posted May 11, 2022 11:09 AM            

First I want to start off by saying that I haven’t posted on this site in a good 8 years, so bare with me please😅.

I want to give a backstory first before getting to the real reason as to why I’m posting this!

My grandma passed away back in September. She was more like a mom to me due to living with me most of my life and helping raise me. I did not take her death well. My Vertex is in Cancer at 26° in my 8th house (I’m sure those of you who are experienced astrology readers can already see how her death makes sense). I went back in my solar return chart and yup, the transit Vertex activated my natal Vertex by 2°. But wait, there’s more! A fated person came in as well, literally the same day my family had to bury my grandmother…

Now about 10 years ago I actually had a premonition of this situation I had with this person. It was uncomfortable for me so I repressed it and completely forgot about it until it was already too late. Then again, we can’t run from fate, right?🥲

I decided to do our synastry chart after me and this person have been in no contact since mid January (I know his exact birth time and place), and yeah, lots of double whammies with Venus and Mars, the Nodes, Uranus with POF, and with my Vertex conjunct his ASC at 7° and his Vertex conjunct my ASC at 7°. In our composite chart we have Vertex conjunct the DSC at 0°. I typically use Tropical but with whole signs as I find it more accurate for myself. We have a first house stellium in Aries along with an 11th house stellium in Aquarius. Our composite chart is oddly set up, even without whole signs the 4 midpoints don’t really move, which I personally find interesting🧐

I was wondering if anyone could tell me about what kind of soul connection/relationship we have? I can post our synastry and composite chart if needed, I just need to be shown how to again LOL.

posted May 13, 2022 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
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posted June 09, 2022 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome back!

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posted June 18, 2022 01:28 AM            

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Originally posted by vansio:
save image of charts
upload to Imgur or similar website
copy the image’s link that specifically ends with .jpg or .png (otherwise the link won’t work)
and post it here in between brackets like [b][img]link[/ img] (no spaces)[/B]

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posted June 19, 2022 12:26 AM            

Thank you☺️

https://i.imgur.com/uXr8MtQ.jpg

posted June 19, 2022 10:18 PM            

Sun stellium in 1H is awesome, 7H Saturn is a bit concerning. 8H moon squaring Jupiter, plus 9H Pluto trining 1H stellium, ensures this will be one Significant relationship for sure.

posted June 19, 2022 11:10 PM            

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Originally posted by anevolena:
Wow, that’s definitely an interesting composite !! I’m still learning how to read the whole story (I have a similar problem with my own composite chart lol) but I can tell you guys are definitely fated/karmic in some way. Chart ruler Mars right on Sun, Venus and SO close to the Ascendant/Mercury/NN… I’d say they’re all conjunct in my opinion. That’s wild.

Sun stellium in 1H is awesome, 7H Saturn is a bit concerning. 8H moon squaring Jupiter, plus 9H Pluto trining 1H stellium, ensures this will be one Significant relationship for sure.

I’ll try to come back and edit in other thoughts. But again, I’m still learning myself…

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Thank you so much for your input on this! I’m still learning myself so I understand, that’s why I wanted outsiders’ opinions😂.

Yes, definitely fated/karmic. I had a premonition about 10 years ago of our fated event happening but repressed it. Here I am now trying to figure out why it all happened as we are forced into no contact due to external influences. It’s also something that I didn’t want to happen, but it happened anyway. I did have a past life regression done that showed one past life we had together where he abandoned me because I wanted a baby and he wouldn’t give me one and got super angry (interestingly enough my physical body started BAWLING real tears during that part of the regression). As a result I adopted an orphan girl and became an alcoholic. In this lifetime, I hate alcohol nor do I have or want kids.

posted July 18, 2022 03:44 AM            

If it’s in fact a spiritual connection (labels do not make a lick of difference), then it’s about god over anything.

Ultimately It’s your choice (will) whether you want to practice fidelity and devotion to “the connection” or move on for more experiences

Also, post the davison chart. Many believe this chart shows how the relationship manifests in the physical world. Might explain any differences.

The connections that dont become a proper “partnership” yet are still incredibly significant, these things aren’t really meant to be romantic.. don’t recommend that.

From my experience, men can not usually acknowledge (or dwell on) a divine connection, because to do so means to give their entire life to it (either commitment to the divine through marriage or renunciation).

I can’t stress enough to develop a relationship to god if you’re impressed by the connection. The person, if you’re talking about spiritual matters, pales in comparison.

And, unless the man has developed a faith of his own, in principle, walking a spiritual path, do not expect a thing from “the connection”. That’s your only clue on it’s progression.

It comes from god (source), give it back to god (source), it’s not yours. Or as my friend EternalEnergy has put it, God will never leave you.

-don’t quote-

posted July 18, 2022 05:11 AM            

In my Vertex/DC composite relationship, there was tr. Saturn conjunct Moon, transit Uranus square Moon, when it fell apart, no more grasp. It’s not mere coincidence both these traveling planets aspect a single point.

Transit SN (release point) conjuncting composite Moon: August 1st 2022

posted July 18, 2022 07:54 AM            

Well… religion (dharma and/or dogma) and the spiritual are not the same thing: i.e. 9th House vs 12th House; both signs are ruled by Jupiter, however different expression of principle

The 12th House is the 4th House from the 9th - Lunar
And the 9th House is the 10th House from the 12th - Saturnian

There’s a 4/10 IC/MC axis derived between the two Jupiter signs

Venus, the planet of love, also exalts in Jupiter’s sign (the 12th zodiac)

Hence… why I keep referring to Jupiter whenever anyone wants to astropost about spiritual/fated/karmic/tf connections. It’s suspicious (in a concerned way) to read people seeking validation—putting their faith—in these concepts (usually after the relationship ended) without having a sincere relationship (devotion) to god first and foremost.

All of our karma plays out in the body, whether through interaction, or health. And the truth is, none of us would be here if it were not to suffer in some way.

OP has composite Pluto in the 9th House. Belief systems/religion/nature/cultures/nation are a significant factor in their connection. I’d be interested to hear what kind of backgrounds these each have.

There’s an extreme age difference. OP’s natal chart doesn’t have markers in her chart for a much older husband…

posted July 18, 2022 10:46 PM            

Both of your knowledge and experience makes sense for me here.
http://imgur.com/a/qXIuinR

This is the Davidson chart, did I do it correctly!? I removed the s. Idk I’m terrible at this lol.

posted July 18, 2022 11:01 PM            

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Oh and these were the transits in our composite chart the day we were forced into separation!
http://imgur.com/a/TlunfQe

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posted August 11, 2022 09:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
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