish authority in the relationship.
With this overlay, both partners feel that your roots together go very deep. This is not actually an easy-going position. While you can be nice to each other at times, the trend is that you get each other so deeply stirred in the pit of your souls that you may need to get away from each other to relax.
There is a depth and intensity in this relationship that is not comfortable for everyone. The high level of tension and energy between you makes it difficult to stay together too many hours at once. You may feel the need to schedule some time apart. Unless, of course, you can handle it. It would depend on your individual needs. Scorpio types would enjoy this type of intense relationship."
Sourced from this website: http://astrolibrary.org/syn/moon-house/
I have had 4 significant connections (only one romantic) with this overlay, where their Scorpio Moon was conjunct my IC and/or in my 4th. In the romantic connection, their Moon was also conjunct my Uranus, ruler of my Descendant and Venus.
With the latter person, I had never understood the saying, "there is a fine (or thin) line between love and hate", until I met and interacted with them. It wasn't just about the Moon placement, but there was also a lot of intense mutual Mars, 8th House, and some Pluto stuff.