posted September 29, 2022 04:43 PM            

I just met a man a month ago at a work orientation. He was the first person I talked to, and ever since that day I've thought about him almost obsessively. I feel like the more we get to know each other, the more tension and attraction there is between us. We've kinda just gravitated toward each other this past month. I am the pluto person and I feel like I might feel this aspect more than he does. I get super nervous around him, almost like I'm scared? I can hardly look in his eyes lol.

Here is our synastry chart
https://imgur.com/gallery/tGqBnzA

posted September 30, 2022 11:47 AM            

It is still one of the most intense things I’ve experienced. It was very fleeting, literally a few weeks, but it didn’t have long term potential anyways and I wasn’t upset by it ending/fading out. It was also very secretive, he had a girlfriend and his moon was in my 12th house conjunct my venus and Mercury, I felt very guilty about the whole thing but at the same time I was selfishly too willing to experience that intense chemistry and connection because I was very lacking in connection in my life and so I let it happen. I couldn’t stop myself

That experience at 17 and my recent experience in December/January (also short lived) with a guy whose venus was conjunct my pluto and his Scorpio sun/pluto square my leo venus were the most intense feeling magnetic attractions. That also started during the December pluto-venus conjunction which happened in my 5th house and trined my moon

Not that pluto is necessarily fleeting but it was for me in my situation and life with those people, but there was also some Uranus stuff going on

posted November 02, 2022 04:48 PM            

You have also got your Jupiter inflating his Neptune in a square, and Neptune only adds to the fire of obsession by creating a beautiful fairy tale mirage of 'what if's and wishful thinking to make matters worse under these circumstances.

However, before I dismiss it all as whimsical nonsense, I will say it is very interesting that his NN conjuncts your Vertex, two points of extremely fated interaction! So... whether or not this is meant to blossom into something real or not, it was his destiny to come into your life - perhaps there are lessons for this to teach you at the very least.