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Topic: Moon-Mars Opposition Synastry
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GirlMelanie
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posted July 26, 2023 05:23 PM
  
I know there's already lots of posts with this question but I'd like some new & fresh experiences with this synastry aspect. I'd like to hear more from the moon's experience but both is great! IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted July 26, 2023 06:16 PM
I was the moon with a friend.
He was stuck on me. He sent me everyday a message for 2 months to which I never responded and not even let the seen check for them. He stopped after a while, but kept a distance after.
The messages were so random that I couldn't say anything.
I posted a story on insta and he asked me if I'm taking a walk in the park. He sent me pictures with his cat, he asked if I have any pets, he asked me if I'm working from home... Anything he could to get me to talk with him. I never responded. And this went on everyday (I'm not kidding) for 2 months. The opposition it's a bit difficult because its a back and forth that never gets resolved. I heard the conjunction is better.
Mars/Moon conjunction opposition are really attractive... More than with Venus. But there could be no physical attraction as Venus/Mars are physical. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
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posted July 26, 2023 10:10 PM
I had it but I was Mars. But also I was Moon and it was by sign, not aspect.Resulting in Moon/Mars opposition in composite IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 26, 2023 11:00 PM
Sounds like you weren't interested in him at allllll😭 Maybe that wasn't the moon/mars and something else that made you repulsed by him? Every moon/mars synastry I've been in they either wanted me badly or I did. I've only ever been mars though so who knows.
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
I was the moon with a friend.
He was stuck on me. He sent me everyday a message for 2 months to which I never responded and not even let the seen check for them. He stopped after a while, but kept a distance after.
The messages were so random that I couldn't say anything.
I posted a story on insta and he asked me if I'm taking a walk in the park. He sent me pictures with his cat, he asked if I have any pets, he asked me if I'm working from home... Anything he could to get me to talk with him. I never responded. And this went on everyday (I'm not kidding) for 2 months. The opposition it's a bit difficult because its a back and forth that never gets resolved. I heard the conjunction is better.
Mars/Moon conjunction opposition are really attractive... More than with Venus. But there could be no physical attraction as Venus/Mars are physical.
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LaceyLeigh
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posted July 26, 2023 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
I was the moon with a friend.
He was stuck on me. He sent me everyday a message for 2 months to which I never responded and not even let the seen check for them. He stopped after a while, but kept a distance after.
The messages were so random that I couldn't say anything.
I posted a story on insta and he asked me if I'm taking a walk in the park. He sent me pictures with his cat, he asked if I have any pets, he asked me if I'm working from home... Anything he could to get me to talk with him. I never responded. And this went on everyday (I'm not kidding) for 2 months. The opposition it's a bit difficult because its a back and forth that never gets resolved. I heard the conjunction is better.
Mars/Moon conjunction opposition are really attractive... More than with Venus. But there could be no physical attraction as Venus/Mars are physical.
Is that really a friend if you were never friends? Lol
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 27, 2023 05:20 AM
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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
Sounds like you weren't interested in him at allllll😭 Maybe that wasn't the moon/mars and something else that made you repulsed by him? Every moon/mars synastry I've been in they either wanted me badly or I did. I've only ever been mars though so who knows.
Well, if you only been Mars, then you fit with the discription of my friend who was stuck on me. And if you are a female, the guys don't know how to react with your Mars when they are the Moon, so they will give hints when they see you pulling away. It might be different depending on the signs the Moon and Mars are. His was in Scorpio and Scorpio is really determined, which is why he kept pushing. And my Moon is in Taurus and I stood up for this, especially because it didn't make any sense to me. It was like throwing spaghetti to the wall and seeing what it sticks.  )) I didn't like him, that's fair. From my point of view, he was just a friend. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted July 27, 2023 05:22 AM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Is that really a friend if you were never friends? Lol
Yeah, I've known him for years, but last year we went out for a coffee around the area where we live because we both moved in the same neighbourhood and that's when this opposition was activated. Until then, he never acted like this. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 27, 2023 09:52 AM
Yes I am a female😭😭 when I read the descriptions for mars and moon it always says that mars is the aggressor but I can't relate! It could be what you said with the signs because my mars is in aquarius and generally we're pretty lax when it comes to action. When it was conjunct my exes Moon in aquarius he definitely pursued me and now it's opposition with a guy that I'm talking to, Moon in leo. Same scenario quote:
Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Well, if you only been Mars, then you fit with the discription of my friend who was stuck on me. And if you are a female, the guys don't know how to react with your Mars when they are the Moon, so they will give hints when they see you pulling away.It might be different depending on the signs the Moon and Mars are. His was in Scorpio and Scorpio is really determined, which is why he kept pushing. And my Moon is in Taurus and I stood up for this, especially because it didn't make any sense to me. It was like throwing spaghetti to the wall and seeing what it sticks. )) I didn't like him, that's fair. From my point of view, he was just a friend.
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 27, 2023 10:38 AM
It is kind of aggressive behaviour. That's what it seemed to me too. There is a difference when the female is the Mars because women don't really use Mars in everyday life, men do. So you will anyway have restrains using this energy as men do.
with your ex, his Mars might have been activated too in synastry to pursue you. When he is the Moon in conjunction, he will not pursue per se in the real meaning as what pursue means. He will give you hints here and there that he wants, but the power lays to Mars for action. He can be very very jealous with this conjunction and probably drive him a bit crazy when a man is the Moon. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted July 29, 2023 02:48 AM
I have this with a friend. I’m Moon. After awhile Moon can feel frustrated with the behaviour of Mars and feels that Mars is insensitive, inconsiderate, lame etc. Moon will have strong urge to react aggressively back at Mars. But so far I’ve been curbing it by drawing a distance…IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 29, 2023 08:19 AM
That makes sense! My exes mars didn't really have any significant aspects in our synastry but this new guy does. His Mars is trine my venus & vesta (not sure if that counts) and square my ascendant and chiron. But he's also a cancer mars so... he's kinda slow😅 in this case idk if I'm supposed to be chill or take action as the mars. quote:
Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
It is kind of aggressive behaviour. That's what it seemed to me too. There is a difference when the female is the Mars because women don't really use Mars in everyday life, men do. So you will anyway have restrains using this energy as men do.
with your ex, his Mars might have been activated too in synastry to pursue you. When he is the Moon in conjunction, he will not pursue per se in the real meaning as what pursue means. He will give you hints here and there that he wants, but the power lays to Mars for action. He can be very very jealous with this conjunction and probably drive him a bit crazy when a man is the Moon.
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 30, 2023 06:08 PM
Hey, I just saw the post with the full synastry.... he does behave like a woman. loool that's exactly what happens when the feminine planets in a mans chart are activated by a masculine planet from a womans chart... He will give you hints that he wants but wait for you to make a move. I've seen it in my experiences too. It's a bit frustrating. A coworker of mine with which I had my Mars conjunct his Venus tried to much to make me pay attention to him and to do something... It was so weird. Poor guy seemed so anxious and confused. I personally don't like to pursue someone. I feel so bad and the guy felt bad too. But that's my opinion. My Mars is in Gemini too and it's a weak spot for me. But you can do as you want. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 30, 2023 07:03 PM
💀💀💀💀💀💀omg. Okay so you saw it lol it IS very frustrating because people always say if I guy wants you he'll go after you so I'm trying to figure out if this is the exception or he doesn't really like me🤦🏾♀️How does that make the man feel generally? I'm guessing anxious and emotional? Lol I've never had to pursue a man before, not a fan but I reeeeally like this one so .. maybe just this once? What do you think of the synastry overall? Is it even worth it??
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Hey, I just saw the post with the full synastry.... he does behave like a woman. loool that's exactly what happens when the feminine planets in a mans chart are activated by a masculine planet from a womans chart... He will give you hints that he wants but wait for you to make a move. I've seen it in my experiences too. It's a bit frustrating. A coworker of mine with which I had my Mars conjunct his Venus tried to much to make me pay attention to him and to do something... It was so weird. Poor guy seemed so anxious and confused. I personally don't like to pursue someone. I feel so bad and the guy felt bad too. But that's my opinion. My Mars is in Gemini too and it's a weak spot for me. But you can do as you want.
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 30, 2023 07:23 PM
hahaha, if you want to and you don't feel like something bad could happen, go for it. ))Just that he is in the passive role with this and will wait for you, which is weird for them. I attract a lot of Gemini Venus, at first I didn't know what was going on, in time I realised this. They just wait for you instead of doing something to pursue and the problem is that if you have a fight or something, they will still wait for you to come and they will get upset often. Just like we do )) it's really weird. You can see them that they act like they don't want to let you know that they want to be around you. I was always the one that I going to them, like physically being around them, and they would just stay there and wait for me to get close. ))) Which is what we do and they do this. And because it is in Gemini, they would try to talk me through. lol I don't like it, maybe you do. ) IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted July 30, 2023 07:35 PM
He definitely feels your Mars, there's no doubt about it.In time, he will feel less of a man and in lack of control. And because is to the Moon, he will get very jealous in time. Because it is an opposition, this could lead to massive arguments. Moon and Mars are very unconscious parts of us. You can get stuck on this if he will stop at some point and will not want to talk with you anymore because you are not used to control it. Men get rejected tons of times when they want something (Mars) and in time they learn to control it. We don't really take that risk. They do. Just wait and see what happens. I don't want to influence you to do anything. I'm not a fan of reversed roles. Some people are. I'm just letting you know what happens when they are reversed as I've seen this a lot of times before. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 30, 2023 07:50 PM
Ugh ILY so much for this. It was so hard to get a proper interpretation for this because everyone always talks about the women being the moon and the man being the mars. What you said is soo true! We've already had a disagreement awhile back and we didn't speak for a period of time. I generally leave people alone after falling outs because I assume that the person doesn't want to be bothered so I didn't speak to him lol he goes and tells a mutual friend months later that he wanted to give us another try and that he feels like I'm mad at him💀💀💀💀 instead of telling me himself and contacting me, I had to contact him and let him knno that there were no hard feelings and THATS why we're even speaking now😭😭 it makes soo much sense.He will just look at me from afar with puppy dog eyes or stand in close proximity of me. Okay so you're saying if I don't use my mars he will eventually not want me or talk to me because I'm not initiating anything? Side bar: This definitely explains my majorrrrrr attraction to him🤦🏾♀️ lordt quote:
Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
He definitely feels your Mars, there's no doubt about it.In time, he will feel less of a man and in lack of control. And because is to the Moon, he will get very jealous in time. Because it is an opposition, this could lead to massive arguments. Moon and Mars are very unconscious parts of us. You can get stuck on this if he will stop at some point and will not want to talk with you anymore because you are not used to control it. Men get rejected tons of times when they want something (Mars) and in time they learn to control it. We don't really take that risk. They do.
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 30, 2023 07:57 PM
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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
Ugh ILY so much for this. It was so hard to get a proper interpretation for this because everyone always talks about the women being the moon and the man being the mars. What you said is soo true! We've already had a disagreement awhile back and we didn't speak for a period of time. I generally leave people alone after falling outs because I assume that the person doesn't want to be bothered so I didn't speak to him lol he goes and tells a mutual friend months later that he wanted to give us another try and that he feels like I'm mad at him💀💀💀💀 instead of telling me himself and contacting me, I had to contact him and let him knno that there were no hard feelings and THATS why we're even speaking now😭😭 it makes soo much sense.He will just look at me from afar with puppy dog eyes or stand in close proximity of me. Okay so you're saying if I don't use my mars he will eventually not want me or talk to me because I'm not initiating anything? Side bar: This definitely explains my majorrrrrr attraction to him🤦🏾♀️ lordt
Yeaaaaaah, that's exactly what happens.
If you leave it, and believe me I've done it, they will just move on stuck on you because there is a conflict that gets started inside them just like it starts inside you. For you is an urge to go after him (active, masculine energy), even though, your whole being knows that if he wanted, he would have talked with you, and for him is an urge to not do anything (passive, feminine energy) even though they would do something about it. Mars is massive attraction when it gets activated and for a woman is very misunderstood. IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted July 30, 2023 08:13 PM
Hahaha my goodness. I gotta be honest, this is hilaaaarious to me🤭 and you are a literal angel😇 thank you soo much!
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Yeaaaaaah, that's exactly what happens.
If you leave it, and believe me I've done it, they will just move on stuck on you because there is a conflict that gets started inside them just like it starts inside you. For you is an urge to go after him (active, masculine energy), even though, your whole being knows that if he wanted, he would have talked with you, and for him is an urge to not do anything (passive, feminine energy) even though they would do something about it.Mars is massive attraction when it gets activated and for a woman is very misunderstood.
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mee_chryssa
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posted July 30, 2023 08:15 PM
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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
Hahaha my goodness. I gotta be honest, this is hilaaaarious to me🤭 and you are a literal angel😇 thank you soo much!
I know. that's why I'm having a laugh... it's really weird to see it happening. You're welcome :* IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
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posted July 31, 2023 11:38 PM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I have this with a friend. I’m Moon. After awhile Moon can feel frustrated with the behaviour of Mars and feels that Mars is insensitive, inconsiderate, lame etc. Moon will have strong urge to react aggressively back at Mars. But so far I’ve been curbing it by drawing a distance…
Oof. You're speaking my situation in a square. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted August 01, 2023 12:31 AM
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Oof. You're speaking my situation in a square.
Ohh… you’ve the square with someone? I’ve natal Moon in a t-square with Mars & Venus so I really don’t do well with Moon-Mars. It triggers my t-square. The other day this friend was speaking and waving her hand in front of my face and it makes me feel irritated. IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna
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posted August 03, 2023 11:10 PM
Haha yes, she's my roommate (mars). I think my sensitivity towards her is deeper than the square. I don't feel safe sharing what bothers me to her - done it in the past but her reaction doesn't allow authentic connection. But we live civilly - its more than I can ask for. I just keep my distance and an imaginary fort around me.I had conjunctions before - I notice I don't feel safe either? My moon seems ok. Moon sextile Mars with oppose Venus. I need someone who's more pleasant and has a bit more empathy or EQ. Could be my Neptune aspects. So Mars with Moon's that annoying? Explains my past lover's reaction 😂 Oppose seems ok so far. It's not much so in my face. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted August 04, 2023 12:40 AM
I read that Moon will repress their feelings of resentment and that’s so like me in this situation. Thankfully I have this aspect with only one friend lol (with the other Gemini Mars they’re way out of orb). With my ex I’ve Moon square Mars but I didn’t feel the same irritation maybe because it completes a mutable grand cross with my t-square which kinda created a work-in-progress for the tension, but even then I felt that he (Mars) was often noncommittal and irresponsible which made me (Moon) feel insecure. But I’d never voiced it to him so again that repression of feelings there. With my very close friend my Mars widely square her Moon at 9deg. I did find her to be somewhat needy but not overly sensitive and overall we’re chill so I guess it’s only bad at close orb or it could be that our Moons are in close conjunction so there’s emotional understanding between us.I’ve also experienced the conjunction (again I’m Moon). Not exactly nice… can sometimes feel irritated but not as bad as the opposition. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted August 27, 2023 07:31 AM
Melanie, how are things going? IP: Logged |
GirlMelanie
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posted August 27, 2023 09:18 AM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Melanie, how are things going?
Hey! It's NOT going😭 since this post I (of course) actually reached out to him to hatch things up. He got right back to me and we had a good long conversation with a few disagreements but I told him despite all of that I just wanted us to be friends again because I missed him lol he said and I quote "I'm cool with that😌" but since then idk we've still been weird with each other, the energy at work is giving we both have something to say but won't say it. We haven't spoken in almost a month and I'm kind of annoyed to the point that I'm just not gonna even bother anymore. He's still doing the glances and lingering around me while I'm working or standing where I can see him🙄🙄🙄 like omg if you want to talk to me just say it! I'm not okay with always being the one to initiate anymore, it grew tiring really quickly and he needs to be a man. Maybe he'll be that for someone else, maybe a nice scorpio? Lol I feel like my venus being in his 12th house could have something to do with this nonsense as well but🤷🏾♀️ I know for a fact that he likes me but there's literally no effort and for that I can't be bothered anymore.
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